if being gay is so right, why do gay people feel the need to broadcast it???

SANDY wrote:

<quoted text>Ya got that right old people were raised to be mean and disriminatory torwards people of diffrent sexual orintations. My parents have aslo raised me to believe that it's a sin to be LGBT and for a while I believed that it was a sin to be LGBT was until ironicly enough I discoverd I was one of the LGBT people myself and as this was happening to me I really thought hard about homosexuality and learned out for myself that being who you is not a sin though my parents still believe that. Anyway my church is also extremlly homophobic( goss I can't wait to get out of that God forshaken church. What if your wrong utter truth what if we could destroy homophobia in our generation( well that might be because I am 16 years old. We need to taech our children that homophobia is wrong not homosexuality. I do not like conservitive churchs my church last week was trying to spread homophobia my youth pastor was talking about how wrong it was not to be straght just because the bible says sooo. Some day maybe just some we might be able to make homophobia extinct. Oh one last thing evolution is a fact not a theory. just look at a book about evolution that's not from ken ham he doesn't even understand like half the bible.

why all the hate and prejudice for "old people"?? Here you openly discriminate against them and anyone who does not share your confused state of sexual sensibilities.

Evolution is a fact. I agree with you 400%. But does evolution intend for Man to develope medicines that resist natural selection and order? We are tampering with Natural Selection evertime we a cure for this disease or that virus. Maybe we shouldnt bother with finding a vaccine for AIDS?

If being Christian is so right, why do Christian people feel the need to broadcast it???

Matthais wrote:

The loudmouth Christians are far more annoying. At least gay people don't feel some need to convert you to the Church of Teh Ghey. Bible thumpers, on the other hand, keep trying to convert you.
I wish they'd all just keep quiet.

thats just rude because you have so much hate you make a decision you might not be aware of and you take it out by trashtalking about christians maybe we talk about gays because they judge to ..just likeyou did to cristians ..and maybe you should be quietGODBLESSYOU!

dont trip wrote:

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thats just rude because you have so much hate you make a decision you might not be aware of and you take it out by trashtalking about christians maybe we talk about gays because they judge to ..just likeyou did to cristians ..and maybe you should be quietGODBLESSYOU!

The word is "Christian". You know, as in "Christ"?

Quest wrote:

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The word is "Christian". You know, as in "Christ"?

oh, like in THE christ? it's not a name or a proper noun. in fact, it's a descriptor.

Blond King wrote:

"if being gay is so right, why do gay people feel the need to broadcast it???"
Good question so just add hetero in there and ask if it is so right why do heteros need to broadcast it?
I see heteros out all the time kissing and holding hand broadcasting it. If it is so right why broadcast?
AMA and APA state all three sexual orientations are normal and natural. Anyone that does not agree with medical science might as well think the earth is flat.

exactly!

dont trip wrote:

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thats just rude because you have so much hate you make a decision you might not be aware of and you take it out by trashtalking about christians maybe we talk about gays because they judge to ..just likeyou did to cristians ..and maybe you should be quietGODBLESSYOU!

yes we trash christianity because it trashes us. Faith is not waht we are against. Its the made made belief system that discriminates against gays. Its the system we hate. Not the faith.

im gay i love it

I think thay people should live there life the way they want....evry body say its stated in the bible bout being gay but it is also stated in the bible and one of the camandments is thou should not judge....i mean i think the ones who always have to say some bout gay people and say that they cant be round them do and say things because deep down inside they have dought bout them selfs...i mean live your life and be u and be careful who u judge..every body not perfect and why not just be u cause no matter what u do or how u do it people gone talk and say what they want any way...i mean u have alot of teens that live the gay life off pressur and child abuse and u have some that are gay and are afraid to comne out with it or talk to some one bout because they are afraid of what the community might say or think of them.. these days you parents that abuse and turn there back on there child because there gay....and now days its just life cause u have married men and women that are undercover gays....not only married but u also have fathers, married, church pastors that are liveing double lifes also....so life i said u cant make every body happy so just live yo life and be u. and be careful who u judge. cause i am who i am so who are you....lmao yes i am gay also

if being christian is so right, why do christian people feel the need to broadcast it???

prince dion wrote:

I think thay people should live there life the way they want....evry body say its stated in the bible bout being gay but it is also stated in the bible and one of the camandments is thou should not judge....i mean i think the ones who always have to say some bout gay people and say that they cant be round them do and say things because deep down inside they have dought bout them selfs...i mean live your life and be u and be careful who u judge..every body not perfect and why not just be u cause no matter what u do or how u do it people gone talk and say what they want any way...i mean u have alot of teens that live the gay life off pressur and child abuse and u have some that are gay and are afraid to comne out with it or talk to some one bout because they are afraid of what the community might say or think of them.. these days you parents that abuse and turn there back on there child because there gay....and now days its just life cause u have married men and women that are undercover gays....not only married but u also have fathers, married, church pastors that are liveing double lifes also....so life i said u cant make every body happy so just live yo life and be u. and be careful who u judge. cause i am who i am so who are you....lmao yes i am gay also

i can assure u here. THE BIBLE MAKES NO DISCRIMINATIONS AGAINST GAYS. Its man that is.

Rose wrote:

if being christian is so right, why do christian people feel the need to broadcast it???

its really is a stupid topic. why do we think anybody broadcasts? because we all believe in whatever we broadcast..........

TB Chief wrote:

<quoted text>Are you planning on having a family? And if you are, How the hell do you plan to do this? Don't you think all children should at least have the right to have a father in their life? If the whole world were gay how would we repopulate? Children should not be subjected to being raised by 2 males or 2 females. This is not right and not normal and definitely not fair for children. If gays want to be gay, fine but leave the kids out of it.

1. If you are concerned about children having a father, you should be campaigning against divorce and for tougher laws against deadbeat dads.
2. Children have a right to two parents. The gender and sexual orientation of those parents is irrelevant, and there are studies that prove this.
3. There are gay men and women in this country that ALREADY HAVE CHILDREN. You want to deny the legal protections offered a family by the government denied these families because the parents are gay? It sounds to me like you don't care about the children. Not one whit.

RE the headline of this thread:
if being gay is so right, why do gay people feel the need to broadcast it???

My ANSWER:
For many of the same reasons a "christian" declares their faith. To be noticed. To make a statement. To stand up for ourselves and our beliefs. To feel better about ourselves. To have a sense we belong. To help put an end to the hatred and lies about us. To help bring about a change for good in our society.

BIG VELLI wrote:

<quoted text>TWO MEN CANT REPRODUCE TWO WOMEN CANT REPRODUCE, UNLESS HELPED BY SCIENCE, SO THAT MAKES IT MISGUIDED LUST. MEN AND WOMEN LUST FOR EACH OTHER BUT THEY CAN REPRODUCE WITHOUT THE HELP OF SCIENCE. A PERSON IS NOT BORN GAY, ITS A CHOICE. SO UR SAYN IF A PERSON IS IN LOVE WITH A HORSE, SHOULD THEY ACT ON IT? IF A GROWN MAN SAYS HE IS IN LOVE WITH A CHILD, SHOULD WE LET THAT BE LEGAL? UR DEBATING A TOPIC THAT IS NOT SCIENTIFICLY PROVEN. UR BROTHER LOVES GOD AND GOD LOVES HIM, BUT DOES THAT MEAN GOD LOVES HIS CHOICE OF LIFESTYLE? THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A GAY GENE SO U CANT SAY HE WAS BORN GAY. IF I HAD A SON AND CAME TO ME AND SAID HES GAY, I WOULD STILL LOVE HIM BUT NOT AGREE WITH HIS LIFESTYLE.

sit on a xerox machine and reproduce yourself, you dumbass.

Gays come out and declare themselves as gay because they want to live like everyone else, out and open about who they are. They want to change the way people view the idea of same-sex marriage and homosexuality. They are just people like everyone else and people need to stop singling them out. With that, they should be allowed to get married for the same reasons that any straight couples have. They love someone and want to be seen as married by a church. It does not affect you in any way, shape, or form for them to get married and be happy with the one they love. They should be able to live their life the way they want to. Also, they should not be singled about because the bible says marriage is between a man and a woman. Many people do not follow by the bible or believe in God and so this may not even be a factor for them to deal with. Gay teens and adults should not be afraid to come out and tell people the truth. They should feel comfortable enough to know that the majority of the world would not be judging them on their sexual preferences.

This is a message to big velli.

Firstly..... stop SHOUTING WITH UPPERCASE MATE!!!

Secondly there is a winning debate on the gays side involving if gays are born homosexual.
Now we have not living proof that it is a choice.
All the case of homosexuality show that it is a choice. We have millions of gays in this world who not only admit its determined at birth, but have chosen to be open about it and have to deal with abuse and dsicrimination.

I can assure you.... being treated this way is not the most pleasant thing in the world.

What Im trying to say is.... No person would put themselves through so much abuse for a choice. We live our being. We are born this way. And I believe this with every fiber in my body. Wheather its genetic or a natural occurance in nature due to environmental influences... All science have spelt it out for us as natural. Evolution.

I think that being gay or bi-sexual is about not taking sexuality too seriously. Hence religious groups being so conservative.

What we miss is the general respect for each other... sexuality has not relevance.

As for marriage... well I think we are evolving as beings. Thinking outside the square with raising children is something we all need to talk about.
But openly. And without the religious bullsh*t.
Logically. Scientifically.

and comparing gay sex with children and animals is so ridiculous... it really shows how bright this person is who said it.

Sex between to consenting adults of the same sex is not crossing specie divides. And its is not pedophilia.

Wake up BID VELLI!!

Alissa wrote:

Gays come out and declare themselves as gay because they want to live like everyone else, out and open about who they are. They want to change the way people view the idea of same-sex marriage and homosexuality. They are just people like everyone else and people need to stop singling them out. With that, they should be allowed to get married for the same reasons that any straight couples have. They love someone and want to be seen as married by a church. It does not affect you in any way, shape, or form for them to get married and be happy with the one they love. They should be able to live their life the way they want to. Also, they should not be singled about because the bible says marriage is between a man and a woman. Many people do not follow by the bible or believe in God and so this may not even be a factor for them to deal with. Gay teens and adults should not be afraid to come out and tell people the truth. They should feel comfortable enough to know that the majority of the world would not be judging them on their sexual preferences.

Exactly. Im not a screaming gay man but I have reason for living in the major cities. People are more accepting.

And I do feel the need to broad cast it because I still feel that we have a long way to go to educate people of our life.

To drop the generalizations and steroetypes. And begin thinking for yourself.
The world is full of cowardly people who live trough other peoples beliefs.
The bible has a negaive strong hold on so many victums. Weak people hanging on to hope that man created.

In the heavens there is not god. Only man manipulating other humans for their own gain.

My advice: Burn the bible.
I also think that we can have a civil respectful society without religions.
Living life from an instruction manual just isnt natural!!!!