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Somali babe

El Monte, CA

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#165
Mar 22, 2012
 
How could anyone share their spouse. The thought of is unthinkable. To me men that are into that sort of thing are delusional, egocentric, highly have no respect for their spouse's feeling. And no the population of the world is pretty balanced, maybe some country. Stop using excuses like those to feed on women. How would you feel if your wife had boyfriend on the side exactly. She feels the exact emotions as you do. So hell no to spouse sharing.
Anon

Göteborg, Sweden

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#166
Mar 22, 2012
 
No, that would be horrible.
At least if i am going to have a arranged marriage then i want to be the first and only wife.
sara

Seattle, WA

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#169
Aug 5, 2012
 
one time my husband cheat on me so i kicked him out.and then come back to me saying that was a lie i never cheat on you so i let him come back home. i don no how these ladies alowing their husband to bring home another wifes. they should kicked them out those stupid mens
sara

Seattle, WA

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#170
Aug 5, 2012
 
some ladies they are cool with that but me hell no
S0mali

Belmont, CA

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#171
Aug 5, 2012
 
sara wrote:
one time my husband cheat on me so i kicked him out.and then come back to me saying that was a lie i never cheat on you so i let him come back home. i don no how these ladies alowing their husband to bring home another wifes. they should kicked them out those stupid mens
Sara, come down, come down. You appear to be a bit confused. How could you kick your very own husband just because you got suspicious about his activities, and then later on allow him to come back to the house as if he is alwaax meel la saaray! LOL. Anyways, not all men are alike to think alike; you don't make some sort of generalization here. Just let the fault be on your hubby and those who may have close mentality as him. Cheating is HARAM, and any Somali Muslim with an iota of sanity knows that. A wise man never cheats his beloved wife. He rather keeps his wife happy and treats her better than a king would entertain his wife. That is the botnn line.
Samadoon H

Etobicoke, Canada

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#172
Aug 5, 2012
 
SOMALIAN HONEY wrote:
God created more women than men and it is up to the Muslim men to take care of as much single women he can if he is able to do so financially. One thing i don’t like about some men who seek second or third wife’s is that they look for younger girls to marry instead of following the footsteps of Prophet Mohammed (SAW) he married women who really needed help in the home who were widows or needed emotion help. But these days especially Somali men they go through this middle age crisis and seek out to marry a younger girl to make them feel young.
So for my answer i would be willing to share my husband if he was doing it for the right intentions, meaning the same reasons Nabi Muhammed (SAW)did.
Mashallah, what a beautiful answer. I agree with you on the fact that they sometimes do it for sexual desires as opposed to doing it for the right cause.
JAMA

London, UK

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#173
Sep 29, 2013
 
Lacageey Lacag wrote:
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You're one of a kind wallaalo. 95% of Somali women that I have seen are vehemently against polygamy for some reason. Their sense of rational thinking seems to have been hijacked by jealousy, which isn't seriously a good sign. In a Blessed way though, you're way too different than most Somali women. I hope that some day, they'll see things like the way you do, Insha Allah.
May you be blessed in leading a fruitful life both in here in this world and the Hereafter....
mashallah.. WE NEED TO MEET THEN
JAMA

London, UK

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#174
Sep 29, 2013
 
mashallah. we need to meet inshallah.

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