Author/Actor Raymond E. Lumsden Gets Thumbs Up From Hollywood

Its very wrong because he and Kristina are speaking again. Nastia is a friend and that's all. I think he was dating a girl for a while but it didn't work out and then recently Kristina came calling again. They should just get married and get it over with everyone knows they belong together.

He won't marry kristina and I can guarantee they aren't talking, either. Ray hasn't mentioned a thing about it to me or anyone we know. Ray is talking a step back to self reflect and spend time with his kids, and gather his life after the divorce. He hasn't been seen much by any of is in a while in a social atmosphere. He's very quiet, and self vested and focused right now, as he should be.

He is nuts! Do you trust him, do not believe him. This guy neglects his children, beats his wife and has done nothing but lie and cheat his way through life. The book doesn't tell the whole story. No one will ever know the real Ray Lumsden, we only have seen what he wants us to see and believe. He is a Sociopath. I was one of the lucky ones to receive one of his apology letters while he was in jail. His letter said how sorry he was, how much he loved me and was all about how great he was, pathetic! He has a dark past, a dark heart and needs more help than any of us could offer. This is why he stalks women, he cannot handle being rejected or being held accountable. He has never been faithful or honest with anyone in his life and he never will. He does post here to stir up drama as he suffers from an overwhelming sense of self importance, i.e. Sociopath!

Neglects his children? He has joint custody of them and everyone knows he is all about them. He is very close to his kids. I know Ray personally and can attest that he is none of the things insinuated in the last post. He is kind, sincere, and someone that many people call a friend. Look at his facebook the 1000 friends posting on there daily that I see. That doesn't symbolize a sociopath or someone disliked. Sounds like another case of heartbreak hotel to me

What's this "dark past" that you speak of him having? I know everything about him and have known him more than 20 years.
There is nothing dark about him. Lots of friends and girls wanting him and lots of success. No rapes, murders, killings, robberies or drugs. Yes he's left a lot of broken hearts in his wake but what's so "dark" about that? It happens. Women adore him so its bound to happen. Put your hurt feelings and broken esteem behind you and let it go. How many years has it been now anyways? Grow up.

Rays a good dude that takes a lot of crap from women he kicked to the curb years ago that hold a grudge. Look at the women on here posting they were with him years ago and not recent. So maybe it went bad or you got hurt but how long you all going to hold on to old wounds? Rays a good dude and people like him. He's a good dad too and real close to his kids. Give him a break already and let bygones be bygones.

Had the pleasure of meeting Ray in recent weeks and think highly of him. I was quite shocked to find so many holding so much discord and malice against him for obviously long ago discretion. In my experiences with him. I found him to be powerfully funny., caring and a very nice individual. Let's not forget handsome and seductive in manner. I don't see or agree with those that hold the negative opinions obviously from old wounds. He's a class act in my book.

I'll take him. He's hot as hell and I don't care much about the rest. I think he's a great man and he makes me laugh too. Haven't seen him in a while but I'm hoping to again sooner rather than later.

"It matters little to me whether you or any human court pass judgment on me. I do not even pass judgment on myself. Mind you, I have nothing on my conscience. But that does not mean that I am declaring myself innocent. The Lord is the one to judge me, so stop passing judgment before the time of his return. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and manifest the intentions of hearts."

1 Corinthians 4:3-5

Who are you to judge Ray? That is between God and Ray!

I just finished reading "stronger By the Day" by Raymond.......so for the record........IT IS A REAL BOOK! the book is out of print but you can go to your local library and request to borrow it from another library ...this service is free of charge.... I encorage all of you who have posted negative comments to read the book. Before you pass judgement on someone ...you should walk a mile in there shoes! Everyone has a story.......some are worse than others.....I found the this book to be a true inspiration.....

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I looked up Mr Lumsdens address from his bond records in Denton county, 1955 Abshire lane is a section 8 housing community

LOL, I have no doubt he is in Section 8 housing. The man is a con artist and has never work a full day in his life. Do you know how often his cell is shut off for non-payment? He is a total dead beat. I wonder how many checks he bounced this month?

Why does everyone assume if you state the facts you must have dated Ray or have a love interest in him? I am entertained by this.

Sorry to disapoint you, I actually have self-esteem. I have no interest in that emotional mess. He respects no one.

Also, a sociopath tends to be a strong extrovert. It would be a great idea for all to seek facts prior to making statements. Ray does have charges for drugs and robberies. He kept steroids in the fridge in his office. If you khave know him for 20 years you would know he is a steroid freak and this has contributed to his inabilitiy to control his impulses. His "great," book only shares what he tells. I know many people who grew up with Ray, he did not tell the whole truth in his book. They all will tell you how the book is all half truths.

The sooner Ray gets honest and real, the sooner he can be happy and find peace. I could frankly care less what choices he makes in his life as long as I am not paying for it but it appears we are all supporting him in his Section 8 housing venture.

It has been quite some time since I looked at this site. I needed a laugh after a stressful day and for whatever reason this came to mind. I see that "RAY" is in full swing with his dissociative identity disorder. I am a serious researcher and this man is truly a work of art. NOT in a good way either. The level of ignorance and delusion displayed by Ray's "friends" is amazing. As an academic I guess I'm just not used to people who are so unenlightened and outright social rejects with such a low self esteem that they would subject themselves to this lowly individual (Ray). Ray should get off of this forum and take care of his tax issues or federal prison for tax evasion is going to be his next "port of call"... Carry on enlightened ones and keep speaking the truth. Sooner or later all of Ray's "selves" may meld into that LumpyStump of carcass that is "Ray". Verum, Honorem, Quantum