The Ukiah Daily Journal
Guilty plea in child molest case
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Ashley, Right now it has everything to do with those innocent boys. They need lots of love and support from all family members. This will be a difficult time for all family members. Perhaps one of the reasons the mother didn't visit was because she worked about 60-70 hours a week to pay the bills and was tired when she came home. Maybe communication between family members can begin to heal the ill feelings. Lets all pray for that.
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that's the only reason he struck a deal. he will get out in no time at all to ruin more little childrens lives. |
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hopefully he will get the max. i'll be there on the 20th also. |
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i myself for one would if given the chance to say this to chris fetzer face to face would in a heartbeat. and i will be there on the 20th of june to hope and pray he gets as much as possible!!! |
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i do believe it is when he is out of prison, if he makes it out alive that then is when these pedophiles have to register as sick individuals in the system. |
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your going on and on about things that really don't have anything to do with the facts which is no matter what, bottom line this pedophile is a sick person that needs to go to prison for what he did. were talking about an 11 year old girl verses a suppose to be grown man!! don't forget the victim here. |
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hats off to you mom2. heidi fetzer should be extremely ashamed of herself. i would not be able to hold my head up if i were her. not because of what one of her family members did, that is no fault of her own. but of how she's acting now against an innocent 11 year old girl this pedophile took advantage of and destroyed her life. |
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Ashley, It is not appropriate to bring the victim's mother's name into this, but since you have, at least spell it correctly. Your comments have so much hatred in them. Breathe, relax, meditate. Try to find something positive that you can do in this situation to make others' feel better, not worse. There is a lesson in all of this for all concerned. Learn from it and be a better person.
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"No one has been molested is the point I'm trying to make, but you sound to stupid to understand that! Save it.".
Ms. Fetzer, you are the one sounding stupid here. Your opinions here are just that, opinions. Unless you have been in a victims shoes, you really have no authority to make any type of comments. God save you and your children from ever having to endure the tragedy of a molestation. Don't defend what you really don't know. Once you have walked down this road, then, and only then, would your comments be appropriate and appreciated. |
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why don't you and NANA try not to air all your dirty laundry on this site. It's not reality tv. show a little class for your family. |
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Heidi -- If your brother Chris is so innocent, then why at the first two arraignments (that I was present at) was he crying and apologizing for what he had done? the first arraignment I was the only person in the court room, and he has no reason to put on a show. The second arraignment I was present and so was the victims mother, who not once looked at Chris as he sat in the court room, and as he walked out (crying) in front of us apologized again?
For you to say that this young girl and her family are a bunch of liars is unbelievable. The charges where not dropped because there was no evidence found, Chris pleaded so that he would only get a max of 8 years ,when we all know he deserves more than that for the crime he committed. The family of the victim was fine with the plea bargain, to save the child from testifying. The charge that Chris is pleading guilty to still makes him a register as a sex offender, that might save more children in the future. Your time,support and thoughts should be with the children in this case, including your nephews, who for the next several years will not have there father, and hopefully they will have limited visitation with the rest of the family. The way you are treating the family of the victim is outrageous.(If I was in this situation I would have nothing to do with the Fetzer/Heath family). Heidi it's wonderful that you want to support your brother but at the same time you shouldn't hurt the innocent people in this situation ( the victims family). |
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Bravo Lee.
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To all parents, friend and relatives of any child,
Please believe a child when they finally are able to tell you they've been hurt or touched inappropriately by an adult. It is so incredibly damaging to a child that has been sexually violated to not be believed. This could lead to serious behavioral problems, mental & emotional issues, the inability to have meaningful relationships, and substance abuse when they become teens and adults. If you're told by a child of something inappropriate that happened to them, stay calm, don't cry, keep a low tone, try to stay unemotional, and get as much detail as you can. If you start to freak, they will freak. Reassure them that they did the right thing, love them, then call the police. I cannot tell you how devastating it is to see a mother not believe her children when they say "grandpa hurt me". That mother has lost the trust of her children. It is so sad. It is so incredibly damaging to the children. It absolutely infuriates me. It's much harder to face the messy horrible truth than to live in denial and make excuses for the perverts, but it is our moral duty to protect the children of our community, so let's buck up and do it. |
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I know as a single parent to young children, I am pleased that the child in this case will not have to face this person who hurt her in court. I think that this child and her family need a tremendous amount of support and understanding. For the safety and wellbeing of the community I think that all parents should attend the sentencing in support of the child, and as a community to let predators like this know that we will not allow this to happen in our community without major consequence in our legal system. Maybe our court system will deliver harsher punishment against people who prey on young children. The community should attend any sentencing that has to to with someone who preys on children.
I know I will be taking time from my schedule to attend the sentencing hearing on June 20th. (This has nothing to do with the "Fetzer" name or reputation) |
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