Why do Indian men always stare at foreign women in India

Shila wrote:

<quoted text>Sorry to hear that, but i guess thats the risk in any IR dating situation.

Actually i have come from a broken family, maybe that is why i am a bit over cautious when it comes to dating and getting emotionally involved with anyone.

I was infact deciding on whether to date a white guy who i met at a social setting, he seemed genuine over phone, but after hearing to that lunch time conversation amongst those other guys at work, i decided to not meet up that guy, coz it just didnt feel right.

Who knows may be i lost out on something good, but i just dont think i can take such a big risk.

Shila wrote:

The sad thing is that, its people like you all trolls that create lot of fear and anxiety in other people, who may be eager to try out IR dating etc.

Coz no one wants to risk getting hurt, they end up buying crap that posters like Burbi...and Gandu are selling. Hence genuine people end up losing out.

Shame on yourselves.

ilovedesigirls wrote:

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Well you are generalising way too much.

ilovedesigirls wrote:

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Well you are generalising way too much.

ilovedesigirls wrote:

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I admit you are right on this one.
I myself wonder what desi girls think about white men when I come across one then realise that a lot of times it's Indian men posing here as girls talking crap about us so we get self-conscious and won't consider it. Fortunately I can detect them now lol
Oh and Pakistani guys shouldn't think they are any better than Indian guys when it comes to insecurity in dating, giving white girls a bad name, intimidating desi girls not to date IR etc. In fact they're way worse.

Shila wrote:

<quoted text>Actually my life is really complicated now, just like some stupid Bollywood movie. Highly subjective Female intuition is all I have got. Anyway thanks.

ilovedesigirls wrote:

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There are 2 movies you should watch.
1. Bend it like beckham
2. Bride & Prejudice
Both somewhat sum up my experiences too lol

ilovedesigirls wrote:

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There are 2 movies you should watch.
1. Bend it like beckham
2. Bride & Prejudice
Both somewhat sum up my experiences too lol

Shila wrote:

<quoted text>Actually there's a few movies that make up my story too. Lol I havent disclosed the exact details of my story to u, it's much more detailed, with other characters.

All I want is just a normal family, not sure why life, culture, family, conscience, emotions etc has to complicate it so much. I just dont want to get hurt or get anyone else hurt either.

I know the indian movies I watched as a kid, that preaches that love only happens once in a lifetime, is what is doing my head in.

xXNazir_ShahXx wrote:

<quoted text>lol "jasvinder dont use those swearing words !", No more football,shootball learn to make parothe

ilovedesigirls wrote:

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Life could be simple if it weren't for 2 annoying things:
1. Social constructs (culture, traditions, religion, etc)
2. Peer pressure (others making sure you follow 1 to the tee)

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Shila wrote:

<quoted text>Hope you find what you seek.

All the best :)

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ilovedesigirls wrote:

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I know I won't. When people say good luck they usually mean "I'm not interested so try somewhere else". I've been good-luck'd so many times so I'll know.:-(

Shila wrote:

<quoted text>I seriously meant it. You seem like a nice guy & sound good looking too. Unfortunately all my indian friends are taken :( Sorry

Some Indian women are into a bit authoritative & assertive (not sure why) guys, just a tip.:-)

ilovedesigirls wrote:

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I didn't know one could sound good-looking lol. Anyway chill you're on the other side of the globe and so are your friends so even if you could match me there's no way it'll work out logistically speaking.

Shila wrote:

<quoted text>I assume nice things about people that aren't haters/racists. That's all.

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Rajasekhara Reddy wrote:

Tamils are the ones who stare at white ppl. they crave for sex all day long.