<quoted text>Honey, if they talked about Jesus, surely people are going to talk about you. Family or not you still gotta love them but that doesn't necessarily mean you have to love what they do, now does it!
Nobody is perfect and some people are nosy and don't even realise that they are being nosy.
Take topix for instance!
Girl, you are too funny! Ain't it the truth, though! Personally, if you're asking poeple to make you a leader/elected official/public servant then you are laying it out there (every pun intended)for all to see. Back in the day when Queen Oprah pretty much told our rock star prez that she was gonna back him, she said repeatedly, "...If you continue to love your wife..." implying she didn't wanna lend her support to someone and have some Monica type scandal blow it (every pun intended) all up in her face. If you're gonna run, then the fun is done.