why do woman allow to be treated like door mats

Otla fumana your husbnd or boyfriend a cheata ao abusa. Then a kgutle hape are forgive me i made a mistake,i didnt mean to, it just happend,, i was angry at u and i decieded to sleep with her,, besides i slept with her yes but i was thinking about u my love!!! Ebe rona he nthwana tsa batho re a tshwarela. Wen is it going to stop??? Banna do al this thinz knowing very wel hore they wil come back and usk fo forgiveness. Ebe hosane ba ya pheta qetellong ontso oituletse ka tlung phamokate (AIDS))) ekene ebe ke hona motho a bulehang mahlo• Haho ntho eke tshabang jwalo ka AIDS my two relative died infront of me becos of it ebe lenna ke tla emela hore enhlasele??? Che lekgale khilik!!! I saw some one that i kno very wel acheata several times.. Keipotse hore ebe waka monna oetsang mo aleng teng... Che ena yona ke kgehlepe•

Potso e ntle ena ya hao saga, ha re utlwe na ba reng bomme ha ba ikarabella, ha e antshwe ka mokukutoana mma yona a le teng.

saga wrote:

Otla fumana your husbnd or boyfriend a cheata ao abusa. Then a kgutle hape are forgive me i made a mistake,i didnt mean to, it just happend,, i was angry at u and i decieded to sleep with her,, besides i slept with her yes but i was thinking about u my love!!! Ebe rona he nthwana tsa batho re a tshwarela. Wen is it going to stop??? Banna do al this thinz knowing very wel hore they wil come back and usk fo forgiveness. Ebe hosane ba ya pheta qetellong ontso oituletse ka tlung phamokate (AIDS))) ekene ebe ke hona motho a bulehang mahlo• Haho ntho eke tshabang jwalo ka AIDS my two relative died infront of me becos of it ebe lenna ke tla emela hore enhlasele??? Che lekgale khilik!!! I saw some one that i kno very wel acheata several times.. Keipotse hore ebe waka monna oetsang mo aleng teng... Che ena yona ke kgehlepe•

Dumela Saga.

Joe Coker wrote:

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Dumela Saga.

dumela hle monghadi

saga wrote:

Otla fumana your husbnd or boyfriend a cheata ao abusa. Then a kgutle hape are forgive me i made a mistake,i didnt mean to, it just happend,, i was angry at u and i decieded to sleep with her,, besides i slept with her yes but i was thinking about u my love!!! Ebe rona he nthwana tsa batho re a tshwarela. Wen is it going to stop??? Banna do al this thinz knowing very wel hore they wil come back and usk fo forgiveness. Ebe hosane ba ya pheta qetellong ontso oituletse ka tlung phamokate (AIDS))) ekene ebe ke hona motho a bulehang mahlo• Haho ntho eke tshabang jwalo ka AIDS my two relative died infront of me becos of it ebe lenna ke tla emela hore enhlasele??? Che lekgale khilik!!! I saw some one that i kno very wel acheata several times.. Keipotse hore ebe waka monna oetsang mo aleng teng... Che ena yona ke kgehlepe•

Why don't you stay single like myself? See, I am on topix now and nobody is asking me:

"why don't you come to bed?"

I am also not worried about:

"ebe o tla fihla nako mang?"

Chitja wa Botha Bothe wrote:

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Why don't you stay single like myself? See, I am on topix now and nobody is asking me:
"why don't you come to bed?"
I am also not worried about:
"ebe o tla fihla nako mang?"

Che le wena Chitja taba tsa hao. That is tempting u know... Empahe with me it is too late children involved

saga wrote:

<quoted text> Che le wena Chitja taba tsa hao. That is tempting u know... Empahe with me it is too late children involved

Ke na le bana le nna.

saga wrote:

Otla fumana your husbnd or boyfriend a cheata ao abusa. Then a kgutle hape are forgive me i made a mistake,i didnt mean to, it just happend,, i was angry at u and i decieded to sleep with her,, besides i slept with her yes but i was thinking about u my love!!! Ebe rona he nthwana tsa batho re a tshwarela. Wen is it going to stop??? Banna do al this thinz knowing very wel hore they wil come back and usk fo forgiveness. Ebe hosane ba ya pheta qetellong ontso oituletse ka tlung phamokate (AIDS))) ekene ebe ke hona motho a bulehang mahlo• Haho ntho eke tshabang jwalo ka AIDS my two relative died infront of me becos of it ebe lenna ke tla emela hore enhlasele??? Che lekgale khilik!!! I saw some one that i kno very wel acheata several times.. Keipotse hore ebe waka monna oetsang mo aleng teng... Che ena yona ke kgehlepe•

I dont know hore why they allow to be treated like door mats. However, I know that women are forgiving by nature.

Wait, I think they allow to be mistreated because most think that being single is a shame or curse for lack of better words.

I am also waiting for women to answer this one.

Sash_ wrote:

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I dont know hore why they allow to be treated like door mats. However, I know that women are forgiving by nature.
Wait, I think they allow to be mistreated because most think that being single is a shame or curse for lack of better words.
I am also waiting for women to answer this one.

haba arabe sash empa he ke akgolwa nako haesobe teng.. Che teng oopile hlooho lenaka keleleng la mabaka leo

Sash_ wrote:

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I think they allow to be mistreated because most think that being single is a shame or curse.

That's not true!

Chitja wa Botha Bothe wrote:

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That's not true!

Unfortunately, I have heard from some women that they are scared to be single. I am not saying all of them. You should know me by now hore ha ke generalise.

They also say others will be waiting to snatch their men once they (women) dump them.

Sash_ wrote:

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Unfortunately, I have heard from some women that they are scared to be single. I am not saying all of them. You should know me by now hore ha ke generalise.
They also say others will be waiting to snatch their men once they (women) dump them.

Being single after age 30 is not a choice.

...but a tribulation!

Chitja wa Botha Bothe wrote:

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Being single after age 30 is not a choice.

Point being?

Chitja wa Botha Bothe wrote:

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Being single after age 30 is not a choice.

please elaborate on that i dont really get your point

Some women ba khotlella tsohle tse because ba le financially dependent to these men.

Sash that is one of the main rreosons keobolelle some woman babile ba pata hore banna ba bona ba ba shapa ore even abuse them emotionally which is the worst. Hobane ba tshaba hore they wil find themselves on the treets banna baba tebetse ha ba bua taba tseo. Monghadi ebe wena onahana jwang ka emtionl abuse? Basadi re mamelletse mathata i just want to know hore lona bomme le nahanang kabontate basa re tshwareng hantle not all men though hope lea tseba hore hake akaretse

Sash_ wrote:

Some women ba khotlella tsohle tse because ba le financially dependent to these men.

S'true!

saga wrote:

Otla fumana your husbnd or boyfriend a cheata ao abusa. Then a kgutle hape are forgive me i made a mistake,i didnt mean to, it just happend,, i was angry at u and i decieded to sleep with her,, besides i slept with her yes but i was thinking about u my love!!! Ebe rona he nthwana tsa batho re a tshwarela. Wen is it going to stop??? Banna do al this thinz knowing very wel hore they wil come back and usk fo forgiveness. Ebe hosane ba ya pheta qetellong ontso oituletse ka tlung phamokate (AIDS))) ekene ebe ke hona motho a bulehang mahlo• Haho ntho eke tshabang jwalo ka AIDS my two relative died infront of me becos of it ebe lenna ke tla emela hore enhlasele??? Che lekgale khilik!!! I saw some one that i kno very wel acheata several times.. Keipotse hore ebe waka monna oetsang mo aleng teng... Che ena yona ke kgehlepe•

Bona mona hle nnana,motho wa mosadi o dula ale bonolo kamehla,ha oka fumana mosadi ele scruff feela,ntho esa qekeng o tsebe feela hore mosadi eo ke makgenefa feela tjee,ha ole mosadi olokelwa ke hoikokobetsa bakeng sa monna wa hao kamehla....taba ya banna ba cheatang ha e qale kabona banna baa barona,ke kgale eleteng hotloha ka bontata-ntata-ntata-ntata-ntat a-ntata moholo ya tswalang ntate wa hao,so waebona hore ke long story taba ya batho baa?ha o batla hophela hantle le monna wa hao lapeng lalone,oska kena taba tsa monna wa hao.KENNA EO,KE TJHO JWALO("LADY_M")

LADY_M wrote:

<quoted text>Bona mona hle nnana,motho wa mosadi o dula ale bonolo kamehla,ha oka fumana mosadi ele scruff feela,ntho esa qekeng o tsebe feela hore mosadi eo ke makgenefa feela tjee,ha ole mosadi olokelwa ke hoikokobetsa bakeng sa monna wa hao kamehla....taba ya banna ba cheatang ha e qale kabona banna baa barona,ke kgale eleteng hotloha ka bontata-ntata-ntata-ntata-ntat a-ntata moholo ya tswalang ntate wa hao,so waebona hore ke long story taba ya batho baa?ha o batla hophela hantle le monna wa hao lapeng lalone,oska kena taba tsa monna wa hao.KENNA EO,KE TJHO JWALO("LADY_M")

khele!