Women don't understand men

DaveAussie wrote:

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Space1 ... You have absolutely described the worst side of all this B/S ..WHAT A JOKE !
What do you want to be ? a lost dog with a microchip .
Noone needs this kind of tracking , and to say its disgraceful is an understatement !What a load of CRAP !..

Unfortunately,that is where we are headed to. There are hospitals that are implanting the chips now. At first,the are saying this is beneficials for pets and human tracking and for health informations for anyone who are unable to talk that needed medical help,ie: unconscious accident victim,heart attack,etc. There are employees who have chip on their arms that serves as their ID's. There are other companies that uses the finger prints for bundy clock. The chip will be the one to be implemented in the future wether we like it or not.

seymour wrote:

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I lot of women don't want to think about their hubby's needs. They rightly see those as easily satisfied. Like my mother told me "sex thrills men, just look at how a man is made." The most sensitive man bits rub against the lining of her vagina.
Men pretty much come for sure when they interact with a woman. The woman does not necessarily come unless he is skilful, or unless she combines sex with a lot of masturbation.
THe upshot is that they don't want to think about their duty to please him, but wish he took on the duty of pleasing HER. All this is logical. Until you see the 18th century British play titled She Stoops to Conquer. It taught me a lot about how men and women really work.

Women appear to service men and appear to put men's pleasure first... because in doing so they come out on top in the end!

In early time of my marriage,there were tmes that I was overwhelmed with my hubby's sexual needs. I talked to my mother-in-law about it. Her advise was: " I can get a lot of things done because of it." I looked at her lifes's situation. She is married to a man who gave her anything she needs as long as he can afford it ( and he can.) and he was so madly inlove with her. They were married for 32 years until his death this year. So,Mom was using sex to get what she wanted - in a good way. I am doing the same. I give my hubby a lot of sex so he would not be able to say no when it is pay back time. ;-) Bj is easier than the full complete sex. At least if I am not in the mood for sex,I can still provide my hubby a sexual satisfaction that he need.

Say Hay wrote:

<quoted text>I disagree that we are seeing the beginning of the end of feminism. With women way ahead of men academically (for instance, 57% of all college students today are women), but men making more money, feminism won't even slow down until the pay gap is dealt with.

There is no gender pay gap, when you compare men with women who don't marry.

It's not pretty clear that a lot of jobs have no women working on them by choice. The pay gap emerges when you compare men doing hard and dirty jobs in an industry, with the women clericals in the same industry. Then you get a seeming problem. The women are somewhat better educated than the men but are paid less. Looks unfair. In fact, men and women are doing very different jobs.

A curious fact: married men make than single men in the same career. But single women make more than married ones.

Say Hay wrote:

<quoted text>The problem starts at birth. There are 105 boys born for every 100 girls.

By age 20, the sexes are even. By age 30, it's easy to see that there are more men than women. Young men doing long stretches of hard time only make the gender imbalance worse.

Say Hay wrote:

<quoted text>The combined effects of that and older men tending to marry younger women means that, in their 20s, there are 117 available men for every 100 available women. All of this evens out by the 40s, but that is a little late.

Wrong. By age 25-30, there is a gentle surplus of eligible women. The problem grows steadily worse. This is why every community has spinsters working in offices. There aren't enough eligible men for every eligible educated woman.

Say Hay wrote:

<quoted text>One of the only times the ratios for 20 somethings aren't as described above is in the aftermath of a major war. The last time a war was big enough to cause this was in the aftermath of World War 2. For a short time, there were actually more marriage age women than men.

This is the normal situation. The aftermath of WWII was only a stronger version thereof. Fewer than 400,000 men died in WWII. In a nation of 130 millions. Not a disaster. The aftermath of WWI was that millions of French women never married.

Say Hay wrote:

<quoted text>That led to competition among the women, a lowering of the age of first marriage for women to about 20, and the baby boom, where the average woman was having almost four children.

Good point. The Baby Boom, of which I am a proud member, is a Big Fact that deserves a lot of thought.

Say Hay wrote:

<quoted text>That, in turn, led to the whole 50s lifestyle that was criticized by later generations, especially of women, who never went through that competitive situation that young women did after World War 2. My favorite example of this whole phenomenon was Betty Friedan. She wrote The Feminine Mystique in the early 1960s in large part wondering what was causing women to allow themselves to be so domesticated. And that included her, married at an early age with three children. She eventually divorced her husband, founded the National Organization for Women, and the rest was history.

Let me set the record straight. Friedan wrote her book, helped found NOW, left NOW in disgust because militant lesbians took it over, then her husband left her. In old age, the interviews she gave did not sing the strong feminist line. She's dead now. The Feminine Mystique was frequently mentioned from the late 1960s to about 1990. Since then, a curious silence.

Friedan was a good writer but not a trained social scientist. Also, the state of mind she described faded when her generation became empty nesters. She also did not see foresee that a consequence of her movement would be an epidemic of middle age divorce whereby older women would live alone.

About 20 years ago, it came out that Friedan as a college student and young woman was not a feminist at all but a near-Communist sucking up to the USSR. This was a very male macho outlook. Her rep too a hit. There is a distinct possibility that Friedan is a rider willing to change horses when one doesn't pan out.

Ha no reason in beating a slow horse and hoping it will run faster.

DaveAussie wrote:

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, because a woman can outlast ANY man no matter how good he might be.

This was much talked about in print and in dorm bull sessions 30-40 years ago. He shoots his load, can't get up, and wants to fall asleep or watch TV. She wants it to go on and on.

I have a sense that this is less of an issue nowadays. I also wonder if this business of his rhythm and timing being out of sink with hers is not more of problem for cut men.

DaveAussie wrote:

<quoted text>Anyhow , as Space pointed out ..if a woman doesn't " feel like it " on a night ..You should be blowing your man the best way you know how . There is also nothing wrong with F^cking him , whether you feel like it or not .

To entertain her SO with her mouth is not too much to expect, as long as he rinses off first, and she can rest the side of her head on his belly.

To she opens her legs more out of respect and duty than passion is not the end of the world, if they first spend 10-20 minutes doing foreplay on her to warm her up. Passion and horniness are not strictly required for sex; foreplay is.

franko wrote:

<quoted text>we survived without cells phones for a long long time ... I see much downside to cell phones ....

No kidding. My sons were in high school and driving before they had one and it was mainly because I worried about them breaking down somewhere and needing to call. Sometimes it's safer to stay in your car and call for help.

baby einstein wrote:

cell phones? whats wrong with 2 coffee cans and a string in between phone. It will show kids some science. Sound is vibrations in air(acoustic waves), in turn makes the coffee can base vibrating also, and then the wave gets transmitted via the string to the other coffee can base, the air in the can and then the other person's ear drums. ;)

Some people that talk on them yell like they are talking into a tin can phone. lol

AlanE wrote:

<quoted text> Glad husband is injury free. I hope your son heals well. Marathon, esp on Route 66! Physical pursuits & goals are awesome. I love stretching almost as much as...no(!), but when a stretch is needed, is sooooo good to take care of it. So relaxing. Itches don't scratch as much as an unstretched muscle - for me.

I took him to the doctor yesterday. They said it wasn't fractured and probably tendinitis. He has some exercises to do to strengthen his muscles.

It is so fun to look at these long posts from one end to the other -- the subject started is rarely the subject completed. It is sort of like that really, really old party game, "Gossip." People can rarely stay on the given topic, so why not just start another thread somewhere?

Pamela in red wrote:

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I took him to the doctor yesterday. They said it wasn't fractured and probably tendinitis. He has some exercises to do to strengthen his muscles.

I see. Good and be careful. The muscle exercises are likely to help.
Michael Jordan had knee tendonitis when playing AND coaching the Wizards, after his career with the Chicago Bulls. He was trying so very hard to get them somewhere under his leadership. It ended his knee and hastened his retirement. The only prescription for inflammed tendons, due to being excessively worked, is rest. Lots and lots of rest.

bjreed wrote:

It is so fun to look at these long posts from one end to the other -- the subject started is rarely the subject completed. It is sort of like that really, really old party game, "Gossip." People can rarely stay on the given topic, so why not just start another thread somewhere?

There are times when a thread has run it's course and posters run out of opinions on the subject. That's when the chit chat begins. No harm in that.

Baron wrote:

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Mario women learn to give all the sex in Angeles City, so that they get money.
You are still doing it in the USA as I read
Once a putana always a putana

CIta!! Are yuo still here?

Is that Australian looney still here looking for his tranny dad? I can see why his brain is messed up again,it was full moon,right?

It is amazing how people would judge my post about the chip implant tracker and finger prints for bundy clock as negative,clueless,and disagree. That tells me that these people are not aware of what's going on in this world. How pity.

Baron wrote:

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Mario if you had a law degree, you would of realised that full moon in one country does not mean that full is the other country at the same time.
I noticed that your mate Franko, that his elbows are as painful, seeing he can type a few words.
Between the two of you, you do make a perfect couple, an Angeles city Tranny and a lizard tosser.
Mario first you had me pegged as a PI now as an Australian, your law degree is letting you down, you can not retain what I posted many weeks ago.
Mario I am not a Pinay I am not an Australian.

Gloria, you are right, a full moon would be several hours out of phase depending where on the planet one is located.

however, why be so nit-picky about it? That same full moon will have happened on the same night for most people .. and the effects of the full moon will happen at the same time anywhere on this planet .. so your comment is pretty much irrelevant.

Baron wrote:

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Franko your elbows do not hurt anymore?

my elbows never hurt, even when I used to play tennis. thanks for you concern.

Baron wrote:

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Mate from all that Lizard tossing you do, your elbow must hurting by now.
Every one can read how you get your kicks from being in every sexual forum.
Franko you are a lizard tosser way back when you were teenager

What the hell is a lizard tosser?

Baron wrote:

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Mate from all that Lizard tossing you do, your elbow must hurting by now.
Every one can read how you get your kicks from being in every sexual forum.
Franko you are a lizard tosser way back when you were teenager

first of all .. there is nothing wrong with that .. 99.9% of all men do it .. so???
If you think there is something wrong with that, then it proves that you are some weirdo religious nut or something like that ...
Once again yuo proved you don't fit into the real world, GLoria ...

Baron wrote:

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All it proves is you get more fun from beating your meat,(alos known as milking the Lizard) instead of playing hide and seek in a canyon.
You are in every forum.
Give it a break.

NO, it does not prove that at all ... men who are in romantic relationships still sometimes masturbate ...

I am in every forum? Really? I had no idea!!!!

please, give me 2 or 3 links to show where else I am besides the HUman Sexuality forum? And it has to be a recent link ... say within the past week?

SPACE1 says you have followed her all over TOPIX .. so I guess you are all over this forum too ... so, you hypocrit, why criticize someone else when you do it too?