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Black Men Dont Like "Strong Black Women"
I see you failed to read the entire post, or at least that entire sentence. What I wrote is, and i quote, I would rather be happy in love with a white woman, then to be married to a black woman, ONLY becasue she is black and be miserable. The operative word is only. I am sure there are balck women I am compatable with out there, I did not meet them prior to meeting my wife, so I wouldn't know. what I do know is that I love my wife and am happy. No where have I ever stated and would never state that I could not be happy with a black woman. Please read the post and comprehend what i did write before you try to criticize. (Oct 14, 2009 | post #819)
South Africa Tests AIDS Vaccine
interesting, i will have to research that. (Sep 15, 2009 | post #94)
Damaged Beyond Repair Black Men?
whatever dude, you been outed, thanks for playing anyway. (Sep 15, 2009 | post #1273)
Black Men Dont Like "Strong Black Women"
Well my brother, I am not telling you to do anything. I am simply stating my point. i don't have to be commited to a black woman to see that men need to stand up an be men. I am not into bashing anyone, I am here to state a point, which is not and has not been in opposition to the ones you are making, that there are good brother out there. But since you feel the need to bash me because of who I married i hope that makes you feel better. But I am in a position to tell any person who is not commited to their wife, black or white or other, or who are not commited to being involved, in a positive way, in their childs life what to do, because I live it everyday. I don't need to be married to a black woman to understand commitment and responsibility. I see that you are offened by what I wrote, why is that, becasue i am not married to a black woman, sorry but i didn't know i needed your approval to live my life, and if you are offended then maybe you are one of the ones these women are talking about. just an observation. I know the forum is black men are afraid of strong black women but tha is not the case here, love is and should be color blind, i would rather be happy with a white woman i love then be with a black woman becasue she is black, and be miserable. That is ther way i see it. good luck brother and i hope you are one of the good ones. (Sep 15, 2009 | post #816)
Women should tolerate husbands infidelity
No going behind anyones back, it should be a law or something like that. I am serious about this. This is not a im not happy in the bedroom thing. This is a he wont do laundry so im not going to give him sex until he figures out why i am mad and then he starts doing it thing. i dont' think a month worth of not giving up the booty constitutes a sex problem in a relationship, but this clause will stop people in marriages form using sex as a weapon. It is not meant to be that way. Many people are not going to give up on their family becasue of sex, expecially after only a month, I know I am not. But when you say your vows at the alter you are vowing to love and to cherrish and honor and protect, and to give up the booty. Basically the only difference between a close friend of the opposite sex and your spouse is sex and entitlements. After death you get the entitilements, but sex is the problem. Dont use it as a weapon, talk out your problems, that is what I do. don't get me wrong there isn't a man out there that hasnt had the don't withold the booty fight witht he wife, and there isn't a wife out there that hasn't witheld the booty. I just think it is wrong, and as i said, no going behind anyones back, wedding vows should state, To love and honor, to protect and to cherrish, and to give up the booty every month, and if you don't then your spouse will have sex with someone else and you can't be md about it. (Sep 1, 2009 | post #3666)
Women should tolerate husbands infidelity
Bro, i am a man, married and I have desires as well, but I would not say them aloud in the western world. I think everyone has desires and are tempted but I vowed to my wife to be faithful and Hopefully I will be able to. Now on the other hand I do have a one month rule of thumb. And that is, if a man or woman, is not getting sex in their marriage for a month, not due to medical reasons like, child birth, surgery something like that, it should be leagal to cheat. Women do tend to hold the booty hostage to get their man to "act right" and that is a sure fire way for a man to cheat. If you want him to act right then you need to talk to him and get it straight. I fon't know why a man would not be giving his wife sex as often as possible, but whatever the reson he better getit right before she be out in Jamaica with "Dexter" if you all watched eddie murphy u know who I mean, "what you cryin bout girl" (Sep 1, 2009 | post #3661)
I’m Not Black ... I'm Bi-Racial, Damn It! (Video)
As you said, redifine race when it suits you (white people) (Aug 31, 2009 | post #145)
I’m Not Black ... I'm Bi-Racial, Damn It! (Video)
That is whay I am saying. Obama is the first black president. But whites will not admit that,they will say he is bi-racial therefore he is not black. While that is true it is only because he has the highest office in the land, if he were arrested for breaking and entereing he would be considered black, not bi-racial. This is the only reason whites want to identify bi-racial as a nother race. As far as the acceptence of bi-racials as black or white. either way you slice it, bi-racial people have been considered black since slavery. Adn in my expereience my bi-racial nieces and nephews have been more accepted by their black relatives more so then their white ones. And if that means they identify as being black becasue of rejection by whites then so beit, but it is what it is and this will continue to be the trend. We don't need whitepeople changi ng becaseu of the president. (Aug 31, 2009 | post #144)
Can a White Pride Group not be labeled a racist arganization?
It wasn't about a deed of trust. It was about who could hold on to the land, and whites with advanced technology was able to do so. I agree through out history one will see that all people were and are savages. Brutallity is the only anything has been gained, but that does not mean the natives were any more savage then the europeans of the time. Truthfully, the land was taken, from the natives. No they did not have deeds, but why does one need deeds when they lived from the land and no one except neighboring tribes were fighting for it, a deed was not stopping anyone from taking the land. Again whoever was strongest owned it. I don't even know what I'm fighting. Groups of people do whay you want, organize, protest, thsi is america and it is the land of free speech, and assembly. (Aug 31, 2009 | post #5103)
Can a White Pride Group not be labeled a racist arganization?
You did profit from it, and still do. It is privilage, or at least the belief that it exists. Whites are still the majority, whether you believe it or not, and they still run this country, USA, and the world. It doesn't matter to me, I am making my own way and no one can hold me back. But you keep making these excuses that whites are being put down and discriminated against, I will tell you like whites have been telling blacks for years, stop blamming the black man and get out the and prosper, no one is stopping you. (Aug 28, 2009 | post #5027)
Can a White Pride Group not be labeled a racist arganization?
You know, that was a nice and level headed post. I read it and did not feel the need to criticize it. But I think the mistake you and alot of people make is that we as the black community accept that behavior as the norm or as it being ok. We have to tolerate it, while attempting to change it and we can only do that one person at a time and one generation at a time. the more people like myself a khalidad, and i know i spelled that wrong again, we have raising our children with values and morals the better off the black community will be in the future. And we can only be examples to the people who are engaging in the behaviors you are talking about. It disgust me when I see that kind of behavior, but I have to remember that 10 or 15 yrs ago that was me. I was a teen trying to be "cool" and when I learned and saw other, better, example of what I wanted for my life I changed my behavior to be a good husband and great, at least hopefully, great father. i guess in short i am saying, it takes time, effort and a drive for people to change, you can't change someone who doesn't want to be changed, but you do your part by being a good example and raising yours the proper way, and hopefully it will have an effect of those around you. (Aug 28, 2009 | post #5026)
Can a White Pride Group not be labeled a racist arganization?
Yeah you are right, non-whites make up the bulk of welfare cases, but you are lumping, blacks, aisans, hispanics and any other non-european into one group to make yourself sound right, white make up the largest percentage of people on welfare, not by much, but they do. Middle PA I tell you. Good thing I grew up in pittsburgh (Aug 25, 2009 | post #5005)
Can a White Pride Group not be labeled a racist arganization?
It is not worth your time to post to people of his ilk. Was Jesus white? i don't knwo what he was or is, I don't really care. honestly people do what you will, create your group, march through the streets. i still have a hard time identifying with the white mans struggles. I understand being labled racist sucks, but so does being labled, lazy, insignificant, criminal, jobless, absent father and anything else that black people are branded daily based, and pay attention now, solely on the fact we are black. At least white people have to do something semi racist before you are called a racist, all a black person has to do is be born to be labled any of the aforementioned words. That is why there is no level groud right now and it will be generations before. Kahlidad, sorry if i mispelled it, had a great point about children today and their son, its great to see a group mixed like that and I hope to see more of it soon. "Ozzie this message was not intended for you, the first part yes, but after that no, I just wouldn't communicate with good ole boy or whatever his name is. he is from middle PA that might as well be the deep south. (Aug 25, 2009 | post #5004)
Damaged Beyond Repair Black Men?
I don't know. Why can't we just consider that people are individuals and what one person does, does not speak for the rest of the group? The problem with this thread and others like it, they sterotype, we can create sterotype threads about any group. ww,bw, hispanics, illegals, it doesn't matter, it doesn't speak for the larger part of the group, these stats can only describe a minority of any group and not the majority. More people should think this. good post denita (Aug 25, 2009 | post #1266)
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