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How does a white guy meet black women?

Man, my cousin has a beautiful black girlfriend, I'm sooooo jealous. I kind of had a mini-crush on her at our family gathering today. And then I realized that I was the only person older than 13 that hadn't been in a relationship, which made me kind of depressed as I have been lately.  (Oct 3, 2009 | post #2088)

Human Sexuality

How does a white guy meet black women?

That's just what the rest of us needed was some idiot posting a "guide" like that, which makes us look worse to people who already believe the bullshit they're fed by society.  (Sep 29, 2009 | post #2077)

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Md. Soldier Accused Of Selling Guns Obtained In Iraq - News Sto...

Damn, I wish I'd known about that. Totally would've bought one  (Sep 26, 2009 | post #2)

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crime in bowie

That road is nothing but trouble it would seem. My friend got robbed at gun point and molested on that street, good thing state troopers are on point if our worthless city cops aren't.  (Sep 25, 2009 | post #2)

Human Sexuality

How does a white guy meet black women?

Just to point it out, I never said it was a black/white issue. And I really wasn't being that stalkerish at all this time with her, especially compared to previous years. I just don't know if she's using me or what. And yeah, I do put pussy on a pedestal because I freak out too much if a girl is somehow interested in me due to lack of experience and lack of any attention from girls.  (Sep 25, 2009 | post #2072)

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How does a white guy meet black women?

I don't even know about the girl I talked about anymore. Saw her in the hallway today, we were kind of looking at each other as we were both in the middle of the hallway moving toward each other's direction with no place to go. Then she turned to go into a different hallway without even looking back. She also transferred into a different period to work with the office lady so I'm not sure if she even wants to actually work with us or not. And when I asked her I don't know if she heard me or if she was just pretending not to when we were outside during a fire-drill. It seems like she used me just to fix her stuff. I'm done trying with girls anymore. There's no point in worrying about something that's unattainable or getting false hopes up about it.  (Sep 24, 2009 | post #2070)

Human Sexuality

How does a white guy meet black women?

I hope this doesn't ruin my weekend worrying about this and I wish it all just made sense to me like it seems to for everybody else.  (Sep 18, 2009 | post #2057)

Human Sexuality

How does a white guy meet black women?

Damn, maybe it's getting more casual or something now but it feels a little bit different today. I brought in the Bluetooth headset since I figured out how to get it to work, and then I gave it to her and showed her how it worked and then she called me while still in the room to test it out. And then I talked to her more about coming to work with me and how there was only about a week left of working in that office if she held her word and then I asked what day she could start, and she said she would have to ask the office lady. I can't help but wonder if there's more to it. Then the conversation got kind of silent like it always does at the end and I decided to just say she should find some more Bluetooth headsets so we can sell them and then I walked away and she smiled, waved and thanked me. I was about to walk out of the room and there was this guy sitting next to the door that wanted my attention and he asked me my name and what grade I was in, and I answered and then he said he'll be in touch, and then smiled, and then I said O.K. in a weirded out kind of way. And then I thought about it and realized that that was probably her little brother, lol. And what got me kind of worried was when I walked out of the building today after dismissal I think she saw me as I saw her and then she turned her head and she was looking to the other side of the building the whole time afterward, which might indicate someone else on her mind. I overthink all of the little things, good and bad. As far as interracial dating goes for her, she dated another white guy(half-white, half Puerto Rican, but he looked/was white for all intents and purposes) who had a fatter body type than me for two weeks. He's a skater guy and he's one of my friends. They used to flirt in class all the time two years ago. And last year I saw her with this other white trash kid(a white boy that acted black) and I saw her kissing him one time. So I don't think she has any issues with skin color, but she might never have dated a white guy like me before. And sorry for the long post, I feel like a douche for writing all these stories but I NEED input for this stuff and I don't have any friends that can help me.  (Sep 18, 2009 | post #2056)

Human Sexuality

How does a white guy meet black women?

I haven't, because I'm not sure if the time is right yet.  (Sep 18, 2009 | post #2052)

Human Sexuality

How does a white guy meet black women?

Talked to the girl yesterday and gave her the Bluetooth headset and I couldn't get either of our phones to recognize it. And then she talked about how I should've checked it and I said I was busy, and then she asked why I didn't call her about it(good sign I think) and then I said how she never answered her phone. But at least she wants me to call her it seems for any reason, lol. And everything went really well with the conversation and stuff and we were talking about the new PS3 that her brother wants to get. And then I asked if she was still going to come work with me doing computer stuff or if she'd gotten too attached to working in the office, but she said she's gonna miss the office lady she works for but she's still gonna work with me. Which is also a really good sign I think, I can't believe she wants to. It's almost too hard to believe. I saw her this morning in school and my heartrate jumped REALLY fast when I saw her, she was wearing a short dress and she was walking with 5 black guys and talking to like one or two but she wasn't like smiling at them or anything. I didn't know what to think of it. And I was kind of worrying about it but then I remembered how she wanted to work with me and then almost all the worry went away. I still can't help but wonder though.... Typing it out and knowing I can get advice helps me worry less too.  (Sep 17, 2009 | post #2041)

Human Sexuality

How does a white guy meet black women?

From what I've seen, she's not very shy with other guys so I'm not sure what that's about. And to just keep going slowly seems like a good idea to me to, I'm not sure if she's ready to do anything with me outside of school at the moment so I just gotta keep doing what I was doing. The guy on the other forum also told me it was a mistake not to talk to her at the busses because she would've taken it as though she wasn't important to me since I didn't talk to her but I didn't have anything further to talk to her about at the moment and I had to get to my bus. I'm gonna stop in to say hi to her again tomorrow, hopefully things keep going well and she doesn't suddenly decide to be weird and not talk to me like has happened before. It's something I fear and hate. I used to have nightmares about her talking to another guy in one of our classes and then never even looking at me or even acknowledging me. I'm already extremely attached to her and have been since I started liking, the feeling has never been mutual though. She only worried about me like once or twice ever in the past. Hopefully it'll be different this time.  (Sep 13, 2009 | post #2028)

Human Sexuality

How does a white guy meet black women?

Nobody gets a chance to see that because white guys think black girls don't like them and black girls think white guys don't like them, or that white guys want to have sex with them just to say they did it. So people are afraid to make the first move even more so. It's a shame that it's like that.  (Sep 13, 2009 | post #2016)

Human Sexuality

How does a white guy meet black women?

Well, at the moment I've been starting to get close again to that girl I've liked for like two years. Basically on Wednesday she wanted me to come down and fix her computer because I'm a tech aide at my school, and she wanted me personally to do it, not over the phone. Then the next day I came in to say hi to her in the guidance office because she's a student aide there. And we both didn't really say anything and she suddenly mentioned she had a Bluetooth headset for me to fix. And then we started talking about other stuff for like ten minutes. Then that same day when we were all dismissed and I walked out the front door of the building I saw he standing near the busses looking at something on her phone. I walked by her looking at her the whole time and then she looked up and saw me and then we both weren't sure what to do and then we both started smiling and then I waved and then she waved back and we smiled some more and then I just turned my head back forward and continued walking to my bus. Someone on another forum told me I'm in her "inner circle". I didn't know till he told me that because I can't tell the signs that well at all. What do you all think?  (Sep 13, 2009 | post #2015)

Human Sexuality

How does a white guy meet black women?

He was quoting a 50 year old and it got mixed up because he didn't do it right.  (Sep 13, 2009 | post #2013)

Human Sexuality

How does a white guy meet black women?

I think he was trying quote one of the supposed 50 year olds that come in here and say perverted but extremely funny shit.  (Sep 10, 2009 | post #2001)

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