why so many gays and lesbian now?

Charlie Blake wrote:

I beleive that everyone has the right to be, or do what they want as long as they are not harming anyone.

I agree, but what if they do harm to others? Let's talk about a marriage where one 6-10 years later decides they are gay and breaks off the marriage. Are they not to be held accountable? I mean that is a breach of contract, yes? What of the children of said marriage, should they have custody?

My personal theory about the apparent increase in homosexuality is overpopulation; Natures way of controlling reproduction.
It happens in nature so why not with man?

Unfortunately we as a society are ill equipped to deal with such a radical change, legally or morally. Hence the problems.

u know you homophobes can talk among yourselves.. consider me uninterested any more.. you can't possibly know what its like to fall in love with someone for being SOMEONE not something without any borders.. and Ididn't fall in love cause she was a deviation to nature but I just felt intense feelings for this person and I didn't then identify to lesbian or hetero.. I'd like to see you stop loving someone just cause society thinks its wrong for some 2000 year old book some GUY wrote!! til they let girls be popes .. I don't believe shit they wrote thx. cept for thou shall not kill lie or cheat . but then again they say jesus saved us and we're all imperfect and sinning so just be as we are and we are loved.as long as love is in our hearts and we mean good.

ps she and I don't emulate men or look like a man at all so there goes that theory of yours that we all do it. in fact it disgusts me but well that's another story.. and its sad that women feel like that they have to have one look like a guy to pass as acceptable or whatever reason they do this for I dunno.. I found myself without lesbian friends to influence me. if its not instinctual why did I feel strong feelings for a woman at work I was only mildly attracted to before?(although this perfume she wore seemed to trigger it)and well for ur INFORMATION if the human race was going to go extinct or I breed I'd help.. so wtf. as long as it didn't involve touching a man.. and another thing lesbians DO BREED!!!!!! they just use artificial methods of er... concieving... I bet ur all just intimidated by this cause you feel like one less woman open to you all geez.. get a grip

southern wrote:

I'm so sick of lesbians and gays,
I mean, im christian and I read the bible, and it shows that same sex is wrong, but people still find a way to flip things around for their benefit. The actually think it's right. It's as if they dont see how they are being led astray. I mean why would God create Adam and Eve and say be fruitful and multiply, if he meant for people to be gay or lesbian. We were created in Gods image right.
I just need to vent, because I see so many young girls dressing like guys, and dating girls that act like guys. I know nobody's born that way, I think it's the way a person is raised, and the lack of the right guidance that makes the difference. Not necessary children that never had a mom or a father, but the right families, ones that were morally right themselves. Like the bible says; train up a child in the way they should go and they wont depart when they're older. I think parents should explain this stuff to there kids from a young age and pray with them and for them.
I knew kids that acted gay or lesbian when they were children, but all that stuff was caught when they were young. I mean think about it like this, how did we learn about sex from an early age if it weren't from someone else, we surely didn't know about this stuff on our own. I hope God will reveal this stuff to people who are lost so they can know the truth. I know God did allow this to happen to people before in the bible when he gave them up to their own lusts, but he didn't create anyone to be homosexuals. But that's what alot of people in society think.

You have a narrow mind sorry to say. you sound insecure you are sound like a person ready to beat a gay or lesbian person on the head with the Bible. Southern you need to see the bigger picture the world is bigger than your zone. Im Christian i also believe homosexuality is wrong yet i have my questions for God about this matter so if you want to vent realease them towards your pastor becuase what your saying in here is not painting a positive picture rather condemning and judging others.

skot wrote:

No , some , i repeat some , isoltated incidences of "homosexual" behaviour has been seen in animals , during the frenzy of mating.
NO animal makes a 'lifestyle choice' of being "gay".
And human beings have a conscience.
So what if any of these vain people seem "happy" .
At what a terrible cost does their selfish "happiness" come !
Yes , this behaviour has been around for a long time , NOT since man first walked the face of the earth , but so has murder and theft.
It is most definitely NOT "part of nature". It is only "part of nature" in that the human disposition towards sin is 'part of nature', or that disease is 'part of nature'.
Our moral impulse , our Divine connection , our deeper soul , far outweighs the temptation of foul , divisive sin , though !
"lesbianism/homosexuality " has indeed been around for a long time , but always , and only , amongst the jaded elite , at the end of civilisations......we have never had a more 'affluent' society than now......this behaviour has never been more rampant than now....
"lesbianism/homosexuality " are the most insidious sins corrupting humanity today.
The harmonious , soulful union of Man and Woman is the truth.For everyone.
,Skot

Bull shit, honestly.
have you ever met a homosexual?
have you really, because for some reason i think that you haven't. I believe that that is the problem with society today. Lack of sympathy, in the way that people no longer, well have never really put themselves in other peoples shoes. If you actually have a conversation with a homosexual, you would realize that they cannot help it. It is just who they are. Of course we do have a conscience but that does not mean that we cannot love and care deeply for a person of the same gender. When a"gay" (and i put this word in brackets as it has been used as a way to "tag" homosexuals) person comes out of the closet they are not making the decision to be homosexual they are telling people that they are, that they are now and that they have been. many of these people have been shamed by their families and friends, loved ones and those who knew them for coming out of the closet, they say " why would he/she be so selfish to do this to us... " but realistically they are not the ones being selfish, the family and friends and those putting them down are, those people are being selfish they are putting their own preferences of the way that people should be over the happiness of a person.
I have homosexual friends that have been forced to go to conservative churches with homosexual "fixing" classes in which they are told that they will burn in hell and die if they do not change their ways. The thing is that if you look in the bible it clearly says that God made man in his own likeness. Therefore why would he make something in his own likeness that he did not approve of, God loves us regardless of what our sexual preference is. These friends that i have, will never return to church as they know that they will be frowned and looked down upon for being, well themselves.
People need to look deeply within themselves and realize that homosexuals are just like us, there is nothing wrong with them, in fact in a way they are better as they are more accepting of others.
Yes sometimes when pride parade floats come by where two gay guys are basically fornicating i do think that it is a little over board, but a messages being made. a message of the fact that homosexuals will always be here because it IS a part of nature, and they just are.
by the way to the comment that homosexuality is only seen in animals during mating is not true,i don't know if your closed mined brain is aware of the fact that there are three mammals that mate for pleasure, humans, dolphins, and chimps. and in all these three mammals homosexuality is found, both during and after mating season.
jonathan a
and just for your knowledge i am not "gay", but i do support my friends that are. I love and cherish them.

clifford pier wrote:

Psychologically, are they really happy?

i serioulsy feel we should not encourage such behaviour..think about this..one your son comes up to you and say " Dad, i like this boy, he's so cute!! and i guess it's ok to like a boy cos everyone else is like that.." friend i tell you, i can assure you that you will jump to your grave...

JaSan wrote:

<quoted text>You have a narrow mind sorry to say. you sound insecure you are sound like a person ready to beat a gay or lesbian person on the head with the Bible. Southern you need to see the bigger picture the world is bigger than your zone. Im Christian i also believe homosexuality is wrong yet i have my questions for God about this matter so if you want to vent realease them towards your pastor becuase what your saying in here is not painting a positive picture rather condemning and judging others.

Friends...LOVE the PEOPLE, CONDEMN the ACT.

Good to see some support for my words here , and vitally , support for , and belief in , what is right , from Charlie Blake and Southern , and some others.

I have started , unfortunately , to become used to the hysterical tirades , offensive profanity , insults , putdowns and , extremely , narrow minded "defence" of their , alleged , "open mindedness" by those so arrogant as to get into "same sex" "lifestyles".......s o , some agreement with the truth is heartwarming.

I have wondered as well , is it the pollution in the air , the toxins in the food , causing this cancer of "lesbianism" and "homosexuality" ?
Maybe , but , essentially , it is affluence , and selfish arrogance.

Some not so good , to put it one way , responses though , as well.
'annoyed lesbian'........Firstly , no-one "is" a "lesbian"....this vanity does not make you into a superior lifeform.
And , what right do you have to be 'annoyed'?
You are committing this depravity !
'Funny' to , that your "love without borders" which you boast of , is actually very strictly limited to the borders of only your own gender.

Jonathan A - Yes , I've met , interacted with , discussed with , "argued" with , and been insulted by, people who are being "homosexual" , and they are, all , arrogant , and insensitively conceited.....and often , alarmingly , in a manner thinly veiled by 'hip''sophistication'.

NO animals 'mate' with their own gender as a 'lifestyle'!
ALL animals mate with the other gender.
Some chimps eat their own excrement , are you advocating we do that as well , Jonathan ?
A dog might 'hump' a persons leg , should we all go around doing that , Jonathan.

A real friend , would advise their friends against such a 'choice'.
You , foolishly ,say they are "better" , because 'they' are "more accepting" of others , Jonathan ?
Find out 'accepting' "they" are of the lowly "others" with 'their' "women only" , or "men only" nightclubs , with "lesbiatopia" and "herstory" websites , with "i like pussy" or "i kiss girls" blogrings with cold , callous rejection of those from , what is meant to be , their complimentary gender , with saying that men are "gross" , "disgusting" , "think with their dicks" , while then going on to boast of how many "pussies they fuck" , or "girls they get".
No , "homosexuality" and "lesbianism" entirely come frome the most wicked vanity , the worst of exaggerated egos they are NOT 'victims', they are NOT oppressed.
On the contrary , the people who get into these lifestyles are the oppressors , they seek to oppress everything good and natural.

This "pride" you talk about , Jonathan , is part of the problem.
And , as smug as they are , Jonathan, these people must , at least , feign "acceptance" of others......I mean , some people have to continue doing all the actual hard work in society , and keep having the babies.
And 'they' "accept" these "others" , whilst also doing what they can to get them to "change teams" , and feeling no , apparent , qualms about it , right ?
But that is all presented now as "o.k." , as "allright" , because society is now "open"(?), and the times have "changed"(??)

Morality NEVER changes.
Yes , Antony Lim , we should , and I do , love the people , and condemn the act.
These people are ordinary people , who have made the worst decision.
We must condemn these acts , but not just leave things in a state of vague limbo.
Muted "tolerance" , meek "acceptance" these offensive 'choices' only encourages them , only invites more people to run off and join the 'party'.

We must condemn , and judge , and punish , these acts.

There is a soulful , natural , harmonious way , that all women and men are meant to live.

sincerely,

SKOT