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Rocky
Lynn, MA
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I remember when I was in the 10th grade last year (just finished 11th) that there was this Indian girl who would look at me in a weird way in the school halls. Could you give me advice and your thoughts on Indian women and Black men ?
Thanks.
rocky.louis@yahoo.com
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Woohi
Ahmadabad, India
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As far as I know, Will Smith is quite a hit with some Indian girls -so is Tiger Woods. Nowadays, I even heard a few of them lapping up to Barack Obama. But, all the same -I don't see too many liking your Tupac, Tyrone or whatever else gangsta type of Black men. Indian girls are attracted more to money, wealth, status than looks and appearance. The chances of successful Black men being able to date Indian women is as much or as less as White men doing the same. It's not about your ethnicity (of course, a majority would stick to their own ethnicity). My advice would be not to worry too much about the sexual attraction part. Indian women are a lot more serious when it comes to committing so no games or brief encounters - either you go all the way in or you stay out. Although, interracial attraction is always strong because of the "curiosity of the unknown", if you attempt to f*ck and forget an Indian girl, her angry brother or father may put a hit man after you. Just remember to take it seriously if you're at all going to do it. Get rid of your "Tupac" and try to date Indian girls with an open mind. Not that difficult.
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Hashatt
Pine Mountain, GA
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Woohi - Your post is right on target. Really most women of any race are attracted more to money, status than looks, etc. Decent women of all races in general prefer security over looks when it comes to dating men. It is usually men who are so concerned about looks. Hashatt
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Rocky
Boston, MA
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Woohi wrote: As far as I know, Will Smith is quite a hit with some Indian girls -so is Tiger Woods. Nowadays, I even heard a few of them lapping up to Barack Obama. But, all the same -I don't see too many liking your Tupac, Tyrone or whatever else gangsta type of Black men. Indian girls are attracted more to money, wealth, status than looks and appearance. The chances of successful Black men being able to date Indian women is as much or as less as White men doing the same. It's not about your ethnicity (of course, a majority would stick to their own ethnicity). My advice would be not to worry too much about the sexual attraction part. Indian women are a lot more serious when it comes to committing so no games or brief encounters - either you go all the way in or you stay out. Although, interracial attraction is always strong because of the "curiosity of the unknown", if you attempt to f*ck and forget an Indian girl, her angry brother or father may put a hit man after you. Just remember to take it seriously if you're at all going to do it. Get rid of your "Tupac" and try to date Indian girls with an open mind. Not that difficult. Do you have any proof that any have put a "hit" on a person who left.
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Hashatt
Phenix City, AL
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Rocky wrote: <quoted text> Woohi wrote: .. Although, interracial attraction is always strong because of the "curiosity of the unknown", if you attempt to f*ck and forget an Indian girl, her angry brother or father may put a hit man after you... ========== Do you have any proof that any have put a "hit" on a person who left. Rocky, there was a case here in Atlanta. The girl was black and the guy (Indian), but the girl even did not have to leave. It should not by any means paint ALL Indians with a broadbrush though: The Atlanta Journal Constitution (AJC) has the full story: Witness: Hit man offered to kill husband, too. Victim's father-in-law accused in her murder. By STEVE VISSER The Atlanta Journal-Constitution Published on: 06/19/08 http://www.ajc.com/metro/content/metro/storie...
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Rocky
Boston, MA
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Hashatt wrote: <quoted text> Rocky, there was a case here in Atlanta. The girl was black and the guy (Indian), but the girl even did not have to leave. It should not by any means paint ALL Indians with a broadbrush though: The Atlanta Journal Constitution (AJC) has the full story: Witness: Hit man offered to kill husband, too. Victim's father-in-law accused in her murder. By STEVE VISSER The Atlanta Journal-Constitution Published on: 06/19/08 http://www.ajc.com/metro/content/metro/storie... I knew about that.
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charlotte
Berwyn, PA
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It's against our culture for Indian women to date/marry interracially for the most part. Those who do go against their parents wishes or have liberal parents. My parents came to the US in the 1980s & they're just as traditional as when they first came & they definitely want me to marry an Indian guy. It doesn't end there, they need to be from the same caste, speak the same language, be either a doctor or an engineer & well educated & be from a decent family. When I was in highschool & college & would take the subways I noticed that alot of black guys would hit on me & try to talk to me. My Indian/Pakistani girlfriends went through the same thing. Also dark skin isnt considered beautiful in India. So if you ever see an Indian dating a non Indian it might be a white person more often than a black person. The case were the father put a hit out on his daughter in law is rare, he must have been very conservative & maybe crazy. Normal ppl dont do that. If I married someone non Indian, my parents would be heartbroken & face humiliation in front of our family & friends, they would be really upset for a long time & they would prolly disown me & not talk to me...but they wouldn't go so far as to hurt whoever I married.
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Jacqueline
London, UK
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I do. I wouldn't say all of them. I'm dating one at the moment and he's hot! Never thought really about going out with a black guy before, but when I met him, I almost instantly liked him - more for his personality though. I believe in going out with people you're attracted to, rather than looking at their race first.
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mystic
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indains in general have a negative attitude when it comes to darker people ( cast system?). that explains why every second add on tv is about skin lightners. I know about someone who cant find a husband because she is considered 'dark'. hav you ever noticed how 'light' the bollywood actresses are. its their standard of beauty i guess.
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charlotte
Berwyn, PA
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mystic wrote: indains in general have a negative attitude when it comes to darker people ( cast system?). that explains why every second add on tv is about skin lightners. I know about someone who cant find a husband because she is considered 'dark'. hav you ever noticed how 'light' the bollywood actresses are. its their standard of beauty i guess. You are absolutely right! To take a look at what's considered beautiful or ideal in ANY country in the world, all you have to do is take a look at their actresses/actors & most ppl from that country will say they are hot or beautiful. So yes light skin, long straight silky hair, slim figures (like bollywood actresses) are considered beautiful in India.
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Aakash Kapoor
India
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Why should any woman in her right frame of mind have anything to do with negro monkeys? You all look like unevolved gorillas. Stick to your own apewomen and do not pollute the remaining human genepool with your simian stuff.
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Jacqueline
London, UK
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Aakash, Indian men like you are one of the reasons I never really date Indian men. Pure ignorance on a massive scale. Get a life and broaden your mind.
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Link
UK
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Someone said....."I never really date Indian men". May be some people enjoy dating again and again.....until they find the right one. Clearly would prove there are various type they dont like. May be some just enjoy going with different ones for company and enjoyment and not wanting to get serious about getting married.
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Link
UK
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Few ignorant ones and to hate them all would be some what silly.
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UK
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Aakash.....means sky? Male name or Female name?
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“everything is an illusion....”
Since: Aug 07
Mumbai, India
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nisha wrote: The black men here (African Americans) are mostly lazy, they aren't educated, they dont work & leave their women after getting them pregnant...they are also violent etc. African American women aren't that much better. They talk in ebonics & curse all the time & fight over men that aren't worth fighting over. This goes to the extent of physical fights. I've seen African men & they aren't that much better. They marry women & are constantly unfaithful to them & lie to them (esp Nigerian men) On top of that they dont look good. They usually leave women after the sex or have women on the side. I noticed that some of the black guys here are crazy about Indian women cuz we are pretty. Even if you say no to them & clearly tell them that you aren't interested they will still go after you. I once told one black man that I already had a bf (even though I was single at the time) to get him to leave me alone but he didn't care that I had a bf. I haven't seen this kind of persistence with any other race. It's not a good thing at all. Indian men like women who are fair & slim. Black men like their women big, the like big behinds, big hips, thighs etc...and black women in general have much bigger body frames than Indian women. Indian women tend to be slim & petite so chances are since black men are so obsessed with big butts they'll leave the Indian girl for one of their own after using her for sex. What is considered avg in African culture would be considered fat in India. In a typical black music video, it is always the behind that's emphasized cuz that's what they like. I've seen how black men are & I've seen how Indian men are...I prefer an Indian man ANYDAY over a black man!! They are alot more honest, faithful & they're the best. so its ur personal bitter experience which is spewing so much venom for the black race....i can just tell u one thing.....what happens, happens for good...and what didnt happened, happened for good as well....anyway dont think indian men are as holy as u think and for that matter any other race...so just chill....and love every moment...
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nisha
Berwyn, PA
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I'm not really bitter & I dont think all Indian men are holy but it's a pattern I've seen over & over again with black men. I haven't seen this pattern with any other race! And I live in a very multicultural society. If a white man approaches me & I say no, he leaves me alone, the same goes for an Indian & Asian man. But I've repeatedly seen how black men go after women who dont want them. They dont know how to leave women alone...and if they get her, they use her for sex & leave her & move on to their next target. This is a public forum so I can't write everything that I've been through as it's personal but from my experiences I'm very wary of black men esp West Africans. I've never had any bad experiences personally with African American men but I've seen the way they talk, the way they act & I'd rather not be around it.
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“everything is an illusion....”
Since: Aug 07
Mumbai, India
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nisha wrote: I'm not really bitter & I dont think all Indian men are holy but it's a pattern I've seen over & over again with black men. I haven't seen this pattern with any other race! And I live in a very multicultural society. If a white man approaches me & I say no, he leaves me alone, the same goes for an Indian & Asian man. But I've repeatedly seen how black men go after women who dont want them. They dont know how to leave women alone...and if they get her, they use her for sex & leave her & move on to their next target. This is a public forum so I can't write everything that I've been through as it's personal but from my experiences I'm very wary of black men esp West Africans. I've never had any bad experiences personally with African American men but I've seen the way they talk, the way they act & I'd rather not be around it. and i think ur posting had made u a little lighter....just give it a time and forget the past....but learn from experience and be positive...and u will definetly find ur charming prince....:)
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nisha
Berwyn, PA
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indian funda wrote: <quoted text>and i think ur posting had made u a little lighter....just give it a time and forget the past....but learn from experience and be positive...and u will definetly find ur charming prince....:) Thanks for the advice...I'm trying to do just that even though it's easier said than done, you're right Time does heal. Forgetting what happened isn't as easy though. But it's made me stronger emotionally & mentally. I have learned alot & though I've been on this emotional roller coaster ride the past few months, I'm trying to stay positive!
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