RAPTURE wrote:
<quoted text>Do we really need "helped out"???
If you can look out your window and ignore the busloads of people afraid every single day, afraid about whether they have to sleep under some tree, or what the hell they're going to do about winter, and still ask that question, then I leave you to your own blind heart.
And one more thing: our country was defined as one having freedom of religion. If it is someone's spiritual belief that they can love and marry ANYONE of age, why should that be illegal? How is it hurting your personal rights to allow someone to be happy, just because you don't agree with them? Can you consiously allow our judicial system become the battlegrounds for a holy war? How is that going to honor God?
And, let me bring up another point: say there is an entire nation of people that believe, say, that cows are sacred animals. Maybe they hold the belief that these are their reincarnated ancestors, or something. How would you feel if someone came up to you, and said that you were evil, and were going to turn into a slug, just because you were enjoying a double cheeseburger? Are your actions truely hurting that person in any way?
All they want is to be legally recognized as being married, and not be hated for it. Say you loved someone so much, you dedicated your life to them. Sounds reasonable, right? But, because the State says that you are not legally able to form such a union, any vows you make don't really exist.
A little insulting, but your in love. It won't stop you. So, you have a little ceremony, maybe your friends are there, maybe your parents. You even found a priest with some more tollerant and open minded views. So, you feel, for all intents and purposes, you two are a married couple.
Two years go by. Your at work, and you get a call: the worst call in your life. There was an accident, trauma, bloodloss. Things are looking bad. You run to the hospital. You've never been more scared in your life.
You make it to the front desk, and as about your lover, your partner, your friend. Guess what you hear?
"Are you a family member?"
And what do you do? You lie. Not to yourself, but to the desk attendant.
"Yeah... we're siblings..."
Do you understand now? Do you understand how foolish it is to be blind to this? They'll get married, whether you say they can or not.
And what about transgendered people? I'm not talking about people who have operations, I'm talking about people with XXY or XYY chromosones. Because, they happen. They exist: they're about 35 million people on this earth. Are they allowed to marry? Because a lot of them are sterile...
So what's it going to be?