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Apr 21, 2009
 
have you guys seen this new Ethiopian site www.addis1.com a lot of ethiopian girls are there
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Apr 21, 2009
 
I am an Ethiopian Male who look our culture as unfriendly even hostile to cross-cultural and inter-racial marriages. The effect will be more sevier for children. Only for this reason, I do not recommend it. Why should the child pay a price for...? I am compelled to say so after going through the following heart breaking forum and others. http://www.topix.com/forum/world/ethiopia/TS2 ...

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May 5, 2009
 
Ethiopians are always talking about they don't like cross-cultural and inter-racial marriages.So let me ask you this then why doesn't this apply to WHITE PEOPLE you don't have anything in common with them ether.You people make me sick.

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May 5, 2009
 
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Ethiopians are always talking about they don't like cross-cultural and inter-racial marriages.So let me ask you this then why doesn't this apply to WHITE PEOPLE you don't have anything in common with them ether.You people make me sick.
LOL it does apply to white ppl. Besides I know I just saw you talking in another forum about how your habesha girlfriend dumped you:

http://www.habeshafriends.com/forums/view/141...

...so take some time to let that wound heal before you cast rocks.

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ceelove wrote:
Ethiopians are always talking about they don't like cross-cultural and inter-racial marriages.So let me ask you this then why doesn't this apply to WHITE PEOPLE you don't have anything in common with them ether.You people make me sick.
Shrek howdy? what is wrong with you.

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ceelove wrote:
Ethiopians are always talking about they don't like cross-cultural and inter-racial marriages.So let me ask you this then why doesn't this apply to WHITE PEOPLE you don't have anything in common with them ether.You people make me sick.
You must be one stupid asshole. If we make sick then stay away from us., Beside, unless one insane, who want to get involved with a crack head thug, a high school drop out loud voiced individual. People like you make me sick always trying to score and create babies lighter than you and with a better grade hair. Look around you how many bastards of a mix race you have? So stay away
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ceelove wrote:
Ethiopians are always talking about they don't like cross-cultural and inter-racial marriages.So let me ask you this then why doesn't this apply to WHITE PEOPLE you don't have anything in common with them ether.You people make me sick.
THIS WHAT YOU POSTED ON HABESA FORUM
"I am a african american male.I was in a relationship with this ethiopian women we were together for about FIVE YEARS. Everything was going good but her family wanted her to marry a ethiopian guy.To make a long story short she ended our relationship and is now with him.It hurt's very bad I think about her all the time she still want us to be lover's and friend's but I don't know I wanted to be with her.Can anyone explain to me why she did what she did I just don't know what to do."..........

Did you say FIVE YEARS. Shame on you....Don't think five years is quite a very long time to make up your mind either to marry her or for to find her mate? I am sure she was expecting to ask to marry her. But then, it obvious that she was a trophy to be paraded with you. To tell you the truth, it seems to me you have been stringer her all along for five years. If you were interested with her, which I doubted, in women life five years is a very long time. Fact is she gave you the best year of her life. fact is that you used her for your self ego and nice she woke up soon. According to Max Weber a German social sociologist writing about women, he stated that when a women past her prime age for marriage, thus to have children, he postulated that she will depreciate by 5 years, since there are others coming in behind her competing with her. Though one might think that he theory inapplicable in the modern time, I am sure there is a merit to his postulation or theory.

In light this facts, I guess rather than blaming her or her family, you better look at yourselves and count the stock within your. I say to you get over it and dust up your self and go on hunting for another naive girl
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In light this facts, I guess rather than blaming her or her family, you better look at yourselves and count the stock within your. I say to you get over it and dust up your self and go on hunting for another naive girl
After reading the crap that the Butt-hole said just ahead of your post, I was not going to lower myself to comment. But, after reading your reply I felt it necessary to post, if only to say that you give your people a glimmer of hope. Your response was rather clever and without any ounce of arrogant stupidity. There are times when I think that America need to give up on the Ethiopian government and let it fall into the hands of Saudi Arabia, Iran, or Arab League of Nations. But you attempt to represent your people in a somewhat cultural and humanitarian manner, which tends to make me rethink my judgement for your people and country. I know from time to time it will be tempting to lower yourself to the cesspool mentality of so many who post on this tread, but think of the innocents in your homeland, who wants no part of the decadence.

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After reading the crap that the Butt-hole said just ahead of your post, I was not going to lower myself to comment. But, after reading your reply I felt it necessary to post, if only to say that you give your people a glimmer of hope. Your response was rather clever and without any ounce of arrogant stupidity. There are times when I think that America need to give up on the Ethiopian government and let it fall into the hands of Saudi Arabia, Iran, or Arab League of Nations. But you attempt to represent your people in a somewhat cultural and humanitarian manner, which tends to make me rethink my judgement for your people and country. I know from time to time it will be tempting to lower yourself to the cesspool mentality of so many who post on this tread, but think of the innocents in your homeland, who wants no part of the decadence.
To tell U the truth I dont give a F what U think of us. First U are not Ethiopian U are AA U people have enough problems to worry about. U are so clueless what the Ethiopian government got to do with dating. Instead of acusing Ethiopian women why they dont date AA men, why dont u worry about why AA men never date AA women.

http://www.youtube.com/watch...

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May 6, 2009
 
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LOL it does apply to white ppl. Besides I know I just saw you talking in another forum about how your habesha girlfriend dumped you:
http://www.habeshafriends.com/forums/view/141...
...so take some time to let that wound heal before you cast rocks.
I was just giving my opinion about what I thought.Yes I was dating a ethiopian women for about five years and it was because of her family why our relationship ended.I would have married her,but her family caused alot of problems in our relationship.Yes it hurt very badly because we had a good thing going and Iam a very good man.Just to let you know hanie I don't think she loves the guy that she with now because if she did she wouldn't won't us to still be lover's.That should let you know how good of a person I am compared to her."JUST A THOUGHT"

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May 7, 2009
 
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You must be one stupid asshole. If we make sick then stay away from us., Beside, unless one insane, who want to get involved with a crack head thug, a high school drop out loud voiced individual. People like you make me sick always trying to score and create babies lighter than you and with a better grade hair. Look around you how many bastards of a mix race you have? So stay away
Ethio1 I just wanted to say to you that Iam not a crack head,thug or a high school drop out and Iam not loud at all.Just like not all ethiopias are poor and always shown on tv needing money and asking for food or wanting a plane ticket to isreal.Their are a lot of very rich ethiopias in the world.The richest black man in the world happen's to be an ethiopian.Oh sorry for calling ethiopians black!!!Most of all I didn't want my ex-girlfriend because I thought our babies would have good hair.I fell inlove with her because she was a good person.Maybe my post was written with angry word's if so Iam sorry,but I really did love her.

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May 7, 2009
 
ceelove wrote:
Ethiopians are always talking about they don't like cross-cultural and inter-racial marriages.So let me ask you this then why doesn't this apply to WHITE PEOPLE you don't have anything in common with them ether.You people make me sick.
It is the same for white ppl

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some of u ethiopians need to stop calling all AAs crack head, thug, and high school drop out. It is not right.

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You must be one stupid asshole. If we make sick then stay away from us., Beside, unless one insane, who want to get involved with a crack head thug, a high school drop out loud voiced individual. People like you make me sick always trying to score and create babies lighter than you and with a better grade hair. Look around you how many bastards of a mix race you have? So stay away
Who said the value of ethiopian girls are good hair and being light skin? How do u guys think? If some one like ethiopians, u need to know that it is not about the TYPR OF THERE HAIR

Does the guy look likr he is inlove with her hair?

WOW
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<quoted text> Ethio1 I just wanted to say to you that Iam not a crack head,thug or a high school drop out and Iam not loud at all.Just like not all ethiopias are poor and always shown on tv needing money and asking for food or wanting a plane ticket to isreal.Their are a lot of very rich ethiopias in the world.The richest black man in the world happen's to be an ethiopian.Oh sorry for calling ethiopians black!!!Most of all I didn't want my ex-girlfriend because I thought our babies would have good hair.I fell inlove with her because she was a good person.Maybe my post was written with angry word's if so Iam sorry,but I really did love her.
Fact is that in most cases, be it Ethiopians or other traditional societies like ours, they want their children to getting married to their own kinds. I do not think it is a rocket science to understand the reason why. However, as someone pointed out to you, five years is a very long time. Babies were born, who are now in the 1st grade, a new president is elected and so on. You have not yet explained as to the reason you were "stringing" her all along, as it was pointed out to you by one of the poster. Fact is that be it white or black green or yellow, we like other traditional societies, in most cases, we rather be married within our race and people, since there is the excess baggage of cultural, language etc conflicts. Like most Ethiopian, I do not have the desire or want of marrying out of my people, since I do not want to be a translator between my in lows and my family. It is too much work. Most of all, I do not want to have a mix child.

Again, it seems your reason of wanting to have her was based with the idea that most probably your kid MIGHT have a fine hair. Sad for you to have a complex. However, it is not granted that your child will have such a hair texture as you would like to have. But then, it seems to me that your primary very reason to be with her is to have a child with a fine hair. This is really sad, since marriage or love should not have been based on this kind of criteria. If that was your primary reason, you could have married to AA women, who is of a mixed race, hence fulfilling all the requirements of your desire to have a women with nice feature and a fine hair, hence most likely granting you to have a child with a fine hair.

As far as, we being poor and starving, I suggest that you should spend sometime reading the experience of the Irish, Ukrainian etc famine and starvation and as to the very reason as why they came to the US in the first place. Being poor is not a qualifying characteristic of a society. Beside, in such a very rich country, you will find poor and starving people in the native Amrecan reservation, in the ghetto, the Appalachian people of the south est of the US, etc. So ahead and call us to your heart desire. What ever we are, believe me we are a proud people, who will not be ashamed of our country or our self, in most part our people. In fact it is to the contrary. Unlike other people, we are indeed proud of our colour and the station of our people in this society. On the other hand, in your very own society there are people bent on dividing each other either by their skin tone, hair texture or facial structure. Peace

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<quoted text> I was just giving my opinion about what I thought.Yes I was dating a ethiopian women for about five years and it was because of her family why our relationship ended.I would have married her,but her family caused alot of problems in our relationship.Yes it hurt very badly because we had a good thing going and Iam a very good man.Just to let you know hanie I don't think she loves the guy that she with now because if she did she wouldn't won't us to still be lover's.That should let you know how good of a person I am compared to her."JUST A THOUGHT"
I dont doubt that you are a good man, but I did sense that you were letting your hurt feelings get the better of you ("you ppl make me sick" etc). Getu explained very well our mindset when it comes to marriage, but at the end of the day you must accept that your ex made a choice and for better or worse she will have to live with it. The best you can do for yourself now is to move on with your own life :)

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Fact is that in most cases, be it Ethiopians or other traditional societies like ours, they want their children to getting married to their own kinds. I do not think it is a rocket science to understand the reason why. However, as someone pointed out to you, five years is a very long time. Babies were born, who are now in the 1st grade, a new president is elected and so on. You have not yet explained as to the reason you were "stringing" her all along, as it was pointed out to you by one of the poster. Fact is that be it white or black green or yellow, we like other traditional societies, in most cases, we rather be married within our race and people, since there is the excess baggage of cultural, language etc conflicts. Like most Ethiopian, I do not have the desire or want of marrying out of my people, since I do not want to be a translator between my in lows and my family. It is too much work. Most of all, I do not want to have a mix child.
Again, it seems your reason of wanting to have her was based with the idea that most probably your kid MIGHT have a fine hair. Sad for you to have a complex. However, it is not granted that your child will have such a hair texture as you would like to have. But then, it seems to me that your primary very reason to be with her is to have a child with a fine hair. This is really sad, since marriage or love should not have been based on this kind of criteria. If that was your primary reason, you could have married to AA women, who is of a mixed race, hence fulfilling all the requirements of your desire to have a women with nice feature and a fine hair, hence most likely granting you to have a child with a fine hair.
As far as, we being poor and starving, I suggest that you should spend sometime reading the experience of the Irish, Ukrainian etc famine and starvation and as to the very reason as why they came to the US in the first place. Being poor is not a qualifying characteristic of a society. Beside, in such a very rich country, you will find poor and starving people in the native Amrecan reservation, in the ghetto, the Appalachian people of the south est of the US, etc. So ahead and call us to your heart desire. What ever we are, believe me we are a proud people, who will not be ashamed of our country or our self, in most part our people. In fact it is to the contrary. Unlike other people, we are indeed proud of our colour and the station of our people in this society. On the other hand, in your very own society there are people bent on dividing each other either by their skin tone, hair texture or facial structure. Peace
Getu what is the deal with you and good hair and light skin.I was tryin to be nice ,but now Iam going to tell you how I really feel.Ethiopian's don't all have nice hair and light skin.How do you know if my ex was light or dark or if she had nice hair or nappy hair.Is it because if she didn't look like that you wouldn't consider her ethiopian and yes she has told me some story's.Secondly why would we get married if her whole family would turn their back on her that's the only reason why we didn't get married FOOL!lastly I just want to say that you and alot of ethiopian's need to get over yourself stop judging and looking down on other people.If everyone did that to you all where would you be ethiopian is the poorest country in the world and unlike you Iam not being funny It's the truth!!!Also I can play this game to getu I will admit ethiopian's are a beautiful people and maybe that the reason why so many of you are hung-up on your look's,but if you would really think about it what else do ethiopian's really have.So sorry to say it,but so so true!!

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<quoted text> Getu what is the deal with you and good hair and light skin.I was tryin to be nice ,but now Iam going to tell you how I really feel.Ethiopian's don't all have nice hair and light skin.How do you know if my ex was light or dark or if she had nice hair or nappy hair.Is it because if she didn't look like that you wouldn't consider her ethiopian and yes she has told me some story's.Secondly why would we get married if her whole family would turn their back on her that's the only reason why we didn't get married FOOL!lastly I just want to say that you and alot of ethiopian's need to get over yourself stop judging and looking down on other people.If everyone did that to you all where would you be ethiopian is the poorest country in the world and unlike you Iam not being funny It's the truth!!!Also I can play this game to getu I will admit ethiopian's are a beautiful people and maybe that the reason why so many of you are hung-up on your look's,but if you would really think about it what else do ethiopian's really have.So sorry to say it,but so so true!!
...what else ethiopians have ? did you finish 3rd grade even ? lol...I tell you what ethiopians have beside there god given look:

1. They are oldest independent nation in africa, never colonized, never subdued by anybody.

2. They are the only country in africa with 3000 years old written script which is still in use.

3.Ethiopia is along with armenia the oldest chsristian nation on earth and has also the oldest muslim community outside mecca. Ethiopia has also one of the oldest jewish communities of the world.

4. Ethiopia is the capital of the African Union which was established and initiated by ethiopian emperor haile sellassie when most of other african countries were still under colonialism.

5. and much more to come...
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<quoted text> Getu what is the deal with you and good hair and light skin.I was tryin to be nice ,but now Iam going to tell you how I really feel.Ethiopian's don't all have nice hair and light skin.How do you know if my ex was light or dark or if she had nice hair or nappy hair.Is it because if she didn't look like that you wouldn't consider her ethiopian and yes she has told me some story's.Secondly why would we get married if her whole family would turn their back on her that's the only reason why we didn't get married FOOL!lastly I just want to say that you and alot of ethiopian's need to get over yourself stop judging and looking down on other people.If everyone did that to you all where would you be ethiopian is the poorest country in the world and unlike you Iam not being funny It's the truth!!!Also I can play this game to getu I will admit ethiopian's are a beautiful people and maybe that the reason why so many of you are hung-up on your look's,but if you would really think about it what else do ethiopian's really have.So sorry to say it,but so so true!!
Here we are like a wounded animal trying to attack. You are the one who posted you being rejected by her or her family. I am not the one who make you feel rejected and kicked you to the curve. The best way I know how tried to explain to you. Rather than to walk away with the understand that was given, you are going through your deep end. As I say, like most Ethiopians, we are not ashamed of the situation of our country nor that we are going to turn our back on her.

If you want to disparaging us, believe me other nations, such as Italians before and after the two war and the Arabs as well as people of your kinds have been insulting us. Thus dud, we are used to whatever you want to say till your heart content. Just maybe, it might help you to puff up and look at yourself as the one who avenged his loss. HAHAHA

The funny thing is that rather than facing and dealing with your own pain and madness of lose, you are trying to deflect your loss as if we are to be blamed. From the look of I hope you will not do any harm to her family. At any rate go ahead do what you need to do.
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...what else ethiopians have ? did you finish 3rd grade even ? lol...I tell you what ethiopians have beside there god given look:
1. They are oldest independent nation in africa, never colonized, never subdued by anybody.
2. They are the only country in africa with 3000 years old written script which is still in use.
3.Ethiopia is along with armenia the oldest chsristian nation on earth and has also the oldest muslim community outside mecca. Ethiopia has also one of the oldest jewish communities of the world.
4. Ethiopia is the capital of the African Union which was established and initiated by ethiopian emperor haile sellassie when most of other african countries were still under colonialism.
5. and much more to come...
This guy like the others of his kind doe not even know where Ethiopia is probably until he met her. His mindset is to hook up with any women, as if it is his claim to fame. Now here he is rather than licking his wound of loss, trying to be cute. Forget him. Let alone being disparaged by the kind of him, we as a people and nation have face and will face greater enemies, who always loss. He is a sorry ass
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