We Want To Divorce, But Can't Afford It

Bonnie wrote:

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Scr/ew you if you let YOURSELF get screwed wench. I'm obviously alot smarter than you and yea, I do pat myself on the back the way that we handled our ADULT selves.

Listen, i'm not the only person out there that has gotten screwed with a divorce. So if you are going to down me for what happened in my situation, you are downing many other people that have gone through the same thing. I handled my divorce like the adult that I was/am. I wasnt in no financial way able to fight for what I felt was right. The only person smart here is your x for getting rid of you.

Poor divorce attorneys. So the divorce rate didn't go up and they can't collect more fees. Why isn't there a hunting season for lawyers?

Yes divorce is a hard topic to discuss because it is an unfortunate situation. I am newly divorced and when my now ex husband and I decided to do it, we agreed it wasn't going to be long and drawn out. We tried an alternative route and did the document-do-it-yourself-servic e way. For MUCH less than a lawyer, we just printed, notarized, signed and filed. I didn't even have to see my husband in court because I'm the one that filed so only I attended to finalize everything, he just signed when served. It was great because he lives in a different state now and we were worried it wouldn't work. It's possible to get a bit of a break when getting a divorce these days. Stay Strong. There are options out there.

Bit funny you mentioned the doityourself method because my wife and I are thinking about the same thing. Not sure if its the same company (document-do-it-yourself-service.com ) but everything you said fit. They are really great with questions and helping you every step of the way. We look forward to beginning the process in the next month or so. It really helps for me to see that someone has actually used them and it really works. I'd like to save my money for a rainy day, which seems to be everyday, lol. Thanks again.

Yep that's it!! Glad I could be of help. It is really assuring that someone can vouch for it. It has been my pleasure.

Yes thank you for your posts. I've decided to try document-do-it-your-service to do my divorce. There's no need in pointing fingers. Divorce is a terrible thing for both parties. Although sometimes it's agreed, I know 2 people don't just get married to get a divorce. Well the majority that is, lol. We just need to agree to disagree and if its what's needed, then do it. Give each other the gift of a full life with someone they deserve and that deserve them. Thanks again!

Jill

Getting divorced over money issues is just stupid. These selfish people think of no one but themselves, not even their children. If you're having money problems now how can you expect things to get better when you have two rents or mortgages, two sets of utility bills, two sets of childcare expenses, etc. It's just dumb.

I want to divorce my wife. I know for a fact that she had a 6 year relationship with someone who was suppose to be my friend. This guy was also married to her cousin. While I was out working myself to death she was spending all my money on gifts for him. So much so that she spent all our bill money on him and sent us into bankruptcy. I have three children. I love them to death and have done everything for them. Since I found out what happened I question whether they are even mine. I hate feeling like this because I love them deeply. I don't know what to do. I will never neglect them as far as support. Money and emotional. She denies everything but I have proof. Any advice?