I'm in love with a Chamorro

Feb 5, 2008 Full story: Guam Pacific Daily News 159

“I can see it in her family. This is totally different for me.”

When Jesse Pinkston first met her Chamorro classmate in college in her native Kansas, she knew she noticed something special about him. via Guam Pacific Daily News

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JosephMendiola

Barrigada, Guam

#1 Feb 5, 2008
Good for them - its not easy to find true love.
James Benaventre

United States

#2 Jul 19, 2008
Who really cares..get a life!
Joe Telintino

Seattle, WA

#3 Jul 31, 2008
You must be lonely, but hey at least you have 1 fish
Joe Telintino

Seattle, WA

#4 Jul 31, 2008
James Benaventre wrote:
Who really cares..get a life!
That's a great quote of the day (-:
Basil Mamenta

Payette, ID

#5 Apr 28, 2009
Who cares is right..!This Jesse is looking for stardom on Guam...Get a life lady!
chamorros suck

Lahaina, HI

#6 Apr 3, 2010
good luck lady....make sure you have easy access to the hospital emergency room...all chamorros know how to do is bbq, drink, do drugs trash everything and everyone around them and BEAT UP
THEIR WOMEN!.....and oh, and think that they are ALL THAT!....THEY ARE A JOKE!
dream on

Barrigada, Guam

#7 May 9, 2010
uh, they broke up. so dumb.
Chamorro

Honolulu, HI

#8 May 15, 2010
chamorros suck wrote:
good luck lady....make sure you have easy access to the hospital emergency room...all chamorros know how to do is bbq, drink, do drugs trash everything and everyone around them and BEAT UP
THEIR WOMEN!.....and oh, and think that they are ALL THAT!....THEY ARE A JOKE!
Put your money where your mouth is. I'm in Ewa Beach. When and where, let's talk face to face about your opinion. Don't even try to mouth off typing back some bullshit. When and where. And the only thing anyone in this forum should see next from either of us is who won. Esta bro, quit talking 'embestin chagu' like the mainlanders do, put up or forever shut up.
CHAMORROS SUCK

Lahaina, HI

#9 May 20, 2010
Chamorro wrote:
<quoted text>
Put your money where your mouth is. I'm in Ewa Beach. When and where, let's talk face to face about your opinion. Don't even try to mouth off typing back some bullshit. When and where. And the only thing anyone in this forum should see next from either of us is who won. Esta bro, quit talking 'embestin chagu' like the mainlanders do, put up or forever shut up.
YOU HAVE JUST PROVEN MY POINT.......Your attitude is ....you don't agree with what I have to say...so in essence you would like for me to "shutup", because you say so...and if not, you want to meet with me and beat me up...WHATEVER... I do not understand your language, and have no desire to, so do not speak to me in it...AND I will never be intimidated by you.
I am not spewing BS on this forum....I am telling it like it is...what I speak about, I have witnessed first hand....and btw...I am not a "bro"....I am a M-O-M.....who's daughter, unfortunately fell in love, or what she thought was "love" with a Chamorro, she was engaged to a "CHAMELEON"....who came to both my husband and I and told us how much he loved my daughter,(who btw is single, beautiful, had no children, is a college graduate, has an excellent job earns great money, is articulate, and smart, is a hard worker, and has a very wonderful heart....) and how he would treasure her and take care of her, and asked us if he could have her hand in marriage.....of course our daughter is an adult, so she did not need our "permission" to get married....but we did appreciate his gesture at the time, not realizing it was just an "act".....well, he surely fooled us for awhile.... We took him into our family circle and treated him as family, welcomed his family and friends as our own....and yet while we were doing so, I could never shake an uneasy feeling about something not being quite right.....Well, this "devil" always went on and on about how wonderful and great Chamorros were....and we believed him...until we met him, we did not even know what or who a Chamorro was...we thought all people from Guam were Guamanian, now we know the difference...
One of our very dear friends who is from here but lived on Guam, while her Dad was stationed there, found out my daughter was engaged to a Chamorro, her exact words to me were...."Please be careful of Chamorros, they are arrogant, they are an abusive, lazy & substance abusing people, please tell your daughter to be very careful"....We did not heed her advice...STUPID US....Finally as time went on....the real deal started to show it's ugly head...what this Chamorro SAID DID NOT MATCH WHAT HE DID.... His awful Actions did not match his BS words.....
Wonderful People, DO NOT BEAT UP 7 MONTHS PREGNANT WOMEN FOR ANY REASON....ESPECIALLY BECAUSE HE IS SO DAMN INSECURE ABOUT HIS OWNSELF....OR CALL HER COLLEAGES AT WORK ACCUSING THEM OF FOOLING AROUND W/HER, OR ARE DISRESPECTFUL TO HER AND HER FAMILY FOR NO DAMN REASON...ONLY CRAZY, INSECURE, SICK IDIOTS DO THAT..BUT THE CLINCHER WAS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS, ACTED LIKE, THAT'S WHAT MEN IN THEIR CHAMORRO SOCIETY ARE ALLOWED & EXPECTED TO DO AND THERE SHOULD BE NO LEGAL OR ANY CONSEQUENCES AT ALL, THAT A WIFE OR FIANCE OF A CHAMORRO SHOULD JUST "SUCK IT UP" AND TAKE IT...IT IS PAR FOR THE COURSE OF MARRIAGE....WELL,.UM....NO FREAKIN WAY......NOT HERE, AT LEAST NOT WHILE I AM ALIVE....I HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO THE SAME WONDERFUL MAN FOR 35 YEARS AND HE HAS NEVER LIFTED HIS HAND TO ME OR MY CHILDREN...EVER...WHY SHOULD THIS IGNORANT DIRT BAG THINK HE COULD GET AWAY WITH THAT BS AND HIS FAMILY THINK IT'S OK...PHHTTT....!?
CHAMORROS SUCK

Lahaina, HI

#10 May 20, 2010
CONTINUED....

THANK GOD, MY DAUGHTER FINALLY FOUND THE COURAGE TO PUT HIM IN JAIL, AFTER HE PLACED A BIG OLD KICK RIGHT INTO HER PREGNANT BELLY...SENDING HER INTO LABOR... AND YET THAT MONSTER, KEEPS ON TRYING TO BOTHER HER TILL THIS DAY...CALLS HER INCESSANTLY, STALKS HER AND MY OHANA....AND WE KEEP ON PUTTING HIM BACK BEHIND BARS....AND HIS ENABLING FAMILY KEEPS ON FALLING FOR ALL HIS BS LIES AND PATHETIC STORIES, MANIPULATIONS AND KEEPS ON BAILING HIM OUT TO RUN LOOSE HERE, THEY NEED TO SHIP HIM BACK TO HIS POINT OF ORIGIN....PHHTTT...AND THE ATTITUDE FROM BOTH HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS ARE..."WELL,....THAT'S LIFE, POA TING CAN'T HELP HIMSELF...".....WELL, THEY CAN GIVE ME A DAMN BREAK.....THEY ARE HUGE ENABLERS.....THEY ENABLE THEIR "MEN'S" (I SAY "MEN" W/TONGUE IN CHEEK..CREEPY BULLIES IS A BETTER CHOICE OF WORDS) TERRIBLE ACTIONS.....

And why should I put my money where my mouth is? I owe you nothing... I am not lying or making up a story....I speak the truth....I have NEVER EVER encounterd a more DISRESPECTFUL, ARROGANT, IGNORANT PEOPLE AS THIS..

After GOING THRU THIS AWFUL EXPERIENCE, I REALIZED THAT THERE ARE MANY CHAMORROS AND MICRONESIANS HERE IN HAWAII AND MOST HAVE A SENSE OF "ENTITLEMENT" THAT THEY ARE "OWED", THAT OUR STATE NEEDS TO TAKE CARE OF THEM...THEY HAVE INUNDATED OUR SYSTEM AND RESOURCES AND WHAT WAS MEANT TO BE A HAND UP,THEY EXPECT AS A HAND OUT....???? WHAT I HAVE ALSO NOTICED IS THAT THEY ACT LIKE HAWAI'I IS AN EXTENSION OF GUAM AND MICRONESIA....I BEG TO DIFFER...

WE HAWAI'IANS HAVE OUR OWN PROBLEMS TO DEAL WITH...AND ONE IS EDUCATING OUR PEOPLE ON HOW TO REPRESENT OUR ETHNICITY AND CULTURE IN AN EDUCATED WAY, TO UNDERSTAND THAT THEY COME FROM STRONG, INTELLIGENT ANCESTORS AND THEY NEED TO STOP THE VICIOUS CYCLE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, SUBSTANCE ABUSE AND INCARCERATION....AND THE WAY TO FIGHT BACK IS THRU EDUCATION ....NOT IGNORANCE AND BULLYING....AND THE HAWAI'IAN COMMUNITY IS BEGINNING TO GAIN IN THIS ENDEAVOR, THANK GOD...WE ARE SENDING "IGNORANCE" DOWN THE ROAD! AND WE ARE STARTING WITH OUR KEIKI, WE ARE TEACHING THEM THAT EDUCATION IS THE KEY...NOT BULLYING AND VIOLENCE....I HIGHLY SUGGEST THAT YOU START DOING THAT...LOOKING FOR POSITIVE WAYS TO IMPACT YOUR CULTURE, AND ETHNICITY INSTEAD OF TRYING TO BULLY ME FOR SPEAKING THE TRUTH!

HAWAI'I IS NOT GUAM, PEOPLE FROM THERE ARE JUST GUESTS HERE, THOUGH THEY WANT TO "ACT" LIKE THEY ARE HAWAIIAN....MY OHANAS ROOTS ARE HERE....HAVE BEEN HERE FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS...HE HAWAI'I AU...AU MAU MAU...(I AM HAWAI'IAN FOREVER)
I WILL NOT BE BULLIED IN MY OWN HOMELAND....

ALOHA!
Chamorro

Honolulu, HI

#11 May 20, 2010
Awww you poor mother of a slut now categorizes all Chamorros because of this. how intelligent. So your little daughter got suckered. Yes, SHUT UP. Have your husband stand up for you. You both obviously did something wrong in raising a daughter. I dion't condone what that man did, but, you pull my trigger by chastizing chamorros in general for the deeds of one... f^^^ your daughter and you.And again. Talk is cheap.

Go cry in a Hawaii forum. I'm sure you'll get more sympathy there.
Chamorro

Honolulu, HI

#12 May 20, 2010
And f*** your ohana and its roots. Locals are no matter than any other islanders. Wasn';t us who had the briliant idea of interbreeding you biatch.
SSAYMSSIK

AOL

#13 May 20, 2010
Who is this ignorant big mouthed Hawaiian bitch who thinks she knows everything about all chamorros based on the loser that her also loser daughter who got knocked up? Chamorros inundate "their" (as if native Hawaiians weren't moochers and enablers in their history, and many still are) system and resources... hmmm my how confused she is. Chamorros/Guamanians (now she knows the difference... and what exactly is the difference?) do not need any of the welfare system resources that she refers to, and has us obviously confused with Chuukese and others from the CNMI. No, no, no, I will not take on the responsiboity of educating her as to THAT difference!!!!

Leave her alone, she is just too ignorant to be helped. She is an embarrassment to the locals of Hawaii. no worry I've been in honolulu for as long as this lady claims to have been married, and between her and me, I am the one who sees both sides of the fence. She's talking about of that momona okole (dankulun maduk-dagan) of hers. They ain't no better by any stretch of the imagination. their shit stinks just as much. Believe that.

Chamorros have never thrown an 11-month old baby off an overhead walkway onto freeway traffic (drug related - so there goes the Hawaii halo). I can recite oh so many domestic violence and MURDER/murder suicide cases on Oahu alone for the last 20 or so years, things more atrocious than Guam has EVER, EVER seen. But we won't go there. Just tell her to bend over and smell her own shit before she goes smelling others'.

And you're right Mr. Chamorro, why in f***'s name does she come onto a Guam forum to start crying? Fellow Hawaiians ignoring her? Hmmm?
CHAMORROS SUCK BIG TIME

Kaneohe, HI

#14 May 20, 2010
Chamorro wrote:
And f*** your ohana and its roots. Locals are no matter than any other islanders. Wasn';t us who had the briliant idea of interbreeding you biatch.
HA HA HA HA....YOUR IGNORANCE IS APPALLING ...SO PATHETIC, THAT ALL I CAN DO IS LAUGH....:) THANK YOU FOR PROVING ME RIGHT ABOUT ALL CHAMORROS...HAVEN'T MET A DECENT ONE YET....
AND...AH...PLEASE DO NOT DICTATE TO ME WHERE OR WHAT FORUM I CAN WRITE ON....AS LONG AS IT'S AN OPEN FORUM, JUST LIKE YOU...I CAN WRITE ON IT....YOU ARE NO ONE'S LORD AND MASTER AND LEAST OF ALL, NOT MINES!
MY HUSBAND DOESN'T NEED TO STAND UP FOR ME...HELLO, WE ARE NOT LIVING IN THE "DARK AGES"...HELL, I CAN STAND UP FOR MY OWN SELF....WHAT...YOU THINK, MAKING ALL "BIG BODY"...AND ACTING ALL MMA IS SO "BAD"...AND SAYING "OH I GONE FOKAI YOU" IS MAKING ME QUIVER IN MY BOOTS? HERE IN MY OWN HOME?...SHEESH BRADA, YOU GOTTA DO BETTA THAN DAT.....TAKE YOUR OPALA AND GO HOME.....TO YOUR OWN ISLAND....
YOU KNOW, WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING HERE, THIS IS NOT YOUR HOME,
GO BACK TO THAT CESSPOOL IN THE PACIFIC THE YOU DERIVE FROM...SHEESH,
WHY DO ALL CHAMORROS WANT TO COME TO HAWAI'I AND ACT LIKE THEY ARE "ALL THAT" OR THAT THEY ARE "ISLANDERS" FROM HERE...GIVE ME A BREAK..ROOTLESS....STAY AT HOME...DON'T COME HERE AND POLLUTE OUR ISLANDS WITH YOUR ABSOLUTE FILTH AND IGNORANCE...GO DO SOMETHING USEFUL WITH YOUR LIFE....LIKE, GET AN EDUCATION....
AND BTW.....I WAS NOT LOOKING FOR "PITY" IN TELLING MY STORY...PITY AND PATHETIC ARE CHAMORRO TRAITS,...I WAS TELLING A STORY ABOUT A PATHETIC, IGNORANT CULTURE AND RACE, AND HOW I WILL NEVER EVER HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH SLEAZE BAG CHAMORUS EVER AGAIN...AND DON'T EVER CONFUSE MY DAUGHTER OR MYSELF WITH THE SLUTS YOU MAY RUN AROUND WITH....BECAUSE YOU ARE DEFINITELY NOT THE BRIGHTEST APPLE IN THE BUNCH....AND FURTHERMORE, YOU ARE NOT WORTH THE GROUND WE WALK ON....MOVE ALONG IGNORANT FOOL...NOTHING TO SEE HERE...GO BACK TO YOUR CESSPOOL.....KUE!
CHAMORROS SUCK BIG TIME

Kaneohe, HI

#15 May 21, 2010
SSAYMSSIK wrote:
Who is this ignorant big mouthed Hawaiian bitch who thinks she knows everything about all chamorros based on the loser that her also loser daughter who got knocked up? Chamorros inundate "their" (as if native Hawaiians weren't moochers and enablers in their history, and many still are) system and resources... hmmm my how confused she is. Chamorros/Guamanians (now she knows the difference... and what exactly is the difference?) do not need any of the welfare system resources that she refers to, and has us obviously confused with Chuukese and others from the CNMI. No, no, no, I will not take on the responsiboity of educating her as to THAT difference!!!!
Leave her alone, she is just too ignorant to be helped. She is an embarrassment to the locals of Hawaii. no worry I've been in honolulu for as long as this lady claims to have been married, and between her and me, I am the one who sees both sides of the fence. She's talking about of that momona okole (dankulun maduk-dagan) of hers. They ain't no better by any stretch of the imagination. their shit stinks just as much. Believe that.
Chamorros have never thrown an 11-month old baby off an overhead walkway onto freeway traffic (drug related - so there goes the Hawaii halo). I can recite oh so many domestic violence and MURDER/murder suicide cases on Oahu alone for the last 20 or so years, things more atrocious than Guam has EVER, EVER seen. But we won't go there. Just tell her to bend over and smell her own shit before she goes smelling others'.
And you're right Mr. Chamorro, why in f***'s name does she come onto a Guam forum to start crying? Fellow Hawaiians ignoring her? Hmmm?
oh I see, another ignorant Chamorro, taking up space in our islands...
what are you doing here? I came to this forum to read it and realized
that I was NOT wrong in my assessment of loser CHAMORROS....you are the only ones that think you are all so great...and pls...you are the last person or persons that I would want to be "educated" by....I think you need to get an "education"....your ignorance is sickening..

oh and sweetie, like I said, I didnt come on here looking for pity, pity from the perpetrators....sheesh, I'm not a dumb b>tch like you...read this whole forum, I am not the only one saying bad things about Guam and Chamorros....there are many....but I guess it must be hard to admit what a bunch of absolute losers you are....whatever....go back to your little island, and pollute your own corner of your world....

ALL LOSERS....ALL YOU CHAMORRO "BIRDS OF LOSER FEATHERS" BELONG TOGETHER on your tiny CORRUPT ISLAND....ALOHA!
Chamorro

Honolulu, HI

#16 May 21, 2010
Talk your talk, you're too damned scared to do anything more than mouth off. Take your pitiful whore excuse for a daughter and lick your wounds. That's ALL you have. And that's why you go online to cry your sob story. You are pathetic. And yes, we are here on YOUR island. Hurts, don't it!
Chamorro

Honolulu, HI

#17 May 21, 2010
About your daughter... fruit doesn't fall far from the tree, does it.
CHAMORROS SUCK

Lahaina, HI

#18 May 21, 2010
Chamorro wrote:
Talk your talk, you're too damned scared to do anything more than mouth off. Take your pitiful whore excuse for a daughter and lick your wounds. That's ALL you have. And that's why you go online to cry your sob story. You are pathetic. And yes, we are here on YOUR island. Hurts, don't it!
Heh heh heh....Nope...not scared....least of all of you...and please we are not "licking our wounds"....your "brother" Chamorro loser is out of our lives....We are living our lives to the very fullest...I just have never experienced such lowdown filthy ignorance, that I had to double check if our experience was isolated or if it was applicable to the whole lot of you...Have you even read this whole forum? They are soooo many
posts about how rotten you and your homeland are....what, you goin
beat up all the negative posters????!!!...

About you being here....it ain't hurting me....you know, everywhere has their share of roaches....you are so incensed that I have come to your "little Guam forum" and posted the damn truth...and yet all of you overflow our living space, with your filth and ignorance....so you all can cry me a river...in reading these posts, it is almost hilarious....you all mangle the English
language and grammar...and maybe it's because your own language is a hodgepodge of everyone elses....

You all talk about everyone here being "locals" and try to include yourselves...hah!...Being "local" does not mean one is Hawai'ian....see, I don't have to learn about the dummies in Guam...I do not choose to live there...so I suggest you and your little posting "know it all" buddy know your facts or maybe move that fence she is looking on both sides of, out of her vision range, because it's blocking her vision.... or maybe that head of hers in "stuck in her momona dugan", to quote her...blocking her view....about the idiot that threw that innocent child off the highway overpass...that drug addicted idiot was NOT Hawai'ian, he was JAPANESE....and that poor child's mother was Polynesian/Haole..

Well, I need to thank you both for confirming what I already knew....all Chamorros suck...your respect for, and treatment of your women is abhorrent....and yet, you are all too damn ignorant to get a clue....your filth and ignorance is your legacy to your
next generation...poor things...Post what you want about us, because we are definitely not "licking our wounds" if anything we are damn rejoicing...and yes...the "tree" that we come from, is strong, and sturdy...and the roots go deep...the fruit it bears....is luscious and nourishing...not rotten and sour..like your tree... I have wasted enough of my time answering your ignorance....you all have a good day...and hopefully your ignorance doesnt get in the way of you having a somewhat productive life.....and hopefully on your own island.... ;)
Chamorro

Honolulu, HI

#19 May 21, 2010
Oh joy joy does that mean mother bitch is gone from our forum??? All mouth and no substance.

"Post what you want about us"... you hypocritical slovenly slut, be gone already.

I am in Hawaii and not one Hawaiian alive has the gonads to make me leave, much less YOU.
Race is not the issue

Barrigada, Guam

#20 May 26, 2010
This message is for "Chamorros Suck"

I am very saddened by the situation your daughter & her family has endured! Being a mother of 2 young daughters I understand how this very unfortunate situation which was absolutely uncalled for must have caused so much pain, heartache, and frustration. As parents all we want is to be able to protect our children and make sure that they are loved the way we know they deserve to be. Although this person is most likely to be all the names that you have called him I believe you need to rephrase and redirect your anger towards "the idiot" who has caused you and your family so much grief. I believe by speaking of all the "Chamorro People" in such a way that should only be referred to "the idiot" is very ignorant and closed minded. I am a Chamorro and I do come from a very loving "Chamorro" family. This problem has nothing to do with the "Chamorro" people as a whole, but one man's stupidity as an individual. This problem has nothing to do with what ethnicity you are. Unfortunate situations like these are being encountered all over the world by all different kinds of races. I'm sure that whatever ethnicity "YOU ARE", there's an "idiot" or "idiots" who do the same exact nonsense to their other halves or other family members. BE AWARE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS EVERYWHERE! Don't judge our people by the impression of just one person. Believe me there are alot of us who feel the same just like you do. See things the same way you see them. Hear things the way you hear them. Voice our opinions the same way you do. Afterall the blood that runs in our body is the same that runs in yours. This is a battle that people have been fighting for centuries, but the big picture is that WE ARE ALL HUMAN! No matter what part of the world we come from and what we look like WE ARE ALL THE SAME! Don't voice your concern out about a race. Voice your concern out about the PROBLEM!

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