Why almost every man cheats?

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Lance

United States

#1 Oct 26, 2007
I can't stand it! I know this man that is married, and has slept with over 14 during his second year.
His wife doesn't know it because he travels out of the country. Are there any good men left? He saids it's okay as long she doesn't know? Why do people do this?
ANSWER

Sylmar, CA

#2 Oct 26, 2007
Lance wrote:
I can't stand it! I know this man that is married, and has slept with over 14 during his second year.
His wife doesn't know it because he travels out of the country. Are there any good men left? He saids it's okay as long she doesn't know? Why do people do this?
People cheat because they forgot to get rid of the one there with.DIVORCE before you go touch the next one .with this simple rule = NO ADULTRY

Since: Oct 07

Pleasanton, CA

#3 Oct 26, 2007
First of all alot of women have to cheat also for the men to have someone to cheat with.
One of the problems is that women do not understand the nature fo men or want to accept it. Unless you have a man that no other woman wants but you, then he will cheat. Women believe that sex is some magic act that keeps a man in a daze and faithful until the next time, unfortunately once men climax,the magic is over until the next time. Also no matter how good looking the woman is, the man will get tired of the same thing over and over, even if he loves you. Compare it to hamburgers, you may like hamburgers, but if you ate them everyday and nothing else, soon you would get tired of hamburgers. Sex with the same woman is like hamburgers everyday.
The biggest problem with men cheating is women getting pregnant and having children. The months of no sex during the pregnancy and all the time envolved with caring for an infant will run your man into another woman's bed quicker than anything else that you can do.
These are the realities of men that women do not want to believe, but act puzzled when it happens.
Bitter123

UK

#5 Mar 7, 2008
Men cheat because they simply don't care what havoc they cause. They're selfish creatures who have no regard for anyone but themselves. Even if they swear they would never cheat on you, until they're blue in the face, they always do in the end, purely because they can't comprehend what damage it does.
Never trust them, and don't ever fall in love with them it'll only end in tears. It ALWAYS does.

“why did I miss this?”

Since: May 07

lapeer, Michigan

#6 Mar 8, 2008
Not every man cheats, just as not every woman cheats. I have taken pride in being able to say that I have never cheated on anyone in my life. I have played in many bands over the years and could have cheated hundreds of times. Not only didn't I cheat because of those I was with, but for myself, because you can't undo the deed and I have a conscious that just wouldn't let me go on. I couldn't live with myself. Even when I wasn't married, I always wore a wedding ring to keep the "bar flies" away and to show my commitment to those I was with.

“Otter”

Since: Jan 07

New York, NY

#7 Mar 8, 2008
Bitter123 wrote:
Men cheat because they simply don't care what havoc they cause. They're selfish creatures who have no regard for anyone but themselves. Even if they swear they would never cheat on you, until they're blue in the face, they always do in the end, purely because they can't comprehend what damage it does.
Never trust them, and don't ever fall in love with them it'll only end in tears. It ALWAYS does.
My parents, married 54 years, till they died within 3 months of each other would disagree.
BO55 Bi5h

Williamson, GA

#8 Feb 1, 2009
men & both women cheat yu kant be with someone forever & never cheat on them thats rediculos its like eating the same thing everyday but a realationship is based up off of trust, friendship, & loyalty. It5z nat rite to cheat & expecially nat to do it all the time BUT BOYS MAKE SURE IF YU DO CHEAT STRAP THE HECK UP. the woman yu really love & das down for you should be the one yu go in raw & kan see them bein wifey. naw meen but it isnt rite to cheat but its human nature women use men, men use women yu just gatta face the fact yu goin get used but dnt get so used to the point where yu have no respect left.

“xcntrik.wordpres s.com”

Since: Mar 07

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#9 Feb 1, 2009
Who are all these men cheating with?

“Uzi Does It”

Since: Nov 08

UZILAND

#10 Feb 1, 2009
ANSWER wrote:
<quoted text>People cheat because they forgot to get rid of the one there with.DIVORCE before you go touch the next one .with this simple rule = NO ADULTRY
No, the simple rule is that men were designed to plow women in order to propagate the species, regardless of human constructs.

“Uzi Does It”

Since: Nov 08

UZILAND

#11 Feb 1, 2009
Bitter123 wrote:
Men cheat because they simply don't care what havoc they cause. They're selfish creatures who have no regard for anyone but themselves. Even if they swear they would never cheat on you, until they're blue in the face, they always do in the end, purely because they can't comprehend what damage it does.
Never trust them, and don't ever fall in love with them it'll only end in tears. It ALWAYS does.
And you'd totally support a law that says that if woman "cheats", she should be tarred, feathered and set on fire, right?
tammy

Scarborough, Canada

#12 May 3, 2009
Bitter: you're 100% right!
Jimwings: I hope you're telling the truth! If you are then good. Fidelity is only a minimum though. Most men don't even give that minimum.
Richard: Bitter never said that anybody should face such extrme punishment. She merely stated the reality & ofered some caution to the women. There's no doubt that men are disproportionately way more unfaithful than women.
I am SICK of seeing women suffer and I have yet to meet a single man with the emotional integrity and emotional IQ necessary for faithful love.

“xcntrik.wordpres s.com”

Since: Mar 07

Location hidden

#13 May 3, 2009
tammy wrote:
Bitter: you're 100% right!
Jimwings: I hope you're telling the truth! If you are then good. Fidelity is only a minimum though. Most men don't even give that minimum.
Richard: Bitter never said that anybody should face such extrme punishment. She merely stated the reality & ofered some caution to the women. There's no doubt that men are disproportionately way more unfaithful than women.
I am SICK of seeing women suffer and I have yet to meet a single man with the emotional integrity and emotional IQ necessary for faithful love.
Perhaps you are running around in the wrong circles.

Ooh, look, boobies !!
tammy

Scarborough, Canada

#14 May 3, 2009
it is so annoying when blindsighted women say "it'll never happen to me". sorry, ladies but it will and it probably already has but you just don't know about it....

“Uzi Does It”

Since: Nov 08

UZILAND

#15 May 3, 2009
tammy wrote:
There's no doubt that men are disproportionately way more unfaithful than women.
Mathematically, that is impossible. Unless of course, all these unfaitful men are having sex with the same woman or each other.

In reality, if a man is unfaithful with his wife or girlfriend, by having sex with another woman who knows the man is supposed to be full of faith to his wife or girlfriend, then not only is the man unfaitful to the wife or girlfriend but so is the other woman. In fact, the other woman is more so unfaithful to her sister woman-hood by doing so.
bigitalianguy

Brooklyn, NY

#16 May 4, 2009
it's a man's nature to lust and want sex from more than one person. it's just how it is, the difference is, what he thinks and what he does defines cheating. some take the bill clinton approach, it's not cheating, not sex (if you just receive oral, no copulation). some men have sex with other men and don't consider that cheating, or if they have sex and don't kiss it's not cheating, you'd be amazed at some of the rationale. i say this, do it till you're satisfied !
andet-gator-danc ing

United States

#17 May 4, 2009
bigitalianguy wrote:
it's a man's nature to lust and want sex from more than one person. it's just how it is, the difference is, what he thinks and what he does defines cheating. some take the bill clinton approach, it's not cheating, not sex (if you just receive oral, no copulation). some men have sex with other men and don't consider that cheating, or if they have sex and don't kiss it's not cheating, you'd be amazed at some of the rationale. i say this, do it till you're satisfied !
for me it's not sex if not done in the ars*
:)
bigitalianguy

Brooklyn, NY

#18 May 4, 2009
andet-gator-dancing wrote:
<quoted text>
for me it's not sex if not done in the ars*
:)
well hey, there are several options, orifices, etc to have fun with lol. cause let's face it, that could be the difference between an "ewwch" and an "ouch"

“think out of the box”

Since: Apr 08

Location hidden

#19 May 4, 2009
Richard_ wrote:
<quoted text>Mathematically, that is impossible. Unless of course, all these unfaitful men are having sex with the same woman or each other.
In reality, if a man is unfaithful with his wife or girlfriend, by having sex with another woman who knows the man is supposed to be full of faith to his wife or girlfriend, then not only is the man unfaitful to the wife or girlfriend but so is the other woman. In fact, the other woman is more so unfaithful to her sister woman-hood by doing so.
That's assuming the man is honest with HER about the fact that he's married/committed.

Not all people cheat - I think it's dangerous to fall in to the "all", "none", "always", "never" habit when talking about human nature.

I know more men who cheat than don't but I know women who do, too.

Most of the women are emotionally and sexually unfulfilled, as are many of the men. I don't know any woman who is cheating for the excitement of it or for her ego, whereas I DO know men who are like that - the conquest thing.

But, I do not believe that all men cheat - many? Yes. All? No.

jmo

“Uzi Does It”

Since: Nov 08

UZILAND

#20 May 4, 2009
paintedquote wrote:
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I know more men who cheat than don't but I know women who do, too.
Then, either those many men are screwing the same three women or the men are gay and screwing each other.

“Hi Haters!”

Since: Sep 08

Location hidden

#21 May 4, 2009
No, not ALL men cheat. Quite a few cheat, just as quite a few women cheat but I wouldn't go so far as to say that ALL do; that's a little too broad a brush to paint an entire group with imo.

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