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Florida - Birth Battle: Couple Says Surrogate Mom Won't Give Up...

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wtf

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Mar 26, 2009
 
Since the court has already ruled on this this is in my humble opinion should happen.....

1) the 1500 given back to the couple.....has it been offered back? maybe it has maybe it hasn't.
Do I think the lawsuit seeks that and only that back. Honestly no.

2) theese two sides try to work out an agreement and STICK TO IT where as the couple gets to know the child. Do I realy think that will happen...Hell No! why? Because to much name calling and accusations (and that is just what it is unless it can be PROVEN in a court of law) have been thrown around for there to be even some form of trust to be had between both parties.

This all boils down to be what is best for the child. However as I see it it's a battle between two side trying to prove they are RIGHT at any cost. From what I can tell that isn't working out for anyone ESPECIALLY THE CHILD!
On Your Side

Minneapolis, MN

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#164
Apr 1, 2009
 
Hey Tom - What happened with the Fraud Court case on Monday?
On Your Side

Minneapolis, MN

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#165
Apr 1, 2009
 
Hey Tom - What happend on Monday in Court?
Karma

Ocala, FL

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#166
Apr 1, 2009
 
AdvocateForLamitinas wrote:
Does the law also allow for women to use fraud and trickery to extort money from innocent people? I missed that section in the statutes.
She should be chareged for Grand Theft the same as if someone paid a roofer for services and the roofer takes off without doing the work. If she can't pay them back ASAP her butt goes to jail, and then the baby goes to the father...she is a scam.
Karma

Ocala, FL

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#167
Apr 1, 2009
 
oops charged
Karma

Ocala, FL

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#168
Apr 1, 2009
 
Peta wrote:
My Real Mother
From: Elephantgirl Sent: 4/2/2005 11:28 AM
My real mother gave me my first home. I lived within her for 9 months.
My real mother gave me a name. My second mother changed it.
My real mother gave me a birthday.
My real mother is the one who first held me. I wish I could have given her a tighter grip.
My real mother gave me my brown hair and brown eyes and the dimples that I've been complimented on all of my life.
My real mother gave me my curly hair. You know I spent an hour everyday straightening it. I hated my curls with a passion and since I met her, I like my curls!
My real mother gave me my perfect 32 Bs, hmmmm will I get those back after I have my baby??
My real mother gave me the blood that runs through my body.
My real mother gave me my laugh.
My real mother gave me the ability to laugh.
My real mother gave me the ability to love.
My real mother gave me life.
My real mother couldn't be there for games and events. She wasn't given the chance.
My real mother cried for me as my second mother wrote out a check for my purchase. I've often wished that I came with a sales receipt. Surely she would have wanted a refund when I came home late, or when I had trouble with math, failed a test, threw a fit, said the wrong thing, or moved out to have my own life.
My real mother was unable to keep me. It came down to owning a home, being married (and we all know how much THAT means!) and having a bank account. My second mother "won".
Interesting?
Your poem sucks, you left out what your mother didn't give you... Real admirable that your mother would take a check for you instead of going out working and busting her butt to keep you..duhhhh.
wtf

Middleburg, FL

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#169
Apr 1, 2009
 
Karma wrote:
<quoted text>She should be chareged for Grand Theft the same as if someone paid a roofer for services and the roofer takes off without doing the work. If she can't pay them back ASAP her butt goes to jail, and then the baby goes to the father...she is a scam.
That wont work. You see there was NO SIGNED CONTRACT BY BOTH PARTIES! If both sides had made sure everything was done correctly as per FL law than alot of this would be null and void. As I said before since both parties where familliar with surrogacy Im surprised by the stupidity on both sides when they didn'tmake sure everything was done to the letter of the law. But seeing how they didn't than by FL law this isn't even a surrogacy but a fight between two bio parents.
TOM

Oviedo, FL

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#170
Apr 2, 2009
 
The day of court my attorney told me that our hearing was to be delayed until he amended the complaint after 5 months he needed more time LOL.If I don't have slow council I have had bad council.At least I haven't lost my sense of humor.So the judge gave my attorney another 2 weeks to file the complaint that should of been done 5 months ago.I have waited over 2 years whats 2 weeks more. Thanks for your concern.
TOM and Gwyn

Oviedo, FL

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#171
Apr 11, 2009
 
HAPPY EASTER to our daughter Rochelle Amber (Emma Grace/SSN)...We love you and hope that you have a great day...We wanted you to know that we are thinking of you and have you in our hearts...Looking for that day when we get to meet you...We send God's Blessings over you our daughter...May God's light shine upon you so you will know he is always with you...
Brother

Oviedo, FL

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#172
Apr 11, 2009
 
To Rochelle Amber,And T.J. your brother says HAPPY EASTER and come home soon...:-)
On Your Side

Minneapolis, MN

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#173
May 6, 2009
 
Your Easter postings were very sad. We can't even believe you have NO contact at all! Have your heard anything from the court of appeals? Any new news on the fraud case?
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Middleburg, FL

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#174
May 6, 2009
 
yahafter all this time this is the first posting I have ever seen on any blog wishing anything towards the child. Funny why is that. Maybe if they wouldnt have been whoreing themselves to the media and running around talking smack about the bio mom they could of worked out someway they could have been in the childs life. But I guess its all or nothing with theese people and whom suffers in the long run. The child.
TOM

Oviedo, FL

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#175
May 9, 2009
 
Happy Birthday!! to Rochelle our daughter who turns two today who we hope to see soon for the first time...Thinking of you...
Tom

Winder, GA

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#176
May 10, 2009
 
On Your Side wrote:
Your Easter postings were very sad. We can't even believe you have NO contact at all! Have your heard anything from the court of appeals? Any new news on the fraud case?
The Fraud Case we are waiting on a motion to Dismiss on there side. Then we are planning a Discovery deposition. Where we are going after the surrogate's school records,her last surrogacy records ( the one before mine)and many more.There is more to this story then I can say for now. But it is Bigger then you think!Are you my cousin from Minn? All my Moms family is up there.I have family in Ft. Myers too.Tuesday I have an Attorney/Agent from LA who loves the story and the book he want to sign us up for a world wide book signing tour and who know what.WOW but my court case come first!!
On Your Side

Minneapolis, MN

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#177
Jul 1, 2009
 
I know you have been busy but any news on the Fraud case? What ever happened with the Appeal from the district court decision?
TOM

Oviedo, FL

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#178
Jul 6, 2009
 
On Your Side, As far as the appeal goes our prior attorney who is now in jail and been disbarred screwed up our appeal so now we have no chance to appeal to get our daughter. So our daughter is stuck with those women forever unless divine intervention happens. Here is the link to keep up with what is going on in our case www.seminoleclerk.org/civildocket/ and then put in Eckard Stephanie. The assistant DA (who is a friend of mine) is waiting on the info. from our supeona's and depositions if fraud is proven there office will take over for the criminal case.Get on my facebook and I will fill you in with more details.
TOM

Oviedo, FL

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#180
Jul 9, 2009
 
Would you feel different if she plan to keep the child from the start? Would you feel different if she kept her last surrogacy child? The court date will be here soon!!
wtf

Middleburg, FL

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#181
Jul 10, 2009
 
WOW she planned this? Just wondering from following the news stories how did you writing an email to her stating you didnt want the baby(which you first denied but than admitted to) fall in to that plan? Also you state she kept her last surrogacy? How do you know she kept her baby from her last surrogacy. Why havent the IP's of that child come forward to help you with your battle or even try to get their child back?
Sorry but I dont get it. Why didnt you make sure ALL contracts where in proper order before you gave this women your sperm?
In my opinion both sides messed up by not making sure everything was done to the letter. Every side has a story and the one that I've only heard is yours. You have done your best to drag the bio mom thru the mud with some pretty outrageous claims and she has never said anything on air or in print about you. Wondering instead of taking all that time doing that maybe all parties involved should have sat down and tried to work something out calmly.
Its extremely hard to have sympathy on either side when NO ONE took the time to make sure this was done right in the first place. Only sympathy is towards the child. has not met her dad yet and now when she's old enough she can google this whole thing on line and see the ugliness that her father did say about the only parent she's known.
On a side note dont think its too smart to be saying how the Assistant DA whom is trying to figure out if there is a criminal case is a friend of yours.....SCREAMS of major conflict of intrest.
melvin

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#182
Jul 10, 2009
 
HOW CAN YOU REPORT ON FACTS THAT YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT??????? Unless you are Tom, Gwen or Steph then you dont know anything. These were closed preceding and no one was alowd in the court room. So how can you say these things.
Mom With Eyes Wide Open wrote:
Lamitina Couple - Victims of Embryonic Hostaging?
This evening on the popular show, The O’Reilly Factor, Coral Springs lawyer Scott Salomon was asked to appear as a guest to discuss his latest case, "Eckerd vs. Lamitina" which has been represented on all of the major networks. Salomon is representing Tom Lamitina in Orlando, who entered into an agreement with a Jacksonville woman that was going to be a gestational surrogate for his child. When the child was born, she refused to give the father custody of the child and is now suing him for child support.
The father is now suing for custody of the child and to have the mother held liable for fraudulent inducement and other related damages. Above all else, the father wants custody of his daughter and for the birth mother to live up to her covenants. Additionally, when the child was born she was given the last name of the mother’s former husband and the father was completely left out.
As a mother and a parent, I am genuinely praying that this woman is brought to justice and that baby Emma is returned to her intended parents, the Lamitina's.
We all need to practice objectivity in this case for the sake of baby Emma, and honestly ask ourselves to look at the facts. The facts clearly show that baby Emma was used to extort money from an innocent and heart-broken couple, and innocence is not the way to describe a woman who uses unborn children, human life, for her own personal gain, through the practices of deceit and trickery. Emma deserves better parenting and the Lamitina's are those parents.
As responsible parents, it is our human obligation to consider Emma's rights and to help shape our children’s' future by supporting the Lamitina’s in this case so that Emma, and others like her, can have the chance to learn the values of honesty, integrity and genuine unconditional love.
The added-plus to a fair result (Lamitina's get their baby!) is that Eckerd will be held accountable for her actions in embryonic hostaging.
-A Mother With Her Eyes Wide Open
melvin

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#183
Jul 10, 2009
 
I am so glad that this baby is thought of as important as a roofer riping people off. If I am not mistaken.... didnt Tom send her an email telling Steph that he didnt want her? How do you think the baby is going to feel when she is old enough and wants to know why her Dad didnt want her and when she tries to find him (hopefully she wont) but thats my opinion. If I was a little girl and I found out that my Daddy sent an email saying that he didnt want me I would be extremely upset. I hope that her mother never has to tell her that.
Karma wrote:
<quoted text>She should be chareged for Grand Theft the same as if someone paid a roofer for services and the roofer takes off without doing the work. If she can't pay them back ASAP her butt goes to jail, and then the baby goes to the father...she is a scam.
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