Why Do Men Solicit Prostitutes?

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Oklahoma Sweetheart wrote:

This thread isn't about whether prostitution is right or wrong. It isn't about whether or not it should be legalized. What I want to know is why men solicit prostitutes in the first place.
If there was no demand, there would be no need for supply. With all the "free" sex floating around, I just don't understand why men solicit hookers.

With Friends Like These wrote:

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It's the "forbidden fruit" syndrome, coupled with wanting variety, plus, there doesn't have to be any emotional involvement. Most women,(not all), need to "be in love" and have an emotional involvement with their sex partners. Not all men share that need. Then, it comes right down to lust, and self gratification. If men have no moral qualms about what they're doing, it won't bother them conscience wise.
However, it speaks well of men when they take a higher moral ground, and want to become deeply and romantically involved making and sharing a life with the one they are romantically AND sexually in love with. That's when the gettin gets good :)
Why are we discussing this on Tulsa forum anyway I wonder? About men seeking prostitutes, that is, as if it were the only thing going on. Nowadays, we could just as easily discuss women having sexually based affairs, paying for sex with male prostitutes, gigolos, or Urban Cougars on the prowl. There are a multitude of variations on the theme of sex.

Oklahoma Sweetheart wrote:

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Why is it on the Tulsa Forum? Because the thread about the prostitution sting created such a furor that I was just curious about why men would visit one. It just seems so risky...riskier than picking up a "one-night stand" in a bar. But then again, maybe it isn't.

Okiegal57 wrote:

Because they are a bunch of horny perverts, that's why.

Okiegal57 wrote:

Because they are a bunch of horny perverts, that's why.

With Friends Like These wrote:

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You may be right Okiegal. And then too, this is the drive thru generation. No waiting, no standing in line.........well, maybe, lol!

Oklahoma Sweetheart wrote:

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ROTFL. I think it has to be more than that. Do they think they are going to get better sex from a "pro"????

With Friends Like These wrote:

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You may be right Okiegal. And then too, this is the drive thru generation. No waiting, no standing in line.........well, maybe, lol!

Bill Gordon wrote:

It’s an altruistic thing with men. They don’t really want the product, but rather have a desire to help women out that are in difficult situations. The only reason men actually consummate the deal is so they won’t hurt the woman’s feelings.

Venkat wrote:

MEn require outlet for their testosterone to exist without stress.Libido in a bisexual man is nature.Also God has created the penis for the vulva and the pleasure.The by product is a child.But men get libidinous as they see any female figure. the trigger is not beauty but a sexy look in physical figure.When the woman stats talking her other part of personality is revealed to exasperation.Further when the man is in heat the woman he has married to may not be in heat nor submissive to give one side gratification ; but prostitutes do for money.?thus he gets his stress relieved in the sexual existence as man.

Okiegal57 wrote:

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Not necessarily "better" just hoping for a little more "variety" added to the buffet.