Human Sexuality

Bisexuality, BDSM and the Myth of Violent Pornography

These are some really great points, well said. Very scary stuff when these types of religious based preferences pollute our laws. It's nothing more than religious opression by one group over another, i.e. "this is immoral, so obviously it should not be legal". It's the same secular lack-of-logic behind why we have so much violence, gore, and killing on television, but there's never a nipple in sight. Can you imagine the devastation if a female nipple came out? And of course, there's always the old and even more pathetic (but tried and true) fear mongering: "but we have to protect the children from the immoral stuff" - just to defend the religious persecution. Scary and very sad indeed. Here's a novel idea... perhaps parents could "parent" their children, and the politicians and "law makers" could stay away out of people's bedrooms and private lives - and keep their religious preferences and ceremonies to themselves.  (May 21, 2008 | post #1)

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Going Topless? The Naked Truth About Women and Bare Breasts

Nice example! This visual really highlights the absurdity of these "indecency " laws.  (May 1, 2008 | post #16)

Human Sexuality

Penetrative Sex: Less Is More

There's so much more to sex than penetration... We've had amazing up against the wall sex that lasts just a few minutes, but it's normally the result of lots a flirting and emotional foreplay. Give me intense foreplay over hours of penetration sex any day. :-) I would rather tease one another all day and have 15 minute penetration 2-3 times than one long marathon session.  (Apr 7, 2008 | post #12)

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YouTube - Oral Sex and Orgasm Delimma: I Want To Finish In Her ...

I think you just made Dan's day. ;-)  (Apr 7, 2008 | post #3)

Human Sexuality

Top 10 Tips To Give Women An Orgasm

Congratulations! What's interesting is that it's so much easier for women to experience multiple orgasms than it is for men (no advanced Tantric studies required) - but so few women even know it's possible. Still, it's enough to make a guy jealous!!! Have an awesome day! Dan & Jennifer  (Feb 20, 2008 | post #9)

Human Sexuality

Top 10 Tips To Give Women An Orgasm

Huh? There's no need for you to partake in any type of sex or pleasuring your partner if this is not for you. It's absolutely nobody's business to tell you what you can and can't do in your private life. By the same right, nobody else has to make any justification for what they do in the privacy of their own home. And in a civilized society, you have the freedom to read any religious text and practice most any religion you choose, but there's no "NEED "for anyone else to read or agree with it. But for the 90% of the women out there - who happen to be frustrated and let down every time their man gets off right away and doesn't take the time to give them pleasure - they're very happy to see some men paying attention and learning how to please them. There's also a new book out also called "She Comes First" - yes, that's exactly what it means. That one simple idea would drastically improve the sex lives of millions of couples today. Have an awesome day! Dan & Jennifer  (Feb 20, 2008 | post #8)

Human Sexuality

Med students get more sex

Wow, can't wait to see how this affects pre-med enrollment trends this year. Of course, it's not like college students care about who has more sex - do they? :-)  (Jan 28, 2008 | post #1)

Human Sexuality

Ooh, It Hurts So Good: Sadism & Masochism - The Pleasure of Pai...

HUH? So how exactly would you define "normal" sex? Maybe missionary position? Do we have to keep the lights off too? Is any talking allowed, or do any noises or comments suddenly make it "not normal"? Is oral sex "allowed "? Oral sex? Anal sex? Gay sex? Defining one's own preferences (whether sexual, religious, political, etc.) as "normal" and trying to enforce that on others causes all kinds of problems, and usually infringes on the rights and preferences of those others - who have the exact same rights to determine what is "normal" in their own lives. If they want help defining what is "normal" they'll ask.  (Jan 22, 2008 | post #21)

Human Sexuality

Is it wrong to stay in a relationship just for the great sex?

That's really awesome, it's so cool that you guys have the flexibility to spend so much time together - and even more cool that you actually enjoy each other's company. You guys are truly blessed. :-)  (Jan 13, 2008 | post #23)

Human Sexuality

Sinners in the Bible Belt? Sex, Swingers, and Religion...

"I taught school for eight years and then went into an area of medicine and I never met anyone who was a demagogue on purity who wasn't a hidden sex deviant." - Right on LibertyLover, thanks for sharing that story. Those who shout the loudest and are most judgmental of others tend to have really juicy secrets.  (Dec 20, 2007 | post #12)

Human Sexuality

States pass on abstinence-only sex education

"my question is has anybody read what those programs were teaching kids?.... the states are probably dropping them because they are horrible programs that use scare tactics and misinformation. it's about time." I think the fundamental idea behind these programs is so flawed (unrealistic), it's been difficult for people to get beyond that and actually look at how flawed these programs might be as far as their detailed information.  (Dec 18, 2007 | post #7)

Human Sexuality

States pass on abstinence-only sex education

"It is WAAAYYYYYY more profitable to treat than to cure." I think they call it "health management" or "disease management". Seriously, when was the last time a pill came out that actually fixed a problem? The vast majority of medications are developed to "manage the illness". Sad but true. Ask yourself this question: if tomorrow a miracle cure comes out that allows the body to heal ANY illness or injury by itself. How many people will be out of work, and what will be the "cost" to the medical industry? That answer is probably the reason we won't see such a development anytime soon. Sure all the research costs money, and that's fine. And there's nothing wrong with making a profit from your work. But certainly the motivation exists to come out with "management " drugs rather than cures. Otherwise we'd surely be seeing more "cures".  (Dec 18, 2007 | post #5)

Human Sexuality

BDSM Dilemma - Should I Tell My Parents? (Video)

- Ehrichweiss - Just wondering, why do you feel the need to be so foul? If you don't like our stuff, don't read or watch it. Remember what grandma said? If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. That works for us and most grown-ups. It's unhealthy to put others down just to make yourself feel better, not to mention the karmic implications. :-) We truly do hope you have a wonderful day. D&J  (Dec 14, 2007 | post #10)

Human Sexuality

3 Reasons Why Married People Have Better Sex

Absolutely! To each his own, but there's just no substitute for getting to truly know someone, really trusting each other, and truly opening up with your desires. Now that's a recipe for an amazing sex life. And it's easier than people think to spice it up and keep it hot and exciting. You just have to want to and - most importantly - forget the darn stereotype of married people never having any good sex. :-)  (Dec 10, 2007 | post #5)

Human Sexuality

House Ups Penalties on Internet Porn

"Thats such bull. We have a congress that can't pass a bill to fund our troops and keep the government going, yet they find the time to hassle the ISPs." - Amen - wanna see what the real priorities are and who really benefits from what's going on? Watch what they do, not the cutsey PR soundbites on the evening news.  (Dec 6, 2007 | post #4)