NM on prowl for dead-beat dads

Harley Girl wrote:

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My ex did do/still does whatever it takes, to make sure my son has everything he could possibly want/need. No, he doesn't have a high paying job either. There's always jobs available, in my opinion. The absent parent (women also) just aren't always willing to work them, for whatever reason.

i like those harley girls, they have large butts and can squeeze you with those thunder thighs. Diesel smoke, dangerous curve, blow my air horn, get outta my way or i'll run you down.

Guess what guess who.my name is Allan Burkeen you obviously know jack s**t about me yet you feel you have a right to twrow my name out as a dead beat dad.Well let me make it clear i in know way am a dead beat dad i have joint custody of both of my children i have them both the same amount of time as their mothers sure sounds like im a dead beat to me!I pay a total of $750 a month for my children as well as pay for half of extra activities how dare you accuse me of being a dead beat i suggest you mind your own business or have some kind of idea what your talking about before you open your ignorant mouth!!!!!

Welcome to the party, late, Dead Beat Daddy!

NOthing worse than a Dead Beat Daddy. Except a Dead Beat Daddy in denial.

Diamond Dave wrote:

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The poor fools who marry these greedy women and then watch them go through the "middle age crazy" period, go get a facial, a boob job, a new hair color, start hanging out in the bars, find a young boyfriend, tell the hubby to move out, get a restraining order to keep him out of his house and then go to divorce court playing the victim and the power mad judge awards her enough child support to keep up her party going while she dumps her kids with relatives, leaving the estranged husband to decide whether he pays the ridiculous child support award or eats and pays his own rent. Simple enough.

I AGREE. 100%

AZ_dlo wrote:

Welcome to the party, late, Dead Beat Daddy!
NOthing worse than a Dead Beat Daddy. Except a Dead Beat Daddy in denial.

or a greedy dead beat mom. most of the time it takes two to start the ball jumping;.

"or a greedy dead beat mom. most of the time it takes two to start the ball jumping;."

Sure but most of the time it's the dead beat daddies causing the problems. Look it up essay.

there are a lot of dead beat moms out there to.watch a woman who is court ordered to pay,still not pay.where's that list?the ones who almost kill their kids by giving them drugs and jus get 1 year probation.now if a man does do that does he also get rehab and a slap on the hand or is his name on a list for all to see.both parties are obligated to help so if you are the dead beat then pay your dues.man or woman.

to bad wrote:

there are a lot of dead beat moms out there to.watch a woman who is court ordered to pay,still not pay.where's that list?the ones who almost kill their kids by giving them drugs and jus get 1 year probation.now if a man does do that does he also get rehab and a slap on the hand or is his name on a list for all to see.both parties are obligated to help so if you are the dead beat then pay your dues.man or woman.

I AGREE.

Diamond Dave wrote:

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The poor fools who marry these greedy women and then watch them go through the "middle age crazy" period, go get a facial, a boob job, a new hair color, start hanging out in the bars, find a young boyfriend, tell the hubby to move out, get a restraining order to keep him out of his house and then go to divorce court playing the victim and the power mad judge awards her enough child support to keep up her party going while she dumps her kids with relatives, leaving the estranged husband to decide whether he pays the ridiculous child support award or eats and pays his own rent. Simple enough.

i have to agree with dave,now before i get bashedlistin to what he says!im a single mother and i never did any of those things my kids are and always be my first priority!i work my **** off to make sure they have what they need!and i whould love to get child support,so maybe justmaybe i could quit ajob!it pisses me off when i see women like dave just explained,who can give a rats butt where her kids are,it saddens me.my kids are the reason i was born.its hard to imagine that theres moms who dont feel the same.i can go on and on on the subject,but i wont.and no im not on welfare or foodstamps they are mine and i will care for them so all the women who have a strong able mind and body,get a damn job those are your kids too!!!!what i think is better than child support,is for the dads to be involved in there lives!come see your kids!no gifts!just tell them that they have a true sense of value.that you love them and need them,youd be surprised that is worth more than any amount of money!hold them kiss them!my kids dont know there father at all,and it wasnt my fault.he was like the women that dave described LOL!

allan burkeen wrote:

Guess what guess who.my name is Allan Burkeen you obviously know jack s**t about me yet you feel you have a right to twrow my name out as a dead beat dad.Well let me make it clear i in know way am a dead beat dad i have joint custody of both of my children i have them both the same amount of time as their mothers sure sounds like im a dead beat to me!I pay a total of $750 a month for my children as well as pay for half of extra activities how dare you accuse me of being a dead beat i suggest you mind your own business or have some kind of idea what your talking about before you open your ignorant mouth!!!!!

allan, i stand and applaud you!!!you are a damn good man!!!

haha wrote:

<quoted text>bi if you wouldn;t of open your legs we wouldn;t be going thought this shi so dont blaim the fathers **** have a lot to do with it to all u **** ;s see when you pergnent is dallars sights. there should make a law abault spreadinding your legs issue sex lic. or something then the **** ;s would think abault fuc everything that crosses they path

im sorry,im really trying to understand what you wrote,ill go back and read it again.

no,sorry,it appears to be that you are mad?

Michele wrote:

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LOL...no!!! However, I do not care if his bytch died! Why? She messed with my kids' lives and MOSTLY, said she molested my then 2 yr old son...but killing her? Nooo... I am not that type like that. I hate her so bad that if the gov. said I could kill her and get by with it, I would not even do it because I cannot even stand the sight of her face...her fat rolls will kill her on their own!!!

**** i whould kill her!put your hands on my baby,bi#ch will pay,and i will get away with it

a mom in mayhill wrote:

I have a son who is three almost four! His dad and I broke up two weeks before I had him, very few times has my son been with his father, but i have never denied him visitation. He has NEVER paid me a dime. Who does it hurt? I was bitter at first, but the only person it hurt was me!! Life is too short to be angry over something you cant change! Money doent make a father or a mother and spending time with your children- doesnt matter if it is not quality time! As long as my son sees that his father and I are ok with each other he doesnt think anything is wrong. As he gets older he will decide his own feelings and thoughts about the whole situation and until then I love him as best I can and I except his father for who he is, as long as he is loved and nurtured, taught respect and right from wrong then he has a chance to become a decent person. If he sees anger and resentment, hate and kaos then chances are.....he will not be able to rise above it!! I dont know if I am right, but parenting isnt written in black and white, I just try to do my best!

THATS MY GIRL!!

a mom in mayhill wrote:

I have a son who is three almost four! His dad and I broke up two weeks before I had him, very few times has my son been with his father, but i have never denied him visitation. He has NEVER paid me a dime. Who does it hurt? I was bitter at first, but the only person it hurt was me!! Life is too short to be angry over something you cant change! Money doent make a father or a mother and spending time with your children- doesnt matter if it is not quality time! As long as my son sees that his father and I are ok with each other he doesnt think anything is wrong. As he gets older he will decide his own feelings and thoughts about the whole situation and until then I love him as best I can and I except his father for who he is, as long as he is loved and nurtured, taught respect and right from wrong then he has a chance to become a decent person. If he sees anger and resentment, hate and kaos then chances are.....he will not be able to rise above it!! I dont know if I am right, but parenting isnt written in black and white, I just try to do my best!

this is very honorable of you to raise your kids yourself.....but....the problem is it hurts others that cant because these dads will think they can keep having kids and get away with it.....and they will keep having kids with other ladies and never step up to the plate....