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Since: Aug 10

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#1 Aug 9, 2010
I love my Turkish guy with all my heart, but I would like to know why do the majority of Turkish men cheat on their wives. Why do the wives not say anything, even if the know, and how does this impact on the family. Give me reasons why I should give him permission to cheat?

Since: Jul 10

Los Angeles, CA

#2 Aug 9, 2010
Hello dear,,All men will cheat!! Men cheat because they have No respect for themselves. When you have a boyfriend/Girlfriend..you are dating. If it fizzles no harm no foul. Brush yourself off and move on.When a wife/hubby cheat that's down right scandalous. If you are being cheated on by a loved one.First you need proof,second listen to your female instincts. You are always right?..When your heart clouds your judgement then you've got a major problem.Its hard to leave a cheater,,signs. 1)His cellphone he hides it,ringer is off,texting a lot.2)He doesn't call,late or misses dates,dinners.3)His friends need him for something,etc.Disease is rampant and its best to break off relastions with a knuckle head..You will find love one day with a upstanding person..

Since: Aug 10

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#3 Aug 13, 2010
Thank you gigi - but this does not help, as I am totally in love with him :-) I know the signs as I have been cheated on before and do not want to repeat this, but I also do not want to lose him :-)

“NM Desert Rat”

Since: Mar 08

Elephant Butte, N.M.

#4 Aug 13, 2010
melani1826 wrote:
Thank you gigi - but this does not help, as I am totally in love with him :-) I know the signs as I have been cheated on before and do not want to repeat this, but I also do not want to lose him :-)
In that case you have a tough decision to make. Do you stay and tolerate the cheating or do you not tolerate the cheating and go. That is a decision only you can make. Good luck.
Unhappy

Istanbul, Turkey

#7 Oct 9, 2010
Some Turkish men cheat because they are assholes. Also, some follow their religion (most are Muslims) while they are young. Since dating and having sex outside of marriage isn't allowed they think they are missing out on something after they are married and want to sample more women.

I am married to a Turk right now and found out he cheated on me several times. We are heading for a divorce after 4 yrs of marriage. Thankfully we do not have any children (If we did I would have left Turkey with the kids to be sure he never sees them since he doesn't have citizenship in my country).

I also found out several of my Turkish female friends are being cheated on. I will not say anything to them because I know they will not believe me. These men are taking trips to Greece and Bulgaria to have sex with the women there.

I feel sorry for them. I really want to tell them so they won't end up with some kind of STD or worse, AIDS but I know they will just be angry with me and call me a liar (even though I have pictures of a couple of them kissing and hugging other women).

Some Turkish women knows their husbands are cheating on them and choose to ignore it because they have a house, kids, and money.

All in all, it is up to the woman to decide. Stay and suffer (and maybe get an STD or two) or leave.
Roxanne

Placentia, CA

#8 Oct 23, 2010
Most Turkish men are total scumbags they will fuck your friends if they have the chance. My Ex-husband is Turkish and he fucked so many UGLY girls behind my back, but I'm glad that I found out because if I didn't he would have still done more shit behind my back. Ladies, stay away from these shiteaters. They are nice at first and then they hate you, they scam people, lie and they suck in bed...they are soooo boring in bed and they are not into any kink at all ZZZzzzZZZzzzz they just want to knock you up and leave your ass and go back to Turkey. They HATE American culture but then they go and wear the trendiest crap, like Hollister and Amerbercrombie.
Oh and they will beat the shit out of you too, they are known to be wife-beaters and they make excuses as to why it's okay to beat women. If you can't cook them nasty Turkish food, take it in the ass and make all the $$$, they will treat you like dog-shit.
kelly

UK

#9 Oct 25, 2010
My husband and me been together for 5 years and cheated on me didnt know but i was pregnant and were still together but deep down its breaking my heart
mrbig

Brooklyn, NY

#10 Oct 25, 2010
well i'm turkish and love my wife and don't hit her.(and so what if she takes it in the as$, she's my wife and enjoys pleasing me). i treat her well.

as far as cheating, what man doesn't cheat? a rare breed these days, even those who don't admit that they cheat (or speak out against it) actually do cheat. it's not just us turkish men.

“yo topix, later xx”

Since: Sep 10

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#11 Oct 25, 2010
That's because 95% of Turkish men are scum bags and EVERYONE knows it... seriously, they have such a sleazy reputation in Europe. I've had a lot of weird/creepy run-ins with perverted Turks in my hometown (Stockholm) and I can honestly say that out of ALL the Turkish men I've known, only one was a really nice guy who respected women and didn't run around trying to stick his dick in every ugly chick (only ugly fat chicks would consider dating them/sleeping with them in Sweden) that crossed paths with him. Like Roxanne said if you wanna get serious with a Turkish man, or any Muslim man, you better be prepared to take it up the ass rofl. And then after he screws you up the ass a few times, he'll leave you and go back to Turkey to marry a Turkish Muslim girl who will take it up her @ss for the rest of her life, and never complain about how terrible he treats her. Stay away from Turkish men...
Get it Right

Novato, CA

#12 Oct 25, 2010
Maybe Turkish men cheat because green apples are unlike potato chips? Makes about as much sense as your question....
avkor

United States

#13 Feb 27, 2011
I also had an encounter with a turkish man. There very upfront and don't hold back. This guy is nice but in a creepy way. When asked if he is married he was upront in saying he's been married for 8 years and he has a kid. The marriage is not working out they still live together but argue all the time. I barely know this guy and when he came over to see me he was down my throat with his tongue and trying to touch my vajayjay I told him to stop he stoped but I consider these men as perverted sex pyco men that cheat stay away if you encounter one that only concentrates on your tits and lips but not the mind
mrsize13feet

Brooklyn, NY

#14 Feb 28, 2011
avkor wrote:
I also had an encounter with a turkish man. There very upfront and don't hold back. This guy is nice but in a creepy way. When asked if he is married he was upront in saying he's been married for 8 years and he has a kid. The marriage is not working out they still live together but argue all the time. I barely know this guy and when he came over to see me he was down my throat with his tongue and trying to touch my vajayjay I told him to stop he stoped but I consider these men as perverted sex pyco men that cheat stay away if you encounter one that only concentrates on your tits and lips but not the mind
yeah but you plan to see him again right? tell the truth.
latina25

Flushing, NY

#15 Apr 26, 2011
i am very surprised for what i have read here. I am dating a Turkish guy and so far he is very different from other guys. I am latina and my culture is almost the same as Muslim culture(probably that is why, we can understand each other very well). I have dated american, latino,irish guys none of them have treated me so respectful than my turkish boyfriend. I really hope mine BF is different from the Turkish guys you have described. I just need a tip about how can i drive him crazy in bed!(we have not sleep together yet :(
yaya

Santos, Philippines

#16 May 18, 2011
Turkish man...yeah..you can not really tell what is their color once you are living with him for at least a year...then he will gradually change...but I wish not
Sara

Chicago, IL

#17 May 22, 2011
Turkish men are often good looking and they can be very romantic and sexy. But do not trust them. Your chances of finding a good one are almost nonexistent. They lie--a lot, and ever so convincingly. Virtually all of them will cheat on their wives or girlfriends--and should you marry one, you'll find that underneath that veneer of European modernity is the same old Middle Eastern attitude toward women that has existed for millenia in Moslem countries. If you are in love with a Turkish man--run for your life.
Brittany

Cripple Creek, CO

#18 Jun 8, 2011
wow all these comments are kinda scaring me bcuz I have a turkish bf and he wants to marry me and wants kids with me. but I didnt know all of this before. I love him so so much and I cant get him off my mind. he says he loves me even more. and gets very angry when I havent talked to him in only 1 day. should I be worried? Do you think he will break my heart??
Heartbroken

Surfers Paradise, Australia

#19 Jun 14, 2011
I met a turkish guy on the net and was talking to him for the last 6 months on a daily base. He romanced me for the last 6 months and asked me to marry him and was planning to come and meet me then I had a woman contacting me and telling me to stay away from her boyfriend, I confronted him and he denies it and keep saying he loves me and that she is an ex girlfriend and is a freak who keep chasing him and he does not want her. I asked her for proof but she could not get me proof and I texted him and asked him to tell me the truth now he is ignoring me. Please help!! Is he playing me. I am so scared and don't want to get hurt but I have fallen in love with him :(
Rai

Edmonton, Canada

#20 Jun 23, 2011
Wow can you say stereotyping?? The issue of cheating doesn't only pertain to Turkish men! How many white men cheat on their wives? Or for that matter, how many white women cheat on their husbands/boyfriends? MANY! Cheating is not limited to men, because I know plenty of woman who have ruined their relationships by cheating. Western countries have the highest divorce rate in the world, and mostly because of cheating! And they don't even have the population that other places in the world have. The truth is it doesn't matter where the person comes from but rather what kind of person they are. If someone is a cheater, than that's something within that person, not their background. If a man/woman is cheating on you, then they do not love you, because you don't hurt the person you love like that.

Cheating is not cultural, it's personal. if your being cheating on, then it's time to end that relationship - regardless of what country the man comes from!
TheInsider

London, UK

#22 Aug 3, 2011
I stayed in the Bodrum area for several weeks. I was there as a tourist but because I was there for so long, the locals started to open up to me and tell me how things work.
I saw that every week, new tourists arrived at the resorts of Gumbet, Bodrum and Bitez. The Turkish guys would romance the girls and call them their girlfriends. Then at the end of the holiday they would promise to keep in contact with online chat.
The following week another set of tourists would arrive and the same guys would hunt for a new girl to sleep with. This happens all through the holiday season, every year.
I was told by many, that they actually have homes in the city, where their wives and children live, but they cheat because they can.
They mostly like to target English girls as they find them easier to fool, although I saw a few Dutch and German girls fall for it too.
All the locals know the game and that is why many of the hotels have banned people bringing guests into their rooms.
I've seen guys have several chat windows open in the PCs they use in the internet cafes, so they could talk to each of their 'girlfriends' at once, and then could rush off to go on their next date.
Girls do get pregnant and do catch STDs but the guys have moved on to another girl long ago. They really don't think it is a big deal to cheat.....even the 'nice' guys I met cheat. One grown man told me his fiance was moving to Turkey to marry him the very next day, but he had planned to sleep with a girl who had caught his eye that very night. He said he would not cheat once he was married but then admitted that he'd cheated his whole life!!!!
I only saw this 'cheating culture' at the resorts, I don't know what the rest of the population is like. I imagine people are the same the world over......people are people.....but just be aware of what is real and what is your fantasy.

“Peace@Home ,Peace in the World”

Since: Jul 11

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#23 Aug 3, 2011
Heartbroken wrote:
I met a turkish guy on the net and was talking to him for the last 6 months on a daily base. He romanced me for the last 6 months and asked me to marry him and was planning to come and meet me then I had a woman contacting me and telling me to stay away from her boyfriend, I confronted him and he denies it and keep saying he loves me and that she is an ex girlfriend and is a freak who keep chasing him and he does not want her. I asked her for proof but she could not get me proof and I texted him and asked him to tell me the truth now he is ignoring me. Please help!! Is he playing me. I am so scared and don't want to get hurt but I have fallen in love with him :(
Tell him your trust has been shaken since you heard this other women, let him know that you find this situation pretty odd and let him know clearly that you can't trust him, even if you can you should play it this way, you can even start talking of another guy, as if you are casually meeting another charismatic male friend, if he is looking for someone to cheat he might give up, if he is serious he should do all that is humanly possible to convince the women of his life to be.

It's better you lose him while testing him rather than to be cheated and make a fool of yourself. Hopefully if he passes your test and everything works out he'll never forget your wieght, think of the future, you don't want your relationship to have a bad aftertaste, follow your heart but DON'T forget to be mindful.

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