heres an interesting question...

Hmmm.. okay if u had a problem or needed advice on something and u could only pick one member of the band to pour your heart out to if u were down in the dumps.. i mean REALLY pour your heart out to who u felt would understand you, really hear you out, and give u some positive feedback without being too judgemental just warm and receptive.. who would u sit in a room with?

i love jon to death (i love jon very much trust me but all of my posts are really pointing to the fact that im a richie girl.. and thats cool cuz we all have our personal favs on here and yet we all love the band as whole too which is pretty neat )but it'd be a difficult decision for me..its a toss up between richie and tico...

Def. Richie b/c he has gone through alot of what I have and we have alot in common. Alot more than what I ever knew. We could learn alot from one another.

I'm totally a Jon chick but considering all Richie's been through the past months, I just think he'd have a tad more empathy with a person. But then Jon would only have to hug me hard and I'd feel better. LOL ;D

Kimberly wrote:

Hmmm.. okay if u had a problem or needed advice on something and u could only pick one member of the band to pour your heart out to if u were down in the dumps.. i mean REALLY pour your heart out to who u felt would understand you, really hear you out, and give u some positive feedback without being too judgemental just warm and receptive.. who would u sit in a room with?

Thats a hard one..but a good question. Richie seems really accepting I believe but maybe a little to hyper? He always seems to have ants in his pants when siting down LOL. David might be a good choice. I dont know an awful lot about him. But I do think he is a nice guy. Jon I think would be a good choice if it were just you and him with absolute quiet and no one else around...but whats the chance of that happening?? LOL
Honestly if you needed to spill out some serious feelings I think Tico might be a good choice. Think of how calm and quiet he is..he always seems to be listening and always reminds me of a teddy bear. Tico I think would be the best choice..[but id still wanna meet Jon] LOL

Gina wrote:

Def. Richie b/c he has gone through alot of what I have and we have alot in common. Alot more than what I ever knew. We could learn alot from one another.

yea poor Richie has been through a lot thats for sure..

MBJ wrote:

<quoted text>Thats a hard one..but a good question. Richie seems really accepting I believe but maybe a little to hyper? He always seems to have ants in his pants when siting down LOL. David might be a good choice. I dont know an awful lot about him. But I do think he is a nice guy. Jon I think would be a good choice if it were just you and him with absolute quiet and no one else around...but whats the chance of that happening?? LOL
Honestly if you needed to spill out some serious feelings I think Tico might be a good choice. Think of how calm and quiet he is..he always seems to be listening and always reminds me of a teddy bear. Tico I think would be the best choice..[but id still wanna meet Jon] LOL

LMAO on the Richie comment! Thats so true.. i could see him fidgeting or walking up and down the room as he's talking LOL i agree with you on tico.. tico seems pretty attentive he has that quiet listener demeanor and would probably take the time to really hear you out before he gave u feedback..

Actually, on a personal basis question, I would go with Tico! But a business one, that would be Jon!

I'd go to Jon. He went through alot of stuff in the erly 90's i.e tryin to jump out of a moving car on the highway onto seeing a shrink.
I think he would understand

Kiwigirljbj wrote:

Actually, on a personal basis question, I would go with Tico! But a business one, that would be Jon!

Yes hmm I have much buisness to take care of with jon...hmmm. Yes should get right to it too.:]

Jon, he had his issues and he dealt with it pretty well, so i think he would be the right person. He seems to have the right answer all the time.

MBJ wrote:

<quoted text>Yes hmm I have much buisness to take care of with jon...hmmm. Yes should get right to it too.:]

LOL, now now, thats not we are talking about! But i do totally understand what sort of business you would like to deal with!

I dunno, I think it would depend on the problem. Like certain guys you wouldn't go to with certain problems. Like two weeks ago I was in a panic with my best friend because I thought calculus was literally going to be the death of me. And becuase she knows me so well she said 'Rachel, WWJD? What would Jon do?' and I was like 'thats so sweet-it even made me laugh as i was staring and the derivative that wasn't solving itself- but I don't know what he would do he barely graduated high school. The real question is WWDD. What would Dave do? He's the smart one.'

So anyway I think that if I really needed to rant about something for an elongated amount of time. Like sit and yell about something for a hour, Tico is the man. I think he's the only one who could sit still for that long.

I think that Jon always strikes me as the 'dad' type, maybe it's because I'm "so young"(I hear that aaallllllll the time) I'm one of the youngest on here if not the youngest. But I just see him as the kinda guy that just has that type of vibe to him. so maybe if there's like a physical issue he may be the guy to go to. I'm not implying that if i accidentally cut off a finger Jon can magically fix it. But if its something like a crappy day and I have cramps or something to that extent, Jon's my man.

If it's a problem that a little bit of wit and sarcasm can help then I think we turn to Dave. And he may be the second best listener. I don't think I've ever seen Jon or Richie sit still in an interview lol.

Richie is the guy you go to, when its something deep that needs an ear but also some reaction. I think it's because I see him as the most human, because we've seen him at his worst (the divorce, dui, etc) and the other guys just don't strike me as the type that have really been hurt. And I know they have, but we've seen it all with Richie. And looking into those brown eyes for a bit of comfort doesn't hurt either. It's usually a toss up between Jon's blue eyes and Richie's but there's something about Richie's that makes you feel a part of his soul.

I dunno its only my opinion. Can you tell I had to really think about it. I read the thread and was like oooo thats a good one, and I came back 30 min later with my extremely long winded answer. All I know is that from now on when I've got an issue I'm gonna think: Tico (the first time I typed that it came out Taco lol), Dave, Jon or Richie. lol Thanks Kim :-)

I'm thinking if I was sitting across the table gazing into the eyes of Jon Bon Jovi, all my troubles would disappear into the mist...

If I needed cheering up and joking, I would go to Rich or Dave.... if I really wanted advice about what should be done, I would probably seek Jon's counsel. If I wanted the trespasser to "mysteriously disappear", I'd go to Tico. LOL!

(I don't know why I even said that! Maybe it's because Tic's nickname is "The hitman! LOL!)

-Jovi kisses,
Jenn

I guess it really depends on the situation. But I guess it might be Tico or Richie..

BeverlyCA wrote:

I'm thinking if I was sitting across the table gazing into the eyes of Jon Bon Jovi, all my troubles would disappear into the mist...

Well said, and uh..oh yes, me too.

Considering all the reports I've read by fans who state that when you meet him Richie gives you his undivided attention and goes out of his way to make you comfortable, he'd be my pick.

Tico also looks like he's be a good listener and a great shoulder to cry on,to me he has an aura about him that says 'protector'.