why do woman allow to be treated like door mats

Tiny wrote:

Ao che, monna a shapang mosali eena ke lekoala, koala, mosali ha a shapuoe. Ke litelu feela ha ho sa na banna. Motho a tlo tseka hore na hobaneng o sa phutha litene tsela oa lipaka hantle. Basali ke bomme ebile ke banna ka matlung ka mona.

De moz wrote:

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let me tell you something: women think they need good men who respect and love them.But thats what they want and not need. In most cases men who struggle in marriages are those who do all the right things and humble themselves for the betterment of their families.why? because such behavior does not challenge any woman and hence, fails to trigger attraction out of a woman.In other words, we call such men "ACHIEVED GOALS" and as we all know, an achieved goal is not a motivator.we all need challenges in life. I think a woman will leave a bad boy or man because of eccessive abuse or irresponsibilities but in actual fact, such people provide a better challege for women.

Mokgatla wrote:

I have said this before and I will say once more again. The biggest mistake any woman can make is to fail to realise her own self-worth.
Once you understand that, no man will ever walk all over you again.

saga wrote:

<quoted text>ok harere kennete ntho oe buang does that justify a beatings?? And what do u mean when u say abusers or irresponsible men provide a better challenge for woman ke hore o.u just hav to elaborate on that bcos to me it sounds dogy. Ar u hiding something becoz one will think u ar one of those men. Hlalosa monghadi nkabe kele phoso

Eunice2 wrote:

helang joale re hlale bo sweetie ba rona? Lenyalo le joalo ho tloha tsimolohong

Seja-Basetsana wrote:

Hangata motho h'a so ka kena ka hara ntho e itseng, o bona eka ho bonolo ho etsa lintho. MOHLALA; Ha eba u shebelletse bolo, boxing kapa papali efe kapa efe, u ka tloha ua bona eka u ka etsa beterenyana ho feta motho eo ea ka hara papali. Joale taba ea ka e mona; Ha u kene ka hara lenyalo, u tla ba le liqeto tse sa ts'oaneng le tsena tsa kajeno. U tla nka qeto ho latela boemo bo tla be bo rena ka hara lelapa ka nako eo. Ba bang ba buang koano ke batho ba so kang ba utloisisa hore na lenyalo ke eng. Ba bang lenyalo le ba hlotse(ke mafetoa). Ba bang ba senyehile 'me ha ba sa na ts'epo ea hore ba tla nyaloa. Ha ke thetha taba tsa ka ke re,''Hlokomelang hore lenyalo ha le ts'oane le 'mantloane. Ha ho bonolo joalokaha batho ba nahana. Lenyalo ha se potele e khoathoang ka lehlaka.''

Momoza wrote:

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Le hore qeto eo motho atlang ho enka ebe e nepahetseng esebe le ditlamorao tse mpe.

dinono wrote:

<quoted text>Basadi ba nka diqeto tsa ho dula in relationships le ha ba bona hore things are not working out nna ha ke tsebe hore why would you stay with someone o o robang dikgopo tsena a o sothe sefahleho sena matsoho, a o ntse mahlo he hore motho ha a ikutlwa matla feela o tla ho wena ka ditebele nna ke hana ka nna sefapano, never.

saga wrote:

Otla fumana your husbnd or boyfriend a cheata ao abusa. Then a kgutle hape are forgive me i made a mistake,i didnt mean to, it just happend,, i was angry at u and i decieded to sleep with her,, besides i slept with her yes but i was thinking about u my love!!! Ebe rona he nthwana tsa batho re a tshwarela. Wen is it going to stop??? Banna do al this thinz knowing very wel hore they wil come back and usk fo forgiveness. Ebe hosane ba ya pheta qetellong ontso oituletse ka tlung phamokate (AIDS))) ekene ebe ke hona motho a bulehang mahlo• Haho ntho eke tshabang jwalo ka AIDS my two relative died infront of me becos of it ebe lenna ke tla emela hore enhlasele??? Che lekgale khilik!!! I saw some one that i kno very wel acheata several times.. Keipotse hore ebe waka monna oetsang mo aleng teng... Che ena yona ke kgehlepe•

saga wrote:

Otla fumana your husbnd or boyfriend a cheata ao abusa. Then a kgutle hape are forgive me i made a mistake,i didnt mean to, it just happend,, i was angry at u and i decieded to sleep with her,, besides i slept with her yes but i was thinking about u my love!!! Ebe rona he nthwana tsa batho re a tshwarela. Wen is it going to stop??? Banna do al this thinz knowing very wel hore they wil come back and usk fo forgiveness. Ebe hosane ba ya pheta qetellong ontso oituletse ka tlung phamokate (AIDS))) ekene ebe ke hona motho a bulehang mahlo• Haho ntho eke tshabang jwalo ka AIDS my two relative died infront of me becos of it ebe lenna ke tla emela hore enhlasele??? Che lekgale khilik!!! I saw some one that i kno very wel acheata several times.. Keipotse hore ebe waka monna oetsang mo aleng teng... Che ena yona ke kgehlepe•

ZEUS wrote:

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3 Worst Husband Traits
I say, if you can identify with any of these relationship red flags, then wake up, get out and for heaven sakes, DON’T marry the man!
1. He is jealous and/or possessive toward you.
At the beginning of a relationship, it is often mistaken as protectiveness or as a sign of love. Remember, though, jealousy has absolutely nothing to do with his feelings for you. Instead, it is a mark - a warning - of mistrust which has the potential to morph into possessiveness and him controlling your every move. If that's already the case? Marriage definitely won’t make things better.
2. He is mean and uncaring.
If, ordinarily, he is an unlikable person who has difficulty showing affection, lacks respect, can’t socialise, and only EVER criticises you, then what makes you think that tying the knot will change any of it?
3. He is humourless.
Dull. Tiresome. Monotonous. Unexciting. Well, just plain old boring...
A man who cannot make you laugh, who doesn’t share – or at least, support – your passions, who you find difficult to communicate with, who is the last person you want to spend your free time with, is undoubtedly a man you should NOT commit to.

ZEUS wrote:

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3 Worst Husband Traits
I say, if you can identify with any of these relationship red flags, then wake up, get out and for heaven sakes, DON’T marry the man!
1. He is jealous and/or possessive toward you.
At the beginning of a relationship, it is often mistaken as protectiveness or as a sign of love. Remember, though, jealousy has absolutely nothing to do with his feelings for you. Instead, it is a mark - a warning - of mistrust which has the potential to morph into possessiveness and him controlling your every move. If that's already the case? Marriage definitely won’t make things better.
2. He is mean and uncaring.
If, ordinarily, he is an unlikable person who has difficulty showing affection, lacks respect, can’t socialise, and only EVER criticises you, then what makes you think that tying the knot will change any of it?
3. He is humourless.
Dull. Tiresome. Monotonous. Unexciting. Well, just plain old boring...
A man who cannot make you laugh, who doesn’t share – or at least, support – your passions, who you find difficult to communicate with, who is the last person you want to spend your free time with, is undoubtedly a man you should NOT commit to.

dinono wrote:

<quoted text>Basadi ba nka diqeto tsa ho dula in relationships le ha ba bona hore things are not working out nna ha ke tsebe hore why would you stay with someone o o robang dikgopo tsena a o sothe sefahleho sena matsoho, a o ntse mahlo he hore motho ha a ikutlwa matla feela o tla ho wena ka ditebele nna ke hana ka nna sefapano, never.