Swingers, Swingers....Everywhere

You gotta be kidding me! What happened to "I take this vow forever. To be be faithful, to be true. In sickness and in health,'til death do us part"?

You have to add some spice.... get some hot sauce and add it to your bar-b-que!

sound good where can i find a local club near the knox estate

I think people that dont like whats going on at these clubs should keep their nose out of it.Its our LIFE,,not yours.We should be able to do whatever we want behind closed door.Get a life people.Worry about what goes on in your own home..

Kudos to Bob and Jinelle, for standing up for something they believe in. It takes guts to stand in front of a camera and defend yourself about a topic so controversial. Thank you for saying the things that needed to be said. I am proud of you both.

Why is it acceptable when spouces have an affair or a fling? Spouces are hurt, embrassed but everyone moves on and the American public quickly forgets (ex: Hillary/Bill). So now, when couples make a sound decision to explore meeting other couples and taking the friendship a bit further that's unacceptable or discusting?

I went to one of these swaping parties and I ended up with my wife! YUK

This is a great option if you have the right mindset. We swapped with some friends years ago.
It helped to keep our marrige together and avoided financial disaster. My 401k is in great shape as a result.

We attended one of the private parties at the Badd Kitty Club. While my wife and I were walking through the parking lot to the front doors, we were harassed by the local neighbors, shouting rude comments at us and shining bright lights on us and others. Everyone attending the private party were behaved, both indoors and outside. It was the neighbors that were making trouble!
Let me ask those who wrongly judge this lifestyle a question: How does this private club differ from having a house party where you pretty much can do whatever it is you wish? It's your home right? You can do what you wish between consenting adults right? How would YOU like us to invade your privacy and judge what happens INSIDE your home? You wouldn't of course!! So, let's not have double standards then! I challenge ANYONE to provide evidence of unlawful conduct at these PRIVATE PARTIES, both inside and outside the club. Unless you knew what was happening inside you wouldn't have a clue just by driving by the property. No different than driving by YOUR home down any Western New York street. Oh, by the way, the U.S. Constitution protects our conduct! Have a nice day!

if bob and jinelle were so "proud" of what they did and do...why not show their faces? instead they had their backs to the camera while being interviewed. The reporter should have asked them (on camera) why they did not want their faces shown....that was the million dollar question that went unasked. Are they ashamed? embarrassed? their 14 year old daughter knows about their lifestyle....why not face the cameras?

WHAT IS MARRIAGE ALL ABOUT, ARE WE FORGETTING? infidelity is wrong no matter how you look at it. These swingers have no morals. The woman who has told her daughter about her and her husbands affairs should be ashamed of her self. THESE INDIVIDUALS OBVIOSLY HAVE COMMITMENT ISSUES AND SHOULD SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP.

Are you kidding! What's going on today is shameful and to hear it is in my neighborhood is so digusting. What is wrong with people. Marriage is sacred between two people. Now you can understand why the kids of today have no morals. It comes from their "parents".

PATRICIA STEARNS wrote:

WHAT IS MARRIAGE ALL ABOUT, ARE WE FORGETTING? infidelity is wrong no matter how you look at it. These swingers have no morals. The woman who has told her daughter about her and her husbands affairs should be ashamed of her self. THESE INDIVIDUALS OBVIOSLY HAVE COMMITMENT ISSUES AND SHOULD SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP.

They should go see a licensed family and marriage counslelor such as Raquel Spears, co-owner of the Badd Kitty Club.

Well guys the reason we didn't show our faces was not because we were embarassed or ashamed. We did it because we didn't want our familys harrassed over "OUR" actions.. Meaning we didn't want people to see us on TV and connect the 2 together and contact our family and friends for comment... it's as simple as that... Has nothing to do with people seeing our faces... Trust me I have plenty of face shots all over the net... I just don't want scum-bags like you with no true argument to contact me.. You people have no clue the type of people that go to these clubs.. Most of them your right next to shopping or going to church... and a question you must ask yourself is "hmm how come my best friends never told us they were swingers?" Maybe because of how childish you were going to act about it... Grow-Up!! Jinelle & Bob

Good morals!! Telling your 14yr about this! What, I dont think so! Dont bring children into adult matters! I hope CPS has something to do with this! For the kids sake. WRONG WRONG WRONG

Nyloncpl wrote:

We attended one of the private parties at the Badd Kitty Club. While my wife and I were walking through the parking lot to the front doors, we were harassed by the local neighbors, shouting rude comments at us and shining bright lights on us and others. Everyone attending the private party were behaved, both indoors and outside. It was the neighbors that were making trouble!
Let me ask those who wrongly judge this lifestyle a question: How does this private club differ from having a house party where you pretty much can do whatever it is you wish? It's your home right? You can do what you wish between consenting adults right? How would YOU like us to invade your privacy and judge what happens INSIDE your home? You wouldn't of course!! So, let's not have double standards then! I challenge ANYONE to provide evidence of unlawful conduct at these PRIVATE PARTIES, both inside and outside the club. Unless you knew what was happening inside you wouldn't have a clue just by driving by the property. No different than driving by YOUR home down any Western New York street. Oh, by the way, the U.S. Constitution protects our conduct! Have a nice day!

Exactly!!

Wait one minute....these adults are all consenting in this situation. We don't like it when the government infringes on our rights but we are free to sit in judgement of them. I am not at all about the SWAP lifestyle....but I am all for personal freedoms. I know people who have been married for years (20 plus) who endeavor in this lifestyle happily. I don't believe it is our job to judge their choices as long as their choices are made in the appropriate spots like clubs meant for the behavior or lifestyle. Please be thoughtful of your judgements and statements. As for the couple not showing their face in protection of their family and friends...GOOD CHOICE AFTER READING THESE COMMENTS!!!!

my point was just proven.. Thank you Fred!! You have no idea what it means to me to have my statment validated... Mature mature mature

Also IF CPS were to get involved they would see that its a lifestyle and not something we even bring into our home... EVER...Our children are loved beyond words and We are awsome parents... They know values and morals and they also will grow up knowing that in life you will meet alot of people with close minded attitudes like you.. They know to just take it with a grain of salt and swallow HARD... My daughter has more maturity in her pinkie toe them you will ever have... When life throws you lemons throw them back.. Harder!! I'm happy that my kids are proud that We stood up for something we believe in...It only goes to show you that my kids will be loved no matter what they decide to do with their lives... I'm not going to judge them for their lifechoices. We will just stand beside them and help them through everything they encounter... I feel sorry for your kids who will not be able to come to you or tell you anything... That behavior leads to drugs alcohol and a lifetime of depression... You should be so proud of the person you became... Live and let live... We're not doing anything personal to you so why are you so against it?? hmmm maybe your just one of those chosen few that tried the lifestyle and were rejected so many times that it made you bitter???Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...and I hold it pretty well....Enjoy life to the fullest... I see my cup as half full honey.. drink up...

thank you Elaine... it's nice to know that someone out their has a good head on their shoulders... Even if your not into the lifestyle thank you for seeing others points of view... I love the fact that your not a narrow minded as some on this board.... God Bless.. Jinelle & Bobby

I am a member of the swinging lifestyle and have been into it for about 10 years now. My husband and I are happily married and have been married for 15 years. This lifestyle is wonderful but it's not for everyone. We have meet people that are wonderful and I wouldn't change any of it. The people in this lifestyle are very genuine and very honest about things. This lifestyle isn't about just sex its more about meeting people, making friends and having fun. Some of my best friends are because of this lifestyle.
Like in the interview there are probably about 10-15 thousand people into this lifestyle. People from all walks of life. There are doctors, lawyers, sheriffs, business owners, and middle class people. I understand that people don't understand this but don't put the people down who enjoy it. All of the people in this lifestyle are consenting adults and are very happy with it. No one is pushy and if you don't want to be apart of it you don't have to and no one will look at you different so please don't look at us different we are just the same as everyone else except we have friends with benefits.