Jaliek Rainwalker is Not Forgotten

Obviously those who are complaining about "where the money is going" has never had to organize any kind of event. The costs add up quite fast. We are talking about a solid group of loving people who have personally known and loved Jaliek and does anyone for a split second think that they would use this opportunity to tuck away a few bucks in their pockets when their loved Jaliek is missing? Shame on those who are even questioning such.

Daily there are google alerts of human bones, human bodies, being found all over the United States. Does one not realize that Barbara, Joy, Sandy and the rest have to deal with the lumps in their hearts and the pain of not knowing where Jaliek is....that they should even have to respond to ridiculous accusations of where the fundraising money is going?

It's pretty obvious to me where it's going. There have been ongoing searches, balloons, bake sales, posters, buttons, and all sorts of other expenses that are incurred to get the word out.

It really bothered me to swing by and check up on Jaliek's thread and to begin reading all the accusations. For those who are complaining and spreading their paranoia's into malicious gossip....don't donate. Stay away. Nobody is making you.

Personally, when I donate money to a cause...it's because I am doing so out of the goodness of my heart and for the purpose of the cause.....I don't require "proof"; I don't care about tax deductions; I'm pretty confident that those complaining probably did not put more than $100 towards anything, anyhow. For heaven's sakes. Shame on those who are trying to blast out their paranoia's online with the hopes of having others follow. Is that what you want to see happen Princess? Do you want to create a host of people to just walk away and not help in the efforts of finding Jaliek? It takes money. It takes donations. IT takes people with good hearts who do not have ulterior motives. Please. Stop the gossip and inuendo's.

Personally, if it means that much to you...I will personally mail you the cupcakes it takes to have you meet your donation. I'm pretty sure it would be no more than a couple dozen. Sad. Very sad.

There is no indication that Jaliek is being held hostage unless you know something the rest of us don't ???? Is it bothering you that We will continue to search for Jaliek even though there is nothing in it for us, but the satisfaction of finding out the truth because that's what we live and work for. The truth!!! Take it or leave it! Why does there have to be something in it for someone. What's in it for you, Princess??? Or should I say what was in it for you??? According to Nighthawk SK doesn't want you!!!! Also you made a posting that made references to Jaliek being deceased, now he's being held hostage??? Which is it Princess. What do you wnat to tell us????

Princess:
There are too many cop shows on TV. Everyone has to be so dramatic. I would think that the cops are much better handling things like this than the average person who doesnt know what they are doing and doesnt know what to do. The cops have their eyeballs peeled all the time. They watch everything around them. They are trained for that. You are actually making it worse for Jaliek if hes being held hostage. When the hostage takers think that no one is interested then they goof up and make mistakes. Thats how they get caught.
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You're watching too many tv shows, Princess. This is real life. Would you just sit back and wait for the police to find your lost missing loved one? I think not. Think before you post anymore. What happened to you anyhow? Where is the compassion? Even a huge case has no more than 20 cops on it and that is at the onset. As time moves on...one is lucky to have 2-3 cops working the case of their missing loved one....and for the record, those cops are not out doing physical searches....they are doing investigative work and talking to people..........not searching. Search efforts NEEDS to be orchestrated and done by real people who have care to help. Otherwise, it would not get done. But you should know this.

We will never stop searching for Jaliek no matter what anyone says. The searches will continue until that sweet child is brought home.

Lavanda Dolce wrote:

Obviously those who are complaining about "where the money is going" has never had to organize any kind of event. The costs add up quite fast. We are talking about a solid group of loving people who have personally known and loved Jaliek and does anyone for a split second think that they would use this opportunity to tuck away a few bucks in their pockets when their loved Jaliek is missing? Shame on those who are even questioning such.

They thought the money was going towards a reward to the person who finds Jaliek or knows where he is. Not for event expenses and searches.

Lavanda Dolce wrote:

Princess:
There are too many cop shows on TV. Everyone has to be so dramatic. I would think that the cops are much better handling things like this than the average person who doesnt know what they are doing and doesnt know what to do. The cops have their eyeballs peeled all the time. They watch everything around them. They are trained for that. You are actually making it worse for Jaliek if hes being held hostage. When the hostage takers think that no one is interested then they goof up and make mistakes. Thats how they get caught.
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You're watching too many tv shows, Princess. This is real life. Would you just sit back and wait for the police to find your lost missing loved one? I think not. Think before you post anymore. What happened to you anyhow? Where is the compassion? Even a huge case has no more than 20 cops on it and that is at the onset. As time moves on...one is lucky to have 2-3 cops working the case of their missing loved one....and for the record, those cops are not out doing physical searches....they are doing investigative work and talking to people..........not searching. Search efforts NEEDS to be orchestrated and done by real people who have care to help. Otherwise, it would not get done. But you should know this.

My ex is retired law enforcement. I lived the law enforcement life with him. Plus I learned a lot of things too.

Dancingwind wrote:

There is no indication that Jaliek is being held hostage unless you know something the rest of us don't ???? Is it bothering you that We will continue to search for Jaliek even though there is nothing in it for us, but the satisfaction of finding out the truth because that's what we live and work for. The truth!!! Take it or leave it! Why does there have to be something in it for someone. What's in it for you, Princess??? Or should I say what was in it for you??? According to Nighthawk SK doesn't want you!!!! Also you made a posting that made references to Jaliek being deceased, now he's being held hostage??? Which is it Princess. What do you wnat to tell us????

It bothers me when you take peoples money and party with it.

Missy wrote:

We will never stop searching for Jaliek no matter what anyone says. The searches will continue until that sweet child is brought home.

No problem but I hope you dont have any more fundraisers planned for the future.

Dancingwind wrote:

There is no indication that Jaliek is being held hostage unless you know something the rest of us don't ???? Is it bothering you that We will continue to search for Jaliek even though there is nothing in it for us, but the satisfaction of finding out the truth because that's what we live and work for. The truth!!! Take it or leave it! Why does there have to be something in it for someone. What's in it for you, Princess??? Or should I say what was in it for you??? According to Nighthawk SK doesn't want you!!!! Also you made a posting that made references to Jaliek being deceased, now he's being held hostage??? Which is it Princess. What do you wnat to tell us????

Does nighhawk know stephen kerr personally.

If he is being kept hostage maybe the hostage takers would have been caught a long time ago if you stopped your silly searching.

Lavanda Dolce wrote:

Princess:
There are too many cop shows on TV. Everyone has to be so dramatic. I would think that the cops are much better handling things like this than the average person who doesnt know what they are doing and doesnt know what to do. The cops have their eyeballs peeled all the time. They watch everything around them. They are trained for that. You are actually making it worse for Jaliek if hes being held hostage. When the hostage takers think that no one is interested then they goof up and make mistakes. Thats how they get caught.
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You're watching too many tv shows, Princess. This is real life. Would you just sit back and wait for the police to find your lost missing loved one? I think not. Think before you post anymore. What happened to you anyhow? Where is the compassion? Even a huge case has no more than 20 cops on it and that is at the onset. As time moves on...one is lucky to have 2-3 cops working the case of their missing loved one....and for the record, those cops are not out doing physical searches....they are doing investigative work and talking to people..........not searching. Search efforts NEEDS to be orchestrated and done by real people who have care to help. Otherwise, it would not get done. But you should know this.

Were you one the argument and insult thread? You look familiar?

Lavanda Dolce wrote:

Daily there are google alerts of human bones, human bodies, being found all over the United States. Does one not realize that Barbara, Joy, Sandy and the rest have to deal with the lumps in their hearts and the pain of not knowing where Jaliek is....that they should even have to respond to ridiculous accusations of where the fundraising money is going?
It's pretty obvious to me where it's going. There have been ongoing searches, balloons, bake sales, posters, buttons, and all sorts of other expenses that are incurred to get the word out.

The bake sale shouldnt have cost anything. The baked goods were all donated.

Lavanda Dolce wrote:

Daily there are google alerts of human bones, human bodies, being found all over the United States. Does one not realize that Barbara, Joy, Sandy and the rest have to deal with the lumps in their hearts and the pain of not knowing where Jaliek is....that they should even have to respond to ridiculous accusations of where the fundraising money is going?
It's pretty obvious to me where it's going. There have been ongoing searches, balloons, bake sales, posters, buttons, and all sorts of other expenses that are incurred to get the word out.

Like I said if Barbara is grieving then she should see a professional counselor to help her get through it. Ongoing searching is not going to help her heal. Barb isnt doing all that much anyway. Her little puppets are doing all the work.

Lavanda Dolce wrote:

It really bothered me to swing by and check up on Jaliek's thread and to begin reading all the accusations. For those who are complaining and spreading their paranoia's into malicious gossip....don't donate. Stay away. Nobody is making you.
Personally, when I donate money to a cause...it's because I am doing so out of the goodness of my heart and for the purpose of the cause.....I don't require "proof"; I don't care about tax deductions; I'm pretty confident that those complaining probably did not put more than $100 towards anything, anyhow. For heaven's sakes. Shame on those who are trying to blast out their paranoia's online with the hopes of having others follow. Is that what you want to see happen Princess? Do you want to create a host of people to just walk away and not help in the efforts of finding Jaliek? It takes money. It takes donations. IT takes people with good hearts who do not have ulterior motives. Please. Stop the gossip and inuendo's.
Personally, if it means that much to you...I will personally mail you the cupcakes it takes to have you meet your donation. I'm pretty sure it would be no more than a couple dozen. Sad. Very sad.

Wow! I dont know about you but when someone donates $100 - thats a lot of money and very very generous - especially in todays economy.

Princess:
The bake sale shouldnt have cost anything. The baked goods were all donated.

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Well, let's not forget the expenses to hold the bake sales. Somebody had to pay for the posters announcing it. The flyers that went out. Fact is, the very same people you are accusing of partying with funds did a majority of the baking themselves! We are not talking about hundreds or thousands of dollars either, It's a pretty sure bet those that are organizing the fundraisers/bake sales and searches have spent far more of their own money than what has probably been donated. I think you should give it up. Move on to some other forum or thread if you feel this one is not up to par....bashing the family and making accusations makes you look far worse than anything you're accusing them of. Just my opinion.

Princess: Wow! I dont know about you but when someone donates $100 - thats a lot of money and very very generous - especially in todays economy.

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Yes, and that barely covers the gas for a couple cars to get to the search.

Lavanda Dolce wrote:

Princess:
The bake sale shouldnt have cost anything. The baked goods were all donated.
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Well, let's not forget the expenses to hold the bake sales. Somebody had to pay for the posters announcing it. The flyers that went out. Fact is, the very same people you are accusing of partying with funds did a majority of the baking themselves! We are not talking about hundreds or thousands of dollars either, It's a pretty sure bet those that are organizing the fundraisers/bake sales and searches have spent far more of their own money than what has probably been donated. I think you should give it up. Move on to some other forum or thread if you feel this one is not up to par....bashing the family and making accusations makes you look far worse than anything you're accusing them of. Just my opinion.

There was one banner that was used for all the bake sales - there were no flyers at the bake sale in Albany. Did you have to pay the media to announce your events? I made baked goods too.

Lavanda Dolce wrote:

Princess: Wow! I dont know about you but when someone donates $100 - thats a lot of money and very very generous - especially in todays economy.
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Yes, and that barely covers the gas for a couple cars to get to the search.

You shouldnt be doing that. You should be paying your own gas for the love of Jaliek.

Lavanda Dolce wrote:

Princess:
The bake sale shouldnt have cost anything. The baked goods were all donated.
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Well, let's not forget the expenses to hold the bake sales. Somebody had to pay for the posters announcing it. The flyers that went out. Fact is, the very same people you are accusing of partying with funds did a majority of the baking themselves! We are not talking about hundreds or thousands of dollars either, It's a pretty sure bet those that are organizing the fundraisers/bake sales and searches have spent far more of their own money than what has probably been donated. I think you should give it up. Move on to some other forum or thread if you feel this one is not up to par....bashing the family and making accusations makes you look far worse than anything you're accusing them of. Just my opinion.

Did you use the fund money to pay for Jalieks birthday party too?