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African-American

Black men are UGLY!

I never said that he shouldn't be, but you're right on that.  (3 hrs ago | post #606)

African-American

African American women suck!

There's nothing wrong with whoever you were talking about being part AA. Don't start with your stereo-typing again.  (3 hrs ago | post #504)

African-American

How are us black women not feminine enough?

I agree with you, on the idea that black men should/could be empathic for black women. There's NO way that we should be compared to women of other races. And, lol, when I put "stupid" and "simple-minde d" I only meant a few... like, maybe a thousand. Out of the possible one billion. Black should support black, and shouldn't expect black to be anything but what it is. It should be embraced, because it is what we are. Unfortunately, in some cases it isn't this way though.  (3 hrs ago | post #683)

African-American

How are us black women not feminine enough?

If a woman is considered masculine just because she has an opinion, then all men who believe that and HATE that should just be homosexual, because it SHOULDN'T change. A woman's opinion is needed regularly. Not all, but most women are very sympathetic/empath ic in ways that men cannot be. Women are nurturing. Where would men be if they didn't take advice of women to think out situations at times? Men hardly think. They need us to tell them how to be better for them. Men grow up hearing opinions from their mothers, and their mothers have the best advice, but sometimes they don't want to listen. Men sometimes are jealous of babies when women are nurturing them, because some of them are so STUPID and simple-minded. But if it wasn't for the mothers of those men's children, where would the baby boys of today be? They wouldn't be anywhere because of men's inability to control their rage. They even want to be treated like babies by their wives! Woman. Wound. Wo-MEN. Women are DEFINITELY needed.  (6 hrs ago | post #681)

African-American

African American women suck!

I'm FULLY black, and I'm not stupid! You LOVE to stereo-type Turtle! Don't you think that her black parent who possibly raised her, could've been smart due to their circumstances and not solely because of them being BLACK?!!!! People like you IRK me. Like, I almost feel like someone's chewing on my skin right now. Not just chewing, but gnawing and ripping it apart. You're such a dumb a-- Turtle. Such a mean, dumb, ignorant fu-karoo! Did your mom drop your head on the ground when you were a baby. If you're not sure, you need to ask. If she says "no" the first two times, you may want to ask her again. She could be hiding a dark secret from you. Dumb a--.  (7 hrs ago | post #502)

African-American

What if all blacks in the U.S. were shipped back to Africa?

Yeah, I'm aware that ALL people originate from Africa, though some white people are disgusted to hear it. Haven't you heard about partially black people who've "passed" for white, and never mentioned their relatives were black? They never told their "white" children, or spouse that one of their grandparents were black. And for generations on, their family only grew whiter and whiter. Meanwhile, some white people today may never know that their great-great-great- great grandfather was a black man.  (7 hrs ago | post #322)

African-American

What if all blacks in the U.S. were shipped back to Africa?

What a LAME excuse! White people are racist because of black people? That's something to be proud of you stupid f-ck?!!! That you're racist? You're SO DUMB. I can NOT believe that there are people in this world like you. White people seem to think that they're better than EVERYBODY. Black people helped to build this country. Some people are confused to why this country is so racist, but it DEFINITELY is not black peoples' faults that white people were disgusting, lazy and cruel.  (7 hrs ago | post #321)

African-American

What if all blacks in the U.S. were shipped back to Africa?

I would love to go to Africa to stay, but I don't know what part of Africa my ancestors were from. Too far down the line. More than likely 2 centuries ago my ancestors were in Africa, before any other land. It's not like the blacks in America's ancestors are all from one part of Africa!!!! Sometimes, I wonder what it'd be like if I was African instead of African American. I really started to wonder this after watching a movie called 'Tsotsi'. What if white people never came into Africa?  (7 hrs ago | post #320)

African-American

Why do Beautiful Black men only date white women

Yes, you're right about a white man's preference. It actually made me laugh, trying to imagine a white man with a woman who wears matted weave and bad vocabulary. It saddens me that I'd look at some gorgeous black men, walking around with these crazy/loose women, then they'd try and treat the good women the same. They think that they can treat all women like trash. They just need to realize that a good women shouldn't be valued by her thighs, it's whether or not she shows her thighs. Ladies don't go around wearing provocative clothing. But this is what black men want and because they think sex=love, they seek out highly sexual women to "love". When they notice the women who wear these "uniforms " are no good, like you said, they give up and put blame on all women of the same race for that one bad woman's faults. Men could be so STUPID sometimes. If your "relationship " was based on sex at first, it will end because of sex. Black men need to choose the black women that they usually wouldn't give a chance. The good girls. The ones who could care less about getting them in bed immediately. That'll be hard though.  (8 hrs ago | post #792)

African-American

Black men are UGLY!

I don't think that Kanye and Chris are ugly either. They're nice looking men to me.  (8 hrs ago | post #604)

African-American

Black men are UGLY!

http://www.youtube .com/watch?v=qGOk4 bhFucE Tiger Woods is not black? Not fully of course, but he is part black.  (8 hrs ago | post #603)

African-American

Black men are UGLY!

I think you took my comment the wrong way. I don't think 50 cent is ugly.  (8 hrs ago | post #602)

African-American

Has fatherlessness been detrimental to the black community?

I'm responding to your post #147 right HERE. Read the statement of mine's that you responded to, and then tell me whether I needed any "facts" you've given to me about America. I said the American media put the phrase "in God we Trust" and they are hypocrites because of it, if you look at their media! How am I not acknowledging the fact that the country I live in is a bad place? Ummmm, I did! Before you gave your unecessary response. I knew about America already. I live here! So, once again, I have no idea why you're trying to push "facts". Mr. "Know-it-all ". You weren't saying anything I didn't already know myself.  (9 hrs ago | post #685)

African-American

Has fatherlessness been detrimental to the black community?

You started randomly commenting "and we all know what hypocrites Americans are. YOU BEHIND GENERALIZED. If you typed AMERICANS a hypocrite, you were calling all Americans hypocrites, meaning you must not like me. And about the Messiah, whose to say you will be liked? You could be the most self-righteous person in the world, but then you could have it all wrong. Humans cannot judge humans. We all have faults. I have no idea why you put "I wouldn't know who the Messiah was even if he was in my face" What makes you special? And you are mad, because you're fussing with me just I mentioned America. Over sillyness! And what song, Mr. Randomness?  (9 hrs ago | post #684)

African-American

How are us black women not feminine enough?

I agree.  (9 hrs ago | post #676)

Q & A with ABeautifulMemory

Headline:

Let's think this over

Hometown:

Catch Military Brat in NY now!

Neighborhood:

Queens, NY

Local Favorites:

public transportation

I Belong To:

myself

When I'm Not on Topix:

I ride the bus to work, I think, I'm thinking about what ways I can improve my perception on life and my experiences

Read My Forum Posts Because:

I try to be as compassionate as can be

I'm Listening To:

Michael Jackson, Brandy

Read This Book:

Every Young Woman's Battle

Favorite Things:

Water, being alone, music, parks, sunny weather, shy people, lol

On My Mind:

"Why does the world judge people that they do not know God?"

I Believe In:

Being considerate of other peoples' feelings, thinking before I speak, being patient, listening to other people before judging them (even though at times, I may fall victim to the human fault of being judgemental)