Dumped teen arrested for shooting ex-girlfriend's car

please wrote:

<quoted text> omg looks like you can't read well! because that is exactly what I was saying that living in Bloomfield has nothing to do with it!!!

Sorry I wasnt referring to you was actually talking about the Pinky Taco so No respect to you...

Ohhh and next time their is another shooting....It will be in Bloomfield or someone from Bloomfield....If I am wrong, I will apologize to you in that thread..

/bet I am right though LATINA
//oh yea...I live in BF BTW

Wow. A Wilson from TNP, AZ. Sounds like something has gone wrong with the Sunday sermons. A kid from what I thought to be a good moral family. Families that present themselves as good followers of the Almighty usually have a darker side within the family dynamics. Sad but true.

Why are the parnets at fault?

Typical Neighbor.

Hmmm wrote:

Why are the parnets at fault?

Because they can't teach their kids how to spell because they cannot either

kyle wrote:

Lacking any real source of emotional grounding, these children were born to fail to become "natural born killers"!
Just as with every aspect of our politically correct society, their destruction is society's fault and our curse as a nation!

Alrighty then...... seems like the issue is not "emotional grounding" it's more like, "yep- we know this kid is from the rez" so we are going to comment on his up bringing.

Yep- way to be "white"

where are these kids parents, none of them are even old enough to be driving and at 14 and 16 your life is just beginning to worry about if someone dumps you there are alot of other people that you can see and have fun with stop ruining your life by getting so serious about someone so young live while you can because then when you do find your soulmate you can be satisfied that you had all your fun while you were young and unattached.

who in there right mind would give there kid a gun and run around at night

It doesn't seem all that crazy to shoot-up an ex-girlfriend's car, especially when none of us knows the circumstances surrounding the break up. See e.g., "My Super Ex-Girlfriend".

Regardless the reason of the break up there is no reason to shoot up someone else's car! Especially with someone else's gun at the age of any damn age! You watch too many movies! This is not Hollywood this is REAL life!! Being minors yes the parents should be charged as well!

irregardless of the circumstances what gives him the right to destroy her property and not be able to accept rejection what happens when he goes to a bank for a bank loan and they tell him no, think about that

sherry wrote:

irregardless of the circumstances what gives him the right to destroy her property and not be able to accept rejection what happens when he goes to a bank for a bank loan and they tell him no, think about that

EXACTLY!! I agree!!

The morality of our society has changed. If I got a girl pregnat out of wedlock, 20 plus years ago, it would have been shameful. Now it is almost celebrated. To recieve a handout from the government was shameful also. To pull a gun instead of scrapping it out was shameful. Parents are to blame. What we are dealing with now is the 1950's boomers spoiled children becoming parents. No one goes to parent teacher confrences, both parents work to afford shiney stuff and the kids are raised by pop culture. Don't forget the lack of self blame, we are all victims.

Hillbilly wrote:

The morality of our society has changed. If I got a girl pregnat out of wedlock, 20 plus years ago, it would have been shameful. Now it is almost celebrated. To recieve a handout from the government was shameful also. To pull a gun instead of scrapping it out was shameful. Parents are to blame. What we are dealing with now is the 1950's boomers spoiled children becoming parents. No one goes to parent teacher confrences, both parents work to afford shiney stuff and the kids are raised by pop culture. Don't forget the lack of self blame, we are all victims.

Nope...it's still seen as shameful; look around at the other comments. And I don't think both parents always work "to afford shin[y] stuff"-- many families need two sources of income.

Stop Domestic Violence wrote:

Teenage girls need to take this as a learning lesson. Be careful who you choose to date. This incident is called intimidation. The message it sends is, "look what I did to your car, and look what I can do to you." Take care of yourself young ladies no guy is worth your safety or your life.

Your comment is certainly well-intentioned, but look at what you're saying. Blaming women for choosing their partners unwisely does nothing to prevent domestic violence. The worst taste in the world doesn't deserve violence.

Parent wrote:

Where are the parents? You should be ashamed of yourselves!
Parents should be charged too... Remember these are kids-"Minors".

If parents pay any attention to their children this would not be happening. Get to know your child's friends, set curfews, talk to your children. Get involved in your child's life. Most of all tell them you love them and show them you care.

Good Evening. I just heard the devastating news about my nephew. The known gang member is the sweetest child a woman can know. I just want him to know that he is loved by family in Arizona. Son, These are the things I warn you about. Believe me when I say "Someone is always watching" Have Hope and always Keep your Faith.

Auntie wrote:

<quoted text>If parents pay any attention to their children this would not be happening. Get to know your child's friends, set curfews, talk to your children. Get involved in your child's life. Most of all tell them you love them and show them you care.

Right on the money. Most parents are to busy to give a dang. There in no excuse not to have a stay at home parent, If both parents a functional, rational and have the interest of the children above themselves.

Hillbilly wrote:

The morality of our society has changed. If I got a girl pregnat out of wedlock, 20 plus years ago, it would have been shameful. Now it is almost celebrated. To recieve a handout from the government was shameful also. To pull a gun instead of scrapping it out was shameful. Parents are to blame. What we are dealing with now is the 1950's boomers spoiled children becoming parents. No one goes to parent teacher confrences, both parents work to afford shiney stuff and the kids are raised by pop culture. Don't forget the lack of self blame, we are all victims.

I am a single mother and I go to every PTC for both my kids I work a full time job and make enough money to buy my kids things that I never had when I was growing up! Now a days if you were to scrap toe to toe the one who gets whipped will come back with a gun, thats how shameful that is!! You are only a victim if you allow yourself to be one! Be a Leader not a Follower!!