why do people judge others

I always get made fun of and it gets very upsetting but i dont let it bother me

Some people come on here to argue with people, and to be mean. You find that everywhere in life, but WAY more on the computer. It's easy to be mean while hiding behind a screen. It's easy not to think of others as real people. There are many nice people also. Just pay attention to them. :)

moni09 wrote:

I always get made fun of and it gets very upsetting but i dont let it bother me

If your talking about in your personal life between your good friends, it may be because your well liked, and you've shown your a good sport about it. I often tease my friends that I like when I know they will respond well to it.

im wondering how can it be "very upsetting" but yet u dont "let it bother u"?
if ur talking about on topix, because they know their identity cant be found.
if u mean in RW - because they are people who are just being forward and theres probably a hint of truth in what they are saying.
at least thats how i am. lol
but i think its better to know who ur friends are in the RW and if u dont want to be judged or dont want to know what they are really thinking, best Not to ask them...
for instance, do u like this dress?
i Will tell u the truth. lol
:O)

JesusFreak777 wrote:

Some people come on here to argue with people, and to be mean. You find that everywhere in life, but WAY more on the computer. It's easy to be mean while hiding behind a screen. It's easy not to think of others as real people. There are many nice people also. Just pay attention to them.:)

Yes, make sure you only agree with people, never question them or dare to disagree with them, otherwise they might think you are "mean." Never, I mean NEVER consider a different opinion, always be as rigid as possible, and once again, when someone questions you, realize that they are simple being very MEAN. I might also suggest that if all a person is looking for is someone to always agree with them, then perhaps a friendly chat room would be a better choice.

blacklagoon wrote:

<quoted text>I might also suggest that if all a person is looking for is someone to always agree with them, then perhaps a friendly chat room would be a better choice.

I agree with you on that...Meanie! lol ;)

JesusFreak777 wrote:

<quoted text>I agree with you on that...Meanie! lol ;)

I'm actually a very nice person, have never murdered anyone---hummmm, there was that time in texas, just kidding!!!!!

blacklagoon wrote:

<quoted text>I'm actually a very nice person, have never murdered anyone---hummmm, there was that time in texas, just kidding!!!!!

LOL...I'm feeling the positive waves, you can't be that bad.:)

JesusFreak777 wrote:

<quoted text>LOL...I'm feeling the positive waves, you can't be that bad.:)

Thank you, does that mean you really don't want me to be tortured forever?

JesusFreak777 wrote:

<quoted text>LOL...I'm feeling the positive waves, you can't be that bad.:)

Of course I can't be that bad, my children love me, so does my new granddaughter, and my student think I'm the best thing since sliced bread.

blacklagoon wrote:

<quoted text>Thank you, does that mean you really don't want me to be tortured forever?

I don't want you, or anyone to be tortured forever. Just because I believe something will happen doesn't mean I wish it to happen. Anyways, my faith is just that...faith. I can't prove to you that it's valid. That's why I don't try. My faith is not a perfect science. I wish it was...On that note, I'm off to bed. See you later.:)

I guess some peoples lives are so empty that they spend their lives passing judgement on others. As for me, I have my dear wife, my children and a few select friends and I don't have to impress them. As for everyone else it's "WYSIWYG" and I could give a ***t.

JesusFreak777 wrote:

<quoted text>I don't want you, or anyone to be tortured forever. Just because I believe something will happen doesn't mean I wish it to happen. Anyways, my faith is just that...faith. I can't prove to you that it's valid. That's why I don't try. My faith is not a perfect science. I wish it was...On that note, I'm off to bed. See you later.:)

I do understand, sleep well!!!

JesusFreak777 wrote:

Some people come on here to argue with people, and to be mean. You find that everywhere in life, but WAY more on the computer. It's easy to be mean while hiding behind a screen. It's easy not to think of others as real people. There are many nice people also. Just pay attention to them.:)

Yes, I agree. I started reading some posts in other places and they sound like people come on to just argue and fight.

MPMARTIN wrote:

I guess some peoples lives are so empty that they spend their lives passing judgement on others. As for me, I have my dear wife, my children and a few select friends and I don't have to impress them. As for everyone else it's "WYSIWYG" and I could give a ***t.

i think everyone will make a judgement on someone in their lifetime, if u ever even thought something negative like "thats an ugly car" or something, then ur judging them, if u think they are showing u the car to impress u, then ur judging them.
its human nature.

blacklagoon wrote:

<quoted text>I do understand, sleep well!!!

Thanks, I did!:)

I judge because its fun...

moni09 wrote:

I always get made fun of and it gets very upsetting but i dont let it bother me

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