Myrtle Beach area jobless rate gets worse in August

I am a girlfriend of a man who is paying too much child support. He is doing odd jobs, due to the decline in construction jobs. He lives with me and if he didn't, he would be homeless. He has several helath problems and is also bi-polar. Hi sex-wife wants nothing more than to see him in jail. In fact her quote "I am here to make your life miserable". He pays $525.00/month for 1 child and we are going to court Monday. I pay all of the bills and he can only give me $40.00 to help out/month. She wants him in jail the moment he is late. Besides the fact that she tells their child he is a deadbeat, she lets her child disrespect him and the child has no regard for authority.

It is a living hell to try to deal with not enough work, trying to get disability for him and dealing with the drama of all of this on us.

Any suggestions on how to cope?

Dadlosinghope wrote:

I am a girlfriend of a man who is paying too much child support. He is doing odd jobs, due to the decline in construction jobs. He lives with me and if he didn't, he would be homeless. He has several helath problems and is also bi-polar. Hi sex-wife wants nothing more than to see him in jail. In fact her quote "I am here to make your life miserable". He pays $525.00/month for 1 child and we are going to court Monday. I pay all of the bills and he can only give me $40.00 to help out/month. She wants him in jail the moment he is late. Besides the fact that she tells their child he is a deadbeat, she lets her child disrespect him and the child has no regard for authority.
It is a living hell to try to deal with not enough work, trying to get disability for him and dealing with the drama of all of this on us.
Any suggestions on how to cope?

yes! hear is a suggestion!! get yourself a new man!! because this one is a loser!! who the hell would want to be with some fool that bi-polar!!this deadbeat made his own problems! and now he is going to drag you down with him! get rid of this jerk!!

"Jobless rate gets worse" BUT plenty of Illegals working in the area!!! UNTIL SOMETHING is done about employers who hire the illegals, alot of jobs will continue to go to mexicans<may I remind you.. that DONT PAY TAXES!

SC gets what ever bad happens to it. Get some real politicians and maybe you will get jobs. When your beaches try to stopped bikers from visiting and hence spending cash you hurt the SC economy. They should have learned that in kindergarten.

HaHaHa wrote:

SC gets what ever bad happens to it. Get some real politicians and maybe you will get jobs. When your beaches try to stopped bikers from visiting and hence spending cash you hurt the SC economy. They should have learned that in kindergarten.

if they dont want the bikers cash! then they need to come up with some other plan!i think they need some legalized gambling!! that makes a lot of money!! and lots of jobs!! and you dont have the noise of the bikes!!

upset upstate new yorker wrote:

<quoted text>if they dont want the bikers cash! then they need to come up with some other plan!i think they need some legalized gambling!! that makes a lot of money!! and lots of jobs!! and you dont have the noise of the bikes!!

and since you are in ny i guess you have seen alintic city. go outside of a three block area than look around.

localres wrote:

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and since you are in ny i guess you have seen alintic city. go outside of a three block area than look around.

i see the millons in $$$$ that they bring in!i see all of the jobs that they make!! and of the people that flock there! looking to blow all of there money then go home broke! and want to do it again the next year!let face it! its a big money maker! and SC is crazy not to jump on this action

one thing it is against state law to gamble in SC. for another while it brings in money it also brings in the problems too, like loan sharks and hookers. if myrtle beach did not want bikers in the city do you think they want that. all the MB city wants are the blue hairs. Just leave you money at the city limilts and go.

localres wrote:

one thing it is against state law to gamble in SC. for another while it brings in money it also brings in the problems too, like loan sharks and hookers. if myrtle beach did not want bikers in the city do you think they want that. all the MB city wants are the blue hairs. Just leave you money at the city limilts and go.

the problem with the bikers was not the money that they brought!! in but it was their behavior!! and the noise and every year where was 4or 5 killed in crashes! and the bike gangs!and the biker bitches showing their tits to everyone. the older retired people didnt like this!! local people didnt like the traffic and noise!! SC needs to rethink!! and i hope that gambling will be the answer.i have nothing againt bikers! but they need to clean up there act!!

a little info first. i'm at work and the main office is in memphis. i'm in goergetown and live behind suck bang blow 4 corners. as for the girls showing thier tits to everyone if they did it in front of the place cops took care of it. i would have to go outside and try to hear anything and as for gangs i have seen them but they never bother me or anyone that i have seen, enless someone started with them. i would much rather them for a couple of weeks a year then what i have seen at alintic city.

There seem to be plenty of mexicans working in the area. Their employment rate has risen!

localres wrote:

a little info first. i'm at work and the main office is in memphis. i'm in goergetown and live behind suck bang blow 4 corners. as for the girls showing thier tits to everyone if they did it in front of the place cops took care of it. i would have to go outside and try to hear anything and as for gangs i have seen them but they never bother me or anyone that i have seen, enless someone started with them. i would much rather them for a couple of weeks a year then what i have seen at alintic city.

myrtle beach is not alantic city!! and gambling would be year round income!! and not just for a couple of weeks out of a year!!the bikers will have to go to FL.i dont blame the bikers for wanting a good time! and they do bring lots of money!i know some from ny that go there! they said that they are going to FL from now on!

upset upstate new yorker wrote:

<quoted text>myrtle beach is not alantic city!! and gambling would be year round income!! and not just for a couple of weeks out of a year!!the bikers will have to go to FL.i dont blame the bikers for wanting a good time! and they do bring lots of money!i know some from ny that go there! they said that they are going to FL from now on!

but like i said before it against state law to gamble here. this is still consider the bible belt. MB cannot allow it without breaking the law. do you think that the rest of the state would vote to change a law that will only help/hurt MB?

Amazed wrote:

There seem to be plenty of mexicans working in the area. Their employment rate has risen!

They don't sit around b!tching about motorcycles and t!ts. They get the job done.

localres wrote:

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but like i said before it against state law to gamble here. this is still consider the bible belt. MB cannot allow it without breaking the law. do you think that the rest of the state would vote to change a law that will only help/hurt MB?

lol,lmao yes i do think that they would vote gambling in. i think that as money gets tight they just might vote that way. money has a funny way of changing ones mind!!

upset upstate new yorker wrote:

<quoted text>lol,lmao yes i do think that they would vote gambling in. i think that as money gets tight they just might vote that way. money has a funny way of changing ones mind!!

i said the rest of the state. i have lived in a few parts of sc and some of the people are very religious. they would be up in arms to prevent gambling here.

Well, if committing crimes was a type of employment MB wouldn't have any unemployment....
Police looking for suspect in armed robbery at Broadway at the Beach in Myrtle Beach

localres wrote:

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i said the rest of the state. i have lived in a few parts of sc and some of the people are very religious. they would be up in arms to prevent gambling here.

yes i do agree with you that SC is very religious!!and they are set in their ways! but when the state runs out of money! they need to rethink it! and they do have the lottery in sc! so who knows! but the bikers will have to find somewhere else!

upset upstate new yorker wrote:

<quoted text>yes i do agree with you that SC is very religious!!and they are set in their ways! but when the state runs out of money! they need to rethink it! and they do have the lottery in sc! so who knows! but the bikers will have to find somewhere else!

when or if the state runs out of money they might allow gambling but i don't think so. but to say the biker will have to leave we will have to see. if the election goes the way i think then the biker will be welcome back. as far as i can see it a small percent of people in the city limits that want them gone. even if at some time in the future they allow gambling here you don't think bikers gamble too?

Well, I have lived in MB and I have lived in other places and I agree with MB on the bikers wild times, MB's problems are economy related. No extra money for people to spend.They are too busy working to save their homes.Once gambling takes over so do other kinds of vices. It was always hard to survive there even when the AFB was there.Off season is off season....get over it.If you don't like it, 95 goes both ways. Take it.