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“Ethiopian-Moor”
Since: Nov 08
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Child support is debt bondage or debtor prison. It is a servile form of slavery. The Constitution state there is no Bill of Attainder. It also states any debt over 20 dollars should go to a jury trial. These laws are targeted at black people and it destroys black families. Virginia frequently put people in jail even for 200 dollars. I don't see other ethnic groups being targeted with this slave sysytem. Its incredible. I will wait for comments to chop someone up.
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Jessy
Charlotte, NC
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Wait a minute white people fall under this same law of non support. This is not "just" a debtor prison at all but neglect and abuse of ones child. Children and babies need constant care and around the clock and food in their mouth and shelter or they will die and you believe that if a parent refuses to help provide that then they should go off scot free--no way! You call it slavery? Where is your head or your brain. Check out the local and other areas the police stations deadbeat parents and you will see plenty of white people and not just men but women--I worked in a place where the sheriff came and arrested a white women for non support of her child--her parents had custody and she was supposed to help support them but was too busy running around with her latest boyfriend--cost money to keep a guy so to the slammer she went. To abandon and neglect your child is about as low as you can go and don't deserve to be walking around free.
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“Ethiopian-Moor”
Since: Nov 08
--VA
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Jessy wrote: Wait a minute white people fall under this same law of non support. This is not "just" a debtor prison at all but neglect and abuse of ones child. Children and babies need constant care and around the clock and food in their mouth and shelter or they will die and you believe that if a parent refuses to help provide that then they should go off scot free--no way! You call it slavery? Where is your head or your brain. Check out the local and other areas the police stations deadbeat parents and you will see plenty of white people and not just men but women--I worked in a place where the sheriff came and arrested a white women for non support of her child--her parents had custody and she was supposed to help support them but was too busy running around with her latest boyfriend--cost money to keep a guy so to the slammer she went. To abandon and neglect your child is about as low as you can go and don't deserve to be walking around free. If someone receives Tanf or aid from the state shouldn't the person who are charging with that debt know about it. Title 42 state in no event should a person pay more than what was given to the Custodial parent yet 12% interest is levied on non-custodial parent. By the time, someone finds out they could be 1,000's or even 100's of thousands in debt for something they don't even know about. They go to jail for 6-months or more. Civil contempt is quasi criminal contempt so should that person get the benefit of a jury trial as it states in our Constitution. They suspend drivers licenses and do not allow the non-custodial parent to leave the country to make a living, which basically violates the enjoyment of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. How do you violate one Constitution right in order to assert another one, that simply intolerable but Virginia allow other people to come into the State illegally violating laws on books and actually help them with health care, education and employment and yet denied Black people. Our Government gives $700 Billion to criminal Corporations, which is considered an individual and they fruadulently spend it on lavish parties and no one goes to jail nor are required to pay money back. Something is wrong with this racist system. Virginia is one of the most racist state in the entire United State.
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Jessy
Charlotte, NC
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chopchop wrote: <quoted text> If someone receives Tanf or aid from the state shouldn't the person who are charging with that debt know about it. Title 42 state in no event should a person pay more than what was given to the Custodial parent yet 12% interest is levied on non-custodial parent. By the time, someone finds out they could be 1,000's or even 100's of thousands in debt for something they don't even know about. They go to jail for 6-months or more. Civil contempt is quasi criminal contempt so should that person get the benefit of a jury trial as it states in our Constitution. They suspend drivers licenses and do not allow the non-custodial parent to leave the country to make a living, which basically violates the enjoyment of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. How do you violate one Constitution right in order to assert another one, that simply intolerable but Virginia allow other people to come into the State illegally violating laws on books and actually help them with health care, education and employment and yet denied Black people.. Am I too understand that you are saying that you should not have to pay child support because the mother of your child is allready receiving funds from the state for this child? And you are charged a %. You sure want to get off scot free don't you. I know some states charge your jail time a small fee that you owe and have to pay back when you get out. You must understand the child support issue. Its taken years to be put into affect the way it is now and should be. Many families receive welfare or funds from the state to help--this is not the same as child support. I think you are confused on the states role in funding for poor families or peoples and child support. Also if you violate the law then often you cannot leave the state let alone country depending on that violation. There are many parents in child custody cases that cannot remove that child out of state of the parent. A person can receive child support depending on how much it is may also have to apply for state support and help from the state cause the child support is not enough. If the person is receiving illegal funds that is up to the state to stop and believe me they will when they find out--that is fraud and will have to be paid back. But one thing no parent can do no matter what is not pay their court ordered child support--male or female or no matter what your race is. Once you break the law there is no liberty or rights. No one in this country has rights when you go against the law. People from other countries hear stories of how wonderful America is and they get here and shocked with the rules or the laws and how things are run here. Many do not understand you cannot do what you feel like or you cannot do what you may have done in the other country. Once you break the law you have no rights or freedoms except what the law states and you have to abide by that.That is all of us. As for Va being racist--the law you speak of is not racist. Yes people can be very racist especially the further south you go but even that is fading as time goes by. The law is clear on child support and to inforce that law the person has to go to court otherwise no one knows and have the law inforce it. If you know someone who is illegally receiving funds then its up to you to report it. Not all case require trials and even those that do can be waived by the person who is being tried. I would not say the law is complicated but rather there is a lot of law to know. Same for anyone going to another country. We have Civil Rights so that no one violates our human rights. But we violate our own constitutional rights when we break the law. Child support laws are to protect the children and the children only. The child cannot speak for theirself so the law has too.
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Brad_Paisley fan
Cape Girardeau, MO
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Jessy wrote: Wait a minute white people fall under this same law of non support. This is not "just" a debtor prison at all but neglect and abuse of ones child. Children and babies need constant care and around the clock and food in their mouth and shelter or they will die and you believe that if a parent refuses to help provide that then they should go off scot free--no way! You call it slavery? Where is your head or your brain. Check out the local and other areas the police stations deadbeat parents and you will see plenty of white people and not just men but women--I worked in a place where the sheriff came and arrested a white women for non support of her child--her parents had custody and she was supposed to help support them but was too busy running around with her latest boyfriend--cost money to keep a guy so to the slammer she went. To abandon and neglect your child is about as low as you can go and don't deserve to be walking around free. Well said Jessy!!! Amen!!
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Brad_Paisley fan
Cape Girardeau, MO
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Jessy wrote: <quoted text> Am I too understand that you are saying that you should not have to pay child support because the mother of your child is allready receiving funds from the state for this child? And you are charged a %. You sure want to get off scot free don't you. I know some states charge your jail time a small fee that you owe and have to pay back when you get out. You must understand the child support issue. Its taken years to be put into affect the way it is now and should be. Many families receive welfare or funds from the state to help--this is not the same as child support. I think you are confused on the states role in funding for poor families or peoples and child support. Also if you violate the law then often you cannot leave the state let alone country depending on that violation. There are many parents in child custody cases that cannot remove that child out of state of the parent. A person can receive child support depending on how much it is may also have to apply for state support and help from the state cause the child support is not enough. If the person is receiving illegal funds that is up to the state to stop and believe me they will when they find out--that is fraud and will have to be paid back. But one thing no parent can do no matter what is not pay their court ordered child support--male or female or no matter what your race is. Once you break the law there is no liberty or rights. No one in this country has rights when you go against the law. People from other countries hear stories of how wonderful America is and they get here and shocked with the rules or the laws and how things are run here. Many do not understand you cannot do what you feel like or you cannot do what you may have done in the other country. Once you break the law you have no rights or freedoms except what the law states and you have to abide by that.That is all of us. As for Va being racist--the law you speak of is not racist. Yes people can be very racist especially the further south you go but even that is fading as time goes by. The law is clear on child support and to inforce that law the person has to go to court otherwise no one knows and have the law inforce it. If you know someone who is illegally receiving funds then its up to you to report it. Not all case require trials and even those that do can be waived by the person who is being tried. I would not say the law is complicated but rather there is a lot of law to know. Same for anyone going to another country. We have Civil Rights so that no one violates our human rights. But we violate our own constitutional rights when we break the law. Child support laws are to protect the children and the children only. The child cannot speak for theirself so the law has too. Well said, again...anyone who brings a child into this world is responsible for that period. I am not a racist, but am soooo tired of hearing all the excuses made, then ending in "because I'm black". Seriously.
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“why not laugh with me? ”
Since: Jul 08
Earth
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It seems Jessy has eliquently stated the law, and much better then I could have so I will leave my statement as a simple request to stop pulling the race card. It's tattered old and tired. Chop-Chop, you are not helping yourself or any other black citizen by saying "...These laws are targeted at black people and it destroys black families...", at that point you have lost your audience and all credibility. It's not about the color of your skin, it's about being a responsible human being. Stop complaining and do what is right. That's your child sir. And every penny you don't personally need to survive should be going to that child not because the court has ordered it, but because you want the best possible situation for your baby. Now get off topix and be a go be a father. Peace.
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katie lee
Brookville, PA
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Brad_Paisley fan wrote: <quoted text> Well said, again...anyone who brings a child into this world is responsible for that period. I am not a racist, but am soooo tired of hearing all the excuses made, then ending in "because I'm black". Seriously. I just want to add one thing here, as I know for a fact that many of these women in Virginia, are getting paid in cash by the husband/boyfriend, then go to court and claim that the man is in arheres....and if the man didn't get a recipt from the woman, guess what???? He has to pay till the day he dies to this so called...."lying woman" because the laws in Virginia favor the mother in all cases. Not only that, but after the so called child hits the age of 18, and the state,(which by the way is as crooked as a snake) will make the man pay until arheres are done with, the man has no chance at all of getting out of debt. Matter of fact a friend of mine, is still paying and the so called child is a man, both are white by the way. Also, I do believe the state of Virginia, adds on interest so that, no matter what....the guy is gonna pay till he hits the grave!! I also found out that the woman gets any tax money that man would have coming to him after he files a tax return. Nice state to live in isn't it???? So I know that this story is true. White or black or whatever color, a man doesn't stand a chance in the state of Virginia when it comes to child support!! The woman can make up any lie and the stupid courts in that state believe it like it was gospel.
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Katrina
Baltimore, MD
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chopchop wrote: Child support is debt bondage or debtor prison. It is a servile form of slavery. The Constitution state there is no Bill of Attainder. It also states any debt over 20 dollars should go to a jury trial. These laws are targeted at black people and it destroys black families. Virginia frequently put people in jail even for 200 dollars. I don't see other ethnic groups being targeted with this slave sysytem. Its incredible. I will wait for comments to chop someone up. No one is enslaving them,they are being enslaved by poor decisions.People across the board are burden by very poor decisions.The only way you don't become enslaved by them is if you take FULL REPOSABILITY and correct it,blaming others for your problems means you don't understand your envolvement and you are doomed to repeat them.
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guest
Cape Girardeau, MO
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katie lee wrote: <quoted text>I just want to add one thing here, as I know for a fact that many of these women in Virginia, are getting paid in cash by the husband/boyfriend, then go to court and claim that the man is in arheres....and if the man didn't get a recipt from the woman, guess what???? He has to pay till the day he dies to this so called...."lying woman" because the laws in Virginia favor the mother in all cases. Not only that, but after the so called child hits the age of 18, and the state,(which by the way is as crooked as a snake) will make the man pay until arheres are done with, the man has no chance at all of getting out of debt. Matter of fact a friend of mine, is still paying and the so called child is a man, both are white by the way. Also, I do believe the state of Virginia, adds on interest so that, no matter what....the guy is gonna pay till he hits the grave!! I also found out that the woman gets any tax money that man would have coming to him after he files a tax return. Nice state to live in isn't it???? So I know that this story is true. White or black or whatever color, a man doesn't stand a chance in the state of Virginia when it comes to child support!! The woman can make up any lie and the stupid courts in that state believe it like it was gospel. It is actually like that in other states as well. I am a step-mother. We have not seen my stepdaughter in two years because the mother just doesn't want us to. She taught my step-child to say awful, horrible things about my husband and totally got away with it. It is sickening. By the way...yes, my husband is responsible for every penny she sucks off the state plus child support.
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Dave
United States
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chopchop wrote: Child support is debt bondage or debtor prison. It is a servile form of slavery. The Constitution state there is no Bill of Attainder. It also states any debt over 20 dollars should go to a jury trial. These laws are targeted at black people and it destroys black families. Virginia frequently put people in jail even for 200 dollars. I don't see other ethnic groups being targeted with this slave sysytem. Its incredible. I will wait for comments to chop someone up. White tax payers should pay for all of Justins bastard children.
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kit in plano
Colleyville, TX
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chopchop wrote: Child support is debt bondage or debtor prison. It is a servile form of slavery. The Constitution state there is no Bill of Attainder. It also states any debt over 20 dollars should go to a jury trial. These laws are targeted at black people and it destroys black families. Virginia frequently put people in jail even for 200 dollars. I don't see other ethnic groups being targeted with this slave sysytem. Its incredible. I will wait for comments to chop
someone up. you are a idiot! how can you call child support slavery! if you don't use protection, stop chasing strange. You breed it, you pay for it. Why should i pay for you night of fun? typical reference to slavery in this instance means we should make people like you a slave. You are obviosly to stupid to live as a free man taking responsibility for yourself, so i assume you need some help with that. Come on over and you can clean my house, wash my car rake my leaves.
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Jessy
Charlotte, NC
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katie lee wrote: <quoted text>I just want to add one thing here, as I know for a fact that many of these women in Virginia, are getting paid in cash by the husband/boyfriend, then go to court and claim that the man is in arheres....and if the man didn't get a recipt from the woman, guess what???? He has to pay till the day he dies to this so called...."lying woman" because the laws in Virginia favor the mother in all cases. Not only that, but after the so called child hits the age of 18, and the state,(which by the way is as crooked as a snake) will make the man pay until arheres are done with, the man has no chance at all of getting out of debt. Matter of fact a friend of mine, is still paying and the so called child is a man, both are white by the way. Also, I do believe the state of Virginia, adds on interest so that, no matter what....the guy is gonna pay till he hits the grave!! I also found out that the woman gets any tax money that man would have coming to him after he files a tax return. Nice state to live in isn't it???? So I know that this story is true. White or black or whatever color, a man doesn't stand a chance in the state of Virginia when it comes to child support!! The woman can make up any lie and the stupid courts in that state believe it like it was gospel. But don't you understand that the man/women that should be paying child support is supposed have this done through family law courts not in cash by yourself with no receipt. That is stupidity. You cannot blame the court system or the state for your wrong acts if you or your friend would do such a stupid thing. Its your friends own wrong doing. Do right and by the law not what you feel like. "Oh I paid cash" is a sorry excuse and lie for paying nothing. You have no clue how many times that lie is used in the court system. If you value your child and yourself and have any decency about you then why would you hand over money and not get a receipt? Courts go by proof--grow up --if you make a baby its time to stop being a baby. Any parent male or female that cares about their child will do the right thing by that child. And that is go through the family court system to protect yourself and pay your support or have ordered shared custody or visitation set up. Cost money to raise a child--no means cheap. If you don't want to pay for that child then suppose you don't have any..how about that? Then there are no complaints. You never neglect and abandon your child ever by moving on to the next women/male and start doing the same all over and bringing in more helpless babies. Tax paying people are sick and tired of having to foot the bill for negligent adults who do not want responsibility in this life for the lives they bring on this earth and instead think that child is for someone else to care about. A child always loves and looks to the real parent so your friend needs to stand up and be a parent and adult that is worthy of that love. People that think like you do make a mockery of what is good and decent in this life.
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“NM Desert Rat”
Since: Mar 08
Elephant Butte, N.M.
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chopchop wrote: Child support is debt bondage or debtor prison. It is a servile form of slavery. The Constitution state there is no Bill of Attainder. It also states any debt over 20 dollars should go to a jury trial. These laws are targeted at black people and it destroys black families. Virginia frequently put people in jail even for 200 dollars. I don't see other ethnic groups being targeted with this slave sysytem. Its incredible. I will wait for comments to chop someone up. If you make babies you have an obligation to support them. Practice birth control and you won't have this problem.
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Lawrence
Atlanta, GA
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You have deadbeat moms as much as deadbeat dads. It's just not talked about as much. Anytime you get a large amount of child support, but spends it on outfits, shoes for yourself, and getting your hair and nails done, and also can spend it on another man, who by-the-way, isn't working and is probably a deadbeat for not taking care of his kids from a past relationship, is also a deadbeat mom. During this economic crisis, it's going to be worse. Alot of good men are going to be looked at as deadbeat fathers because of lay offs. This means that more men are going to be put in jail, more men are going to lose their license, and more men won't be able to live a normal life. Even if and when good men find work, the child support would've accumulated so much, that it's going to be nearly in possible to bounce back. This is how it is going to be for minute. Put this in your pipe and smoke it.
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raerae
Elizabeth, NJ
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katie lee wrote: <quoted text>I just want to add one thing here, as I know for a fact that many of these women in Virginia, are getting paid in cash by the husband/boyfriend, then go to court and claim that the man is in arheres....and if the man didn't get a recipt from the woman, guess what???? He has to pay till the day he dies to this so called...."lying woman" because the laws in Virginia favor the mother in all cases. Not only that, but after the so called child hits the age of 18, and the state,(which by the way is as crooked as a snake) will make the man pay until arheres are done with, the man has no chance at all of getting out of debt. Matter of fact a friend of mine, is still paying and the so called child is a man, both are white by the way. Also, I do believe the state of Virginia, adds on interest so that, no matter what....the guy is gonna pay till he hits the grave!! I also found out that the woman gets any tax money that man would have coming to him after he files a tax return. Nice state to live in isn't it???? So I know that this story is true. White or black or whatever color, a man doesn't stand a chance in the state of Virginia when it comes to child support!! The woman can make up any lie and the stupid courts in that state believe it like it was gospel. How does one that owes child support expect the child support office to keep track of direct payments? And how do they expect to get credit for the money with out proof? "Oh, you don't owe this much? Sure, okay, I'll knock off all your arrears just because you say so..." hmmmm... maybe that is why the court ORDER tells you and the JUDGE tells you that ALL payments go through the clerks office. Why do men think they can disobey the court order and still get the same results? And why does the moron that started this thread think that he is above the law? Why does he think he shouldn't have to pay for the child that HE laid down and made? And most importantly why does he think that child support laws only apply to black people? If this thread is not a perfect example of how some (thank GOD all are not like this) black people blame every little negative thing in their life on someone else's racism? Another thing, if people paid their support on time they wouldn't be paying any interest. Also, you mentioned someone paying support on an adult......SO!?? What's your point? Do you mean to imply that if a man can just beat the system until the child is of age he doesn't owe any more? What about all those years the mother struggled on her own? Too bad biotch??? Hell no! That would be like rewarding people for not paying for their child!
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raerae
Elizabeth, NJ
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Lawrence wrote: You have deadbeat moms as much as deadbeat dads. It's just not talked about as much. Anytime you get a large amount of child support, but spends it on outfits, shoes for yourself, and getting your hair and nails done, and also can spend it on another man, who by-the-way, isn't working and is probably a deadbeat for not taking care of his kids from a past relationship, is also a deadbeat mom. During this economic crisis, it's going to be worse. Alot of good men are going to be looked at as deadbeat fathers because of lay offs. This means that more men are going to be put in jail, more men are going to lose their license, and more men won't be able to live a normal life. Even if and when good men find work, the child support would've accumulated so much, that it's going to be nearly in possible to bounce back. This is how it is going to be for minute. Put this in your pipe and smoke it. I do agree there are dead beat moms too... just not near as many for some reason. But what makes you think the mother can't spend it on what she wants? It would only be wrong if the mother is neglecting the child in some way. Otherwise, who cares? The judge doesn't. Also re:"nearly impossible to bounce back" comment... Men still have an obligation to their child regardless of their work situation. I couldn't tell you how many times I've seen men use this excuse. Do you know what the judge asks them? Did you get to eat today? Yeah, the child deserves to eat too. Also, when you get behind, they usually will just add on a weekly arrears order (usually 10-20 a wk) to repay the accumulated arrears.... I think you should be able to bounce back from your unemployment period (just minus 10-20 bucks until the arrears are pd). Of course that doesn't include tax checks. I'm fairly certain that all states intercept the tax checks for arrears over a certain amount (I believe it's 500) and I am certain that if it is state arrears that are owed they will most certainly intercept them. One more thing... if you l Do loose you job, go request a court date and see if you can get your order modified. That doesn't happen automatically and it doesn't just happen at any ol court date. You have to actually request a modification of the order. So don't just show up at a normal review and expect them to change your order because you lost your job.
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“So let’s debate or reason ”
Since: Mar 08
Dover Fl
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you make em-your support em...it you don't want to pay then stop spreding the seed around.. this is for all men....
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fed up from virginia
AOL
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I am a stepmother of three children. I live in Virginia also. The DOCE is a joke. My husband pays his support. That is not the problem. Every time we turn around we are back in court for more. It seems like everytime he gets a raise or better job, she gets more and more and more. When she got a better job it did not matter. I do agree with one the racial issue. I am white and married to a black man. We have had issues with department of child support enforcement taking the same order out of both of his jobs. They even tried to make him pay for a year of spousal support after she was married. We had to get a lawyer to stop it. The devorce papers stated all spousal support stopped. She got remarried 3 days after the devorce was final, and a year later he was being harrased for spousal support from the state of Virginia. I know many of white men that do not pay and never haver a problem. The man who is trying is always the one who get screwed. I thank their is a bad reputation put on black men in general and that is not fair. not all black men are deadbeats.
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Since: Jan 09
Libertyville, IL
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chopchop wrote: Child support is debt bondage or debtor prison. It is a servile form of slavery. The Constitution state there is no Bill of Attainder. It also states any debt over 20 dollars should go to a jury trial. These laws are targeted at black people and it destroys black families. Virginia frequently put people in jail even for 200 dollars. I don't see other ethnic groups being targeted with this slave sysytem. Its incredible. I will wait for comments to chop someone up. HA HA HA!!!!! You are hilarious!!!! Don't want to pay child support? Use that money for a chastity belt then, moron!!! LMAO!
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