Hard to let go...

I lost a friend who was like a sister in 2004 i was so stressed i felt it should have been me intead of her. Letting go was not easy i would sit and cry at all times i hated going out cos i would meet people who would be telling me that everything will be fine or tell that they heard about her death and that brought me so much pain i would find myself crying again.

MOANANONG wrote:

HEALING; for ME its accepting the fact that someone out there is meant for me...maybe not the current woman. A woman meant for me will fulfill me AND I will fulfill her if I m meant for her...case closed.

100%...;)

Hee, guys what a touch threat. I lost my father in 2010, he was my everything. I miss him cos he was gud in advices, I sometimes cry when I think of me (especially when things are bad). But for the sake of my mother I had to put maself together so that when she looked at me she sees her piller of strength.

We should not let past to hold our future, cos there is a tunnel of light ahead of us. We have to be strong, accept and let God do His will amongst us.

MCHACHO wrote:

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Nnna I'd rather lose my pride to the one I love rather than to lose her because of pride.....

lv u'r wrds Mchachos

I am da piller of my strength,,,anythin dat cums along/againgst my hapiness,i consider it s a challenge,a challenge dat i hv to ova cum n move on... Life is so tricky sometyms,so tricky dat u cant evn realise dat it hs been lik ds,, fair,treatin us equaly..(wds hapenin to u today,hs been happenin 4 da past thousands years n it is a rotin,its part of evr1's life.til da las generation).
Ovr billons of people, y cant u just let go n find out wd is urs out dere? Im tellin u,it is dere waiting for u. Lv me for who i am..or else sephela mosiphili.

Ginger94 wrote:

Why is it so hard to let go sometimes?...

It depends on what u want to let go, other things u just can't.

Guys letting go is not easy u knw. Let mi tel u my story, I 1nc met a guy whom i ws inlv wth , dn it happens dt de guy impregnates another gl bsdes mi. Derafter dis guy tel mi dt he wants to marry me den i told him dt i cn not be abl 2 do so de opportunity is not mine. But up until nw ,he is stl wanting 2 b mine yet he has a son who is 7 yrs. Dt is why i m saying it is not easy 2 let sm1 go espcialy if he or she was ur swty.

Umadedos wrote:

Guys letting go is not easy u knw. Let mi tel u my story, I 1nc met a guy whom i ws inlv wth , dn it happens dt de guy impregnates another gl bsdes mi. Derafter dis guy tel mi dt he wants to marry me den i told him dt i cn not be abl 2 do so de opportunity is not mine. But up until nw ,he is stl wanting 2 b mine yet he has a son who is 7 yrs. Dt is why i m saying it is not easy 2 let sm1 go espcialy if he or she was ur swty.

Why did he choose to give her a child not you? This is the easiest way to let go after dealing with your hurt sweety. I woulds understand if he left you after giving you the baby.

Sash_ wrote:

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Why did he choose to give her a child not you? This is the easiest way to let go after dealing with your hurt sweety. I woulds understand if he left you after giving you the baby.

yah, i think that he probably has second thoughts or maybe he is pretending to you that he might have made a mistake.is he still with baby mama?if yes then i dont think that he really wants you, maybe responsibilities are getting too much for him now and the only other place he thinks he can run to is You.

He is only trying to see if he still has chance with you.

Kes wrote:

<quoted text>lv u'r wrds Mchachos

Ase a hae, ke mo kadimme. Akere Mchachos?

Ya its nt easy t let go! I ws 1nc inluv wth a woman nd my wyf cot us & it is 5yrs nw bt i cnt let go dat woman! I luvd her so bad & i stil hv dat thin 4 her! Its nt easy let go guy um tellin u!

Momoza wrote:

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Ase a hae, ke mo kadimme. Akere Mchachos?

kekekekeke

Ginger94 wrote:

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yah, i think that he probably has second thoughts or maybe he is pretending to you that he might have made a mistake.is he still with baby mama?if yes then i dont think that he really wants you, maybe responsibilities are getting too much for him now and the only other place he thinks he can run to is You.
He is only trying to see if he still has chance with you.

Lol, it is not me who they a playing with. It is Umadedos. You should be addressing her, ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.

However, I hope she got the message.

Moliepe wrote:

Ya its nt easy t let go! I ws 1nc inluv wth a woman nd my wyf cot us & it is 5yrs nw bt i cnt let go dat woman! I luvd her so bad & i stil hv dat thin 4 her! Its nt easy let go guy um tellin u!

I feel sorry for your wife.

We are not talking about problems that you create for yourself.

Stop cheating and it will be easy to let go because you would not find yourself in that situation in the first place.

Moliepe wrote:

Ya its nt easy t let go! I ws 1nc inluv wth a woman nd my wyf cot us & it is 5yrs nw bt i cnt let go dat woman! I luvd her so bad & i stil hv dat thin 4 her! Its nt easy let go guy um tellin u!

Are you serious boss, tell me do you love your wife?

dinono wrote:

<quoted text>Are you serious boss, tell me do you love your wife?

ha kebone a morata.

Bothata ke hore boy friend ena eaka e ne e tsoapela hle batho ea mpa eaba lishoto ea kora. Wil u b abl 2 let it go if u wer de 1?

Momoza wrote:

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Ase a hae, ke mo kadimme. Akere Mchachos?

u jealous oena

O ne a leka ho potela ho tsoapela hle eaba khathe o tla kora hang hang yet a na e condomisitse. Dr4 it is not easy 2 let mi go. Wht cn u advise mi to do.

Moliepe wrote:

Ya its nt easy t let go! I ws 1nc inluv wth a woman nd my wyf cot us & it is 5yrs nw bt i cnt let go dat woman! I luvd her so bad & i stil hv dat thin 4 her! Its nt easy let go guy um tellin u!

uena u hloile molekane enoa oa hao. Nxa!