tips for married couples

godies wrote:

sometimes peoples they aren't aware what brakes their relationships u will find out the most thing which is affecting their relationships is their sex life sometimes in our sex life there's some thinks we use do when we are still boyfriend & girlfriend those thinks are the spices that we use to do that made our relationship strong until we decide to get married when we are married laddies they change our sex life life ha ore babe sheba kwana a re yena hase sefebe ha eba asa nkgotsofatse jwale ebe ke tswela ka ntle ke ilo batla yatlang ho ngkgotsofatsa ho ba wena ha o sa le sefebe haketsebe hore hore before one ole sefebe na! sex ke yona e qhalang our familys pleas lets be aware about it

Wena ngwaneso ke a utlwa and ke o utlwela haufi...Akere re tsamisak mokgwa o sa tshwaneng moo lefatsheng...babang ka sex..babang ka bana...babang ka chelete...babang ka poulelo...di weaknesses di ngata and wena ya hao taba ke hore sex e ka sehlohong ho etsa dintho di be rite lenyalong.Le ha re tseba ba bang hore it is not sex only..but for you it is...so Mokhotsi wa ka ..o tshwanetse o a batle marriage counsellor...kapa moruti..kapa o batle cd ya ntate Moruti Khathide...I am trying to say to all others there is help out there all you have to do is speak out in what ever language you choose...re a o utlwa ntate.O thusitse ba ba ngata ba ntseng ba nahana hore ke bona feela ba nang le the same problem...I think we must try to sort all our problems in the most effetive way mona Topix...I guess this is why it was created to takkle issues that are fundermental in our everyday experiences...ignore my spelling english or sesotho...that is not the point...!!!

Goodies ha khutle a tlo fana ka tips tse ling. Heading ea hae ke "tips for married couples". Tip number one is hlak-able tloho u tsoele pele goodies.

dudu wrote:

Goodies ha khutle a tlo fana ka tips tse ling. Heading ea hae ke "tips for married couples". Tip number one is hlak-able tloho u tsoele pele goodies.

Akere ngana oo wa batho ha atsebe ho ngola hantle sejahlapi...and jwale o se a tshaba...mohlomong le sona Seosotho ha a se tsebe hantle...mofutsana....tlooho ntjhanyana...

dudu wrote:

Goodies ha khutle a tlo fana ka tips tse ling. Heading ea hae ke "tips for married couples". Tip number one is hlak-able tloho u tsoele pele goodies.

O a iponela le yena nobody is perfect!

Moleko-o-dieta wrote:

<quoted text>O utlwisisang ka lentswe lee 'moelelo' ntate sepeketere (inspector)? hahaha

Ntate sepeketere, ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. Ke tlau thola.

'moelelo'-meaning. Why?

Lebatama wrote:

<quoted text>Wena ngwaneso ke a utlwa and ke o utlwela haufi...Akere re tsamisak mokgwa o sa tshwaneng moo lefatsheng...babang ka sex..babang ka bana...babang ka chelete...babang ka poulelo...di weaknesses di ngata and wena ya hao taba ke hore sex e ka sehlohong ho etsa dintho di be rite lenyalong.Le ha re tseba ba bang hore it is not sex only..but for you it is...so Mokhotsi wa ka ..o tshwanetse o a batle marriage counsellor...kapa moruti..kapa o batle cd ya ntate Moruti Khathide...I am trying to say to all others there is help out there all you have to do is speak out in what ever language you choose...re a o utlwa ntate.O thusitse ba ba ngata ba ntseng ba nahana hore ke bona feela ba nang le the same problem...I think we must try to sort all our problems in the most effetive way mona Topix...I guess this is why it was created to takkle issues that are fundermental in our everyday experiences...ignore my spelling english or sesotho...that is not the point...!!!

Ke nnete. U lilemi li kae? Kea bapala u ska njoetsa. Feela ke rata mokhoa oo u eletsanang ka wona.

Sash_ wrote:

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Ke nnete. U lilemi li kae? Kea bapala u ska njoetsa. Feela ke rata mokhoa oo u eletsanang ka wona.

Sash_I also like the way you put matters forward...basically I do not care hore o lemo di kae..ke rata kelello e ahang...!Life is Bliss...some day we will meet and that shall be my happiest day because mona 'TOPIXING' o bua le dipoko(people must not kill me hore ke re ke dipoko)...ntho tse sa bonahaleng...is it not amazing hore motho ke moya ka nnete...because mona TOPIXING re kopana moyeng ene seo re se buang ke tsa moya..ene meya ena e fapane...emeng ke ya diabolose emeng e sa itshetlehile ho Jehova.This is the moment where you realise that Satane o teng o a phela le hore Modimo o teng le yena o a phela ENE BOBEDI KE MOYA...How do you know that...listen to what comes out of the hearts of people when they talk mo TOPIX... because the heart leaks what it contains(Christ)...

ha hona motho a mphang likobo tse monate jwalo ka my hubby,le leng la mabaka a entseng hore re nyalane.u e batla leha ke tonama feela ke hlapa,ha ke tsebe le haeba o oa nthetsa but ore aka etsa kamehla haane aka khona,empa bliv me re qabanyoa ke ntho tse nyane joalo ka ho lula le metsoalle labohlano afta working hours re inoella red 1,leha nka kopa ho fihla hae ka 10 ke otloa joalo ka ntja.ke delopa lehloeo le ka re arohanyang but antsaja kuku ena haa batla.so sex hase eona etla re kopanya eternally

EA LIOLING.....

ke dumellana le lona honale lots of things tseka etsang hore relationship some other things are too small hake o kgopisitse hona le hore re dule fatshe re buisane o thola motho wa teng a topotse a kwatile hale fihla bedroom ke hona a batlang ho bua mathata a hae bedroom hase moo ho buelwang mathata re a robala fela hape bedroom ha o kene o kwatile bedroom ke place ya lerato retlameha re bontshe lerato fela

poulelo ha ena phoso ntho ya hao ha oe rata o tla boulela ka yona but poulelo must be limited ha e se ele over ha e loke ho hang

godies wrote:

ke dumellana le lona honale lots of things tseka etsang hore relationship some other things are too small hake o kgopisitse hona le hore re dule fatshe re buisane o thola motho wa teng a topotse a kwatile hale fihla bedroom ke hona a batlang ho bua mathata a hae bedroom hase moo ho buelwang mathata re a robala fela hape bedroom ha o kene o kwatile bedroom ke place ya lerato retlameha re bontshe lerato fela

Bedroom u re e etsang? Ha ha ha ha ha. khale ke bone hore uena u tletse ka papali. Goodbye.

Sash_ wrote:

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Ntate sepeketere, ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. Ke tlau thola.
'moelelo'-meaning. Why?

Moelelo = godies o adviser hore don't let a boring sexual life cause problems in your relationship/marriage, keep things spicy and interesting in the bedroom.

Now some people ha ba ilo rwalla, hona le hore ba nke patsi e ommeng ba kgutlele hae, ba senya nako ka puo tse kang,'hobaneng sefate see se sa oma?','hoja ebe kutu ena ha e boima','lekala lela hoja le ne lele ka kwano ho noka' jj. You see my point?

Moleko-o-dieta wrote:

<quoted text>Moelelo = godies o adviser hore don't let a boring sexual life cause problems in your relationship/marriage, keep things spicy and interesting in the bedroom.
Now some people ha ba ilo rwalla, hona le hore ba nke patsi e ommeng ba kgutlele hae, ba senya nako ka puo tse kang,'hobaneng sefate see se sa oma?','hoja ebe kutu ena ha e boima','lekala lela hoja le ne lele ka kwano ho noka' jj. You see my point?

Moleko moshana mona ke lumellana le oena ha lekhholo leha oka shoa o kutse

godies wrote:

sometimes peoples they aren't aware what brakes their relationships u will find out the most thing which is affecting their relationships is their sex life sometimes in our sex life there's some thinks we use do when we are still boyfriend & girlfriend those thinks are the spices that we use to do that made our relationship strong until we decide to get married when we are married laddies they change our sex life life ha ore babe sheba kwana a re yena hase sefebe ha eba asa nkgotsofatse jwale ebe ke tswela ka ntle ke ilo batla yatlang ho ngkgotsofatsa ho ba wena ha o sa le sefebe haketsebe hore hore before one ole sefebe na! sex ke yona e qhalang our familys pleas lets be aware about it

hantle o ntse o reng?

Tsoani wrote:

<quoted text> hantle o ntse o reng?

Motsoalle o se ka ba hlola u kena ka mona, oa bona Senior Lecture o sa qetse mohope oa metsi, oa ba tseba ka moo bo Moleko o tla o roesa ring eno ea ka nkane. Ha re tsoe.

Moleko-o-dieta wrote:

<quoted text>Moelelo = godies o adviser hore don't let a boring sexual life cause problems in your relationship/marriage, keep things spicy and interesting in the bedroom.
Now some people ha ba ilo rwalla, hona le hore ba nke patsi e ommeng ba kgutlele hae, ba senya nako ka puo tse kang,'hobaneng sefate see se sa oma?','hoja ebe kutu ena ha e boima','lekala lela hoja le ne lele ka kwano ho noka' jj. You see my point?

Not correct Moleko. That is not the crux or core of the subject.

Let us start with the description of the topic. It reads “tips for married couples”. Not a tip but tips.

However, the author chooses sex and claims ke eona the culprit.
Bala hape post #1

He say:“sometimes peoples they aren't aware what brakes their relationships u will find out the most thing which is affecting their relationships is their sex life” THE MOST? I disagree.

“sex ke yona e qhalang our familys pleas lets be aware about it” IS IT THE ONLY THING? WHAT ABOUT TIPS?

Rona were advising him hore he must not concentrate on sex alone.

Eg, he also said that fights are solved in the bedroom. I again disagree. Personally I would not touch my partner if we have unresolved issues. I need to be there ( in the bedroom) physically and spiritually. Not lustfully. We need to resolve our differences first before we can say we are making love. The same problems will still keep coming back if you feel you will resolve them by undressing.

He continues and says” in our sex life there's some thinks we use do when we are still boyfriend & girlfriend”
What is the reason for avoiding to do stuff that you used to do out of wedlock in marriage? There is no logic there.

The problem is pornography. One suddenly wants to do every acts that they see from porn and expect their partners to concur. Stuff like swinging, threesomes, fisting etc.
I hope we are clear about moelelo ao taba ena.

Masumu wrote:

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Moleko moshana mona ke lumellana le oena ha lekhholo leha oka shoa o kutse

Ke teng weso, ke hantle haeba nna le wena re bua puo e le nngwe. Ke tla leka ho hlalosetsa ena wa haeso hape, mohlomong ha ke a itlhalosa hantle.

Moleko-o-dieta wrote:

<quoted text>Ke teng weso, ke hantle haeba nna le wena re bua puo e le nngwe. Ke tla leka ho hlalosetsa ena wa haeso hape, mohlomong ha ke a itlhalosa hantle.

Do not mobalize M'rena.

Sex is indeed important. However, the crux of the topic is tips and not a tip.

I will not say to my wife sheba koa when she asks me why I did not pay for the kid's school fees or after care and be happy hore she remains the sef**be that she used to be. She wont do it.

Tips about marriage go deeper than this (sex) my friend.

Again I say he should have said one of the tips. Not tips and then talk about sex alone.

Sash_ wrote:

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Do not mobalize M'rena.
Sex is indeed important. However, the crux of the topic is tips and not a tip.
I will not say to my wife sheba koa when she asks me why I did not pay for the kid's school fees or after care and be happy hore she remains the sef**be that she used to be. She wont do it.
Tips about marriage go deeper than this (sex) my friend.
Again I say he should have said one of the tips. Not tips and then talk about sex alone.

I think you guys can now take it to the next level, bring up more facts.

godies wrote:

sometimes peoples they aren't aware what brakes their relationships u will find out the most thing which is affecting their relationships is their sex life sometimes in our sex life there's some thinks we use do when we are still boyfriend & girlfriend those thinks are the spices that we use to do that made our relationship strong until we decide to get married when we are married laddies they change our sex life life ha ore babe sheba kwana a re yena hase sefebe ha eba asa nkgotsofatse jwale ebe ke tswela ka ntle ke ilo batla yatlang ho ngkgotsofatsa ho ba wena ha o sa le sefebe haketsebe hore hore before one ole sefebe na! sex ke yona e qhalang our familys pleas lets be aware about it

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