why are nigerian men such liars,cheats and womanisers???

i will try to contain myself for now and tell you why i am asking this question

i am nigerian but born and bred in london. many nigerian guys come here and i have had the misfortune of falling prey to their lies and selfish ways too many times. i am only 22 but will now avoid them like the plague. i know many guys mess girls around but nigerian guys actually have a saying that goes 'women like to be lied too'.
is that not just evil?

i don't get it. this is not an unfair generalisation- i have seen and heard too much. only 4% of nigerian men have a concience. they make me sick and it makes me soo sad to say that.

and asn for the ones who claim to born again christian - well they are the worst so beware.

i want an answer to the question. i don't want people talking PC shite like 'treat them as individuals' because i am too intelligent to ask a uestion like this and not KNOW what i am talking about.

for the few nigerian men out there that have good hearts then i apologise, but this is directed at your mates and brothers

Time to bash nigerian men again, Well they derserve it,why dont they stop cheating, lying and scamming. they are just wicked people the worse people in Africa,They travel to England or the US, to work and make money to send back home to their wives yes wives, as most of them have more than one. I dont have a problem with them working hard to better themself, but while they are here, they pick on inocent women knowing they will never make a commitment to any of them. they lie to them and cheat on them and intimidate them. The worse are the men who use going to church as an excuse to go off and fu** other women, we must be on our guard at all times to ensure our emotional survival. otherwise they will crush you and leave you broken.any nigerian man you come in contact with run a mile, if on the other hand you only want sex and no commitment, then enjoy and get rid,they are the best when it comes to sucking the pu*sy

daisy wrote:

Time to bash nigerian men again, Well they derserve it,why dont they stop cheating, lying and scamming. they are just wicked people the worse people in Africa,They travel to England or the US, to work and make money to send back home to their wives yes wives, as most of them have more than one. I dont have a problem with them working hard to better themself, but while they are here, they pick on inocent women knowing they will never make a commitment to any of them. they lie to them and cheat on them and intimidate them. The worse are the men who use going to church as an excuse to go off and fu** other women, we must be on our guard at all times to ensure our emotional survival. otherwise they will crush you and leave you broken.any nigerian man you come in contact with run a mile, if on the other hand you only want sex and no commitment, then enjoy and get rid,they are the best when it comes to sucking the pu*sy

At least they are good at something. Why not give them credit for what they are good at. Must every relationship end up in commitment? What do you have to offer Nigerian men or what have you offered them?

YES o this is so true. Nigerian men are naturally dishonest! African men in general are naturally dishonest. They will look you into your eyes and LIE like there is NO tomorrow and feel NO REMORSE! Actually all men do it, but Nigerian men are best at it. Hands down. They are so 'christian' so you wouldn't expect it. They are also the most manipulative and conniving and sneaky, secretive, CALCULATING SOB's! the ONLY good one I have EVER known is my daddy! My daddy isn't like that, he is a heaven-sent man, a gem and a blessing. However my BOYFRIEND fits this description. Yes Nigerian men LIE.

What the Hell. Men are known in general to be dishonest, let alone a Nigerian man.

Normally you should be able to detect an dishonest person a mile of. and if Nigerian men are dishonest liars and cheats, then what does that say about the millions of partners whose stay with them for so long..........

When people make assumptions like this, it is usually down to the fact they have been hurt,but when you where enjoying the free benefits of there so called dishonesty, you weren't so concerned about were there money was coming from......

it s unfair to say that Nigerians men and women are dishonest.......Because this is found in a lot of different countries, your just not aware of it.

Besides woman will always complain about the same thing as other women.........AND like wise men.

this is also true of where you meet people if you meet people in trashy places then you are going to meet trashy people.

I'm slow to make racial generalizations, I've been hearing this for many years and always took it with a grain of salt, because it just seemed blatantly racist. I can now say that from my experience it's true. The nigerian men I've met are liars, not only that, they were highly manipulative rude and selfish. They made deception an art. There's a formula that many of them use. They will tell you they feel like they know you, they think they've seen you somewhere else before. Within a week they will tell you they're madly in love with you. They will play up the ‘fact’ that they’re Christians, they will tell you they’re lonely and it’s been so long since they dated they can’t even remember how long. nigerian men are skanky gold diggers. Thieves and liars. They are quick to use verbal and physical violence. And they DO know better! Usually their parents are religious and strict! The only time you'll see a nigerian man controlling himself is when his boss is watching or he's around older family members. nigerian men play with, use and abuse non-nigerian women and then marry but continue to cheat on the nigerian woman they marry and introduce to their family. I thought the negativity about nigerian men was racisim. I've been hearing the same things about them and experienced enough to know now that Nigerian men are scum of the earth. They're not men, they're devils. Reptiles. Don't trust them, do not trust them. They are very very skillful liars because they have no conscience. They don’t deserve a capital N because they are all lower case non-human beings nigerian criminal scumbags. If a nigerian devil tries to talk to you, pretend not to see him. Who is the guy that put me off nigerians for life? He's 29, physically fit but mentally sick, lives in Atlanta hates his mother, and thinks all of his ex-girlfriends are bitches.(I know, right? What happened to the "I've been so lonely for so long sob story" . I hope to heaven he f's off back up north to where ever the hell he moved here from. Then, perhaps the south can begin to heal.

I can hear the bitterness in your tone. It appears you've been bitten by a Nigerian Man. So what? Since then, have you tried men from other countries? You're still lonely. You have absolutely nothing good to say about Nigerian men. What attracted you to him in the first place? And what did you offer him? Nigerian men are the BEST, any day and any time. Sorry to hear about your experience with a Nigerian man.

Nigerian guys are big peace of s**t.They are lying and scaming deviles.Stay a way from them if you don`t wonna get hurt.

ana wrote:

Nigerian guys are big peace of s**t.They are lying and scaming deviles.Stay a way from them if you don`t wonna get hurt.

If Nigerian guys are what you called them, how come you're always after them. Can you count how many times you've been jilted by them.

HEE HEE HEE.

There is dishonesty every where, I am a firm believer that if you mingle with trash, your going to get trash..........

I have been with Nigerian men and I can honstly say they have never been disrespectful or mistreated me in any way shape or form......

I make sure that the man I am dealing with (That includes Nigerian) is truthful and honest....

When you go to meet someone for the first time you need to be aware of certain things..........

If a man is doing something that doesn't ring true then you need to either investigate or get rid of him immediately..........

the last thing you want is to find out months down the line that the man you where dating wasn't what you thought he was..........

Women have to be smart, if you stay with someone for so long knowing full well he is dodgy.........

Then I am afraid that you are just as bad as they are..........

A lot of you complain that these Nigerian men are so bad, but when they are spraying and lavishing you with material goods, you don't turn it down.

So unless you women wise up then you will continue to be used and abused.

besides I can only suggest that the rotten eggs within the Nigerian society must be of low calibre......

Because no real Nigerian man would stoop so low to behave in that kind of manner.

The one nigerian man I met was studying to be an accountant. We went for a drink, he asked if I had a boyfriend and I said I didn't want one at the moment. Everything was going fine until I said goodbye to him and tried to catch a taxi. He insisted that he should come back to my place (he said his own was off-limits because my presence would disturb his flatmate). When I said "no" he stormed off, leaving me on the sidewalk.

The next time he contacted me, at 11am on a weekday, he demanded to come to my flat, where I was working from home, for sex. He tried playing mind games and saying I was neglecting him. I told him "no way". None of this behavior stopped him lecturing me about "God".

I agree with Remi that women have a responsibility to cut contact with men who treat them badly. I was dumb enough to see him just once more, asking him if he wanted to go for a drink. He waited till I got there, then whined about how he hadn't wanted to go to the pub, and how difficult he was finding it to suppress himself sexually. The minute we were away from the public eye he tried to jump me. He grabbed me violently twice more that night before I finally got it that he would never change.

It's not for me to say how typical he was of Nigerian culture, but truly, he was one of the most selfish and unpleasant people I've met.

Good for you "LANDO"..........

What a major A hole he was. at least you got away from him.

Lando wrote:

The one nigerian man I met was studying to be an accountant. We went for a drink, he asked if I had a boyfriend and I said I didn't want one at the moment. Everything was going fine until I said goodbye to him and tried to catch a taxi. He insisted that he should come back to my place (he said his own was off-limits because my presence would disturb his flatmate). When I said "no" he stormed off, leaving me on the sidewalk.
The next time he contacted me, at 11am on a weekday, he demanded to come to my flat, where I was working from home, for sex. He tried playing mind games and saying I was neglecting him. I told him "no way". None of this behavior stopped him lecturing me about "God".
I agree with Remi that women have a responsibility to cut contact with men who treat them badly. I was dumb enough to see him just once more, asking him if he wanted to go for a drink. He waited till I got there, then whined about how he hadn't wanted to go to the pub, and how difficult he was finding it to suppress himself sexually. The minute we were away from the public eye he tried to jump me. He grabbed me violently twice more that night before I finally got it that he would never change.
It's not for me to say how typical he was of Nigerian culture, but truly, he was one of the most selfish and unpleasant people I've met.

Oh that's sad. I'm glad you got away from him

my wish in 2009 is to castrate all nigerian men. mute them like dog

tektime wrote:

my wish in 2009 is to castrate all nigerian men. mute them like dog

Can you hear yourself generalizing your statement about castrating yourself... instead of Nigerian men, I reject it in Jesus Name. It's quit a pity that very few Nigerian men bring bad name and image to the rest of the good ones. I bet you, you cannot do without Nigerian men. I am sure, they made a difference in your life. Who are you dating now and where is that person from. Is he or she any better?

This thread has brought tears to my eyes, it reminded me of what I went through with my nigerian man a couple of years ago. I thought my heartbreak would never end, it took me almost 2 years to get over it, 2 years of my life wasted on a man who realy didnt care, and the same person he cheated on me for is now in that same position, her heartache has just began, but I forgive them both, and I pray that her pain dont last as long as mine did.
to think of how nigerian men are hurting so many of us ladies.Well ladies it is a new year 2009, so just live your life right and all will be fine, remember you are all beautiful ladies so for the men who had you and cheated, hurt, dis-respected, dumped, lied, played, cuss, abussed and used you, they are all lossers, and their time is comming in 2009, but ladies your are just about to start blooming, so make a special effort in 2009 to take care of yourself, treat yourself, get yourself fit, go to the gym or start walking, give yourself a new hair do, loose some weight, especially if you nigerian man like you fat,do your nail, what ever make you feel good do it, but if you love your body and yourself the way you are then walk tall hold your head up and smile a lot in 2009 and when your prince comes along you will wonder why you ever settled for that ugly nigerian toad sho broke your heart instead of that strong good looking, honest, respectable,caring, loving, sweet nigerian prince looking for his queen. My wish for all you beautifull ladies in 2009 is tht God gives you 1 year of peace, 12 months of happiness, 52 weeks of love, 365 days of success, 8760 hours of good health, 52600 minutes of good luck, 3153600 seconds of joy. stay blessed and love yourselves. I did and I found peace, happiness, love, success, good health, luck and joy all in the same year, now I looking for a repeat this year.

You ladies cannot get enough of Nigerian men because of what they have to offer. They are the best any day and any time. If you cannot take the heat, you better get out and shut up. "heartbreaking" how did you end up the Nigerian man and what are the good qualities in him? Non of you selfish girls have ever said anything good about the things that the Nigerian men have to offer; losers

Honest Truth wrote:

You ladies cannot get enough of Nigerian men because of what they have to offer. They are the best any day and any time. If you cannot take the heat, you better get out and shut up. "heartbreaking" how did you end up the Nigerian man and what are the good qualities in him? Non of you selfish girls have ever said anything good about the things that the Nigerian men have to offer; losers

I wonder myself. I've dated alot of Nigerian guys and i've never had any of them cheat on me. I had an African-American cheat on me but you don't see me running around blaming every African-American because of that idiot.
I guess this girls have bad luck with Naija guys or something, oh well. I pray it never happens to me.

Nigerian men in the UK have nothing to offer but big dicks. Most are illegal with fake papers. The Home Office is catching up with you. Sleep with one eye open or you may find yourself back in rat infested Lagos!

Nigerian men will never change all cons, liars, cheats