GoodGrief78

African-American

We need to stop blaming everyone else for our fcuk ups......

That's the point I'm trying to make here, We should want to do that for ourselves. And your right whites and whoever else will always hate and be racist. I can see that. ;)  (Sunday Nov 22 | post #44)

African-American

Do some whites hate other whites??

They are just being themselves, But somewhere along the way blacks... aa's, africans, caribbeans got caught up in their nonsense and the rest is history. ;)  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #2)

African-American

We need to stop blaming everyone else for our fcuk ups......

Well someone has to put it out there, So far not too many brothers are. ;)  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #12)

African-American

We need to stop blaming everyone else for our fcuk ups......

Excuse the typing. I guess I was all caught up in the moment. ;)  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #11)

African-American

dating out vs dating in.

No actually you post is welcomed. I diid'nt want to make this one sided, But just what the majority of people feel about dating in vs dating out. procs and cons. ;)  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #14)

African-American

dating out vs dating in.

I have a friend that has a g/f, They just met. They went out a couple of times. And now he's thinking that she shopuld come over to his place. So he can get the cooch. He told me that. I was thinking to myself good luck w/ that. :)  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #11)

African-American

We need to stop blaming everyone else for our fcuk ups......

Ok, But you know that at the end of the day each individual is accountable for his or her actions. But as a whole, Blackn men need to tak charge and start owning up to actions and do a 180 on their self image, promote more positive influeneces not just for them , But their families. And I'm sure our sisters will follow suit. Behind every good black man is a good black women. Every brother should have this on the forefront of his mind. ;)  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #10)

African-American

We need to stop blaming everyone else for our fcuk ups......

We wonder why we always have negative sterotypes and stigmas about us as black men. And society look at us as other than human. We do it to ourselves. ;)  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #2)

African-American

Who's fault is it that black children never have a father?

You know, I thought about this last night after I posted. I admit I did'nt think about how it takes 2 to do it" Check the "we need to stop blaming others for our failures and fcuk ups" thread. ;)  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #25)

African-American

We need to stop blaming everyone else for our fcuk ups......

And take responsibility for our own actions. Something that many of us black men failed to realize and do for so long. I'm for one is so very sick and tired of see our own brothers walking around w/ the pants hanging below showing your ass, dropping out of school.Not trying to get any more education than high school, Hustling in the streets is not a real job,Quitting a good paying job that you thought seemed impossible to get because a co- worker got on your nerves, Not being there for your kids, Remeber you wanted to go 1/2 on a baby. Now be 1/2 the man and raise your kids. Leaving the women to care for your child. Pimping out women and exploiting them, And what disturbs me most is our brothers that turn into flames, Or having HIV/AIDS and pasing on to a black wowman or another guy, Being married to a loving Black woaman and living on the DL. And for the brothers that are sucessful in life who don't give back to the same communities that they grew up in and help teach the younger brothers that they can sucessful as well. But instead having kids by a non black woman. And stop killing off our brothers violenty for 5 or 10 dollars, or any other luadcris reason. And the drug thing. Let's not even talk about that. Yet we sit up her and blame everyone but black men. Yet each and everyday you hear about or see that disgusting thing that us brothers be doing out there. And you wonder why black men are always call every dispicable name under the sun.90% of the threads on topix are bashing black men. I try to defend us by believeing that not every black man does these things. It sickens me to see our brothers live and do these types of thing, And yet not wanting to own up to our faults and fcuk ups. We know better, We are no longer in slavery, baeten by whites, We have all these programs avaialble for us to use. But we still blame everyone else for our fcuk ups. And make excuses instaed of solution. I myself can't cahnge every black man. But I can,have, and will own up to my faults and fcuk ups. Maybe I have reached at least one brother out there that is willing to change his lifestyle. ;)  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #1)

African-American

I hate it when.....

True.  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #18)

African-American

Black men are hypocrites.

I don't know what you all are talking about, But I like black women w/ their natural hair. But if they need to see fit w/ some other hair then oh well. ;)  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #12)

African-American

WHITE MEN feel entitled to BLACK WOMEN!!

I see this thread having many post. Let me 1st start by saying that I agree with you. Just like they think they are entitled to a black woman. They feel the same way about eveything else that they took from not only blacks but all minorities. They call it being nice though.  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #2)

African-American

I hate it when.....

I hate it when a certain poster. Keep trying to prove a certain point. Here on topix. ;)  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #15)

African-American

dating out vs dating in.

Yeah dating in sometimes is more romantic, Like you said if in a committed relationship. dating out is the key word you said "convient " and alot of times that's what were paying for the convience of dating. Also if you just met a new person then yeah dating out would be good. If you have'nt bailed out on a person after awhile, Then it would be nice to mix up the dating. And yes I would buy your post thanks for your insight ;)  (Saturday Nov 21 | post #10)