nigerian men

What are your views on naija men? if im totally being honest, the majority of them are nasty filthy stingy slimeballs that will only marry to stay in this country. they are heartless inconsiderate slobs that have no manors and do not treat women properly. they are stereotypical baggers that do not want women to work but instead stay at home and slave away on cooking perfect pounded yam with egusi soup. im a nigerian woman born and raised in london and nigerian men just make my blood boil. the way they carry on with their womanising shyte just makes me wanna vomit. that is how much i dispise nigerian men. they are nice lukin men dnt get me wrong (esp the igbos) but they are vile with a capital V.

thank you my sister go on girl power to the people nigeria men are piece of shit who speak jiberish and think stinkingly but loook fine especially the yorubas but honestly i think our mothers culture and some women who cant stand on thier own leg are the one who empower these foolsand allowing them to get away with murders. i hate comments like 'you know he's a man' so he's allowed to fart on every woman and forget his manner. They have forgoten that women gave birth to them arse whole

Ladies, pretty strong words to qulify nigeria men.
some of us are not as bad.lets keep it clean a little bit. Nigeria men include good decent people that treat their wives with respect.

let them say wrote:

thank you my sister go on girl power to the people nigeria men are piece of shit who speak jiberish and think stinkingly but loook fine especially the yorubas but honestly i think our mothers culture and some women who cant stand on thier own leg are the one who empower these foolsand allowing them to get away with murders. i hate comments like 'you know he's a man' so he's allowed to fart on every woman and forget his manner. They have forgoten that women gave birth to them arse whole

Thanku my naija sista, obviously not all of them but it is very rare to c a decent naija man honestly. My dad isnt even decent. i love him but hes not. my best frends dad slapped her just bcos she told him tht she had her hands full nd she'll make him dinner as soon as she puts away the shopping that SHE HAD BOUGHT for her family. whats the meaning of that? honestly they just make me angry, mostly all of them do.

eddie O wrote:

Ladies, pretty strong words to qulify nigeria men.
some of us are not as bad.lets keep it clean a little bit. Nigeria men include good decent people that treat their wives with respect.

. Not to change the subject, but I have exhausted my means of search for a very nice nigerian man by the name of Akin Laniyi. We met nearly 14 years ago. He always had a way through my aunt to find me. but, she has since moved. It was comforting to know that. now I don't know where to look for him. Its my fault I told him to leave me alone and allow me to live my life without his involvement with our twin boy and girl. I was young and foolish, but now Im older and wiser and realize i've made a terrible mistake. especially with our twins not having a relationship with their Dad. They need him and I know He does too. This is no cry for money. financially we are okay. The children just need to know him. If anyone knows how to help narrow my search please email me at tammilatrese6@aol.com. all I know is his name and his last whereabouts were in Hawthorne, Ca. he worked as a security guard and works on cars. I believe he would be 45 or 46 now. no dob. He did marry another lady. last we spoke that was not going well. his records are at norwalk, calif. city hall (marriage records) he told me he was from west nigeria.

reading this thread has really made me appreciate my yoruba nigerian husband. I am Canadian and didn't have much experience with Nigerians before meeting him. God bless him - he even changes our baby's diapers and washes the dishes. I'll have to give him a big kiss when he gets home today.
... I guess this is why all the Nigerian women suddenly started hating on us when we got together.

I'm not nigerian or african for that matter, i'm carribean, but to be quite honest, the way i've seen several nigerian guys be, selfish, arrogant and womanising absolutely disgusts me, i don't like to generalise as i believe everyone is an individual but the truth is you ahve to generalise about nigerian men because all of them are a total disgrace. They all make me completely sick and you would have literally drag me kicking and screaming down the isle befire i ever married one.

i agree with london. These men are sick phedophiles that are dirty and slimy. They are uneducated on how to treat women, and the ugliest ones think that they can date supermodels! just because you have money (that is stolen) does not mean that anyone wants you. They try to allure women with money. They are greedy and disgusting. You would have to kill me first before i would marry or even sit down with one!

I hope you remembered your history well. Blackwomen were a feast for whites during the colonial days and in slavery and that is why you see a lot of homeless men and now homeless women today and to make things worst men and women who wandered around like they had falling from another planet. Today, the whiteman has been brought down to earth and that is why they are beginning to shoot one another or trying to create wars. Today, people don't care anymore. You might as well be thankful for our freedom today then be blaming your fellow brothers and sisters. The whiteman must remember that on earth we are all one big family and we must live and die like any animals that God has made with dignity that we created or not. Only God judges in the end so do not blapheme against God. Anyone that continues in your part might not be acceptable by God in their last days. So many whites in the past did not make it back to God because they were deceived to be superior. If you beleive in life after death, you would know that every thing we do here we shall give account for. For good works. But good works is not enough for God or Allah. We all shall know who has do their works that is acceptable unto the Lord after our last breath on earth. The world would not be a better place soon. The world and mans ways would get worst and nature world get worst also. Remember this as it is writen in the Book of Life.

london wrote:

I'm not nigerian or african for that matter, i'm carribean, but to be quite honest, the way i've seen several nigerian guys be, selfish, arrogant and womanising absolutely disgusts me, i don't like to generalise as i believe everyone is an individual but the truth is you ahve to generalise about nigerian men because all of them are a total disgrace. They all make me completely sick and you would have literally drag me kicking and screaming down the isle befire i ever married one.

i dont think london and chicago got it right at all not all nigerian men are disgusting however the rotten ones are rotten to the core just like any other men out there either white or black. men generally are cheaters and they cant help it. i think the only reason why we are saying this about nigerian men is because of the topic. as you can see a canadian just gave thanks for her nigerian patner.

naija sucks wrote:

i agree with london. These men are sick phedophiles that are dirty and slimy. They are uneducated on how to treat women, and the ugliest ones think that they can date supermodels! just because you have money (that is stolen) does not mean that anyone wants you. They try to allure women with money. They are greedy and disgusting. You would have to kill me first before i would marry or even sit down with one!

I agree with you somewhat. They do tend to think that every woman just want money and that is it.

Ella wrote:

What are your views on naija men? if im totally being honest, the majority of them are nasty filthy stingy slimeballs that will only marry to stay in this country. they are heartless inconsiderate slobs that have no manors and do not treat women properly. they are stereotypical baggers that do not want women to work but instead stay at home and slave away on cooking perfect pounded yam with egusi soup. im a nigerian woman born and raised in london and nigerian men just make my blood boil. the way they carry on with their womanising shyte just makes me wanna vomit. that is how much i dispise nigerian men. they are nice lukin men dnt get me wrong (esp the igbos) but they are vile with a capital V.

This is true.

I have dated "much to my detriment I later discovered" Nigerian men.

I found "many" of them to be schemers, very materialistic, liars, "ass kissers to the white folks", cheaters and the list goes on and on.

Now, I know some sprung ass American woman is going to get on this forum (if she hasn't already - I haven't read all of the posts) and say how wonderful her Nigerian man is because he gave her a couple of bucks and paid her a compliment.

Nigerians have some game, but they are no good. I believe many of them are crooks.(the men that is; and probably many of the women).

They care nothing about America. They only want money any kind of way they can get it. They are some straight souless bastards, trust me on that.

I have to admit I hate nigerian's and the country. They have taken over the city where I live, tried scamming me on ebay and spiked someone's drink who is very close to me.I hope now as I'm writing this there is a starving nigerian somewhere going through the worst pain imaginable...may the country rot in hell...and ps...stop invading the UK and poisoning our beautiful and sacred land with your lies,deciet and corruption...stay in Nigeria and con your own people and rape your own women

true36er wrote:

I have to admit I hate nigerian's and the country. They have taken over the city where I live, tried scamming me on ebay and spiked someone's drink who is very close to me.I hope now as I'm writing this there is a starving nigerian somewhere going through the worst pain imaginable...may the country rot in hell...and ps...stop invading the UK and poisoning our beautiful and sacred land with your lies,deciet and corruption...stay in Nigeria and con your own people and rape your own women

Errr skeen. wot shit r u chattin? u shud b sayin that 2 the pakis and indians bout stop invadin the UK. wer do u liv in the UK?

true36er wrote:

I have to admit I hate nigerian's and the country. They have taken over the city where I live, tried scamming me on ebay and spiked someone's drink who is very close to me.I hope now as I'm writing this there is a starving nigerian somewhere going through the worst pain imaginable...may the country rot in hell...and ps...stop invading the UK and poisoning our beautiful and sacred land with your lies,deciet and corruption...stay in Nigeria and con your own people and rape your own women

so what happen to you dog has got your tongue

Yolanda wrote:

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This is true.
I have dated "much to my detriment I later discovered" Nigerian men.
I found "many" of them to be schemers, very materialistic, liars, "ass kissers to the white folks", cheaters and the list goes on and on.
Now, I know some sprung ass American woman is going to get on this forum (if she hasn't already - I haven't read all of the posts) and say how wonderful her Nigerian man is because he gave her a couple of bucks and paid her a compliment.
Nigerians have some game, but they are no good. I believe many of them are crooks.(the men that is; and probably many of the women).
They care nothing about America. They only want money any kind of way they can get it. They are some straight souless bastards, trust me on that.

I am an American woman and just met a man online who is Nigerian. Should I trust him? He is already saying he loves me! Should I be frightened?

how can you love someone you have not seeen or believe that someone who had not seen u loves you, you really not need to be asking for advice on this issue you already know the answer, even if you have met time is too short however i understand love at first sight, but i dont think this is the case. this is for jcverboten

JCVERBOTEN wrote:

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I am an American woman and just met a man online who is Nigerian. Should I trust him? He is already saying he loves me! Should I be frightened?

YES!!!! You should definately be wary of this Nigerian you have met online. Many Nigerians are now actively seeking out seeking women online which they eventually try and scam.

Its all a money making venture to these men. I lived in Atlanta, GA for many years and I can tell you the Nigerian men there were just awful. They cared nothing about women. They were users and many were also unfaithful.

For me personally, I will NEVER date an african man again in my life. I am through. KAPUT!!! I have dated enough of them to know they are just as bad as many American black males but in different ways. You also can't trust them. There have been many studies done which show these people are souless and very corrupt. Not all of them of course, but many of them.

Why don't you try meeting guys using Eharmony or some other dating site which actually vetts each individual. They pull credit reports, criminal reports, do background checks, etc. You will definately know who you are getting for sure.

Again, I say run for the hills. I simply do not trust Nigerian men or any African men AT ALL.

My first sentence should have said many nigerian men are actively seeking out SINGLE women. I put seeking. This was a mistake.