Nassima Sadia

tu n'es pas la seule personne proche de nassima, qui, j'en suis sur, aimerait voir une resolution dans cette affaire.

En Europe, comme en Algerie, une fille a besoin de sa mere, malgre des circonstances,..c'est pour son bien, meme si ce n'est pas parfait.

Mustapha avait de la chance de grandir avec l'amour de sa maman et, sans doute il doit apprecier qu' on n'est tous imparfait - la vie est courte - on doit respecter l'enfant,(et son enfance..)

Nassima will ask in future ;
Why was I taken? Did mum look for me?? Why did we leave my old house / my family & friends / my school..my bedroom etc..

Mustapha, c'est jamais trop tard; do the right thing. Je sais que tu es fort, fier et fou de ta fille - mais sois certain d'une chose:
can you forgive yourself - and more importantly, WILL NASSIMA EVER TRUST A MAN..?

Tu peux rectifier des choses toute de suite,.. sachant que tu as des droits (custody - c'est garanti ).. Things will work out, eventually.
Family law; c'est juste en Europe - l'avis de l'enfant est #1.

speaking from experience, bises xox a Nassima.

mlle sadia wrote:

je suis la cousine de nacima sadia du coté de son pere alors je sais ce qui s'est passé ne vous avisez plus jamais de dire qu'elle a été enlevée parceque s'est faux . vous vous etes basés sur des propos dont vous n'étiez meme pas sur s'il vous plait enlevez ce sue vous avez ecrit je vous assure s'est faux !!

Mlle Sadia, a Montreuil, Paris..

Personne est parfait; c'est ce que je voulais dire, dans mon dernier message - faute d'orthographe -'on est tous imparfait'...

La voix de l'enfant, et plus important, les droits de l'enfant sont respectes en
France, en Irlande ..dans le Coran ainsi que dans le Bible..

Pour son bien-etre,( sa sante psychologique, par exemple) je crois que Nassima devrait vivre a cote de sa mere - Mustapha ne pourrait jamais justifier ses actions, c'est impardonnable; de toute facon, Nassima fera de bonnes choix plus tard, en tant que musulmane / adolescente / on espere !.. ench' allah

luisa wrote:

Mlle Sadia, a Montreuil, Paris..
Personne est parfait; c'est ce que je voulais dire, dans mon dernier message - faute d'orthographe -'on est tous imparfait'...
La voix de l'enfant, et plus important, les droits de l'enfant sont respectes en
France, en Irlande ..dans le Coran ainsi que dans le Bible..
Pour son bien-etre,( sa sante psychologique, par exemple) je crois que Nassima devrait vivre a cote de sa mere - Mustapha ne pourrait jamais justifier ses actions, c'est impardonnable; de toute facon, Nassima fera de bonnes choix plus tard, en tant que musulmane / adolescente / on espere !.. ench' allah

Tu veux dire qu'a 8 ans Nassima pourrait prendre une bonne decision quant a son bien etre? J'en doute vraiment.
Quant a ce que tu dis que la place de Nassima est avec sa mere, la t'en sais rien. Personellement je n'ai pas de details concernant ce qui a pousse Mustapha a prendre sa fille et partir, mais on ne sait pas s'il a raison ou bien tort. Dans certains cas, l'enfant ferait mieu ne pas etre avec sa mere si celle ci est une mauvaise influence. Je comprends pas pourquoi certaines personnes prennent position dans cette affaire sans connaitre les details.

Mustapha is right if his wife can't bring up Nassima in a righteous way.If it's the opposite,he's wrong.I don't have enough information about this topic,however,by giving my opinion,I hope that the antagonists will find a way to give the child her right to live with both her parents.

Sarah wrote:

what about telling us the truth about why a father decide to take the girl away.Well her it is. The mother was cheating on her husband and given birth to an illegitimate child. i will spare you the details but this is a fact and as an irish i am fully informed about this case.

Really sorry Sarah but your wrong if you want the facts get it from the horses mouth, ME, by the way dont be a coward and use your correct name you saddo

safefast wrote:

Mustapha is right if his wife can't bring up Nassima in a righteous way.If it's the opposite,he's wrong.I don't have enough information about this topic,however,by giving my opinion,I hope that the antagonists will find a way to give the child her right to live with both her parents.

Hi I am ok if Mustapha wants to bring Nassima up in the muslim ways but at least he could do is let my daughter speak to her mother. As far as i know the mother in Algeria is very highly respected

Hi,Dawn!I do agree with you.In Algeria we give to much importance to a mother for our religion urges us to do so.I hope that Mustapha will let Nassima talk to her mother and why not trying to reach to an agreement with the mother and find a better solution?

safefast wrote:

Hi,Dawn!I do agree with you.In Algeria we give to much importance to a mother for our religion urges us to do so.I hope that Mustapha will let Nassima talk to her mother and why not trying to reach to an agreement with the mother and find a better solution?

Hi I spent a whole year in and out of court, Mustapha and I had came to an arrangementn but the day before we were to meet in France so I could see my daughter, I got a call from my daughter breaking her wee heart saying that her daddy was not letting her see me from then he has changed his numbers, Am planning to go to Algeria when I have saved enough money.

ninou wrote:

hello there i know the full story about mustapha, and i know his wife as well, mustapha is a lovely guy hard working he was a real family man, but unfortunately got married to an irish bag who knows just how to eat, fart and fuck of course, i know belfast very well i live there, listen dawn i know you very well and i remember the day you went to the mosque to report mustapha to the leader of the mosque in lisburn road you were disgusting you and your mum, you got what you deserve, you cheated you kicked him out you made him look stupid idiot in front of his friend you cheated on him while he was at work, you were fucking with another block while he was working, you not a good mama, you are just a cheap piece of dirty meat.

Yeah what would you know about my married life, you know nothing you only think you do. go wash your mouth out with soap cause you need it

HiDawn !I wish you good luck.

safefast wrote:

HiDawn !I wish you good luck.

Thank you very much

Dawn

I wish the mother of Nassima patience.
Remember Nassima will have a lovely life in Algeria where they teach her how to love and sacrifice for her family and how to be humble and receive a very good education.

Sorry I didn't finish. A girl needs her mother for her well being . I hope you will go to Algeria , meet Nassima and your family in law .I am sure they will welcome you and you will love it. Good luck and we pray for your reunion all and hapiness.
Habib

Habib wrote:

I wish the mother of Nassima patience.
Remember Nassima will have a lovely life in Algeria where they teach her how to love and sacrifice for her family and how to be humble and receive a very good education.

Yes her life will be ok, but not the life she was born into and used to, I taught my daughter how to love she was such a loveable girl, and as for the education in Algeria it is no were near the standards of the uk standards, and have you ever looked into what goes on in the mind of a child who has been abducted by a parent?I have !!!!!
well there is some homework for you.

Habib wrote:

Sorry I didn't finish. A girl needs her mother for her well being . I hope you will go to Algeria , meet Nassima and your family in law .I am sure they will welcome you and you will love it. Good luck and we pray for your reunion all and hapiness.
Habib

I have been to Algeria many times and I tell you I did not love it,It is close to being a 3rd world country, Mustapha him self could never wait to get home.

luisa wrote:

Mlle Sadia, a Montreuil, Paris..
Personne est parfait; c'est ce que je voulais dire, dans mon dernier message - faute d'orthographe -'on est tous imparfait'...
La voix de l'enfant, et plus important, les droits de l'enfant sont respectes en
France, en Irlande ..dans le Coran ainsi que dans le Bible..
Pour son bien-etre,( sa sante psychologique, par exemple) je crois que Nassima devrait vivre a cote de sa mere - Mustapha ne pourrait jamais justifier ses actions, c'est impardonnable; de toute facon, Nassima fera de bonnes choix plus tard, en tant que musulmane / adolescente / on espere !.. ench' allah

Je comprends ton opinion concernant Nassima qu'elle irait se poser la question, mais on ne peut juger sans avoir les 2 opnions. Les services soiciaux des fois ils enlevent l'enfant des parents ca ne va dire qu'ils sont cruels, ils voient l'avenir de l'enfant. Inshallah les 3 personnes vont se reconciler et vivre la ou ils moins de distractions et illusions pour l'enfant. J'ai vecu avec ma femme Britannique au milieu du Sahara ou on a eleve de bonne famille en Algerie Al hamoullillah.

god bless u mustapha don"t worry about the rest ok
but please just tell nassima mum if her daughter she is ok allah bless u and u are muslime broyher i know a full story of her mum she is big big stupid but just pass her daugter to her to get the pain off,

Hi dawn!Anything new?Wish u good luck.

safefast wrote:

Hi dawn!Anything new?Wish u good luck.

No still nothing, I wrote a letter to Mustapha asking him to at least let me speak to my daughter but I still havent had a reply yet.thanks Dawn x

Wish you good luck with at least the chance to speak to Nassima. Assure him that you won't try to bring her back as he probably doesn't approve of his daughter to be brought up in a non- religious environment.