Thank you for sharing what may be the hardest decision a couple (or a single woman) ever makes. Perhaps you would be interested in contributing to this website:We had recently went through one just over two weeks ago...We found out that we were pregnant. Oh my God, it was a terrible weekend, going back and forth...
We don't want to depend on his parents even more, we don't want a welfare baby, we can barely afford to get married...He's getting a huge promotion and I'm starting schools free being out for a few years...
I want, we both want to be the best parents that we can be, and be able to provide for them. Here a couple years down the road, when we are more financially stable and we have our own house... We can.
We made an appointment three days later... We both cried pretty much nonstop... But it's for the best, and I can look back on this and know this and know that we did this for the right reasons... I can look back and make a promise to the little bean that I will better myself, that we will better ourselves, so when we are blessed with children again in the near future, they will be taken care of and more... It'll be a long process, but hopefully it'll get better with time.
I was one of those people who weren't against abortion but always vowed to never go through with it. You can never judge someone unless you have been in their shoes...I was six weeks and two days along... It tears me up inside and I have my moments, but I don't regret our decision at all.
Or not - it's totally your call.
I hope you have a beautiful day.