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If a father has proof that his wife cheated on him does he get full custody in the state of delaware?

if a couple isn't married and the girl (she's 18) says she is moving out of state to be left alone and start over, what are the father's rights? Can the courts make her stay in the state (Delaware) she is in?

It's just not a Delaware issue. I am in Pennsylvania. The family court system is corrupt and biased toward women. In the process Judges and domestic relations officers have degraded and demoralized men, tomorrow's men (today's boys) and family values. The child support collection machine is unconstitutional and a major conflict of interest. The states receive reimbursement for the federal government, two thirds of every dollar that goes through their collection machine. Pennsylvania collects 4 Billion dollars a year and receives 2.67 Billion dollars to balance their budget with. Thus you can see the need for excessive child support orders. They boast they are a leader in collective. They can also boast a leader in corruption. Many men have been pushed into a kind of slavery by the excessive practices of family court judges. Many are unable to get financially even. The court orders issued by many Judges are unreasonable and therefore many are not able to comply with the irresponsible orders. They may in fact be unconstitutional. In the present economic conditions more and more individuals will experience state slavery by wait of family court Judges.

It appears as through Family Court Judges have been able to thumb their
noses at constitutional laws. They have become a rogue government. Holding tens of millions of US adults hostage. Deny children their fathers. They have become the dominating influence in the social engineering of America and shaping new laws in the US. Their effect over the past several decades. It appears they are untouchable even in violation of constitutional laws.

i went to court today for a contempt of a pfa order against me in the state of delaware.i was found in contempt because my uncle was 45 mins late droping off the kids.the day he droped them off it was a bad thunder storm and his windshield wipers fail to work in the middle of coming to pick them up.also my girlfriend picked the boys up a hour early one visit and i was found in contempt for that also but how was in contempt no one force to give the kids over she handed them over on her free will.also i was found in comtempt for my girlfriend and my ex was talking about the custody order in the effect.now what was i supposed do if my uncle had car issues and bad weather,i have no controll over anyboby calling my ex what that got to do with me and how was i in contempt for her giving the kids over a hour earlier when i am not a loud to pick them up or call decause of the pfa order against me.the system is set up for father to fail.all i want is to be a dad, i love my kids.but know i realize why alot of father walk out of there childrens life cause its hard enough to be a parent with a mother making it harder for the man to be a father.because everyone with or without children know the courts ae for the women .......my email#pmoses519@hotmail.com if want to talk about the system and men rights to be a father.

paul marley wrote:

i went to court today for a contempt of a pfa order against me in the state of delaware.i was found in contempt because my uncle was 45 mins late droping off the kids.the day he droped them off it was a bad thunder storm and his windshield wipers fail to work in the middle of coming to pick them up.also my girlfriend picked the boys up a hour early one visit and i was found in contempt for that also but how was in contempt no one force to give the kids over she handed them over on her free will.also i was found in comtempt for my girlfriend and my ex was talking about the custody order in the effect.now what was i supposed do if my uncle had car issues and bad weather,i have no controll over anyboby calling my ex what that got to do with me and how was i in contempt for her giving the kids over a hour earlier when i am not a loud to pick them up or call decause of the pfa order against me.the system is set up for father to fail.all i want is to be a dad, i love my kids.but know i realize why alot of father walk out of there childrens life cause its hard enough to be a parent with a mother making it harder for the man to be a father.because everyone with or without children know the courts ae for the women .......my email#pmoses519@hotmail.com if want to talk about the system and men rights to be a father.

If you have a pfa order against you, it's not the system that's making you fail as a father. You obviously did harm to your ex and or your kids. So it's no surprise the court would choose her over you. Just because you participate in making a child doesn't mean you are a fit father.If you truly love your children, the thought of you walking out never would have crossed your mind.

Fighting for my kids wrote:

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If you have a pfa order against you, it's not the system that's making you fail as a father. You obviously did harm to your ex and or your kids. So it's no surprise the court would choose her over you. Just because you participate in making a child doesn't mean you are a fit father.If you truly love your children, the thought of you walking out never would have crossed your mind.

PFA orders can and usually are granted with NO investigation or evidence.
Men are routinely stripped of their rights based solely on the accusations of the woman regardless of the truth.

This is a common tactic during divorce.

My friend Alex just found out he is a father of TWINS conceived via a one night stand three years ago. No phone call, just a summons for a paternity test this July and now is paying nearly $1000 a month in support. She lives in DE and he in MD. What are his rights regarding visitation? He had been seeing the kids and she lets him. He agreed to spend the night at her home so that "he can see their routine" so he'll get used to it. He did this last weekend and now she is saying "I am not sure about it just yet". What are his rights for visitation and to keep the kids in the state of DE as she and her mother have talked of moving to NC which would put a hard ship on Alex. Any help? Email me at jillyc2077@msn.com

Jillyc wrote:

My friend Alex just found out he is a father of TWINS conceived via a one night stand three years ago. No phone call, just a summons for a paternity test this July and now is paying nearly $1000 a month in support. She lives in DE and he in MD. What are his rights regarding visitation? He had been seeing the kids and she lets him. He agreed to spend the night at her home so that "he can see their routine" so he'll get used to it. He did this last weekend and now she is saying "I am not sure about it just yet". What are his rights for visitation and to keep the kids in the state of DE as she and her mother have talked of moving to NC which would put a hard ship on Alex. Any help? Email me at jillyc2077@msn.com

He has rights. Tell him to get a lawyer.

nate wrote:

If a father has proof that his wife cheated on him does he get full custody in the state of delaware?

Courts don't give a damn about infidelity when it comes to custody. It just doesn't matter.

Fighting for my kids wrote:

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If you have a pfa order against you, it's not the system that's making you fail as a father. You obviously did harm to your ex and or your kids. So it's no surprise the court would choose her over you. Just because you participate in making a child doesn't mean you are a fit father.If you truly love your children, the thought of you walking out never would have crossed your mind.

Completely untrue! PFAs are given out with no due diligence whatsoever by the court system. My ex got one against me with no evidence, and I got it revoked and I have sole custody of my children.

Completely untrue! PFAs are given out with no due diligence whatsoever by the court system. My ex got one against me with no evidence, and I got it revoked and I have sole custody of my children.

i had the same thing happen to me you have to file in court for custody and say she is planning to flee the state and get a emergency ex-parta.explain how you feel like you will never get to see your child again or a pfa would make her have to stay if she doesnt show up you will get your emergency custody automatic and she will have a capias out for her arrest so if she did leave the state she would be extradited back to the court you filed at. hope it helps

paul marley wrote:

i went to court today for a contempt of a pfa order against me in the state of delaware.i was found in contempt because my uncle was 45 mins late droping off the kids.the day he droped them off it was a bad thunder storm and his windshield wipers fail to work in the middle of coming to pick them up.also my girlfriend picked the boys up a hour early one visit and i was found in contempt for that also but how was in contempt no one force to give the kids over she handed them over on her free will.also i was found in comtempt for my girlfriend and my ex was talking about the custody order in the effect.now what was i supposed do if my uncle had car issues and badweather,i have no controll over anyboby calling my ex what that got to do with me and how was i in contempt for her giving the kids over a hour earlier when i am not a loud to pick them up or call decause of the pfa order against me.the system is set up for father to fail.all i want is to be a dad, i love my kids.but know i realize why alot of father walk out of there childrens life cause its hard enough to be a parent with a mother making it harder for the man to be a father.because everyone with or without children know the courts ae for the women .......my email#pmoses519@hotmail.com if want to talk about the system and men rights to be a father.

this is paul i had the pfa lifted cause there was no abuse or danger to my children and also the contempt was lifted i now have primary custody of my sons cause i provided evidence against her that she was the one that was the dangerous and abuseive parent i even had dfs and a daycare center testify against her. about her neglect and abuse toward are sons even when you are blamed for something you never did you can prove to the courts you are the better parent but men watch out for the pfa's and keep trying to prove and you a great father one day may come to you like it came for me..

this is paul i had the pfa lifted cause there was no abuse or danger to my children and also the contempt was lifted i now have primary custody of my sons cause i provided evidence against her that she was the one that was the dangerous and abuseive parent i even had dfs and a daycare center testify against her. about her neglect and abuse toward are sons even when you are blamed for something you never did you can prove to the courts you are the better parent but men watch out for the pfa's and keep trying to prove you a great father one day may come to you like it came for me..