Egyptian men marrying Canadian women to emmigrate.

I am married to an egyptian man. We have been married for 3 and a half years. He has been in Canada now for 2 and half years. He is an opportunist only!!. He is only interested in himself. I think that there should be a law against any woman bringing any middle eastern type men here to Canada. I have spoken to other women who did the same as myself and they say the same. I spoke with immigration canada today and they told me that they receive hundreds of calls from women just like me that their men have basically used them to get here. Don't your men have any compassion? What kind of men would do such a thing to any woman here in Canada or in any other country for that matter. I know that your men want to get out but look at the pain and suffering they are causing for everyone concerned. Thank God I don't have a child with this man. I know other women that do and now they are messed up. For all of you Egyptian males out there seeking to leave your country please stay away from our Canadian females. Find another way to leave. Stop the hurt! Women here in Canada don't like to be used, and thats exactly what most of you are doing. I would have never guessed that my husband would ever do such a thing to me. I don't know how you Egyptian women can tolerate how your men treat you. Of course i forgot you women don't know its bad treatment you think that this is normal and you have to listen to your man cause God told you to do so. You people are so far behind in your way of thinking its no wonder we are all having such a problem with terrorists in North America. Cause you people come here with your beliefs and never change. You should all stay in Egypt if thats the case. I am a Canadian and I dont appreciate immigrants who come to my country take all the benefits and then hate us in return and then plot to bomb us. Crazy!!!

I am also from edmonton. I am planning to go to Cairo to get married to my Egyptian man. He is very sweet and kind to me and I do truly love him. May i ask how you met your husband and how did he *con* (sorry for the word) you into believing in him and in his love for you. I am convinced my man loves me, but I have read so many negative things...I dont know what to think. Any advice, good or bad...any hints or hind sight on your part..I would appreciate...thank you

hello dear
i am egyptian man
so
i knoow what u have
but i think it was ur mistake coz u thaught with ur heart not with ur brain befor marry him
and this kind of men made a proplems for some other men
like me
i am sperated,but i was looking for a woman and when i wanted o find,ilooking for forigne woman coz i prefer her with her caring and her nice sperit
specialy if she was love her husband
this kind of men made women don t trust of us
so when i offer my self,i always say that i don t want green card
i just want love
but it dosn t work
god be with u
i wish meet nice woman like u or wish i was met u befor u marry may u was changed ur mind coz i have a lot of love and want give this love to woman like u in the same time my wife don t respct or care

Egyptian men!! why you make it very general !!

I am sorry to butt in but I canot believe you women. It was your choice to marry these men-no one twisted your arms or held you at gun point. You speak of these men as if they are all the same. We as women hate being sterotyped so why do it to them. Obviously, you've made a mistake with your life so deal with it, get over it and move on. More importantly please stop whining like babies and and look at it as your way of helping these men-even if you do think they used you. I am sorry but I find it difficult to sit here knowing you are beig so pathetic about yur own error in judgement. It is time to grow up and act like adult women!!!

dear writer i 'm wondering of you!!!!
you worie about all egyption men !!! is this what you telling in your story means that you are one who can not trate her man and get his heart .
or may be you choose the wrong man anyway you are the one who holdes the results of your choice and remember what the relation between you and your man at the first days of marriage????
is it the same as now???? i'm sure not but you must make him run away of you .
what i want to tell is that the wwoman is the one who can attract the men to shareing life and she salso who push him away of her life .
then why do not you leave him and get divorce????
consider him just like anyother man from your country and you do not sucssed in your life what you will do ??? you will end this relation unless you want to continue in your relation with your man and he do also that .
remember no one force other to do what he do not like to do

Anonymous wrote:

I am married to an egyptian man. We have been married for 3 and a half years. He has been in Canada now for 2 and half years. He is an opportunist only!!. He is only interested in himself. I think that there should be a law against any woman bringing any middle eastern type men here to Canada. I have spoken to other women who did the same as myself and they say the same. I spoke with immigration canada today and they told me that they receive hundreds of calls from women just like me that their men have basically used them to get here. Don't your men have any compassion? What kind of men would do such a thing to any woman here in Canada or in any other country for that matter. I know that your men want to get out but look at the pain and suffering they are causing for everyone concerned. Thank God I don't have a child with this man. I know other women that do and now they are messed up. For all of you Egyptian males out there seeking to leave your country please stay away from our Canadian females. Find another way to leave. Stop the hurt! Women here in Canada don't like to be used, and thats exactly what most of you are doing. I would have never guessed that my husband would ever do such a thing to me. I don't know how you Egyptian women can tolerate how your men treat you. Of course i forgot you women don't know its bad treatment you think that this is normal and you have to listen to your man cause God told you to do so. You people are so far behind in your way of thinking its no wonder we are all having such a problem with terrorists in North America. Cause you people come here with your beliefs and never change. You should all stay in Egypt if thats the case. I am a Canadian and I dont appreciate immigrants who come to my country take all the benefits and then hate us in return and then plot to bomb us. Crazy!!!

in response to what a sister mentioned in her comment ,i would like to tell her that she should know that people are not the same i mean they have not same intentions , let's see or talk about a successful marriage between canadians and foreigner man , i heard about so many partners who are happy in their marriage and they even have children , so as you know that in this life there is bad persons and good persons so we should be right in our judgement and should not hurt others by generalizing our judgement , may Allah bless you my sister and show the right path and the right wisedom in your life ameen .
your brother in islam : A bderrahman
here is my email address in case you need it : b_kolno@yahoo.com

in response to what a sister mentioned in her comment ,i would like to tell her that she should know that people are not the same i mean they have not same intentions , let's see or talk about a successful marriage between canadians and foreigner man , i heard about so many partners who are happy in their marriage and they even have children , so as you know that in this life there is bad persons and good persons so we should be right in our judgement and should not hurt others by generalizing our judgement , may Allah bless you my sister and show the right path and the right wisedom in your life ameen .
your brother in islam : A bderrahman
here is my email address in case you need it : b_kolno@yahoo.com

I am planning on getting married to an egyptian muslim man in oct. i met him on-line.(crazy I know) worth the risk- yes. he doesn't claim to be crazy in love with me, he doesn't promise me the world. we are both realtic of what you need to make a marriage work. give and take. He has made certain demands- things that are a must for him in a marriage- like raising our children muslim and him being head of the house, and I also have made some demands- and he has agreed to them also. marriage as any partnership is give and take. you both have to give each other respect and dedication to your lifes together. We have both been married before and he has lived overseas- and could have stayed, so I sure it is not for papers. He has also never asked me for any material things. The only thing he has asked of me is to research islam- for our childrens knowledge and to be loyal to him. Two things I do with pleasure. We have discussed what we are looking for in life, and have agreed to be committed to each other. It's almost like an arranged marriage- that we arranged oursleves . with that being said does anyone have any information on how to handle the visa process to canada- what should i do before and after marriage > thanks for your comments.

Call whatever canadas department of homeland security is and tell them your husband has been meeting with some suspicious looking arabs.... go online and order a few books on homemade explosives...they are out there...maybe nuy some materials used in making homemade explosives and plant them in the garage or around the house. Watch them haul his "terrorist" ass out of there kicking and screaming.

I am really sorry to hear your bad experience here..and I really do feel bad for you...just as many people mentionned here it doesn't mean that if you had a bad experience with a person then the whole country is bad...if for example you were married to a canadian and he was beating you up would that mean all canadians are bad? why do people like to generalize like that...I am not egyptian but I have many egyptian friends and they are really good...and that doesn't mean also that all egyptians are nice...there is always the bad and the good...I think it was your fault you that you didn't get to know this guy well enough before you get married with him...

hello dear with yption and muslim men , all i want to say , there r many good men in all the world and there are many bad people that things no relation with muslim or egyption men , that may happend with u and canadian men , i hope good luck for u ,live nice life , forget yr pain and look for futer, just look to the past for learn ,go ahead and god will help u ,

hello dear with problem with egyption and muslimme

do u know what the problem with u , the problem are in yr mind u can't chose good , soo give yr mind chance to think and make disgien, good luck

Hi, women in Canada i think there so nice to marry them. I am not from Egypt but i interested in this. I am from Uganda Kampala and am very gar to marry a women from Canada for my life time if i can find one then it would be regretful to me and i will thank God to that.
this is my email if beautiful woman is there can write to me kymwig2004@yahoo.com

mr too looking for a good women inside\ oytside , i'll make her life is too good and nice , good luck for all, trust me u will not loss any more, god pless u , i wish good luck for all , yanyborntodie@msn.com

I too met an egyptain man online and i ever flew over to egypt to met him and learn more about hum and his life in egypt. He asked me to marry him and we would talk every day after i got home and over the next few months we talked less and less but he kept telling me he loved me and wanted me to come back to egypt, but like most lieing men Egyptain or anything else he just stop answering my calls and stopeg calling me with out ever saying good bye truely one day he is telling me how much he loves me the next not evening talking to me . My advice for all women thinking of getting involved in a long distance romance is DONT!!!!

i have an Canadian Woman i know her from my work trip in Sudan & after that she came to Egypt,now we love each other & trying to get married but i still don't know what is the main problem of the women all over the world,I don't think that they trust the men & specially the arabian ( Egyptians ) because they think that we want to use them to get immigration papers to their countries.
But that's not true because i love my girlfriend & i don't even want to go to Canada even i told her that i can stay here in Egypt & she can stay with me or she can go to Canada & after she finished of her work or anything related in Canada & then she can come to stay with me in our lovely life together.
So the money or immigration are not everything that we are thinking of maybe it's just LOVE .

The problem with long distance relationships and marrying a foreigner is that you can't easily find out his or her background. Before entering a marriage, I suggest you investigate the family and the background of your future spouse.It is done in Egypt all the time. A family will not just accept anyone to marry their daughter or son.
Egyptian men or others that marry for a visa but pretend they are in love with the woman, are usually from a family that did not bring them up with ethics, unfortunately.

Mid-east men in general are cowardly, deceptive, manipulative, chronic liars,impulsive, compulsive and neurotic, vindictive and a leading exponent in the male chauvinistic movement. This is their better side. Don't get me started on their negative traits...