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WestIndianGothiq ueGirl

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May 9, 2008
 
how many are out there? i am west indian and my auntie married a Turkish man. Do other Turkish men date outside of their ethnicity?
Alpin Turk

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May 10, 2008
 
NO. THE HELL

Turks dislike mixing at all. We date non-Turk women for a few months at that's all; after all, we go and take Turkish bride (often, from Turkey, Turks living in Europe).

Check stats of the Turks; we've all the records in Europe in non-interbreeding. We live in our quarters, we've our own Mosques (where you see only Turks), we've our own Restaurants, our own discos, bars,...

Turks hate mixing. As for me, I also date local girls, yet, I can't dare to bring one in front of my parent and say, "I want to marry her, make baby!!!"; Religion isn't important, same goes for Arabs.

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Canberra, Australia

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May 12, 2008
 

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so Alpin Turk
are you saying those western "girlfriends" turkish boys have are just flings?
charles darwin

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May 12, 2008
 
WestIndianGothiqueGirl wrote:
how many are out there? i am west indian and my auntie married a Turkish man. Do other Turkish men date outside of their ethnicity?
indians having the ancient wisdom most probably

will have no problem because anatolian living stile is not too much diffirent

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May 12, 2008
 
WestIndianGothiqueGirl wrote:
how many are out there? i am west indian and my auntie married a Turkish man. Do other Turkish men date outside of their ethnicity?
Do not care whatever others say. Yes, Turkish men and women DO date and marry foreign nationals.
Alpin Turk

Tubize, Belgium

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May 12, 2008
 

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Nura wrote:
so Alpin Turk
are you saying those western "girlfriends" turkish boys have are just flings?
Indeed.

Some Turkish guys have had to marry Sicilians here; it has dramatic story:
The guy intends to spend a few times, then after going to disco, they had sex. It was the first time for the girl.
Next day, the brothers of the girl comes and tell the guy "you keep her or we'll do necessary"!!!
I know 3 guys having had the same joke
So, I stay far from Med ppl.

Here, if you marry a Belgian or whatever being non-Turk, that's a shame for you and your family; other Turks laugh at you.
For more than 90% of the Turks, that's the same.

Moreover, in our Culture we marry only virgin girls. Expecting a Western girl being virgin after 16 years old is stupid.
So, 2-3 months it's good and enough.

Turks reject Islamized Westerners as well. It's why you don't see Germans converting Islam and marrying Turks (very scarce).
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May 12, 2008
 
Sweden is getting a lot of race mixed people. There are a lot of ugly Swedish girls that can't get laid that go to Greece/Turkey. There they have sex with the local people and often take them home to Sweden. These guys miss Greece/Turkey and go back after a couple of years. They get a kid with the ugly chicks.

The hot ones go to Spain/Italy with their boyfriends:P Girls outnumber Boys A LOT! It used to be 1 boy 5 girls. I worked as a cleaner in the hospital last year. All babies where girls! Where the hell does the boys go, I heard it's stress but it's scary.
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May 12, 2008
 

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are you kidding me, why would anybody wants to date turkish man?
Ali T

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May 13, 2008
 
reality wrote:
are you kidding me, why would anybody wants to date turkish man?
for great but non-commital sex!
I mean i`v`e had my share and not complaining at all...
in short i am all for dating any woman any nationality,religion,colour,cu lture,creed as long as they are clean,attractive ,billiard-ball shaven and not a cabbage in bed.

wow.. i feel good!
Ladyteacher

Istanbul, Turkey

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May 13, 2008
 
Alpin Turk wrote:
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Indeed.
Some Turkish guys have had to marry Sicilians here; it has dramatic story:
The guy intends to spend a few times, then after going to disco, they had sex. It was the first time for the girl.
Next day, the brothers of the girl comes and tell the guy "you keep her or we'll do necessary"!!!
I know 3 guys having had the same joke
So, I stay far from Med ppl.
Here, if you marry a Belgian or whatever being non-Turk, that's a shame for you and your family; other Turks laugh at you.
For more than 90% of the Turks, that's the same.
Moreover, in our Culture we marry only virgin girls. Expecting a Western girl being virgin after 16 years old is stupid.
So, 2-3 months it's good and enough.
Turks reject Islamized Westerners as well. It's why you don't see Germans converting Islam and marrying Turks (very scarce).
Those are your narrow-minded ideas living in Turkish Ghettoes abroad.
We are a very mixed people,not that is bad.
Besides you seem to forget that almost all Sultans' premier wives were of other ethnicities.

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Canberra, Australia

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May 13, 2008
 
Alpin Turk wrote:
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Indeed.
Some Turkish guys have had to marry Sicilians here; it has dramatic story:
The guy intends to spend a few times, then after going to disco, they had sex. It was the first time for the girl.
Next day, the brothers of the girl comes and tell the guy "you keep her or we'll do necessary"!!!
I know 3 guys having had the same joke
So, I stay far from Med ppl.
Here, if you marry a Belgian or whatever being non-Turk, that's a shame for you and your family; other Turks laugh at you.
For more than 90% of the Turks, that's the same.
Moreover, in our Culture we marry only virgin girls. Expecting a Western girl being virgin after 16 years old is stupid.
So, 2-3 months it's good and enough.
Turks reject Islamized Westerners as well. It's why you don't see Germans converting Islam and marrying Turks (very scarce).
And these are mostly boys from tourist destinations huh?

Under what grounds do they break up with the a girl, and what if the girl wanted the relationship to be serious?
you'd be in big trouble there....=]

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Canberra, Australia

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May 13, 2008
 
reality wrote:
are you kidding me, why would anybody wants to date turkish man?
Because a turkish man is like any other man.

Just come to turkey one day and you'll see what the hype is about...
willow

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May 13, 2008
 
Nura wrote:
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Because a turkish man is like any other man.
Just come to turkey one day and you'll see what the hype is about...
Yeah, to get beaten or intoxicated by garlic smell...

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May 13, 2008
 

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willow wrote:
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Yeah, to get beaten or intoxicated by garlic smell...
you see i come from a turk family, and ive never seen a beating - must be coz jealous people like you make it up bout our culture.
Theres beatings everywhere in the world so
dont put just the blame on Turkey =]

As for the garlic smell - wtf you on about?
the weed you take that makes you come up with stupid assumptions smells worse =]
Alpin Turk

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May 13, 2008
 
willow wrote:
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Yeah, to get beaten or intoxicated by garlic smell...
Here, Italians try to date Turks more than contrary.
Alpin Turk

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May 13, 2008
 
Ladyteacher wrote:
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Those are your narrow-minded ideas living in Turkish Ghettoes abroad.
We are a very mixed people,not that is bad.
Besides you seem to forget that almost all Sultans' premier wives were of other ethnicities.
If you go on to proceed such, we'll be a bastard Nation. My mother is partly Circassian (I'm from Giresun), it's not a matter. We should say:
"we've enough mixed".

I'm not Islamist or religious.

I live in "Turkish Ghetto" yes, half of the quarter where I live is also Belgian-Italian-Morrocan,... Turks in Belgium have a better integration then the ones in other countries.
Few mixing of Turks is with Italians, rest is very very rare.
For instance, I've never met a Turk with a Northern African Arab; it shows Turks are Racist.

We know language very well, we're quite integrated and get any job.
Alpin Turk

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May 13, 2008
 
Nura wrote:
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And these are mostly boys from tourist destinations huh?
Under what grounds do they break up with the a girl, and what if the girl wanted the relationship to be serious?
you'd be in big trouble there....=]
Are you Turk or a mixed one ?

Well, in Turkish Culture, when your girl marries a non-Turk girl, that's a terrible shame!

For guys, it could be more liberal, yes. Yet, it's isn't common. It overcomes racism.

Parents of the guy think "a Gavur (infidel) girl is unable to cook, to make everywhere clean,...". They also consider Turkish girls being born here as at the limit.

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so when Turkish guy + western guy. There is relationship. Then, when guy wants to break, he asks certain things that girl cannot operate (being more ..., acting like ...) and so, the Girl says "I act as I want", and then, Adios comrade.

I know many Turkish guys that have spent their times with girls here and when they were 31-32, they went to marry girls being 21-22 in Turkey!

A Turkish woman is the best; I recognize it too.

This is what happens with nearly 80% of the Turks. PPl from Aegean Coast (not all of course) are half-Greek so they don't have this point of view and mix with everything they see (Black, arabs; ...)
Alpin Turk

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May 13, 2008
 
The hell I've done mistakes!
When your girls marry non-Turk GUYS

Turkish guy + Western GIRL

sorry, don't take it bad

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May 13, 2008
 

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reality wrote:
are you kidding me, why would anybody wants to date turkish man?
no way fat cow.go and hang yourself!
Rose

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May 13, 2008
 
Alpin Turk wrote:
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Indeed.
Some Turkish guys have had to marry Sicilians here; it has dramatic story:
The guy intends to spend a few times, then after going to disco, they had sex. It was the first time for the girl.
Next day, the brothers of the girl comes and tell the guy "you keep her or we'll do necessary"!!!
I know 3 guys having had the same joke
So, I stay far from Med ppl.
Here, if you marry a Belgian or whatever being non-Turk, that's a shame for you and your family; other Turks laugh at you.
For more than 90% of the Turks, that's the same.
Moreover, in our Culture we marry only virgin girls. Expecting a Western girl being virgin after 16 years old is stupid.
So, 2-3 months it's good and enough.
Turks reject Islamized Westerners as well. It's why you don't see Germans converting Islam and marrying Turks (very scarce).
Western girls are not under pressure to remain virgins but there are still virgins around because women don't like to behave like men.

There are obviously some Turks who marry foreign women. When I was in Turkey, there was a guide who was married to a Western woman. There are also Turkish women who marry Western men.

People who object to marrying foreigners are probably mainly uneducated. People from backgrounds where an early marriage is expected will also be less likely to marry foreigners.
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