Beautiful Ethiopian lady

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Ethiopian Joe wrote:

Sorry I did not finish what I was going to say, no one can deny this fact, that our ladies are afraid to talk about their sexuality, it is true!
I know we were told that sex is bad.. sex is scary and etc but our childhood tale (tert-tert) still reflect in our adult life.. we don't expressed it, we don't see it, come on and it is a fact..kk

There are 3 possible routes to tackle, that i havent' seend addressed on here. 1 is the prospect of a repressed childhood sexual assault. If your wife was harmed as a child, this can make sex psychologically painful. 1/3 women and 1/6 men are sexually assaulted in some way in their lives, so its a possibility. Find that out, because if its part of the problem, it will require the most delicate of care to overcome.

The second is somewhat related to the question of pain mentioned above. 7/10 native born ethiopian women have had their clitoris's excised (I cannot express how deeply disgusting that is to me. Its like cutting off the top half of the penis on a man, since the clitoris is the primary organ of sexual pleasure for a woman). you have said that you bring her to orgasm, but she may in general have less ability to experience sexual pleasure and there isn't a whole lot you can do here (except keep it in mind, that you shouldn't do that to girls ever, since they need that part as surely as you need the head of your penis. God didn't make every woman wrong).

3 she just has a low sex drive. Thats an issue that perhaps a sex therapist can address, or at the very least discussion with you about how she feels about sex beyond "why don't you want to have sex." Talk about it with her and see what here feelings are on the issue, what fantasies she may have or what makes her feel so blase about it in the firt place)

All u have to do is i think talk to her .if had done this discussion with her than with this blog it would have solved the problem.you have to show her leaving in spiritual life or culture doesn't mean just letting go the need to talk about sex.it is ok and very much good to talk about sex life with ur wife.but since u have faced tis kind of problem ..have u tried to talk to her ?if so,care to know what she said....
this addressed to Ethiopian Joe

Ethiopian Joe wrote:

I am proud Ethiopian born and raised in Addis before I leave Ethiopia for further Educations, one of my family member advised me that I need to find a beautiful Ethiopian lady and I agreed and dated this gril almost for a year and then engaged and left Ethiopia then after a few years of struggle about two years, God helped me and I brought her to USA, and we started a good life and we have two children and we are still kind of young and healthy, here is what it bother me about this girl..
Never initiate sexual intimacy; it has to come from me. I had to beg her to have sex, first I taught this is something to do with our culture, but she always say no, I have to play a lot with my hand in order to get it, now I don’t understand even when she is telling me no, I don’t take it serously for me no means yes..
Seriously, I am struggling
Sometime when I am tired of her behavior and stop begging and then I see a behavior change, she got mad and glass broken etc and kind of weird behavior… At that time, I realized that she needs sex and I sex her. When we had it, she enjoyed it, What is it?
I got a lot of issues to discuss about our sister, I am kind of in darkness, we are deeply rooted Christians peoples but I am suffering here..

your wife is a psycho and she will probably cheat on you once the ice is permanently broken.

i love ethiopan lady