Sad Story: Marriage and Betrayal

I am a 37 y/o Iraqi that lived most of my life in Canada since the age of 10. This is my story with a Marrakech girl that broke my heart and conned me out of $150K USD that I worked so hard for over the years. The sad thing about all this is not so much the money although it did set me back to almost bankruptcy, but the sense of betrayal I feel when I learned she is back with her 9 year lover living in my own apartment that I bought her and furnished, and enjoying the car that I also bought her, and many other things. I'm telling the story so that others may benefit, and not let their emotions take control and fall into the same trap, all in the name of love.
I was married to an Iraqi girl for 3.5 years and we lived in California, where I worked for a prominent IT company. Our marriage was a failure for various reasons, and it has become unbearable in the last few months. At a friend's suggestion we decided to take a trip to Marrakech in Oct/2008 to vacation and enjoy a change out of our daily routine lives.
I arrived in Marrakech and we rented an apartment for 10 days. Our second night out we met two girls at a famous night club in Marrakech, where they have singers and lots of people show up to enjoy themselves from 1am to 6am. The girl that I was with was called Insaf, which means, justice and fairness in Arabic. Little did I know at the time she led a life that is completely contrary to the meaning of Insaf.
We spent 2 weeks together, and I fell for her. She was energetic, pretty, and knows how to enjoy herself. This was the complete opposite of my wife. Insaf made me feel like a king in a surreal world where anything was possible as long as we were together. She told me many stories about her previous relationship that started when she was 15 with a Moroccan guy that's 5 years her senior. She was with him for 9 years, they grew up together, but only married him in the last year, and divorced him after one year. The odd thing I found about this, based on her stories, is why she stayed with him for so long if things were that bad. I thought to myself she knows she's pretty, outgoing, and according to her he was abusive and they always argued and got physical. So here we have a 5'9 tall exotic beauty, and she’s stuck with a short 5'5 boy who lived with his parents and had a simple job. Also her family did not approve of him, which is a sore point with her.
Her stories about him all had a common theme: she was abused both physically and mentally, he was practically jobless with the little money he made, and she did everything to support the relationship financially. This eventually led to their breakup. He did not appreciate the things she did for him, and her family and relatives never approved of him, they all hated him. According to her, part of the reason she stayed with him was to defy her family, to show them that they cannot run her life, and that she'll choose someone she approved of, and that their opinion was irrelevant.
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I can continue the story, if there is enough interest, lots of drama, that you only see in movies.

i didnt take your story with any surprise,i have to say to you that after reading your story i must call you a stupid naive man and please accept it because i know exactly what happend to you,also i must say you deserved because what you expect when you meet a prose in a night club,you should never fall in love with a prose,im sure she did set up a story for you to believe wich you did and she got from you more than she dreamed of,poor you,you can always contact me if you need advice,good luck and mind where you go.respect,momo4@hotmail.co.uk

Aladin
You are stupid. She F*CK your mind and you lose. Moroccan woman is just sharmouta just prostitute. Not girl friend. Not lover. Not soul mate. Only sharmouta prostitute. So just F*CK her. Don't love her because Moroccan woman can never understand love. She understand only money.

They do understand love.You do not.Because when you have this sort of attitude towards women.Then obviously you do not and will never understand love.Go back to Saudi Arabia .You are a disgrace to the people of the Sacred Lands.

SaudiBigShot wrote:

Aladin
You are stupid. She F*CK your mind and you lose. Moroccan woman is just sharmouta just prostitute. Not girl friend. Not lover. Not soul mate. Only sharmouta prostitute. So just F*CK her. Don't love her because Moroccan woman can never understand love. She understand only money.

ibro wrote:

They do understand love.You do not.Because when you have this sort of attitude towards women.Then obviously you do not and will never understand love.Go back to Saudi Arabia .You are a disgrace to the people of the Sacred Lands. <quoted text>

Moroccan women don't understand love because they are sharmouta prostitute. They are slave to money. Moroccan women is only good for F*CKING nothing else. And you know this is true, my dear.

The sacred lands are safe and good in our Saudi khaleeji hands. This honor come to us because we are people who have honor and a great history. That is why we are blessed with oil and great wealth. That is why our people command respect and power in the world. We build great cities among the most modern in the world. We have Europe America and Japan as our close allies. But what about you Moroccan people? Prostitution. Illegal immigration. Black magic voodoo. Hashish. That is why the sacred lands is never in your hands. That is why oil and wealth not in your hands. That is why you don't have any respect from the world. You Moroccan people are very bad and very cheap. And you will always be slave to money.

Yes I realize I was stupid, and naive.

I was wondering is there anything I can to get back any of my money. I have proof that I paid for the apartment. Is there some law in Morocco about fraud. She basically conned me into thinking we'll be happily married and that I need to prove my love to her by buying her all these things.

With this type of extreme and intolerant views,I m puzzled how you were allowed passed the US border control.I do not believe you are Saudi.They are very decent people as I have seen a lot of them here in London.You are a loser and a loner.You must be someone that wasnot even considered good enough for a prostitute.Either you are too thick or too ugly or both.

SaudiBigShot wrote:

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Moroccan women don't understand love because they are sharmouta prostitute. They are slave to money. Moroccan women is only good for F*CKING nothing else. And you know this is true, my dear.
The sacred lands are safe and good in our Saudi khaleeji hands. This honor come to us because we are people who have honor and a great history. That is why we are blessed with oil and great wealth. That is why our people command respect and power in the world. We build great cities among the most modern in the world. We have Europe America and Japan as our close allies. But what about you Moroccan people? Prostitution. Illegal immigration. Black magic voodoo. Hashish. That is why the sacred lands is never in your hands. That is why oil and wealth not in your hands. That is why you don't have any respect from the world. You Moroccan people are very bad and very cheap. And you will always be slave to money.

Aladin

You said you would continue the story, if there is enough interest. so yes, I'm interested.

Aladin wrote:

Yes I realize I was stupid, and naive.
I was wondering is there anything I can to get back any of my money. I have proof that I paid for the apartment. Is there some law in Morocco about fraud. She basically conned me into thinking we'll be happily married and that I need to prove my love to her by buying her all these things.

...And I thought this sort of thing only happened to American women! If this is indeed a true story, you will have to cut your losses. This story sounds like something Rachid cooked up.

Aladin wrote:

Yes I realize I was stupid, and naive.
I was wondering is there anything I can to get back any of my money. I have proof that I paid for the apartment. Is there some law in Morocco about fraud. She basically conned me into thinking we'll be happily married and that I need to prove my love to her by buying her all these things.

You must be using a proxy of some sort! Your location keeps changing. I believe this is a Rachid post.

I was going to continue the story, but I'm actually sick of it. The reason you see different locations is because I'm traveling.
I wish it was a made up story. The latest development is that she called and told me never to come back to Morocco because she has registered a "threat to kill" against me and that she has three witnesses. She said if you show up at the airport they will arrest me. I think it sounds like she's scared that I might contact the Canadian embassy and might be able to do something.
Is this true, can you actually get arrested as a Canadian citizen at the airport because a girl made up a story about an attempted murder and she has three witnesses.
She's really sick to do that if she did indeed!

You must be Aladin in wonderland!You wrecked your marriage ,did a runner and pretended to fall for a prostitute.Now you are crying foul!Insaf knew what you had in mind when you rented a place in Marrakesh (surely that was not for meditation!).She planned her game and won it.She did not con you,she was a very good player,that is all.Now the game is over.All you need to do is get real and accept that you failed twice,may be third time lucky?

Aladin wrote:

I was going to continue the story, but I'm actually sick of it. The reason you see different locations is because I'm traveling.
I wish it was a made up story. The latest development is that she called and told me never to come back to Morocco because she has registered a "threat to kill" against me and that she has three witnesses. She said if you show up at the airport they will arrest me. I think it sounds like she's scared that I might contact the Canadian embassy and might be able to do something.
Is this true, can you actually get arrested as a Canadian citizen at the airport because a girl made up a story about an attempted murder and she has three witnesses.
She's really sick to do that if she did indeed!

Aladin

She just dumb scared prostitute! Go claim your
apartment if it's only in your name.If it is in
both of your names then you sell and split the money.

ibro wrote:

With this type of extreme and intolerant views,I m puzzled how you were allowed passed the US border control.I do not believe you are Saudi.They are very decent people as I have seen a lot of them here in London.You are a loser and a loner.You must be someone that wasnot even considered good enough for a prostitute.Either you are too thick or too ugly or both. <quoted text>

You know where is Dammam? Come there and bring your Moroccan woman. I will F*CK her.

Dude, you have serious issues. When I was single, I had sex with a number of married saudi women. I am not proud of what I did with these women, but I use it as a point to illustrate that virtues of women and men do not change based upon national origins. Rather, it is the individual, and their choices that are to blame. Women in general want security, and thus are attracted to men who can provide them with financial security. Again, this does not change based upon national origins.
What really shocks me is the sense of pride you take in being a saudi. Saudia Arabia happens to be where mecca is located. The Caliphs of the 8th and 9th century would be rolling over in their graves if they could see the pathetic state of affairs in Saudi Arabia today. Most Saudi, and I am talking about Saudi citizens here are dumb as dirt. They can barely read, much less build cities or anything of any technological significance. As for their relationships with Israel and the United States, which you seem to take pride in, it is a master-slave relationship... or rather the same type of relationship that Homo sexual men have with one another. The United states and Israel being the ones who are penetrating Saudi arabia in every sordid way you can imagine. Saudi men are essentially bending over and taking it up the %&#^ from their American and Israeli masters. This ofcourse does not suprise me, because the main reason that Saudi women engage in extra marital affairs with Moroccan men is because their Saudi husbands are gay. I believe this may be the reason for your hostility towards Morocco. Did you discover that your wife has been getting pleasured by a Moroccan man? Are you perhaps now beggining to wonder if your children are even really yours?
Saudi Arabia is very lucky to be sitting on oil wealth. If not for the oil wealth, it would just be another Yemen or Egypt. I will not say all Saudi men are gay, I will not say that ALL saudi men are cowards, or that all saudi men are weak willed racistsou, but judging by your post, I can definitely say that you are.

I cant believe what I am reading - what about your Muslim faith and beliefs. Dont they mean anything. Spent 6 weeks in Morocco some months ago and the people I spent time with were respectful, caring and hospitable, and a way of life so much better than here. Have had a moroccan male friend for 2 years and is the nicest person I have ever met. No hidden agenda. Saudi Bigshot, thats just what you are, a big shot in your own mind. if this is a typical saudi attitude, then I would never want to visit there. By the way, Rabat ppl helpful, friendly and a wonderful city to stay in, cant wait to return.

ibro wrote:

With this type of extreme and intolerant views,I m puzzled how you were allowed passed the US border control.I do not believe you are Saudi.They are very decent people as I have seen a lot of them here in London.You are a loser and a loner.You must be someone that wasnot even considered good enough for a prostitute.Either you are too thick or too ugly or both. <quoted text>

Come to Dammam. You will learn what Saudi I am. Bring your sharmouta Moroccan woman.

Moroccan Patriot wrote:

Dude, you have serious issues. When I was single, I had sex with a number of married saudi women. I am not proud of what I did with these women, but I use it as a point to illustrate that virtues of women and men do not change based upon national origins. Rather, it is the individual, and their choices that are to blame. Women in general want security, and thus are attracted to men who can provide them with financial security. Again, this does not change based upon national origins.
What really shocks me is the sense of pride you take in being a saudi. Saudia Arabia happens to be where mecca is located. The Caliphs of the 8th and 9th century would be rolling over in their graves if they could see the pathetic state of affairs in Saudi Arabia today. Most Saudi, and I am talking about Saudi citizens here are dumb as dirt. They can barely read, much less build cities or anything of any technological significance. As for their relationships with Israel and the United States, which you seem to take pride in, it is a master-slave relationship... or rather the same type of relationship that Homo sexual men have with one another. The United states and Israel being the ones who are penetrating Saudi arabia in every sordid way you can imagine. Saudi men are essentially bending over and taking it up the %&#^ from their American and Israeli masters. This ofcourse does not suprise me, because the main reason that Saudi women engage in extra marital affairs with Moroccan men is because their Saudi husbands are gay. I believe this may be the reason for your hostility towards Morocco. Did you discover that your wife has been getting pleasured by a Moroccan man? Are you perhaps now beggining to wonder if your children are even really yours?
Saudi Arabia is very lucky to be sitting on oil wealth. If not for the oil wealth, it would just be another Yemen or Egypt. I will not say all Saudi men are gay, I will not say that ALL saudi men are cowards, or that all saudi men are weak willed racistsou, but judging by your post, I can definitely say that you are.

Saudi have one of highest per capita in the world. we are blessed with oil wealth and all nations USA Israel Europe Japan all need Saudiya. And we are bless with the two holy cities. We have power respect and honor in all the world. What about Morocco? What it have? I will tell you, my dear. Moroccan woman is #1 for Prostitution in all Arab and Muslim world. The Moroccan man is lazy liar and a pimp. And the Moroccan woman will do ANY THING for money. ANY THING. You know how much Moroccan woman run to us Saudi man. We fuck your Moroccan woman all the time every where we go. Even our small Saudi boys fuck your Moroccan woman. But you Moroccan man can do nothing because you are weak and you afraid for Saudi man. You are slave for us. You work for us and you do what we tell you to do it. And you know Moroccan Patriot you are big liar. What Saudi woman go with you? LOL. You talk shit. Only thing you do for Saudi woman is clean the toilet loo. And Moroccan man is #1 gay for the Arab even more than Omani. Morocco famous for this things - 1. Prostitution 2. Illegal immigration 3. Black magic voodoo 4. Hashish and other drugs. Don't be jealous because I am Saudi man and better than you. Moroccan is very dirty very bad. Maafi sharaf. Kuli wasaq. And still we will fuck your Moroccan woman. yalla keep bring your Moroccan woman to us because you are cheap pimp. Come take my riyal.

geminella wrote:

I cant believe what I am reading - what about your Muslim faith and beliefs. Dont they mean anything. Spent 6 weeks in Morocco some months ago and the people I spent time with were respectful, caring and hospitable, and a way of life so much better than here. Have had a moroccan male friend for 2 years and is the nicest person I have ever met. No hidden agenda. Saudi Bigshot, thats just what you are, a big shot in your own mind. if this is a typical saudi attitude, then I would never want to visit there. By the way, Rabat ppl helpful, friendly and a wonderful city to stay in, cant wait to return.

Geminella - come to Saudiya. You find many things there. Big modern cities. History. Good people. If you like Arab then you will like Saudiya because it is religious cultural and economic heart of Arab world. Saudi man will take good care for you, Geminella, this sure. We make you like queen.

SaudiBigShot wrote:

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Come to Dammam. You will learn what Saudi I am. Bring your sharmouta Moroccan woman.

You are officially the thickest individual on this planet.You are not a Saudi.They are generally decent people and do not go as low as you do.Also,why would a Saudi be interested in such a forum ?.I can say now you are certainly a dimmwit member of the Polisario.And you have obviously your own twisted history of Morocco.All you have been saying since your undesirable appearance on this forum is lewd,crude,base,vilified,disgu sting (I m running out of adjectives as I m not used to them this much!)sub-comments! Your English is primitive like your brain , and for someone who pretends to be in the USA whose education system is highly rated you are more than a disgrace ,you are a farce.You do not seem to understand (obviously no brain)what the topic is all about.I do not know where you get your statistics from (may be from Tindouf Agency)The difference between me and you is simple:while Iam modern,decent,tolerant individual, and proud of my history and my culture ,you are , Mr Polisario member,(Not A Saudi) an evil misogynist,mob,living in Middle ages.Those will be my last words addressed to you,idiot