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Sep 8, 2009 | Posted by: 1st5ive

Women don't understand men

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Male Sexuality: Why Women Don’t Understand It–And Men Don’t Either read it at idatemarriedwomen.com . At first glance the sexual male seems easy to understand, but beneath the surface lie complexities that disrupt lives and relationships. Why can men be so distant in bed? Why do many men love porn so much? And can he love porn and still love his wife? Respected psychologist Michael Bader takes an honest look at the nuances of male sexuality, addressing issues such as sexual boredom, internet sex, and sexual fantasies that can leave women bewildered and men ashamed. Illustrated with engaging examples from his practice, Male Sexuality gives readers, both women and men, deeper understanding of male behavior from the flamboyant to the mundane. Through increased awareness of the psychology behind the sex, Bader aims to enhance individual self-esteem and improve communication in relationships.

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Men are simple. Guys will do almost anything for sex or BJs! The are 100% controlled by their boners.

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This is almost interesting. What I noticed in America is that women say they are complicated and men just have to deal with it. For many it's all about the women, a little self centered that needs more attention. Us guys are labled as simple and with that lable we don't need so much attention.

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All men need to do is treat a women like a cat they will have a content women delivering all the pleasure they could ever want.
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I think the bottom line is that neither gender understands the other, but neither cares. Most people just want what they want.

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Say Hay wrote:
I think the bottom line is that neither gender understands the other, but neither cares. Most people just want what they want.
I understand just fine what women think, i have a women that spelled it out for me.

Bottom line, they are insane, and always have been. Get used to it.

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This is almost interesting. What I noticed in America is that women say they are complicated and men just have to deal with it. For many it's all about the women, a little self centered that needs more attention. Us guys are labled as simple and with that lable we don't need so much attention.
You're almost perfect in what you've said. Please note there are exceptions on both sides of the line, though. Most men I've encountered seem to be content as long as you remember that it's all about them. I can't tell you how many men (and women for that matter) have told me what an interesting person I am when pretty much all I've done is lean in (to show interest) and nod at appropriate times, with an occasional "uh huh" thrown in for good measure. You have to laugh at this.

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"Women don't understand men"

That's EXACTLY why we men invented homosexuality !

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i LOVE it !

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Women.

1. Don't understand em

2. Don't want em

3. Don't need em

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Daniel P from Long Island wrote:
"Women don't understand men"
That's EXACTLY why we men invented homosexuality !
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i LOVE it !
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Could be you invented the ' bidness 'cause no woman would have you?

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As a man, I understand American women. They are very simple. They all "already have a boyfriend/fiancee/husband " (usually said with a high pitched whine).........

As for men, it's quite simple: There are millions of them, lonely and looking, with no available women in sight..........
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This is really just a mindblowing impulsive creative story. The female spieces does not understand the male spieces because men are so complicated sexually and mentally... Well orally speaking most women probably do not understand the male... (lol)..
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Men are simple. Guys will do almost anything for sex or BJs! The are 100% controlled by their boners.
Yep very true and women are controlled by cash (UP FRONT)...:)
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As a man, I understand American women. They are very simple. They all "already have a boyfriend/fiancee/husband " (usually said with a high pitched whine).........
As for men, it's quite simple: There are millions of them, lonely and looking, with no available women in sight..........
Unfortunately, for too many men, you are right. The problem starts at birth. There are 105 boys born for every 100 girls. Don't believe me? Look it up! The combined effects of that and older men tending to marry younger women means that, in their 20s, there are 117 available men for every 100 available women. All of this evens out by the 40s, but that is a little late. And, of course, by age 65, a considerable majority are women. Just look at the population of any senior citizen complex. In China and India, because of selective abortion, the birth ratios are even more skewed. One of the only times the ratios for 20 somethings aren't as described above is in the aftermath of a major war. The last time a war was big enough to cause this was in the aftermath of World War 2. For a short time, there were actually more marriage age women than men. That led to competition among the women, a lowering of the age of first marriage for women to about 20, and the baby boom, where the average woman was having almost four children. That, in turn, led to the whole 50s lifestyle that was criticized by later generations, especially of women, who never went through that competitive situation that young women did after World War 2. My favorite example of this whole phenomenon was Betty Friedan. She wrote The Feminine Mystique in the early 1960s in large part wondering what was causing women to allow themselves to be so domesticated. And that included her, married at an early age with three children. She eventually divorced her husband, founded the National Organization for Women, and the rest was history.
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<quoted text>Unfortunately, for too many men, you are right. The problem starts at birth. There are 105 boys born for every 100 girls. Don't believe me? Look it up! The combined effects of that and older men tending to marry younger women means that, in their 20s, there are 117 available men for every 100 available women. All of this evens out by the 40s, but that is a little late. And, of course, by age 65, a considerable majority are women. Just look at the population of any senior citizen complex. In China and India, because of selective abortion, the birth ratios are even more skewed. One of the only times the ratios for 20 somethings aren't as described above is in the aftermath of a major war. The last time a war was big enough to cause this was in the aftermath of World War 2. For a short time, there were actually more marriage age women than men. That led to competition among the women, a lowering of the age of first marriage for women to about 20, and the baby boom, where the average woman was having almost four children. That, in turn, led to the whole 50s lifestyle that was criticized by later generations, especially of women, who never went through that competitive situation that young women did after World War 2. My favorite example of this whole phenomenon was Betty Friedan. She wrote The Feminine Mystique in the early 1960s in large part wondering what was causing women to allow themselves to be so domesticated. And that included her, married at an early age with three children. She eventually divorced her husband, founded the National Organization for Women, and the rest was history.
What do you call "available men?" There are those incarcerated, not just criminals, but those mentally unstable and those in rehab. There are those who prefer men. There are those who prefer their mamas... There are those who pretend not to be in a relationship (married). Need I go on?
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<quoted text> Yep very true and women are controlled by cash (UP FRONT)...:)
True , women like money, men like sex. Problem solved.

Treat women with love and respect, most of the time you can be completely satisfied. Many women do love sex too.
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True , women like money, men like sex. Problem solved.
Treat women with love and respect, most of the time you can be completely satisfied. Many women do love sex too.
Excellent point!

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Say Hay wrote:
<quoted text>Unfortunately, for too many men, you are right. The problem starts at birth. There are 105 boys born for every 100 girls. Don't believe me? Look it up! The combined effects of that and older men tending to marry younger women means that, in their 20s, there are 117 available men for every 100 available women. All of this evens out by the 40s, but that is a little late. And, of course, by age 65, a considerable majority are women. Just look at the population of any senior citizen complex. In China and India, because of selective abortion, the birth ratios are even more skewed. One of the only times the ratios for 20 somethings aren't as described above is in the aftermath of a major war. The last time a war was big enough to cause this was in the aftermath of World War 2. For a short time, there were actually more marriage age women than men. That led to competition among the women, a lowering of the age of first marriage for women to about 20, and the baby boom, where the average woman was having almost four children. That, in turn, led to the whole 50s lifestyle that was criticized by later generations, especially of women, who never went through that competitive situation that young women did after World War 2. My favorite example of this whole phenomenon was Betty Friedan. She wrote The Feminine Mystique in the early 1960s in large part wondering what was causing women to allow themselves to be so domesticated. And that included her, married at an early age with three children. She eventually divorced her husband, founded the National Organization for Women, and the rest was history.
LOL… I don’t dispute your math or facts, but the relative disparity in “available women versus available men” in their 20’s (100 v. 117) is not why some guys bemoan not being able to get a date…LOL.

C’mon let’s look through the numbers shall we…

You start out with 117 guys… but chances are at least 10% are gay and another 10% are bisexual. So now we are down to about 94 (117 X .80)… I don’t count the bi guys because in a pinch they “will” be able to get a date…LOL

Of the 94 probably another 20% live with their parents and the typical Friday night consists of hanging out with their equally loser friends on Xbox live.

Now we are down to say… 75. Of these… 10% are morbidly obese and another 10% are just plain ugly.

So now we are down to 60 available guys to 100 available women. Granted, the 100 are not 8, 9, or 10’s, but hey… any port in a storm…right???

It ain’t the numbers… it is the guy himself…:)
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As a man, I understand American women. They are very simple. They all "already have a boyfriend/fiancee/husband " (usually said with a high pitched whine).........
As for men, it's quite simple: There are millions of them, lonely and looking, with no available women in sight..........
There are loads of women! We don't just want a woman, we want a HOT woman! There are way too many females who look like crap today.

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LOL… I don’t dispute your math or facts, but the relative disparity in “available women versus available men” in their 20’s (100 v. 117) is not why some guys bemoan not being able to get a date…LOL.
C’mon let’s look through the numbers shall we…
You start out with 117 guys… but chances are at least 10% are gay and another 10% are bisexual. So now we are down to about 94 (117 X .80)… I don’t count the bi guys because in a pinch they “will” be able to get a date…LOL
Of the 94 probably another 20% live with their parents and the typical Friday night consists of hanging out with their equally loser friends on Xbox live.
Now we are down to say… 75. Of these… 10% are morbidly obese and another 10% are just plain ugly.
So now we are down to 60 available guys to 100 available women. Granted, the 100 are not 8, 9, or 10’s, but hey… any port in a storm…right???
It ain’t the numbers… it is the guy himself…:)
I see, so the 100 women are perfect at all times, but there's all these men that are losers??????????

Let's re-look at the numbers - SHALL WE???????/

Of the 100 women, of course none are obese - right?

none are ugly right?

None hang out on xbox - right?

None are nervous uptight little priss-prus - right?

None are lesbians - right?

None are card carrying members of NOW - right?

Maybe you should go back to second grade and redo your math lessons - RIGHT????????

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I see, so the 100 women are perfect at all times, but there's all these men that are losers??????????
Let's re-look at the numbers - SHALL WE???????/
Of the 100 women, of course none are obese - right?
none are ugly right?
None hang out on xbox - right?
None are nervous uptight little priss-prus - right?
None are lesbians - right?
None are card carrying members of NOW - right?
Maybe you should go back to second grade and redo your math lessons - RIGHT????????
Either way there are many women out there but finding one you want to be with is a little tricky. Many women in America have over-rated themselves and think everything is about them, even the so-so and ugly women pretend to be beauty queens. The reason why they want to be complicated is to get attention but in other countries you don't here of women being so complicated. If she's really complicated it just means she's screwed up and it's not worth the hassle.
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