Look if the white woman chooses the black man over you did you ever once think it was you??
White men to judge us white women in so many ways - insulting and degrading ways that the black man does not.
First you look at her face and if she is beautiful, pretty, cute, etc. you will approach her but only if she is thin and shapely. So tell me, you are judging her by the outer beauty and not her inner.
You can strike up a conversation with one of these fine women and sometimes you will find the most uneducated and someone with out any common sense or brains. She will start talking to you like she never went to school.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you white men don't go beyond looks - admit it.
I was NEVER asked out on a date in high school - expressed interest in some guys and they either told me I was only a friend, stayed clear of me or just ignored me. I wasn't the smartest girl in the class either but I was always a lot of fun to be with - got involved in activities at school and despite not having a date for my proms, I helped out anyway.
After years out of school, I met up with some guys from my class and they were nice to me now and I got up the nerve to ask "why now and not in school" I actually had a few admit it was because I wasn't good looking and the other guys would have "teased" them.
I had some male friends in school and one in particular happen to be black. He was the nicest to me but I could not try and make a go with him because of my parents - RACIST - wow!!
I attended class reunions and much to my surprise most of the "good looking" girls were without husbands, boyfriends, dates, etc. and some were married and have since divorced. I saw a few of the less popular girls like myself with great looking husbands, average looking and some that people would say border-line geeks.
I went with some of my married girlfriends who left their husbands home or chose not to attend, single girlfriends, divorced girlfriends and didn't bring a date. I was seeing a guy at the time but I didn't ask him to go because I thought people would say nasty things about him, number 1 because was handicap and we had some real winners in my class that would have a field day - yes even after 20 years - they haven't grown up.
We parted about a year after my reunion and I reunited with my black friend from school who was recently divorced and the father of a little girl whom he loves dearly.
He confessed to having feelings for me in school and I did for him and explained why I didn't do anything to make us a couple.
We have been dating and we decided to have a small party with some of our high school friends. We had a nice crowd of about 50 and it was nice to see some of the people that didn't go to the reunion. We had a few in the group that were very strange about our dating and my guy asked why and this is what the white guy told him:
"You know she's only curious to see if you have the big *ick that everyone talks about and she isn't pretty you know". My guy was very upset and told him that he was wrong and that I was more beautiful now than ever. We had a few comments thrown during the night but we did get some people that thought it was ok.
Why are white men so stereotypical with assuming that we white women want a big *ick?? I don't - I don't judge a man that way - I just him by his treatment of me, my family and friends.
White men are so into their own looks and concerns that sometimes I think they ignore their woman completely.
It's all about them - me, me, me, me
I have other black friends male and female now and the men are so different than the white males. White men should take a lesson from the black man - maybe that way you can get yourself the white woman who left you or chose black over you - do you get the picture now white man??
You are in the wrong-grow up