HB mother, child found dead in surf

God bless you Gillian, you did not deserve this.

very sad

You will BOTH be missed!!!! and loved.

Gillian will be soarly missed by all of her pals at the hermosa valley park. She always had a smile and a kind word for everyone.
Gillian definatly did not deserve to leave this world so soon!

God bless you Gillian, you did not deserve this.You were a great cheerleader and Kheri and Destiny will miss you!
R.I.P

i am so sad to lose them. they were so loved. Marcia was the best friend and mother i have ever known. Gillian the most special and precious little girl.I pray they are in heaven and at peace.

I am sad because i will never see Gillian or Marsha again and i miss them. I am mad that god let this happen....but i guess he needed more angels...i just wish we had more time with them...love joshua

So tragic...and the questions remain. I live in San Simeon. There is no way down to the beach where they were found. I cannot understand how they ended up in the water from that pullout. We are uneasy, this is unexplained. No one would choose that spot to access the beach. What happened?

Gillian and Marcia,
You both will be deeply missed and may you both Rest In Peace.

Gillian & Marcia were wonderful people who were loved and will be missed. Marcia was a good mom whose life was to love and protect her girls. We love and are here for Gillians sisters.

I am so sad about their passing, Marcia was a marvelous mother.. I am so sorry about her two other daughters she loved them as much. I hope she was not suffering for what the father of her little one has done to her.

"Marcia was the best friend and mother i have ever known...."

Get a clue people. She killed, or allowed the death, of her daughter. That doesnt qualify for "Best mother".

We are so sorry that you are gone. Your sister and your dad miss you every day. We know are with all the other little angels in heaven and now you mom can't hurt you anymore. We just wish we could of saved you from her sooner.

scudder wrote:

"Marcia was the best friend and mother i have ever known...."
Get a clue people. She killed, or allowed the death, of her daughter. That doesnt qualify for "Best mother".

How do you know that. Maybe the father killed them or hired a hit-man. Until the autopsy report comes out, we have no idea if it was murder or suicide.

Gillians friend wrote:

We are so sorry that you are gone. Your sister and your dad miss you every day. We know are with all the other little angels in heaven and now you mom can't hurt you anymore. We just wish we could of saved you from her sooner.

that is what matters most is that Gillian is no longer torn apart by false allegations.
I wish the family the best in this time of suffering

I don't like the speculation since the local news media reported the custody issue. It is a nasty thing, idle, gossipy speculation. Thinking the worst before the facts are in.

OMG - of course the father didn;'t do anything to them. She drove herself and her baby up the coast and then she killed herself and the child she claimed to love. Looka t her background. She's crazy - has always done whatever she could to keep her children away from everyone. Her own parents sued her so they could see their grandchildren.

This mother did everything she could to keep her other daughters away from their own grandparents (her own parents). They sued to see the girls. She then did everything she could to make sure this little girl did not have time with her father - a good man - and a good father. When she lost - she killed her baby.

A good mother? No, not even close.

Too Many Clues wrote:

OMG - of course the father didn;'t do anything to them. She drove herself and her baby up the coast and then she killed herself and the child she claimed to love. Looka t her background. She's crazy - has always done whatever she could to keep her children away from everyone. Her own parents sued her so they could see their grandchildren.

I think you have it right on,

a friend wrote:

I am so sad about their passing, Marcia was a marvelous mother.. I am so sorry about her two other daughters she loved them as much. I hope she was not suffering for what the father of her little one has done to her.

"a marvelous mother" is that why a mother whose daughter attended school with Gillian said that it was obvious that she was a child in need of attention and love. This is was apparent she wasn't getting it at home, and she has only ever lived with her mom, never with her dad. I do know a bit of the history on this situation and it isn't the father who they need to look at but more the mother's mental state. A unbalance state that would drive her to this. 14 professionals evaluated Gillian in this court battle and all agreed that Marcia's accusations were false. They state that Gillian never was in fear of her father and never said the things that Marcia said. Marcia had already lost 1 portion of income when her oldest turned 18 one more is turning 18 soon and now if she lost Gillian how would she support herself, she never held a job.HMMMM