cheaters

men believes that they are the best in cheating games but i bet differ, women are the smart cheaters. although men has the tendencies to cheat than women. people what says ye?

Never have done. Never will. Cheating is lame.

i know but it does happen. we've seen it everywhere, talk shows, friends, neighbours, family, howeveer, my point is that although people play people, especially men do think they are the master of the game player have you see the games that men plays,

Nigerian men are the worse for cheating and leading double lives,I know I have been the victim. the only thing that would let me go out with another nigeria man, is because they are experts at oral sex and realy know how to please they women, if I had another nigerian man it would be just for him to suck me, nothing more no falling in love, no commentment. just oral sex

Thank You,Let them say..for starting this forum...a place to exspress some of the painful emotional suffering and loss that some women feel after loosing someone they love. It is such a brutal feeling,undescribable...when the guy all at once.... lies,cheats,takes advantage,and has the nerve to walk away from your future with him so easily!It makes a woman insane with anger,sick...Then depressed and weepy.Some try to go on with new goals,new boyfriends...but if you truly loved him...its as bad as loosing any dear loved one. The men who commit these crimes of the heart must understand how the way they do things like that can devastate a woman. My Sisters,I feel for you...it will get better.Im Praying for you..peace

peace is there such a thing as peace, how can one get over something like that and have peace, it has made me hard and I just want to find ways of making him pay. I want revenge, and I will not stop giving him and his woman a hard time, she knew he was with me because he told her and he keep promising her he would leave me, he never had no intention of leaving me, if I had not found out, he would still be leading a double life. cos he was such a good liar, still telling me he loved me, and still spending a lot of time with me, promising me he wasnt cheating on me,the mistake he made was when he run out of credit, he used her phone to call me.now I got her number Im going to make the two of them wish they had never known me.

girlfriend you need to let go and move on. Forgive them so you can set yourself free

broken hearted wrote:

Nigerian men are the worse for cheating and leading double lives,I know I have been the victim. the only thing that would let me go out with another nigeria man, is because they are experts at oral sex and realy know how to please they women, if I had another nigerian man it would be just for him to suck me, nothing more no falling in love, no commentment. just oral sex

Why are you picking on Nigerian men, you must have enjoyed what he was doing to you, now you are not happy, Nigerian men are the greatest lovers, even with they cheat.

Broken hearted wrote:

peace is there such a thing as peace, how can one get over something like that and have peace, it has made me hard and I just want to find ways of making him pay. I want revenge, and I will not stop giving him and his woman a hard time, she knew he was with me because he told her and he keep promising her he would leave me, he never had no intention of leaving me, if I had not found out, he would still be leading a double life. cos he was such a good liar, still telling me he loved me, and still spending a lot of time with me, promising me he wasnt cheating on me,the mistake he made was when he run out of credit, he used her phone to call me.now I got her number Im going to make the two of them wish they had never known me.

Let me tell you,what you are doing wont change the fact that he is with her.He cant take that back,and you cant make it go away.Now listen..what you can change is that you are still giving him the power to hurt you.Let him have his lady friend honey,you have let it be known that three's a crowd...go your own way and dont look back.The tears will dry eventually.The losses hopefully will never happen again if you have learned from this.You will continue to replay the whole thing over and over if you dont walk to the mirror,look at yourself,and say it,say it... its done.Its finished,its over.Scream it,cry it out...write it on paper over and over again until it sinks deep down where it should be and then start to let go of what hurts you.It takes love and respect for yourself to let go.Get rid of all the ties to him,one by one.If no kids are involved,Thank God and move on.Never dial his number again. And dont worry about her "prize".He will show his colors again and she will remember you and it will make her sick. Believe me..she knows already...she has it in the back of her head that it may happen to her.So {SHE} has no peace,let them go out of your life and you will have peace and strength,and respect for yourself!GOODLUCK

Its easy for people to say move on I have been trying to move on and get on with my life for 11 months now, and the pain is still there, the sleepless night are still thereat first I turned to drink, then it got so bad I had to have anti depressants and sleeping pills. Just when I though the crying was over and I was starting to get over the loneliness and getting myself back together, he showed up and started telling me we can be friends because he don’t hate me, I tried to get rid of him but he kept on.
He must have gone back and told his woman he saw me, so the bitch phoned me to tell me to leave her man alone. I just wanted to kick her arse. I have been trying to break free but the ties won’t break.
I kept all his text mssg and read them over and over again to see if there was any hint that he was cheating. And I found nothing but loving messages.
Someone told me I am SOUL TIED to him and I need to seek prayer to break that bondage,

Does anyone out there know anything about Soul Ties?

I experience this last year. when I met a wonderful Nigerian man. I truly lost my mind believing I found my true love, Later I realized he lied to me and was married. I felt like my whole world shattered. i thought we were to get married, have children and be together forever...well, he felt otherwise. I had to find some strength and was able to go out with some friends., i still love him. Unfortunately I never thought I would be able to move. On he HURT me!! not by leaving me but by lying, lying amongst other things that ate at my soul and spirit...I felt absolutely worthless. It disturbed me, for a long time, then I finally forgot about him, until one day his image popped up in my head again and my body shivered profoundly just thinking of him. I swear, it was being like under a spell. I did some really crazy things to see him; I would phone him in the middle of the night just to hear his voice, and then hang up.. I believed it was true love. I felt like I had to do anything to be with him,. It’s hard for me to look back on the past 6 months. I can't believe how I went off the deep-end. I had to get someone to pray for me so I could be release from him. And now, I still think about him, but less and much less desperately but finally, I feel and believe, I will love again...maybe this time it will be healthier, better and with someone who will respect me.
So my friend get rid of his messages and don’t phone him anymore as for the woman, when he does the same thing to her and believe me he will, she will feel even more pain than you. ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT

Broken hearted wrote:

Its easy for people to say move on I have been trying to move on and get on with my life for 11 months now, and the pain is still there, the sleepless night are still thereat first I turned to drink, then it got so bad I had to have anti depressants and sleeping pills. Just when I though the crying was over and I was starting to get over the loneliness and getting myself back together, he showed up and started telling me we can be friends because he don’t hate me, I tried to get rid of him but he kept on.
He must have gone back and told his woman he saw me, so the bitch phoned me to tell me to leave her man alone. I just wanted to kick her arse. I have been trying to break free but the ties won’t break.
I kept all his text mssg and read them over and over again to see if there was any hint that he was cheating. And I found nothing but loving messages.
Someone told me I am SOUL TIED to him and I need to seek prayer to break that bondage,
Does anyone out there know anything about Soul Ties?

Honey, its not worth giving him the credit for it. Don’t phone him or his new girlfriend anymore. He cheated on you He LOST . YOU WON now you can move on and find someone who deserves your love, not some low life jerk who u wasted YOUR time on. Because now you’re free to get a life, seriously, if u love a person with all your heart and they think it wise to cheat on you and leave you then they really don’t know what they’re doing.. Good luck to them! It just goes to show that they weren’t meant for you, that they didn’t deserve what u had to give, not one single little bit. You’re worth a lot more than that. It hurts a lot right now, but in time you’ll look back and realize he was really nothing. in time, you will find someone who loves u for who you are and accept everything u have to offer, and you’ll look back and laugh and tell yourself that you ARE glad he cheat because his new girlfriend will feel more hurt and pain than you. Did. You, know that you're so much better off… for now, stay strong, keep smiling.. Someone might just be falling in love with your smile

Broken hearted wrote:

Its easy for people to say move on I have been trying to move on and get on with my life for 11 months now, and the pain is still there, the sleepless night are still thereat first I turned to drink, then it got so bad I had to have anti depressants and sleeping pills. Just when I though the crying was over and I was starting to get over the loneliness and getting myself back together, he showed up and started telling me we can be friends because he don’t hate me, I tried to get rid of him but he kept on.
He must have gone back and told his woman he saw me, so the bitch phoned me to tell me to leave her man alone. I just wanted to kick her arse. I have been trying to break free but the ties won’t break.
I kept all his text mssg and read them over and over again to see if there was any hint that he was cheating. And I found nothing but loving messages.
Someone told me I am SOUL TIED to him and I need to seek prayer to break that bondage,
Does anyone out there know anything about Soul Ties?

It is very common for a soul tie to be formed between lovers, when you break up with someone they leave a piece or themselves behind and take a piece of you with them, although you are not together, you constantly think of him. You need to stop communicating with this man and his new girlfriend, and you also have to delete all his messages and get rid of anything he gave you, then you have to forgive them for what they did to you and let go. It is easy to break these ties, though, we need not fear. make a list of anyone you think you may have a soul tie with, friends, business partners, and former sexual partners and break any unholy soul ties that may have been formed by Satan. There is no need to worry about destroying healthy ties God has formed with anyone. We are asking God only to destroy any evil ties that have been made. All you need to do now is to pray this pray, and believe, then you can start rebuilding your life again.

Dear Heavenly Father, I want to glorify You in all that I do. Please bring to my mind, by the power of the Holy Spirit, the name of any person whom I need to break soul ties with.. I ask, God, in Jesus' name, that You would break and destroy any unholy soul tie that was made between myself and (person's name).(Repeat for each person).

Once you have done this you will be free, leave your ex and his new lover to reap what they sow,.cheating, unhappiness, unfaithfulness, heartache. And Sweetheart stop referring to yourself as broken hearted. God bless you, you sound like a wonderful woman and there is a wonderful man waiting out there for you.

all ya sisters seem to have gone through a bad time, are they any bros out there to explain to us why men like to cheat so much. I was with a guy for 5 years and I cheated on him b4 he done it to me, he had no idea I was 2timming him, in the end I dumped him and Im still with my lover 4 years later eith a lovely little boy, you c if we as women dont play them aat they own game they eill shit on us and dump us. the way I see it get in there first.good luck 2 u all

why do we have to put up with cheats. girls stop alowing urself to get involve with such guys,

I GOT STUNG 3 TIME AND NEVA AGAIN, the first guy I was with was married and cheating on his wife, when I found out I was so hurt, I had to tell him I cannot be responsible for the break up of his marriage, so I told him to get lost, then the next one only lasted 6 months, befor I found loads of text messages on his phone, he was sending the same message to me and another girl, finilla I though I found the man of my dreams, another cheater, do I have muggings written on my forehead.All 3 guys was from lagos, Iam a west indian girl who just love Nigerian men, but is there any good ones out there who dont cheat or lie. They promise me the world, they are romantic, loving, good in bed, treat me like a lady, the list of good things is endless, but they are all fucking cheats liars and con men WHY?... please can someone tell me why? I dont want to cuss them, but all the good things they do anre outweight by they selfishness, maybe if they didnt't have dicks, life would be sweet with them. please if there are any decent guys out there get in touch with me, I love Nigerians,my princes in shinning armour, pleas guys stop cheating on us ladies, and we can realy show you how much we can love you

men cheat cos ladies cant satisfy us sexually and emotionally and women moan to much and accuse u of things that u have not done.so we go out there and do it. you need to stop nagging and bitching and learn to submit to your man, take care of him, he is the king.so start treating us like one

also until women hold there corner and do what they are told to do the world will be a better place!

topnotch wrote:

men cheat cos ladies cant satisfy us sexually and emotionally and women moan to much and accuse u of things that u have not done.so we go out there and do it. you need to stop nagging and bitching and learn to submit to your man, take care of him, he is the king.so start treating us like one
also until women hold there corner and do what they are told to do the world will be a better place!

you are having a laugh, what planet do you form

Broken hearted wrote:

peace is there such a thing as peace, how can one get over something like that and have peace, it has made me hard and I just want to find ways of making him pay. I want revenge, and I will not stop giving him and his woman a hard time, she knew he was with me because he told her and he keep promising her he would leave me, he never had no intention of leaving me, if I had not found out, he would still be leading a double life. cos he was such a good liar, still telling me he loved me, and still spending a lot of time with me, promising me he wasnt cheating on me,the mistake he made was when he run out of credit, he used her phone to call me.now I got her number Im going to make the two of them wish they had never known me.

I recently have been in a relationship with a Nigerian man it only lasted for a few months, I was seeing him and speaking to him on the phone, but we didn’t get into anything physical until 5 months after we met, I wanted to be sure he wasn’t married or had a girlfriend. I also wanted to get to know him better, he was a wonderful man, took me to lunch and dinner regular, cinema. and to shows., he treated me like a lady, when we go more involve we started spending a lot of time together, I either stayed at his place or he stayed at mine.
It was the best time of my life; I’d always heard that West African men were the best in bed. But there were also other stereotypes, especially about Nigerians, many believe them to be big-time insensitive and self-centred liars and they are seen to value material possession and money over all else…

I never found my guy to be like this, It is stressing being in a relationship whereby at the back of one’s head you are anticipating the materialization of these stereotypes, meaning while enjoying the moment you are really worrying about if he really means the “I love you”, the “you are soooo sweet” or the “I want to be with you forever” declarations. I fell in love with this man and felt a strong commitment to be his wife….forever. We discussed and considered marriage. 3 months later things turned out different. Whereas in the beginning we spent a lot of time together, he started telling me he had to go and help his brother do things in the country,

Or he was at church, or his auntie needed help to move. On checking his mobile phone, I found lots of messages to different ladies, I tackled him about this, but he lied. One night I phoned him a woman picked up his phone, and said he was busy and couldn’t talk to me. I tried to think it was his auntie, but realise 2 days later it was his girlfriend he had been seeing for about 2 months that means we were only together sexually for 1 month before he started cheating. I just wanted to die, eventually he dumped me and moved in with her, now he doesn’t talk to me and I am in such a state, I felt I wanted to die. The pain Im feeling is so bad, I think Nigerian men will do anything to have a good time, even at the expense of others, but in the end they would like to end up with a submissive and devout Nigerian wife.

So while there might be some truth that Nigerian men are good in sex (maybe that is the only thing they are good at, there is also some truth in that they are liars, cheats, fraudsters that ruins people lives. I just would like to know why the Nigerian man is such an inconsiderate calculative lying pig. Broken hearted, I know what you are going through I am at the same point in my life as you, and I know I have to try and get over it, but reading your story made me relise I am not the only one going through this.

For all you women who have written your story on this forum, and have been been cheated on by a nigerian man, Im sure youre not from nigeria or you would know how to deal with our men.
Nigerian men are romantic" and loveable until they get you into bed, it could take 1 month 6 months or even a year, they will not stop trying. But once you sleep with them, that’s it they will stay with you for a while and then its on to romancing the next lady and get her into bed also, if you know they are cheating and want to stay with them pretend you don’t know and carry on staying with them, but I’m sure you all have too much self respect to do that. But that’s how it works; they can be with up to 4 women and still treat them like they are the only one. As long as the women don’t find out about each other or complain. If you do Then these guys will get the women to abuse each other on the phone and the best one will win so he will dump the losers. Unlucky for you ladies it was you. Who lost But don’t worry it will not stop there cos the winner will eventually become a loser, as he starts his hunt again to add to his list. So what every you do make sure you don’t let him talk you into having unprotected sex, with him as you can pick up an STD from them. They are very clever, they make sure they please their women in bed by giving wonderful oral sex, that is how they get you hooked. Don’t be fooled by this ladies...They can be the best men on earth, as long as u wiling to do anything they say. They like to be in charge sometimes without even caring 'bout your feelings, just because they feel that's what it is to be a "man".
when it comes to cheating, NIGERIAN MEN ARE NUMBER1 CHEATS AND LIARS. Yes I said it and won't take back my words! Where a
a Nigerian man is concerned you must be very respectful, know how to cook be very submissive to him. If u can do all these and believe all his lies as well, then u'll have the best relationship ever.

be careful with NIGERIAN MEN and I mean it. Most of the time they're with you, because of what they can get from you.
I may not have sounded encouraging but ladies, ya need to hear the truth from a Nigerian Woman.