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#943
Apr 6, 2012
 
I tried to make a move to him. But I got scared! I don't know how to be not scared or nervouse! I need advice! HELP ME!!!!!
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#944
Apr 9, 2012
 
I like this guy. Like like. But does he like me? Idk. That's why I'm here. Tell me wat u think. He has been my best friend for 3 years. We have gone bowling and laser skirmish many times. We kno a lot about each other. He signed up for Flute Lessons because I did. He always chooses me for partner work. He follows me everywhere. I've been to his house and He's been to mine. We talk all the time. He always looks at me in the eye when he's talking to me. He always shows off at sports in front of me. He looks at me from across the classroom. But....... He said he likes two other girls. Hes going out with one now. He teases me (playfully maybe. Idk!) and he said I was flirting with his friends when I wasn't. He always interupts my conversations with other boys. Idk if he likes me!!! Plz help!
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#945
Apr 9, 2012
 
Anonymous wrote:
I like this guy. Like like. But does he like me? Idk. That's why I'm here. Tell me wat u think. He has been my best friend for 3 years. We have gone bowling and laser skirmish many times. We kno a lot about each other. He signed up for Flute Lessons because I did. He always chooses me for partner work. He follows me everywhere. I've been to his house and He's been to mine. We talk all the time. He always looks at me in the eye when he's talking to me. He always shows off at sports in front of me. He looks at me from across the classroom. But....... He said he likes two other girls. Hes going out with one now. He teases me (playfully maybe. Idk!) and he said I was flirting with his friends when I wasn't. He always interupts my conversations with other boys. Idk if he likes me!!! Plz help!
I think the best way to solve this is to tell him! I mean you can't just hide away by friendship! Tell him what you think and if he is wierded out just use your friendship and make you guys friends agan! No offense! And don't worry he will maybe have a crush on you too! Because maybe MAYBE he let his friendship hides him liking you!! And if you do this I wish good luck to be on your side!! And if everyone notice i'm saying this to everybody cause everything everybody do needs good luck!! So good luck again!!:D!!!
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Kogarah, Australia

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#946
Apr 10, 2012
 
I make mistakes wrote:
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I think the best way to solve this is to tell him! I mean you can't just hide away by friendship! Tell him what you think and if he is wierded out just use your friendship and make you guys friends agan! No offense! And don't worry he will maybe have a crush on you too! Because maybe MAYBE he let his friendship hides him liking you!! And if you do this I wish good luck to be on your side!! And if everyone notice i'm saying this
to everybody cause everything everybody do needs good luck!! So good luck again!!:D!!!
Thanks dude! Problem is... School doesn't start for another 12 days.:3 Btw He and that other girl might be breaking up. Should I be a friend or try to go out with him there and then?
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#947
Apr 10, 2012
 
I make mistakes wrote:
I tried to make a move to him. But I got scared! I don't know how to be not scared or nervouse! I need advice! HELP ME!!!!!
Don't worry be happen but seriously just be yourself. Don't be a wannabe. Have fun. Make jokes. Make him interested in you. Now you try to make a move. Worst thing is he will say no. Thats ok. Just be friends and then try again. Don't give up! If u have to, don't try to
make him jealous. That only ends in tears. Trust
me, I've been there. Just don't worry. U will be
fine. If all else fails, find a new guy. But just do
whatever u think is right. Hope this helped
From the talking, flying moocow.
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#948
Apr 11, 2012
 
I make mistakes wrote:
I tried to make a move to him. But I got scared! I don't know how to be not scared or nervouse! I need advice! HELP ME!!!!!
okay girl! So whatcha do is breathe first take three breathe and place ur hands in ur back pocket so he can't see ur shaking... Look him on the top of the nose cause u will get nervouse if u stare into his eyes... I know girl it's not easy I do the same things too... I was talking to my crush and my voice was cracking and hands was shaking. BUT I was at the point I didn't care about what the butterflies was doing to me. Soo just take the chance don't be like me and see ur chance go to waste.. What's the worst that could happen if he reject u it's okay least u overcome ur fear...
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Minneapolis, MN

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#949
Apr 11, 2012
 
Okay why does he keep staring at me but doesn't talk to me... His friend told me he likes me on facebook. And I was just like whatever and it's like he's shy and sometimes he try to make me jealous and it does work. Like today in gym he was tryna show off in basketball and just kept looking over at me.i can't read him I never had a problem gettin a guy until now.all his friends be watching me and he follows me sometimes. UGh were gonna miss our chance and I know it. Oh there was a time I told him I wanna get to know him more and he said I can but I never talk to him. Help me please!!! Gosh I am in love with him...
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#950
Apr 12, 2012
 
I like trains. Idk wat to do about my guy! Plz help!
I love you Anton Jacob

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#951
Apr 12, 2012
 
Im in year 11 and I really like this cute and quiet guy in year 12,i think he likes me too,i mean stares at me a lot and he even tells my bestie that he thinks im pretty,and hes just scared to ask me out. I really love him and iam dying inside! What should i do? Please help!!..
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#952
Apr 13, 2012
 
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I read this, and your previous post. I usually have nothing to do with these kinds of forums. I am an old man by your standards and 7000 miles away, been everywhere and seen everything, so do not think I have any weird intentions. Its just that I remember, as a teenage boy, feeling all the same crap you are feeling. So just remember, boys get that too.
Now here is the thing. We try to pretend otherwise, but status means a lot. You are putting that guy on a pedestal, and maybe he deserves it. But if you deserve him, then you have to be on a pedestal of a similar height. Look at all the love stories through the ages, they are nearly all tales of X has one status, Y has another status...rich/poor, jock/nerd, aristocrat/commoner, and the big deal is always that the supposed high status person saw something special in the lower status person. Why? Because in one way or another, they also had status.
The truth is, that if you hold yourself with some dignity, you will always be higher status. Status is the shallow reflection of value. Paradoxically, you will not win him unless he feels that in some sense you are doing him a favour by accepting him, too. I do not mean act fake superior.
No, by discovering the dignity in yourself, I mean look inside yourself and learn what is really valuable in YOU. Not conceit, not show-off. Just learn and know your value as a person. Then others will come towards you, maybe including that boy, or who knows, maybe even a better one. Part of being your age really is finding your value, but that it a process that never ends. Even old people are still finding their own value. But it starts now. Find your value, and you become a magnet to others. If you don't, you will always be chasing others who you think have value.
Status is merely the outward reflection of value. Value is what you find in yourself. And it does not mean you have to be the best or brightest or most beautiful. There is something automatically attractive in those who know their own value. God, I know this all must sound like blah blah, but it does matter. Do not obsess about the boy. Focus on becoming the person you would like to be. If its meant to be, he will see it. He will go for you when you are a person who is willing to have him, NOT when you are a person who feels a desperate need for him. And at that point, you might say yes, you might say no. That is called: similar status. And it makes a happy outcome.
Count on it.
Wow thanks it doesn't just sound like blah blah it's really cool to get another opinion, especially one thats older and is actually a boy.
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#953
Apr 13, 2012
 
Yeah I get nervous around my crush too. I'm usually ok around him at school but once I walked past him in the sports centre out of school and I felt like I was about to collapse and as soon as he was gone I went bright red!

Just try to look like everythings alright, even if inside you're freaking out!
totally in love

Narre Warren, Australia

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#954
Apr 14, 2012
 
i am inlove with a guy and he acts strange aroung me and makes fun of me playfully can you tell me if he likes me thankyou
totally in love

Narre Warren, Australia

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#955
Apr 14, 2012
 
please please answer!!!! Before I explode with out of control love
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#956
Apr 14, 2012
 
I love anton jacob, It's ovious he likes you just ask him to join you to the footy or to the park and things will start from there:)
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#957
Apr 14, 2012
 
I feel uncomfortable at the very though at exposing my secret love(or rather crush) but there is this girl I like, practically because she is very similar to me. I met her last year and since then, people were laughing at me.
Anyway, I mostly giggle uncomfortably when our eyes meet, for no particular reason. She does the same to me. I have been denying it in school and feel really trapped. Help, anyone?
BTW, I am 11.
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#958
Apr 14, 2012
 
Is there an age restriction here?(Uh-o )
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#959
Apr 14, 2012
 
no there is no is no age ristrician here! But it sounds like you are in love really badly and it sounds like she has a major crush on you or do you sit next a nother and she means to smile at him tell me and i will answer!:)
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#960
Apr 14, 2012
 
she does that wherever i go. anyway, i really hope the rumors will go away.BTW, in class, i sit next to a girl (NOT my choice)
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Apr 14, 2012
 
totally in love wrote:
i am inlove with a guy and he acts strange aroung me and makes fun of me playfully can you tell me if he likes me thankyou
i would like to know your age? that would help.But for me i'll say that i am one level below him (in courage)
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Apr 14, 2012
 
totally in love wrote:
no there is no is no age ristrician here! But it sounds like you are in love really badly and it sounds like she has a major crush on you or do you sit next a nother and she means to smile at him tell me and i will answer!:)
man, i seriously hate it when rumors are right...

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