Lao girls and white guys

just wondering why most if not all Lao girls in San Diego seems to date only white guys. my guess is that these girls only do thinking that they are going to be well taken care of and not have to work. Sad very sad that Lao girls think like this really. I see so many single mom's here in SD it's just too sad. Truth is it will never work and these girls seem to run back thinking that any Asian guy will accept them with a kid now. studies have shown only 20% of these type of relationship works out. Sorry but stop rushing in and trying to trap these guys by having a kid. Go work like everyone else and maybe than you will have a better life and not be single at 30++ walking around with a kid.

whoa that's so sad... My guess is that laotian/asian girls tend to date white men because they are taught at a very early age that lighter skin = noble, wealthy..etc. They need to feel accepted within the western society, and therefore will date white men to feel good about themselves. Sometimes to go as far as using children as entrapment.. although it never works, or have dyed their hair blonde with chinky eyes, breast implants, nose.. lips, all of that so that they could look "white." and when they date white men, it only completes the whole fake image they've been dying to create.

Its not that I am against dating white people, I just think most of the people, esp in San Diego.. are obsessed with image.. I think you need to go to laos and procreate there, I heard they're good at keeping it pure.

Being Asian but not Lao I just don't get it. Also given that I am from up North and been in San Diego for about 2yr. Don't get me wrong here as I really have nothing against white people in general but just look at how/who they are. Most if not all of them don't what to date their own kind cuz they want that control over the women. Also I've seem the disrespect that they are towards Asian in general. Why eat and date Asian then right but to them its all about the control and thinking and looking down at Asian.
I do see and know now that Lao girls don't care to work or have the education for a better job. Not their fault as from what I've been told, they spend their better part of life caring for the parents/family. Still stop degrading yourself and have some respect. I'm just so surprise to see so so many single's walking the streets.

Here's the thing..

You see, white men have this idea that asian women are passive, exotic, given by their fascination of dating them. Asian women like to date white guys, because they believe that they are the better race. If you snag a white guy, you're accepted..(so sad). I'm not saying to all, but generally speaking.

** I use to always say the same thing about you, how most of the laotian women back up north where I grew up, most are pregnant by 15; barely finished high school, and have absolutely no pursuit of furthering their education or seeking a better life (one which you could create on your own).. and I've always frowned upon it. My family was big on education, they were big in letting me know that I MUST finish college before I even started to date..etc. But then again, my family was an educated family.. but then you have to consider where these families are from. My family came from generations of wealthy where as being uneducated was never accepted, having children before marriage was unaccepted..etc. But you see, most laotions who migrate to US, are from families that are victims of wartorn country. Most are farmers, villagers, & back then, education for women was not a big thing. In this culture, women are made to be wives and having their own family at an early age was accepted. And the parents who migrate to the US still have the same mindset in terms of roles for women.

The children of war or post war are now which I presume that is mine and your age; are living with families with the same mindset as farmers and villages the "old ways" so they continue to what they see and what is taught from their parents.. but here's the thing..

Just because of their background, impregnating yourself to trap a man or living off of welfare, is not an excuse to be lazy..

I agree to most of what you said except for the part of Lao girls/people in North Cal.
I’m from San Francisco and there are not too any Lao or Thai people really. Not like So Cal where there are all over the place. Must be the weather as I am sure they prefer warmer clement. As I said, it was a shock to see what I’ve seen so far and what I’ve been hearing as well. As you said, education and being independent is not what they were taught by their family given their background I guess. Still that’s no excuse as my life was not any better. Education is free in the US right so can’t use I got no $$ BS.

The sad part is that you are feeding them what they already think they know of Asian’s and which is also why they are how & who they are. It’s a shame too cuz a yr or two from now
you will be older and most likely with a kid or two. Who would want you with what will you have to offer?

So to all you Lao ladies out there reading but not replying back. Have some and I mean some dignity for urself. Stop going around thinking white people are better than Asian’s
cuz they’re not at all and you will be like the rest shortly with nothing to show for it except for a kid that you need to care for alone. Sure there are about 10% of interracial couples that works out but that’s one game I would want to play. If all you care for is money than go for it and get what you can if that is the type of person you are. If money isn’t everything to you and you’re looking for love than stop and think before you do anything. Go work for what you want and stop looking for someone to buy it for you. Besides, when it’s over you take nothing with you. It’s like a lease right, you will end up giving it back in the end short or long term it doesn’t matter. Only if you all act the way you look. I think most of the Lao ladies I see are attractive so Please act the part and have some respect for yourself. It’s hard to respect a person that acts like a maid if not a slave. Get it??

Organized Chaos, thanks for your post and info. You got it right on the noise about fascination and being exotic. Asian women are just that and after they get you and have their fun. You’re left outside with nothing and they will just go on to the next one as they always do. As I said and I’ll say it again in case you miss it. Think before you do anything and why are you all rush into it anyways. Take your time, be friends first and see where that goes what’s the rush. I hope everyone of you in this board can take something I said and use it for a better life.

whyuask wrote:

just wondering why most if not all Lao girls in San Diego seems to date only white guys. my guess is that these girls only do thinking that they are going to be well taken care of and not have to work. Sad very sad that Lao girls think like this really. I see so many single mom's here in SD it's just too sad. Truth is it will never work and these girls seem to run back thinking that any Asian guy will accept them with a kid now. studies have shown only 20% of these type of relationship works out. Sorry but stop rushing in and trying to trap these guys by having a kid. Go work like everyone else and maybe than you will have a better life and not be single at 30++ walking around with a kid.

I think most of Asian girl who gone with white or black guy most of those girl r expect to have better sex. I'd say at least 80% of it.

Lao girls are small and sluty. We like to do those tight asses but I wouldn't marry one. Lao girls are good for sex only not wife.

Don't blame white men b/c your sisters are slutty and gold digger.

Actually I just banged one last night. She is my back up when I need to release it.

whiteman wrote:

Lao girls are small and sluty. We like to do those tight asses but I wouldn't marry one. Lao girls are good for sex only not wife.
Don't blame white men b/c your sisters are slutty and gold digger.
Actually I just banged one last night. She is my back up when I need to release it.

is that why your here saying all this s@&t? If you want to get personal come to SD and say it to my face. Your all that behind a PC and thanks for proving my point. you white or red necks need to be with your own kind. My sister, can you read if so read ^^ than post your comments. If Lao girls are slutty not sluty learn to spell if your going to talk s%@t. 10 to 1 your a ugly loser going around hitting anything that has a hole. don't your mom have one so go hit that haha!!!!
Okay so back to the topic. If that is how Lao girls are than so be it. This is all new to me and feel sorry for the way they think and act. Be how you are if that makes you happy. I will make sure to pass around what white people think of Asian's in general and quote the red neck here.

whiteman wrote:

Lao girls are small and sluty. We like to do those tight asses but I wouldn't marry one. Lao girls are good for sex only not wife.
Don't blame white men b/c your sisters are slutty and gold digger.
Actually I just banged one last night. She is my back up when I need to release it.

u fucxking liar. u r not white guy u r thai ladyboy don't fucxking create story idiot.

whiteman wrote:

Lao girls are small and sluty. We like to do those tight asses but I wouldn't marry one. Lao girls are good for sex only not wife.
Don't blame white men b/c your sisters are slutty and gold digger.
Actually I just banged one last night. She is my back up when I need to release it.

Oh really, u banged one last night? did u turn on the light make you is not your mom. lol

What can I say a whore is a whor. Most Asian girls are stupid anyway. Even if they have education they still stupid.
I almost married one. Thank god she left me. Now, I saw he she have 3 kids with different dudes.
I'm not the only one that experience this. Isn't what this topic is about. lao girls r walking single mom whor. LOL!

whiteman wrote:

What can I say a whore is a whor. Most Asian girls are stupid anyway. Even if they have education they still stupid.
I almost married one. Thank god she left me. Now, I saw he she have 3 kids with different dudes.
I'm not the only one that experience this. Isn't what this topic is about. lao girls r walking single mom whor. LOL!

I use to dated a white girl she also the same your laos girl what u gona say about that? I won't accuse most white girl are like you accusing Asian girl because some of them good the samething to Asian girl many of them r good actually Asian girl most better behavior then any other girl in the world thats my opinion. ok dude u stay away from Asian girl and I stay away from white trash. deal? lol

look white man, ugly man and whatever you are. you can't get a white chick with cuz your ugly right. so now you go after the Lao/Asian girls by telling all your BS. You can say what you want but I bet 10 to 1 everything that your said is all BS just like you and most if not all you red neckers.
Now to all the Asian girls that read this tread. You now see what I've been seeing for the longest. Don't think you can change them or believe that they are going to cuz they said so. Anyone can say anything but actions proves what words cannot. I guess its right to blame the girls as well. Why do you put down or think the Asian men are nothing? In the end you come back running to us but don't bother if this is how you think. I oersonally have never and will never date a aisan girl that dated a white man. Why you ask? well read all my comments and you will get your answer.
hate it or not, disagree or not, it is what it is and has been proven too many times for any one to argue. white guys like asian girls but never will they marry you and give you the love/respect you wanted. some I know did get married only to divorce in a matter of an yr or so. She walked away with nothing cuz she was stupid. If you want to play around go for it but don't think for one sec. that we asian men want to be with you in the end. Take the risk live with the result and deal with it.

I don't trust asian girls in USA. They are two face. They only love you for your money. I better off just dating them and 'F' them for fun only. I get more asses that way.

Asian guys, I feel sorry for you guys. You don't know how many married asian girls i "F'd". Like I said asian girls are two face.

Don't get mad it's not me it her. LOL!

whiteman wrote:

I don't trust asian girls in USA. They are two face. They only love you for your money. I better off just dating them and 'F' them for fun only. I get more asses that way.
Asian guys, I feel sorry for you guys. You don't know how many married asian girls i "F'd". Like I said asian girls are two face.
Don't get mad it's not me it her. LOL!

u no need to worry. the finger is your, you can stick it into any noses you want. go for as many as you can....white, black, asian, brown who care!

but i donot believed u were that lucky found that many sexy married honey. don't tell me you were using the plastic vibration lovely of fake "p"from the internet....hope u know what i mean.

whiteman wrote:

What can I say a whore is a whor. Most Asian girls are stupid anyway. Even if they have education they still stupid.
I almost married one. Thank god she left me. Now, I saw he she have 3 kids with different dudes.
I'm not the only one that experience this. Isn't what this topic is about. lao girls r walking single mom whor. LOL!

is this just a jealousy of what you lost from hand? u sound kind of sad.....

whiteman wrote:

I don't trust asian girls in USA. They are two face. They only love you for your money. I better off just dating them and 'F' them for fun only. I get more asses that way.
Asian guys, I feel sorry for you guys. You don't know how many married asian girls i "F'd". Like I said asian girls are two face.
Don't get mad it's not me it her. LOL!

its depending bro, not all asian girl like u said I had seen many married couple lived their life to the end. I'd say some good some bad just like every other girl else I been heard many black, white and Hispanic girl are bittchy thats really scare me off people at work with me told their girl love them more when Friday coming b/c Friday is payday what do you want to say about that? many asain girl don care much money like that the most they care your true heart. maybe the asain girl who you meet she know who u r what kind of person you is that's why? so stop blame all the asain girl bro, face the reality. people in this world they aint the same there are good and bad. pretty much normal.

I am Laotian woman married to a white American. We have a wonderful marriage and 4 beautiful boys. I would not trade my husband for any other.

Tip wrote:

I am Laotian woman married to a white American. We have a wonderful marriage and 4 beautiful boys. I would not trade my husband for any other.

well, no one say wanted from you. you can keep him lady. good luck