marry uzbek girle

Uzbek girls are the best - cause they are good at both housekeeping and career. yes, if you allow them they are capable of running a successfull business too.

they are hard working and ambitious, professionally and in family. btw, family means a lot to them, it is where they get extremely traditional.

but if you had your experience with a prostitute and make your judgements like that, i will recommend you to avoid any uzbek woman, because i dont want them to end with such an a**hole.

QWERTY wrote:

Again to Arabs!!!
If you don't have a good partner, it is better to have good hand!
UAE or Saudi Arabia - it is the same SHIT

i think you arev SHIT not KSA or UAE

san devoh-nah

Hi all,
i cannot explaine how to say it. I need a beautiful uzbek girl for marriage.i,ll keep her very happy. uzbeks r well behaved and beautiful.any girl interested please contact me.

I have an Uzbek boyfriend. I know that he will never marry me, as we are of different religions, cultures, and age (I am older than him). We also have quite different educational and social levels. But we do get on very well and have a real love affair that had lasted for 4 months by now. He once said - and insisted - that he wanted me to have his baby. But I am scared to take this step, as I will be brining this child alone. Perhaps, it is not such a bad thing after all and I may well make this move in the near future.(I can just imagine how beautiful this child would be - half european half uzbek) I do love him very much and I am fascinated by his culture and ways of life. He often acts like a real macho. He would expect me to do everything for him - cook, clean dishes, etc etc. He would rarely call me unless totally necessary, and he would expect me to sit and wait for him to turn up. I do this because I know that he would - he always does. He is adorable because of all that. And I know that I just comply with his understanding of a relationship and his way of life. I think that I can put up with it on a long-term basis. Once you find out these little rules, it is easy to follow them. However, everyone is right about marrying the whole family. He works hard and sends most of this earnings back home, supporting all his brothers and sisters in their studies and his mother. He also said that his mother would never allow him to marry a European, which is a shame. He was talking about their wedding ceremonies, in which they have to hang blood-stained bed linen out as to show everyone that the bride was a virgin. He supports all this, despite having the most passionate and tender relationship with me! I know that our cultural differences are way too grave and in the end of the day they would make us part company. At the moment, I enjoy our relationship. I love him tenderly and I am endulging myself in learning his beautiful culture. If anybody has anything useful to comment on my situation, please do. I would be most interested to learn if I am getting this situation right, or perhaps, I am missing the point??? To be perfectly honest, I am also a little confused by this cultural difference.(perhaps, this is something that keeps our relationship going.)

hi there..what more i can say..at last i found someone!!!what i mean is we r in the same situation..exactly the same..whatever u did to him are the same way i live my life with my uzbek boyfriend for more than a year..i would love to know u more n become friends since we have sumthing in common..i really need to talk to someone who understand about this..hope u will reply me more n we can talk or chat in other time..pls reply me..

Western Europe Pup wrote:

I have an Uzbek boyfriend. I know that he will never marry me, as we are of different religions, cultures, and age (I am older than him). We also have quite different educational and social levels. But we do get on very well and have a real love affair that had lasted for 4 months by now. He once said - and insisted - that he wanted me to have his baby. But I am scared to take this step, as I will be brining this child alone. Perhaps, it is not such a bad thing after all and I may well make this move in the near future.(I can just imagine how beautiful this child would be - half european half uzbek) I do love him very much and I am fascinated by his culture and ways of life. He often acts like a real macho. He would expect me to do everything for him - cook, clean dishes, etc etc. He would rarely call me unless totally necessary, and he would expect me to sit and wait for him to turn up. I do this because I know that he would - he always does. He is adorable because of all that. And I know that I just comply with his understanding of a relationship and his way of life. I think that I can put up with it on a long-term basis. Once you find out these little rules, it is easy to follow them. However, everyone is right about marrying the whole family. He works hard and sends most of this earnings back home, supporting all his brothers and sisters in their studies and his mother. He also said that his mother would never allow him to marry a European, which is a shame. He was talking about their wedding ceremonies, in which they have to hang blood-stained bed linen out as to show everyone that the bride was a virgin. He supports all this, despite having the most passionate and tender relationship with me! I know that our cultural differences are way too grave and in the end of the day they would make us part company. At the moment, I enjoy our relationship. I love him tenderly and I am endulging myself in learning his beautiful culture. If anybody has anything useful to comment on my situation, please do. I would be most interested to learn if I am getting this situation right, or perhaps, I am missing the point??? To be perfectly honest, I am also a little confused by this cultural difference.(perhaps, this is something that keeps our relationship going.)

butterflygirl wrote:

hi there..what more i can say..at last i found someone!!!what i mean is we r in the same situation..exactly the same..whatever u did to him are the same way i live my life with my uzbek boyfriend for more than a year..i would love to know u more n become friends since we have sumthing in common..i really need to talk to someone who understand about this..hope u will reply me more n we can talk or chat in other time..pls reply me..
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Yes, I am glad to have met somebody in a similar situation too! It's great! But what country do you come from? and are you a muslim? I am a Christian, and European, so it is VERY unlikely that my guy would ever consider to marry me. Or so I think. IF you are Muslim, then you are in a better position, as Uzbeks do marry other Muslims.
Do you want to marry him? Does he want your children? He wants my child, and even said that he would help me; but I don't think that he would ever defy his mother and stay with me. Plus, they can have more than one wife, and that what scares me too.

butterflygirl wrote:

hi there..what more i can say..at last i found someone!!!what i mean is we r in the same situation..exactly the same..whatever u did to him are the same way i live my life with my uzbek boyfriend for more than a year..i would love to know u more n become friends since we have sumthing in common..i really need to talk to someone who understand about this..hope u will reply me more n we can talk or chat in other time..pls reply me..
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Also, I am older than him. It does not influence our relationship in any way, but I heard from other Uzbeks that it is a sin for them to be with an older woman.:( He said that he does not care about our age difference, and in fact I look very young for my age and he looks quite mature for his.(We have a 10 year gap; 35-25!) So we look as though I am perhaps a couple of years his senior no more.... but it is what we know and what others, in particular of his surroundings, know too. All my friends support me and encourage me not to think about it and to have a great time and enjoy his company. I am doing just that at the moment. But he is so adorable and lovable that I am falling deeper and deeper for him and all that is about him.

yes, i am a muslim from asian country...i am also older than him..seems like its quite open to talk in here..i'm afraid he might notice this conversation..do u have email??

butterflygirl wrote:

yes, i am a muslim from asian country...i am also older than him..seems like its quite open to talk in here..i'm afraid he might notice this conversation..do u have email??

ok, i understand. yes, it is better to talk via email. please email me on hbe25_2004@yahoo.com. I look forward to hearing from you.

asiabutterfly wrote:

salom jamshid..nice to hear that..anyway i have an uzbek boyfriend but he's tajik..we are so in love..i know in your country parents will find husband or wife for their kids..thats make me worry about..i alwez cry when i think of it..once he asked me to marry him secretly of course i would love to..but sometimes i think of his parents...i dont want him to lie to his parents..i juz dont know what to do ..but one thing i know i love him so much..i dont what will happen to me if he do not marry me..i guess i will juz move to samarkand to heal the pain..i really wanna be his wife..i do respect your culture..its good actually but sometimes it is not fair for us who fall in love with uzbek..can u think of my feeling when i imagine about his wedding day? and one month honeymoon with his wife?i'm goin crazy thinking of all this..whatever it is if it its a fate for me to see him marry someone else i will pray and be happy for him because i wanna see the one that i love to be happy even i am suffering..like to hear from you soon,,

Assalomu Alaykum,
I have read all comments posted and I am uzbek also, regarding Mohamed, dude it isnt easy really marry uzbek girl but it also depends on from which city or place you are going to choose her, Tashkent maybe hard and girls social status also, if she is kind of not good girl she will agree easily, most girls here too seek rich guys and arent good for muslim boys, but however those who are good probably wont marry to outsider, and those who work in Arabic countries as " night butterfly" are either got there with this intention or by mistake, heard most of them from Samarkand, maybe wrong but if so in Samarkand most of population is tadjiks who are more beautiful compared to average uzbek girl, so beware if girl suddenly agrees to your offer or her family to check them twice at least...
regarding you asiabutterfly, sorry I cant tell you for sure if he has any intention to marry you or just fooling you around to have free sex while he is there, b.c many guys practice this kind of bad deed if he really doesnt want to marry girl who doesnt suit to his culture or thinks you arent good since you slept with him before marriage and still he can satisfy his physical need to sex. however your guy might be exception I hope it is so, if I hurt you or someone please forgive me, I just want to help...
Peace be upon you,
Sobir!

asiabutterfly wrote:

i wanna marry a tajik guy from uzbekistan..i'm juz amazed with their culture...hope God will grant me the opportunity to have an uzbek husband in the future..

Hie Asiabutterfly,
sorry if I will hurt you, so you wanna marry not uzbek guy, let me tell you what I think about average tadjik guy compared to Uzbek, Uzbek guys in city Tashkent especially, seem to be less responsible, I mean they will try to support house but it really less bothers them from where money earned as city situation forces everyone to strive for living, ok let me be brief and just compare tadjiks to uzbeks, tadjiks tend to lie more I think from my experience, but think they less care if you are tadjik or uzbek to marry when it comes to a guy who seeks girl, your guy from this point can marry you easily if you are muslim compared to uzbek guy, but it might be him who is unwilling to marry you since he might want to marry from his own place or virgin new girl, here in uzbekistan any guy whoever doesnt keep muslim style life or even some who even keep it, try to have western pattern life also at the same time free sex no obligation, sorry if rude, but reality is this, you cant find 1 out of 100 guy who havent lived this kind of life... going to bitches or russian girls for sex without obligation, just meeting for a month or so, even uzbek girls now running this kind of life secretly, and can fix her virgin when marrying time comes, in summer they say surgery hospitals will be in full power working for this purpose, most of them are uzbek girls as they have to be virgin, pure guy who married also ran this style life, happily goes into new life with a "pure virgin girl" without suspecting it sometimes... but some are expert in this field and can check it with some ways too...
so lets come back to your guy, if you beleive he is really loves you and responsible, he wont tell you nonsense excuses and let his parents know about you, if they say no you will stop meeting with him, but i think it is him who isnt willing to bother his parents and marry you too...
however i might be wrong as i dont know your guy in person nor his family.
Sobir!

Western Europe Pup wrote:

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ok, i understand. yes, it is better to talk via email. please email me on hbe25_2004@yahoo.com. I look forward to hearing from you.

hie Girls,
want to give some advice if you dont mind...
yeah whole family marrying is right b.c we feel responsible before them all as they supported our study, childhood everything financially and morally, uzbek guys have to support them as they give them last thing they have to support his study so he must take care of his family too.
regarding you European girl, to talk openly you have less chance to get blessings of his family if he wants to marry you, of course if it is pattern uzbek family, however being older than the guy also lessens your chances to marry, they will accept it this way, you are witch and used all your bad things to get poor guy so he cant leave you forever and they will hate you, lol, but it is common here to accept it like that, elder woman means more experienced lol, and so muslim girl also has less chance due to this, you have 2 problems mostly, you are older, no virgin they wont beleive even if you show whole carpet full in blood, as you met him for a long time and european, sorry for being rude, I will advise you not to expect too much, whenever time comes for guy to marry, parents probably will call him back, and teach him keep silence and marry girl they want, even if he says he has a girl there, they dont care, forget her she isnt from our culture, you will make me get ashamed before my enemies and neighboors or I will refuse you as my son, and here guy cant do anything as this means the end to him!
sorry ladies if upset you but reality with average uzbek guy is this, but your guy might be exception if he is from european minded families, but i doubt he is...
Sobir!

Sobirjon wrote:

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hie Girls,
want to give some advice if you dont mind...
yeah whole family marrying is right b.c we feel responsible before them all as they supported our study, childhood everything financially and morally, uzbek guys have to support them as they give them last thing they have to support his study so he must take care of his family too.
regarding you European girl, to talk openly you have less chance to get blessings of his family if he wants to marry you, of course if it is pattern uzbek family, however being older than the guy also lessens your chances to marry, they will accept it this way, you are witch and used all your bad things to get poor guy so he cant leave you forever and they will hate you, lol, but it is common here to accept it like that, elder woman means more experienced lol, and so muslim girl also has less chance due to this, you have 2 problems mostly, you are older, no virgin they wont beleive even if you show whole carpet full in blood, as you met him for a long time and european, sorry for being rude, I will advise you not to expect too much, whenever time comes for guy to marry, parents probably will call him back, and teach him keep silence and marry girl they want, even if he says he has a girl there, they dont care, forget her she isnt from our culture, you will make me get ashamed before my enemies and neighboors or I will refuse you as my son, and here guy cant do anything as this means the end to him!
sorry ladies if upset you but reality with average uzbek guy is this, but your guy might be exception if he is from european minded families, but i doubt he is...
Sobir!

Thanks for your advice. I suspected this and don't hold my hopes too high. Even though I am very much in love and like everything about him .... at the same time, he is the one who supports his family, and he lives in a european country, while his family is away in Uzbekistan. So it is him who will make the final decision.... I don't think he has any intentions in going back home either, and he once mentioned that he might marry a European. so.... i don't know. he also wants a child with me, which says something. Though I realise that he might want to have a child but not to be with me legally. Also, I understand that Uzbeks are allowed to have a few wives - a situation that I don't want to be in.(of course, as I am a European, and have my cultural dos and donts too). I might just have his child and bring it up on my own, as I love this person very much.:( Or I will have to make a decision to part with him, which will be very difficult, as we get on so well and things are going so nice. But now you got me worried about each time he goes home. To be honest, he does not want to go home; he does not like it there too much, and he has not been for over 2 years! But he mentioned that his family is crucially important to him and he calls his mother almost every other day, plus fully supporting her financially. She stopped working and lives on his account. so does most of his family - he is very smart and earns well. I admire that - he is a wonderful person.

Sobirjon wrote:

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hie Girls,
want to give some advice if you dont mind...
yeah whole family marrying is right b.c we feel responsible before them all as they supported our study, childhood everything financially and morally, uzbek guys have to support them as they give them last thing they have to support his study so he must take care of his family too.
regarding you European girl, to talk openly you have less chance to get blessings of his family if he wants to marry you, of course if it is pattern uzbek family, however being older than the guy also lessens your chances to marry, they will accept it this way, you are witch and used all your bad things to get poor guy so he cant leave you forever and they will hate you, lol, but it is common here to accept it like that, elder woman means more experienced lol, and so muslim girl also has less chance due to this, you have 2 problems mostly, you are older, no virgin they wont beleive even if you show whole carpet full in blood, as you met him for a long time and european, sorry for being rude, I will advise you not to expect too much, whenever time comes for guy to marry, parents probably will call him back, and teach him keep silence and marry girl they want, even if he says he has a girl there, they dont care, forget her she isnt from our culture, you will make me get ashamed before my enemies and neighboors or I will refuse you as my son, and here guy cant do anything as this means the end to him!
sorry ladies if upset you but reality with average uzbek guy is this, but your guy might be exception if he is from european minded families, but i doubt he is...
Sobir!

Will I at least find out that he got married there? and will he bring this girl to Europe? how long does it take for them to marry? and to reach a decision? if he lives in europe permanently - it kind of does not make sense .... but still you might be right, and I am sure that you are.... uzbeks cherish their traditions, and so does he....

I think they will not respond willingly to this offer. Because they will be forced to wear Hijab, which is not traditional in Uzbekistan. They will definitely have problems with this

Assalomu alaykum:

your comments begin with "-"
my answer begins with ":"

-----Western Europe Pup

-Uzbeks do marry other Muslims.
:Not always believe me.
-Plus, they can have more than one wife
:Totally wrong. If there is a second wife, she is usually hidden bad young girl if the man is rich and not religious.
- I heard from other Uzbeks that it is a sin for them to be with an older woman.
:This is not so. Just the friend of the man will laught at him saying what a f you are doing. But not sin even in traditional meaning.
-whole family marrying is right?
:Wrong and true. To get married there must be agreement of the parents also. this is part of tradition.
-So it is him who will make the final decision.... I don't think he has any intentions in going back home either, and he once mentioned that he might marry a European.
:70% he will go back to Uzbekistan.
-Though I realise that he might want to have a child but not to be with me legally. Also, I understand that Uzbeks are allowed to have a few wives - a situation that I don't want to be in.(of course, as I am a European, and have my cultural dos and donts too). I might just have his child and bring it up on my own
:if his parent know that he has child outside they will f him first then force him to take kid from you what ever it takes for them.(80%)
:Uzbek rule: If you have kids these kid belongs to your parents not to you. Uzbeks love their grandsons/daughters more then themselves and more then their children.
-To be honest, he does not want to go home; he does not like it there too much.
:Right, difficult to find a job in UZB. If he has huge business in UZB he will not stay in Europe even 2 minutes.
-Will I at least find out that he got married there? and will he bring this girl to Europe? how long does it take for them to marry? and to reach a decision?
:2 month is enough.
----Euromax
-I think they will not respond willingly to this offer. Because they will be forced to wear Hijab, which is not traditional in Uzbekistan. They will definitely have problems with this.
:Now In Uzbekistan two different problems. Some girls themselves want to wear hijab however they were forced not to wear in my own eyes in my university. It is happening.
Some families getting more Islamic and want their girls wear hijab however their girls do not want to wear. They wanna be "modern."
Depends on family.

Sobir, you are tadjik not uzbek. From couple of your words it is obvious that you are tadjik.
Pleas don't put yourself over. Uzbeks know who are Tadjiks. I don't want to have nation problem with you here. Lets respect each others nationalities.

About Uzbek girls. They are very nice. You my question my evaluation as I am Uzbek. I agree. However I liked other nationality girls also. I would say it depends from girl.
I prefer Uzbek. But u cannot predict love. Love is crazy and may come any time in any condition and thoroughly alter your life destroying boundaries like nationality.

I found this site cool. I can answer to questions about Uzbekistan or the Uzbeks. I will respond as I can.

May God give peace and happiness to the world and to Uzbekistan.

Response to Bektosh
Thanks so much for your comments and tips. That was very useful indeed. I am now confused, though. I don't know what to expect basically .... I have been reading on the Internet about the Uzbek culture. In some points it is scary for me, but I love it from what I see with him. At the same time, I am deeply worried. Do you think that I am just wasting my time with this guy? He will invariably dump me and marry his own girl from UZB? and if I have his baby, they will attempt to steal it from me? How could they practically do so, however? As a mother I will have all the legal rights, and I am in a much better financial position than he is; so no court will ever give the child to him, even from the financial point of view! But from what everyone says, I have no chance with this person??? Why does he keep coming back to me then? Is it just for now, until he has had enough of European freedom and when the time is right to sort his life out, I will be forgotten or placed as a lover whom he sees but not marries? It's very sad .... If the age is not an issue, as you say, then religion and culture is??? of the family??? Should I just take the painful step and forget him, if the future is so bleak for all these cultural reasons?

Bektosh wrote:

Assalomu alaykum:
your comments begin with "-"
my answer begins with ":"

And by the way, I love your country and your people. I have met so many Uzbeks through him, and they were all very nice, caring, considerate, and generous. I would love to stay close to your culture and people. Though I would not consider living UZB myself. Not for economic but for cultural reasons. I realise that all those Uzbeks whom I meet here have some European-minded inclinations and they accept many things here. Thus, we can find a compromise between my way of life and his. and I would gladly adjust my views to match his in our environment. but as you say, it is 70 per cent likely that he goes back. He has no business there, though. and no job .... but here he runs a small business, quite successfully.

Hi Pub.
Uzbeks differ from each other. "O'z" or "Uz" means "Self," and "Bek" means "Governor". So Uzbek means he is governor of Himself. He will not listen to others. That is the reason of anarchy there.
I cannot say what kind of steps your boyfriend will take. he may stay in Europe also even with less possibility.
I talked about general rules and issues of Uzbeks. But as I said above this may not work with him.
About children: UZbeks never take the kid from the mother. This is the greatest sin in Uzbek culture. If mother is not drug abusing woman, no one,-even whole father's family want,- NOT LAW, NOT TRADITION, NOT ISLAM will allow anyone to take the child from his/her mother.
But if the man's parents hear that he has kid outside. This is not good.
Every Uzbek parents have wish to make public open wedding for their sons and daughters. This is the greatest wish, seeing their sons and daughters having nice wedding and family.
Their whole life, Uzbek parents do everything so one day they will see their long term happy wish come true. Uzbeks do not hate other nations. they respect and like all nations. But the problem is boyfriend-girlfriend relation and family are different things. There are plenty of families Uzbek guys married to Russian or other non Uzbek girls. And after some time they have divorced in many cases. So Uzbek parents really worried that their sons and daughters build family with other nations as it can collapse because of cultural disagreements. Uzbeks are most carried nations about the family of their sons and daughters. As I said above Your only wish is to see happy family of your son or daughter. You work whole your life to this moments. And outside kid is great shame for the man because he was careless with his offspring.

About your case. Decide your fate yourself.
Ask him what is his honest plan: yes or no.

I explained general rules. and I don't want to go beyond that because:
-your relation is his privacy and your privacy.-in our culture only bad people go into detail with other's marital relations and problems.
-I don't know your boyfriend personally and I am afraid that my directions may hurt him or you or your future possible situation.

With happy wishes,
Bektosh